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Archived questions from: November, 2007 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

Is she right for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 239 days ago

30 November 2007 (M) - there's this girl i've liked alot for over a year. Its come to a point where i'm crazy over but her am not asking her out because i'm scared of losing the great friendship we have. One of her friends, also mine who knows i like the girl told me...

She spent the evening with a work-colleague the night before she came home but swears nothing sexual happened. Do I trust her less for this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

30 November 2007 (M) - I have been going out with my girlfriend for 5 years. This morning I found out that she spent the evening with a bloke from work the night before then came home to me. She swears she didn't have sex with him and that they just talked. I don't know ...

How do I need to act around a colleague at work I like?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 236 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - We are colleagues at work. I know him more then one year but I was his girlfriend just two weeks, two months ago. We have broken up on bad way by his fault. I was totally broken, he left at home one month (he is from Thailand) and I blocked him for ...

Received a "friend add request" on facebook from my EX's potential bf. Why?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

30 November 2007 (M) - Hello everyone. Last time I messaged, I sounded like I was really making progress in healing my heart. The last thing I needed was a step in the wrong direction, and I think it may have just happened at the end of a night that was going very nicel...

Early teenager, wanting to look older without using make-up.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 239 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - i put my phone on mute when i was talking to the boy i liked and our friend. when they thought i was off the phone the said something about me and my two best friends. they said one of my friends look like their in highschool, the other looks like ...

I feel like she gets a lot of the intellectual and social parts you want in a relationship from me. But gets kissed by the other guy. Confusing!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 239 days ago

30 November 2007 (M) - Let me just jump right into it... She is dating another bloke. Their relationship isn't all that great and isn't terrible. I just don't expect it to last much longer. I really like this girl and have for sometime. And yes, I made a move...

Did I offend him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 239 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - Lately I've been baking a lot and I take some of the cookies and stuff to church. I gave some of the cookies to this guy and later he came over while I was talking to my friend to say thanks. I wasn't really paying attention and I quickly brushe...

A neighbour changing in view of my wife and I!!!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 69 days ago

30 November 2007 (M) - Hi Over the past few weeks our neighbour has been putting on a show in their bed room. What I mean by this is, she get undressed and gets changed without drawing the blinds. My wife and I can see all this from our lounge room if we have our blin...

Guys, can you be normal friends with a girl you find attractive, even though a relationship would not be possible?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 239 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - Guys: Can you be normal friends with a girl you find hot and wish you could sleep with, but know nothing can happen? Would you hang around and continue being 'friends', even though you never saw eachother out and only got on really well when...

I really like him but he's a bit of a "whore!"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - I LOVE this guy, but he's a bit of a whore but that's his personality. He's kinda camp but he's deffo not gay. I really like him, I have no idea if he knows or not but we do have the occasional flirt and a kiss. I have no idea what to do help ...

Help me about natural life source???!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - Hey I am in need of a bit of help I am staying on till 6th year but I am in 5th year, all my friends have had sexual intercourse and done lots of other things with boys and their bits and bobs. I am scared of mostly the disgustingness of a g...

How can I convince her it wouldnt be a mistake??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 240 days ago

29 November 2007 (M) - Hey! here's my question... i been friends with a girl a long time... about 5years now. Over the last couple of months I have started to like her as more than a friend. So i plucked up the confidence to just find out if she liked me back in that way...

Why did he break up if he says he still fancies me? Could it be related to his home problems and self-confidence issues?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 240 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - my boyfriend dumped me but not because he doesnt fancy me which confused me more. i asked him if he was dumping me and said not in so many words but kind of yes, that he needed some time to be single and he doesnt want a girlfriend right now but ...

My wife has given me permission to have a sex buddy....is it a bad idea??

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

29 November 2007 (M) - My 46 year old wife is going through the menopause and has lost her sex drive to the point she has no desire for me or any other man on earth. I asked her to use her hand or to give me oral sex and she refused. She told me to find a woman that is ...

She thinks a sexy joke I had with my friend means I cheated but she dumped me and I miss her so much.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 239 days ago

29 November 2007 (M) - Hi, I recently broke up with my girlfriend of since may 6th 2006. I love her so much, and she loved me so much. She broke up with me because i had this joke with one of my friends who is a girl, which was rather sexy. She took it as i cheated on ...

Was she a real friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - there is this chick that i use to be friends with, we are not friends now as she lies to make her self look good, and she use to make me feel like 2 cm tall, as she would tell every one my sercrets, and she was a slut!! to say the least we are not ...

Was I being unreasonable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 240 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - My fiance and I were living together and one night he asked if I could go to my parent's house that night (because I had to drop my car off) and he said he was going to hang out with one of his friends. He said he would pick me up the next day. I ...

Is he willing to be honest about his sexuality?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 241 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - What to do when the one you love doesn't love you in "that way". I am in that situation now and it sucks. The guy in question is my best friend and we've crossed the lines to be more the friends at times, so there have been mixed signals. I believe ...

What do I do about this pain in the ass?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

28 November 2007 (M) - OK, so this is annoying me and I'm looking for some advice. I like this girl, who I think likes me back, and I got with her one night, well ever since my friend has been bothering me about it. He's constantly asking for details about what sh...

Should I poke my nose in where it's probably not wanted?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 240 days ago

28 November 2007 (M) - So I've been friends with with this guy a while. He's been with this girl for as long as I've known him and she's for the most part a decent person. The problem I have is that my friend has cheated on her on at least 17 different occasions. She ...

He isn't ever open about his feelings...should I tell him how I feel or keep quiet??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - I like this boy and i don't know whether he likes me or not. I can't ask him because he isn't ever open about his feelings. He goes around kissing girls on the cheeks and stuff but I'm the only one he kisses on the lips. I don't want to lose him as ...

How come my friend doesn't care about being single??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - Well i have this friend she is fun out goin athletic pretty and everything but she cant get a boyfriend for some reason. I mean she has had lil boyfriends in the past but no one serious. I've been telling her that having a boyfriend is so great th...

Never had a good relationship, except my friendship with him. Should I accept his proposal of living together? I love him.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - I'm in my 20s and I had a really unsettled childhood. I experimented with drugs and drink from when I was very young and I had a on-enight-stand when i was 15 and fell pregnant with my daughter. I ended up vry deep into drugs, seriously addicted...

Can you be truly happy when you are always in and out of a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - can u be truly happy when you are always in and out of relationship and never on your own? my friend is 45yr old male and has 2 kids with 2 different women; he left the 2nd woman with a 4 month old baby to be with someone else..do you think he's h...

Why did he let me stay the night? Does he like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - hi,need some advice really,i really like this guy ill name '?' and i hope he likes me, well yesterday i was talking to one of his mates '?' was not there and i offered to take him somewhere to get something then back to his house,then his mate rang ...

How can something happen when I'm so messed up??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - I'm so screwed up at the moment, I don't really know what to do. I'm being bullied mentally by people who I thought were my friends. They ignore me, blank me out, refuse to talk to me, make little snide comments that only I would understand why they ...

Will he hurt me again and is he a player??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - Sorry if this is long, Right, well im 14 and in March this year and i got with an amazing guy i had been after for ages and we went out for 1 month. The day before we broke up he passed his driving test i found out he had cheated on me. Before i ...

Missed my chance with my crush....should I try and be her friend??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

28 November 2007 (M) - Hi, I think I may have missed my chance with a girl I have a bit of a crush on. She was on the uni dating site, and I'd seen her around a couple of times. Have thought about contacting her but something inside of me was always holding me back. I'...

How can I get in touch without seeming like all the rest??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 240 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - I am a single 31 year old attractive woman in NYC. After many years of dead end dates and relationships I have decided to focus on my career and success and so far have been doing well. But, last night I was watching TV and there on TV was a friend ...

I want to start a relationship with her but don't know how...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

28 November 2007 (M) - I am an unhappily married man who has fallen in love with this recently divorced woman who has two childern. I would like to start a relationship with her, but don't know how to go about starting one with her. I have been alone with her and would li...

What can I say to get her attention?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

28 November 2007 (M) - This is only a short question, where I live, I catch the tram into the city centre as I live 12 miles outside of the city and the tram is in the bus station where I live and there is a small paper shop there. I've been there the last 2 mornings and ...

I'm not sure if this girl likes me or not... what do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 109 days ago

28 November 2007 (M) - I'm looking for some opinions here, I'm not sure if this girl likes me or not. We met on the weekend and hooked up, everyday since we've been keeping in touch through MSN, but just barely, whenever she's on she'll say hi to me, and whats up and...

Idead for Christmas...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - Okay, I have this idea for a christmas present for a lad I really like. I would like loads of messages saying whether you think it is too corny or any better ideas. I have already got him a little present which I am planning to wrap up, put in a nic...

I'm infatuated... HELP!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 242 days ago

27 November 2007 (F) - Hey -- you guys may think this is lame but, I feel so helpless..and not sure what to do. I moved to this new school to carry on into sixth form, and everyone knew each other, so I was obviously a bit out casted at first. I took a performing art subj...

School Dance...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 242 days ago

27 November 2007 (F) - I'm 12 and going to my first school dance. I'm pretty good and never even hugged a guy before. I can't dance either. What do I do if someone asks me to dance? I want to, but can't!...

How do I tell my mum about this girl I so want to meet?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

27 November 2007 (M) - I have a few issues that needed sorting. I'm getting there thanks to everyone on here. Anyway I'm 22 and to be honest I'm a secretive person. I don't tell my family I talk to people on the net because I believe it would be frowned upon. I'm close ...

We're so close as friends and are scared to take it further in case it ruins what we already have...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

27 November 2007 (M) - Hi, I asked a couple of months ago should I tell my best friend that I'm in love with her. We sat down and talked about it and we both feel the same way but both feel that it could break our over close bond. Anyone any got any advice on what to ...

I was too clingy for my ex, and now HE keeps trying to talk to me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 242 days ago

27 November 2007 (F) - I broke up with my long-term boyfriend recently due to his starting at university; neither of us wanted to split, and he said (although it's unlikely) that once everything's out of the way, he might like to try a relationship again in the future. We ...

How can I get more respect from someone in a casual relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 242 days ago

27 November 2007 (F) - How can I get more respect from someone in a casual relationship? It's casual because we live some distance apart and lead quite separate lives, but when we're together it's fun. I have feelings for him but I know he's a commitment-phobe. Or so I ...

She's amazing but I'm just not sure what to do in this situation!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

27 November 2007 (M) - I dated this girl when i was 15 and we broke up and i didnt see her again till this year we are now both 20 and we started dating agian, there is something about this girl that i cannot stop thinking about! she is amazing and i feel things with her ...

Because I have liked this guy for 6 years, I have rejected all other guys! Help me get over this guy and move on!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 242 days ago

27 November 2007 (F) - I do not really know when to move on. There is this guy that i have know for 6 years now and still counting. I really like him so much. in fact, during graduation i told him that i love him but he said he cannot reciprocate my feeling. until now i ...

She's a very hurtful friend..should I sever all tie with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 187 days ago

27 November 2007 (F) - I have had a really big arguement with a friend about 2 weeks ago. We haven't spoken since. I don't really know if I want to make it up with her, because this is not the first time we've had such big arguements. The last one we had was before a ...

She's got another guy and I missed my chance. Should I be friends with her, then?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

27 November 2007 (M) - Hi, I think I may have missed my chance with a girl I have a bit of a crush on. She was on the uni dating site, and I'd seen her around a couple of times. Have thought about contacting her but something inside of me was always holding me back....

I want to be MORE than just his friend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

27 November 2007 (F) - My best guy friend and I have known each other for over a year now, we're such close friends.We talk about everything. We always have soo much fun together.We've gotton drunk with each other acouple times, and have tried the whole "friends with ...

Does my crush like me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

27 November 2007 (?) - how do i tell if my crush likes me? i'm natuley blonde so i act dumb sometimes. when i first moved here i didn't notic him at first until this boy that picks on every day.he stars at me and finds thing to anoy me.every day he would say oh this boy ...

How do I get over this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

27 November 2007 (F) - I have this friend that's a guy he was my best friend for 3 year then we decided to go outbecause we were becoming more and more closer and more and more jealous of like when he goes on a date with a girl or when I go on a date wit a gu,you know. ...

Making out... what did I do wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 243 days ago

27 November 2007 (F) - OK so I'm kind of unfamiliar with all this stuff, I just turned 17 and I went over to this guys house who's had sex with plenty of women and anyways we had only hugged before and so somehow we end up on his bed intertwined and he's kissing my neck, ...

I like my flatmate...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 221 days ago

27 November 2007 (F) - hey. I'm 18 and I like my flatmate. However, recently he found a note under my mattress saying that I liked him. This was really uncomfortable, but, basically, to clear things up as the situation was getting out of hand, i said that i did like him ...

I lost my best friend after my controlling boyfriend wouldnt let me talk to him, how can I get him to be friends with me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 243 days ago

27 November 2007 (F) - I really want my best friend back! We have been friends for about 2 years and for most of that time we were really close, best friends, until I started dating my now ex bf. My friend didnt like him, he thought he was bad for me, which I didnt ...

I'm paranoid about the fact that her best friend is a guy...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 243 days ago

27 November 2007 (M) - I'm wondering if I have cause for concern here... I think I'm going to be starting a relationship with a girl soon (we hooked up, and we talk to each other daily, so things seem to be going pretty good) but I'm paranoid by the fact her best friend i...