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Archived questions from: July, 2006 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

I miss my old best friend, even though we parted on poor terms...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 726 days ago

31 July 2006 (F) - Hello, me and my best friend, let’s call her Kate, we had met in a strange way. She was in the year above me and I just randomly got her address off my brother and we got chatting, after a few conversations we got on really well so met up one day. ...

I didnt realise I had feeling for her, but think we are more than friends now, should I say something ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 726 days ago

31 July 2006 (M) - hello all new to this, so ill majke it quick! a few months ago my best friend was in a relationship with a girl which ended peacfully. a few weeks after this i ran into his ex at the petrol station and we arranged to go out for a drink to catch up...

I really want to be friends with my social group's new addition, but she treats me like I'm an old lady!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 725 days ago

30 July 2006 (F) - I have a small group of very good friends, who I have a very strong bond with. We have been friends for years, and we are actually more like family to each other. We also have a wide circle of other friends, who we mix with either together or ...

Can't say anything to my friend about my attraction to her... Or can I?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 716 days ago

30 July 2006 (F) - I am absolutely crazy about my friend. Don't want to lose her so can't tell her. She has told me so many times that people have mistaken her for a lesbian. She has had a few relationships with men, which she says she was never happy in, or in love ...

We are both from different backgrounds but like each other alot, should I though just stick with his friendship ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 727 days ago

30 July 2006 (F) - I am absolutely infatuated with my “friend” and him with me. We met while I was working abroad (for six months) and quickly formed a friendship. Three months later, we began to date, knowing too well that my time overseas was limited. Four weeks ...

I regret how things ended up with my friend, I want to make contact but scared she will think im obsessed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 729 days ago

28 July 2006 (M) - I used to be friends with a woman that I met back at college 5 years ago. We became really close and I eventually started developing romantic feelings for her. About a year ago I decided to tell her how I felt but she didn't take it very well. She ...

My friend is driving me to distraction, no matter what I advise or try to do to help she never listens!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 729 days ago

28 July 2006 (F) - My friend is really starting to annoy me and I need to know how to sort this out! We're both 19 and I am the more sensible one. I'm at uni, in a steady relationship and basically have my head screwed on. I want a good life and am working towards ...

I really need my friend to stick up for me in court, but she doesn't want the hassle!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 727 days ago

27 July 2006 (F) - Hello I was wondering if somebody could give some advice. Recently I was raped by my boyfriend. He is now my ex but my best mate was the first person I saw, spoke to and told about the incident, and she won't help me get justice done because...

A friend and I hooked up... but is the attraction for real?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 730 days ago

27 July 2006 (F) - One of my best friends and I met awhile back. The catch is, we both initially had mutual feelings there for each other at that point, as I had liked her a lot for a while before we ever spoke, and so did she. But we both were in relationships, so ...

It's been a few years, but I still miss the friend who cheated with my ex-husband! Do I try to contact her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 729 days ago

27 July 2006 (F) - Okay, this is a Jerry Springer one. But I am for real, and I would appreciate an outsider's perspective. I was with my kid's father, "Rob" for 5 years, and I was best friends with "Jenny" for probably 10 years. We were like sisters, I have nev...

My guy friend won't make a move, and I'm scared to say anything, but I wish we were more than friends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 730 days ago

27 July 2006 (F) - Hiya, well I've been mates with this boy for about 3 months. I'm starting to get really strong feelings for him, and would really like to have a proper relationship with him. The thing is, is that I'm not sure if he wants the same, and I'm not sure...

I want to progress from friendship, but I'm afraid of looking desperate or needy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 730 days ago

27 July 2006 (M) - Recently I met someone on the net and we seem to have grown to "like each other". We met several weeks ago on the internet...exchanged emails, pictures, and chat almost daily... Getting to know more or less about each other, and when we chat it's ...

I was at a bar and someone jabbed me with a needle! But my friends think I made it up for attention!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 730 days ago

26 July 2006 (M) - Ii was in a bar about 5 weeks ago (me and my friends had finished high school so we're celebrating before going away to college) yet something terrible happened. I was coming back from the toilet and (i think) someone stabbed me with a needle. I ...

In love with my best friend, do I dump my current BF for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 731 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - Well I've recently been bullied at school and i see it necessary to move schools as the bullying was so bad. My mum applied for the form and eveything and we did it all in secret but as soon as i got the news there was a place for me to move, the ...

I sent a lad dirty texts and he showed his sister...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 712 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - I sent dirrty texts to this lad i no cos e asked me 2 n im nt bovered bout that, bt his sister has read them and she's also my best friend. I dont no how shes going 2 act when she sees me because their both on holiday and im really worried even tho ...

I've been bullied and it is still hurting me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 732 days ago

26 July 2006 (M) - I was in my 1st year at 6th form (I was 17) and teachers said that bullying shouldn't exist. This one guy in particular took a disliking to me, he made fun ofme, never took me seriously, always gave a stupid remark everytime I asked him something ...

Life is very stressful right now and my boyfriend is contributing to that stress

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 732 days ago

25 July 2006 (F) - im 17 and I have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 years we were very very close. Over the past year He has been getting very angry and has a quick temper on him, I know these outbursts are not aimed at me but they are still upsetting. I've ...

My BF cheated on me with my friend! I'm angry and confused...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 733 days ago

24 July 2006 (F) - I have always been against serious relationships because I always seem to get hurt. Well about a year and a half ago I was introduced to this boy and of course I didn't want a serious relationship and he did. We struggled for about 6 months a...

Both my friend and my boyfriend feel that each other is a threat, which one should be the most important ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 733 days ago

24 July 2006 (F) - i think my friend is threatend by my boy friend and my boy friend is threatend by my friend i awlways feel myself having so choose between them it really difficult , and i dont know which one is more important... which one should be the most i...

The manager of our soccer team doesnt like me and its really upsetting!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 733 days ago

24 July 2006 (F) - hi, im really depressed at the minute. i play for a soccer team our manager doesnt like me. i want to move teams but i dont want to leave my friends behind ill miss them. i am very under rated becos he doesnt like me and its really annoyin he has ...

Should I try or relationship or fix the friendship ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 734 days ago

24 July 2006 (F) - Im a 17 year old girl and one of my best guy friends for about 2 years told me he has feeling for me about 2 months ago. I tryed to go on with our friendship but when he stopped calling and started acting different i finally told him that i liked ...

He doesn't know I'm gay, but he flirts with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 734 days ago

24 July 2006 (M) - Hey...I'm a 17 year old high school student. I'm gay and have fallen in love with a close friend. I had feelings for him even before we became friends. He does not know I am gay. He flirts with me non-stop and I am almost positive he has feelings ...

I don't know how to make friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 734 days ago

23 July 2006 (F) - I do not have any friends and I do not know how to make any p-lease help me guys as iam feeling sad and upset [Editor's note: Please give us more information]...

She wanted to go to the next level, I refused, and now she "hates" me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 733 days ago

23 July 2006 (M) - Along time ago a close friend of mine started coming on to me and one night while talking to her she was really tryig to get me to get down with her. Knowing her past and all the guys she got with I played it off giving her the hit that I was cool ...

In love with my 13-years-older friend and I don't want to risk the friendship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 730 days ago

23 July 2006 (F) - I'm in love with my good friend, but he's 13 years older than me. How can I tell him I love him without ruining our friendship?...

We were close friends, she asked to take it further, I said no and now I regret it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 734 days ago

23 July 2006 (M) - im in a bit of a dilema here. let me start at the begining of it all. there was this girl i was best friends with and eventually she started hinting that she liked me in that way, she then asked me properly if i would date her but i didnt want it to ...

We seem to find each other when we need each other, but he tells me "Not now"!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 735 days ago

22 July 2006 (F) - I've had this weird relationship with this guy for several years. We come together at crucial/difficult times in our lives almost instinctually, spend time together (sometimes romantically even if one or both of us are seeing someone else) and then ...

I care about him, but he's getting married. Should I get a gift..?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 734 days ago

22 July 2006 (F) - A guy I care about told me he was getting married. Should I give him a thankyou/goodbye gift, or just a card or just wish him luck?...

Scared to ask her out incase that isnt the vibe shes giving!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 736 days ago

21 July 2006 (M) - Hi, I am attracted to a woman at work who says that she is in an unhappy relationship. I am 10 years older than her and she describes me as friend and mentor. However, I sometimes feel that she wants more but am not sure I would like our rel...

In love with my bestfriends boyfriend and I'm married.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 717 days ago

21 July 2006 (F) - I am in love with my best friend's boyfriend. I am 24 years old and married and I am deeply in love with my best friend's boyfriend. They have been together for a little over a year, and we have had a sexual relationship, for just about as long. Be...

How can I make my mum happy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 24 days ago

20 July 2006 (F) - For the past years of my life, every summer holiday we have gone as a family, me, my parents and my two younger brothers, often taking our cousins, either my aunt and uncle with a young girl and a boy, or my auntie and uncle with two young boys. A...

I love being with her and she wants to be just friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 737 days ago

20 July 2006 (M) - my best friend is a girl, i really like her but she seems happy to be friends rather than taking it further i have neva had a g/f so hav no experince wot so ever and dnt really know what the feelings i get for her mean. i love spending time with her ...

He said he loves the single life

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 737 days ago

20 July 2006 (F) - I have found myself very much attracted to someone a couple of years younger than me for quite a while and I have always felt there has been some chemistry between us. I have been very patient with him and tried not to make my feelings clear, b...

Are we just friends??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 736 days ago

20 July 2006 (F) - Hey! Well theres this guy, lets call him Andy, and he moved into my class half way through the school year. at first he was really annoying and stupid but got to be friends with him. I ended up getting a crush on him, but theres this other girl that...

Not quite a hoiliday romance!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 737 days ago

20 July 2006 (F) - Ive just come back from a fantastic holiday and on the first week met a great guy, but he fell for my best mate and i ended up copping off with his friend. Any how they had a quick kiss but my best mate wasnt really interested and me and him clicked ...

Is brother love ok?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 738 days ago

20 July 2006 (M) - I have this one friend and we are The best of best friends. And I love him, But I love him like a brother. Is this ok?...

Was I right to leave my ex-best friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 739 days ago

19 July 2006 (M) - I feel completly insane. At the beginning, I really felt like being different is who I really am, but it’s so hard. I hate my ex best friend now. Ever since High School I’ve noticed that he hung out with so many of the wrong people. I didn’t ...

I thought he was cute when I was 13... Now I'm 15 and I keep seeing him everywhere!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 708 days ago

19 July 2006 (F) - I'm gonna start my story a few years back, my first day of high school and i see the cutest guy i have ever seen in my whole entire life. He's good looking to boot, not only that but he is extremely nice! I never approached him, because i was 13...

She says she's falling for my 'plush toy' and I think it means more than it seems to!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 738 days ago

18 July 2006 (M) - I fancy this new girl at work ... She's really nice and we've talked a little. We work on schedules, and she is always asking me if I'm working the next day, and if not she says it's going to be boring cause I'm not there and all kind of stuff li...

She's very possessive and immature with my friend-need advice on how she can loosen her hold on him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 738 days ago

18 July 2006 (M) - Hello, My friends girlfriend is very possessive and immature. She has been through a lot like her mothers death when she was a child, and her father leaving her for 4 years. She has told me she always thinks he is going to leave her. (probabl...

I can't work out whether my friend is interested in me or not! Should I wait?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 738 days ago

18 July 2006 (F) - I am close friends with a guy. He said he was going into city on his day off. He said he was going there to ‘sort some stuff out’. What does he mean by this? I’m sure he hasn’t got another girl because he is still hung up on his ex girlfriend ...

Keen on my friend. Should I say so?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 739 days ago

18 July 2006 (F) - I'm starting to fancy a friend, but I don't know what to do. I don't want to ruin a friendship but at the same time I don't want to let the oppertunity disappear. What do you think? What should I say/do?...

I like my dad's friend....how can I know how he feels about me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 732 days ago

18 July 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, im 17 and i really fancie my dads friend, he has a girlfriend and you can tell he doesnt really love her. he always flirts with me and i wana tell him how i feel but im to scarred because i dont like showing my emotions as ive ...

I'm 51 and my 54 year old partner isn't meeting my needs - why is he like this? (long post)

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 740 days ago

18 July 2006 (F) - 3 years after being widowed I met man on line that has been a bachelor for nearly 3 decades (married once very young, ended in bitter divorce, no long term relationship since). He and I corresponded for about a month before our first date. From ...

The girl I think I love has gone back with her ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 740 days ago

18 July 2006 (M) - There's this girl that i have got to know really well and i think i love her. She told me she fancies me and wants something to happen between us but now she got back with her ex for the third time, whats the best way to approach this?...

Is there anything I could do to get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 740 days ago

17 July 2006 (F) - OK, so this is a long confusing story, but i'll just give the highlights. My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for 2 years now and we couldn't be happier. However, I have two goy friends that I use to date, but we are only friends now. ...

I do love him as a friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 740 days ago

17 July 2006 (F) - i have fallen out with all of my friends, its awful. the main reason that we have fallen out is that my best friend (male) who has a girlfriend told me he loved me and he now has finished with his girlfriend and we are now together. the problem is ...

I want to get over, but still remain in touch with my ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 740 days ago

17 July 2006 (F) - Can you really get over with being contact with your ex? I dont want to lose contact, as he does not want either, so he asked me to keep contact and never lost touch when we broke up 3 months ago, but I just found it was so hard to really move o...

Am I out of line to ask him to cut contact with these women?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 739 days ago

17 July 2006 (F) - Why can't my boyfriend let go of his ex girlfriends? I am in a new relationship (less than two months) with a wonderful man. He's sweet, smart, and funny, and he treats me very well. My parents even like him. I have one huge problem. He sti...

His friends don't like me, and it feels weird knowing that!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 740 days ago

17 July 2006 (F) - I'm a teenager I just moved into a new house in a different state and own a Farm. Well about a month after we moved in, we met this new neighbor and one was my age. I found out he liked me but as the year went on I never liked him and finally after ...