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36-40,
*ourbusted
writes:hi,this guy and i have been friends for three years now.from the beginning all our mutual friends pulled us together and the guy blushes and i cant just stop laughing when people put us together. now i want to know if he is flirting or does he like me .some signs are:1.he looks deep into my eye always and never stops until i look away from him2.since few months i noticed that most of his friends look at me when he is around and start calling him when i am there. 3.whenever we meet he stand right next to me even if there are others he stands right next to me.he smiles at me always.4.he talks to me about how some girls are hot and says i'm super hottie.5.we made out once and he wants to make out again.when we used to travel by the college bus when few of them are there he holds my hands ,pulls my scarf and does things so that i miss my stop (his is the next stop).6.he just knows exactly what i think and knows me too well but i dont understand him.7.one time he advices me on how to do things how to talk to others and other stuff, and he made to watch porn8. he is damn cute and fair and i'm dusky. also i'm a 10 months older to him.can anyone please tell me is he flirting or taking advantage of me ..i am confused ...
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reader, yourbusted +, writes (29 April 2009):
yourbusted is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you!!! you were really helpful.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (17 April 2009):
Well he's made out with you so he obviously does like you.
But you have to make it clear to him that you want a boyfriend and not someone to mess about with.
Just say to him one day. "I wish I had a boyfriend."
If he doesn't say that he wants to be your boyfriend then ask him if he knows anyone who might go on a date with you. If that doesn't get him to say he wants you then you know he's just messing you around and you should stop letting him do all this stuff and stop talking to him so you don't get used or hurt.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, just wondering +, writes (17 April 2009):
He is a player so do not fool around with him.Enjoy the attention and tease him he is to shy to ask you out.never let him pressure you into fooling arround cause if he is a player that takes the fun away. make him marry you to fool around or you are done when he gets it no matter what he says. If he really cares he will respect your opinion and wait
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