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Archived questions from: May, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

Should I call him? Or should he call me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - heyy friends well i am desprete for help. wel first thing is my best guy friens lives in Mississippi and i live in chicago and he comes to visit and well this summer he is going to stay with his hometown in Mississippi and he hasn't called me ...

Flatmate ruining my relationship! Confront them or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5435 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend stays with another couple in a flat. He has known them for 2 years and has lived with them for that amount. They are very horrible people - confrontational, irrational, nasty, spitefull, messy, most of all jeleous... the list goes on...

I'm terrified of make-up shops, after security strangled me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5435 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - Im seventeen, and when i was 13 i did a pretty stupid thing and its hanuted me for the rest of my life. It was they day before my mums birthday, and i was off school because it had been snowing. I went into the city with 3 other girls (my best...

How can I move on from them?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - Well...my ex broke up with me a day after we did stuff, and went really far. It's been 2 weeks and I was crying about him because I still love him, and my best friend was like it's okay, he's a jerk , he's not worth it and everything. Then I find ...

Is it wrong for me to feel angry because my best friends are going on holiday with out me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

31 May 2009 (M) - How should i feel? I have 2 clear best friends in my life, and one of them is moving off to a new school in the autumn so this will be out last summer together. The one who is leaving, i have taken on holiday with me before, and we have gone on ...

Why do some people get over a family death quickly and others take years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - Hoping people will have insight here and thank all who answer. My friend and I are about the same age. I am a little older. I lost my dad when I was in my twenties. It was horrible, awful but I had to carry on. I grieved but had to get on with life, ...

I'm confused about his actions

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31 May 2009 (F) - guy at uni: he always talks to me till silly aclock in the morning like 5am despite having work the next day. never mentions hes girl friend to me. is forever picking me up , rugby tackling me, bear hugging me, tickling poking me when we are out ...

Is shyness making her like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5435 days ago

31 May 2009 (M) - am 19 years old just getting to 20 this year am cute too.there is a girl of about 15 years old just a neighbour to my friend. when my friend brought me to their house i saw this girl and she was some kind of shy looking at me, which caused her to ...

I don't know why he's sticking around!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - Im so confused ive been seeing this guy for a month but i have a boyfriend he knows this, so we said we would do the friends thing, that was fine as we get on so well, then we ended up getting drunk went to a hotel had sex, he said he was very sorry ...

I am shy, but want to make more friends, would you give me some suggestions, how do I make that happen?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - I am feeling lonely. I have a great boyfriend but very few friends anymore. I am extremely shy and my confidence is iffy, but I think people mistake this for me being stuck up. I am willing to talk and befriend anyone who approaches me, but don't ...

Friends got into a big fight and I just want it over

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

31 May 2009 (M) - ok, so me and my friend got in a fight over something really small about a month ago. that same day she refused to talk to me while we were in school so i left her a note on her car tell her how sorry i was and that I wanted to make it up to her by ...

What does "I don't feel that way right now" now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5436 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - About 2 months ago I met this guy through a mutual friend. After a few weeks we started hanging out without the other friend. He has never once ignored a text. We talk every day, we hangout at least every other day. We have confided in each other ...

The best night of my life...now what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - hiya, please help me. Well, It was my birthday party last night,,. and it was a joint party. So.. I have fancied this boy for nearly 2 years now... and lately friends have said he acts differently around me. But he is a ladies man. So at this ...

Am I right to trust him again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - long story short, my boyfriend and i had been going out, my best friend was always very 'friendly' with him and caused a lot of problems, after we broke up they both snuck around behind my back and it didnt last long. she told me it was because she ...

How do I turn them down?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - I need help on how to turn guys down. I'm single, have been for a while, just waiting for the RIGHT guy. I made myself a promise that the next guy I'm with, will be the last guy. Here is my problem, when I'm hanging out, I always get guys I'm not...

If only I was more outgoing like her...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5437 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - My good friend, (probably my best friend) is starting up a small part time business with another woman, her busness partner, this has happened very quickly in a matter of a month. Its all my friend can talk about - she is 100% focussed on only...

Can't stand the friend's friends

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

30 May 2009 (M) - Okay, this might not be the best site to ask this, but here goes: My gf and I are friends with this other couple. It's not like we're best friends, but we are pretty good friends. They are friends with this other couple, who, unfortunately...

How can I let my neighbour know I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - I have had tea with my neighbour several times now and thought I saw there was a connection, went for a spin in his car, eventually flirted on line, but he seems slow on the uptake! Help!x...

He says he can never be my friend which saddens me...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - Hey, I don't know what to do about this guy. I once liked him a LOT, but he didn't like me back. Fair play. We have been talking for about 5 months, and in this time I have got to know him [I think] quite well. I care for him and his welfa...

Stuck and don't know what to do now... any advice?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - hi, i recently told a guy i fancied him by email then then after a few days we had a convo on msn that went like this: (23:02) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: heya (23:02) -: hi (23:03) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: ta 4 the email (23:04) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: u going 2 the qui...

Does he not like me any more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - Hi! Here's my story, there is this boy at school, who's liked me for like 3 years now, he would tell his friends to hook him up because he was shy and afraid to approach me. Well a few days ago we started talking, he told me he really wanted to ...

Please help me understand her...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

30 May 2009 (M) - This girl and I are fairly close... well, really close. We have never been boyfriend and girlfriend, but we have kissed and we exchange "I love you"s a lot. The things I don't understand: 1. She said she loves me and likes me, but she doesn't...

Can you maintain a healthy friendship with someone you are in love with?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - Can you maintain a healthy friendship with someone you are in love with? What about when you know they are not in love with you? ...

What does he REALLY want? I'm confused.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5437 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - So I am really good friends with this guy, and he lives about two hours away. We have known each other for eight months, but it is hard to see each other. He is always the one to call me and text me though, and it is usually his idea to hang out. ...

How can you tell when your friend is flirting with you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5437 days ago

29 May 2009 (M) - Okay so this question is going to seem kinda stupid but stay with me.... So how can you tell when one of your best friends that is the opposite sex as you is flirting with you??? But here is the sticky thing about the situation i have a girlfrien...

I don't know if he feels something for me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5437 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - theres this guy that i like since a year ago. this year we started dating(not going out) and i fell in love with him. were always always together but i dont know if he feels something for me just like i do for him and im afraid of ssking him. how do ...

Is my friend's analysing correct?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - ok well basically I heard a rumour about this guy [sean] who i've liked for ages, the rumour was about him and this other girl, so my friend text him on my phone and asked if the rumour was true and when he replied he said "NO. Definitely not true." ...

Is my friend's sister into me and if so, how do I proceed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

29 May 2009 (M) - (I'm re-posting this cause i didn't get enough feedback last time)Let me set the whole situation up first. Basically, I'm in this situation where I think the sister of basically my tightest homie(closest friend) is feelin me( likes me,lol), but the ...

Is it too late for something romantic to happen between us?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - Hello Aunts I am in a bit of an odd situation really, which has been going on for many years now. I am 27, and recently single, after a series of bad short term relationships. I have known this guy (he is 28) since I was at Primary Schoo...

He's very jealous and I'm not sure what to do about it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5437 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - This will probably be long. Because I want to include lots of points. There is a boy I think I'm in love with. We have felt this way about eachother for 8 months now. He is very jelous and I get a lot of accusations such as.. I fancy my best fr...

Why is my friend being so ungrateful?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - Morning All, it was my friends birthday 2 days ago and i got her Lost Season 1-4 boxsets because she mentioned how she wanted them but couldnt afford them. When she opene it she looked dissapointed and when i asked what was wrong she said she t...

I want to keep our friendship but I'm afraid he might confess his feelings for me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - I have a friend, and i think he likes me, he really is a nice guy, perfect gentleman and everything, it's just that i am not attracted to him at all. i mean he would be a great boyfriend but i don't see myself with him. and i'm afraid that he might ...

I miss her, but don't think I can be "just friends"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

29 May 2009 (M) - I've been dating a girl for a month and we had a great time but she is leaving in a year and a half so she says she doesn't want to commit to me, so she only wants to be friends, so we don’t get hurt later on. I can understand that but I can't be ...

I have a friend who thinks it's funny to lie all the time, why does she do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - Ok..so my friend lies to me..alot. She does it alot and whenever anyone confronts her about it, which is not alot, she always just jokes about it..and sometimes she can be mean about it. She always jokes all the time and lies..and sometimes I find ...

Broke up badly, we share mutual friends, and that is becoming a problem, please help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5437 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - I had a major fight with my best friend, he finished the friendship and he wants nothing to do with me. This happened 6 months ago. I've moved to the next city so I don't see him anymore, however he still hangs out with mutual friends that I'm in ...

Why do guys say sappy things like"awww" all the time, just wondering?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - Hey! :D I was just wondering why some guys say 'awww' to almost everything you say? It happens to me quite often, mainly it is on msn. I wouldn't usually imagine some guys to say it, even some who are not necessarily tough, but would never say extr...

Why does he want to know if my friends are fit?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend hasnt really met my friends yet but whenever i talk bout he always says to me are they fit? This hurts me. Why would he be bothered what they look like? He says cos he like to get an image of what they look like! One time when he was ...

He is too involved with his best friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5438 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - for few days my boyfriend is kind of avoiding me and getting too much involved with his best friend. we are in relation for past 3months n he is not so open with me n i dont have much to tell him every time we talk and his best friend is really open ...

We are the closest of friends, but lately I cannot share with her as I used to, what is the problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5437 days ago

28 May 2009 (M) - I've known an unbelievable woman for over a year now. We have become each other's closest friend. I have never shyed away from sharing anything with her. But over time I developed insecurity issues and as my esteem and confidence plumm...

Am I over emphasizing the need to apologize to my friend?

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28 May 2009 (M) - Is there a point where apologizing defeats itself and all you are doing is reminding someone of a negative incident in the past? I got into an argument and upset my closest friend. I didn't think she'd ever talk to me again. But showing how litt...

Should I expect more than this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5438 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - Hi I have been down a bit for the past while over my boyfriends friends and family. I feel like I dont fit in with them no matter how hard I try. The friends are very laddy and sometimes dont say hello to me - they rarely ask how I am and usually ...

Racist friend....what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - Heyy I've written an article about this, but while replying to someone else I realized I have a problem..which might seem strange but yeah... Basically my best friend can be racist sometimes, and she just sees it as a joke and I don't really ...

Am I being used?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - hello, i really like this guy, i have just broken up with his best friend, and now even tho his best friend dumped me, my ex hates me. but his best freind is so nice to me, but only at certain moment, he only texts me or is nice to me when he wants ...

Is he messing me around?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - He says he wants us to just be friends as there is alot of baggage between us on either side, so i agreed not really wanting to as i like him alot, but we still text, email loads and he said he wants to meet me for a drink next week before i go on ...

Husband goes out clubbing without me every weekend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - Last May my husband moved from the UK to Taiwan to get married with me. When he was in the UK, he probably went out to bars or clubs only once a year. Yet now he goes to a bar at least 4 evenings a week, and he wants to go out clubbing every ...

Teenage gossip politics all directed at me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - about two months ago, one of my friends had given me one of her friends (*Paula*) facebook password- i wasnt sure why, but i never checked her facebook because i was never that interested in what she did on it. however, having said that- i wen...

I am in love with my friends wife

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

28 May 2009 (M) - I have a big question/issue. Myself and one of my friends met this girl at the same time and where I am a shy and reserved guy he is not and he hit it off with her right away. Well since then we have all been friends and I was developing a crush ...

Should I go back to being her friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5438 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - I been friends with this girl for 5 years and we have never had any disagreements or fights. Well I introduced her to a friend of mine who wanted to talk to her. So they dated for 3 months before I got into it with her gf. The girl wants to be back ...

I regret sleeping with him now and feel so stupid for doing so!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - Hello. I am extremly worried. I done something that I feel completely silly about. I feel like such a silly little girl. Any feedback and comments would be very much appreicated. I have known this guy for a while and deicded to meet up with him...

What went wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - HELP! me and this guy have known each other for a very long time and I have always had mad feeling for him but was always scared to say anything to him until years later I was at T.G.I. Fridays an he finally said something to me we talked after that ...