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Archived questions from: 4 April, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

How do we get him out of the group?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

4 April 2009 (M) - Hi in our group of friends we have a fat nerd, an athletic and im the one who loves music and stays up till 4am wathing films like fargo, reservoir dogs and apocalypse now. but one of us doesnt fit in with us. i now i sound horrorble but how do we ...

How to move from friendship into more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

4 April 2009 (M) - My best friend is very flertive and touchy naturally, I'd like to know how I can get confirmation if she does like me or not in a special manner. I've been thinking of dating her for approximately 2 months now. I am afraid asking her out while she ...

My friend gave a blow job and now I can't help but be disgusted by her!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - Ok, so here's the deal. Recently one of my friends gave her bf oral sex. I asked her over text and she ignored it. Then, rumors went around school so everyone knew basically. Then I found out it was true because she admited it. Shes only 12 and im ...

I feel like I'm not exciting enough for my boyfriend!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - We are both in college and have been seeing each other for a month now but I feel like he thinks I am boring because I don't really party and smoke like he does. I like to party once in a while but not every weekend like he does. He has a lot of f...

Advice needed!!! Is he leading me on or does he really like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5511 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - There's this guy (I'll call him Frank) who's been one of my best guy friends since the start of the school year. He's always had a joking somewhat corny personality but the last couple of weeks he's been definitely doing a lot more joking ...

Do you think she likes me more than a friend and could this go further?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5511 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, I've been reading many questions about situations like mine. Loving your best friend who is in fact a girl, and I am one as well. I just wanted a little advice since I can't seem to build up the courage to tell anyone else. So a couple ...

I think he's to good looking to even contemplate going out with me. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5511 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - I would really appreciate advice. I lack severely in confidence, especially when it comes to men I like. They's a guy who works across from me who I like the look of but I'm to shy to let him know or even smile at him! Every time he looks over I tu...

Married only for a year and already having problems. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - I have been married a year and a half been with my husband for 5 years. I am 25years old. When we got married i moved to a differnet part of the city and found it hard to make new friends, my old firends and i have grown apart as they see me diff...

I had my heart set on a handsome Latino, but I feel like I missed the boat.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - Sorry this is long... I tried to keep it concise but I wanted it to be complete. I've been feeling blue about a guy for a long time, a friend from college. I'm confused because my love for him has faded, and I know I need to move on, but... it's ...

Is he just shy or afraid in case he is rejected?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - I’ve been friends with a guy I work with for over a year (although I worked with him previously in another organization about 8 years ago). I’m in my early 40’s, he’s in his early 30’s. We are both single, although he knows I’m divorced with two ...

Am I being a terrible bitch on both of them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5511 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - i broke up with my ex a few months ago but i just cant move on i dated someone for a while but told them i didn't want to get into anything serious as they were looking for something long term i still talk to my ex all the time and he still is my ...

I cant drive...does this make me a loser?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - Hi,i just need some honest advice. Im 26 year old female and i dont drive. I did lessons a few years ago but just couldn't get my head round them so i quit. Also i suffer with anxiety -on and off and for the past few years i've been on antidepr...

What would YOU do here? My friend is playing mind games with me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - What would YOU do here? My friend is playing mind games with me and a guy I really like, and I don't know what I should do in this situation? I am in love with a male pal for the past 1-2 years and he knows this since I had told him at Chri...

My huge crush is dating my best friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

4 April 2009 (M) - i have a huge crush that is dating my best friend, there pretty serious but my best friend never has long relationships. his girlfriend is also my best friend thats a girl. im afraid we have developed to much of a close friendship that she'll like ...

My boyfriend denies having a girlfriend to other girls. But always tells me he loves me. why?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - Hey! I'm 20 and my boyfriend is 24. This is our first ever serious relationship and didn't expect to turn out to be one either! We told each other we loved each other a couple of months ago and have recently just moved in together temporarily until ...

Out of town students put down my home town

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - i am 20 years old,i was put to this very prestigious school where everywhere comes from a different city and i was the only local,and since its a small town the students used to put this city down and i wasn't ready to accept that i am from here and ...

We found a camera recording herself at her dad's house. Should I be concerned?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I are staying at his dads on weekends, tonight him and I were flicking through tv channels when we pressed the wrong button and found that AV3 had a camera connected and was facing the floor, where we are sleeping. I realise its his ...

He asked me to suggest one thing that the two of us must do. What do you think I should suggest?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5511 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - my ex told me he is with some one else but it was just after two weeks of breaking up. though he heard rumours that i was cheating on him with his cousin along time ago he had not reacted for so long.. but am now wondering about how he got this...

I cant stop thinking about her. How do I get over her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

4 April 2009 (M) - Ok, How can I begin, there is this girl who goes to school with me, she really really shy, pretty, smart, and athletic. I mean she is so shy that she only like talks to like 3 people, ok. I created a myspace like 2 months ago, and stummbled across ...

I know right from wrong, but I choose to do wrong anyway. WHY?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5512 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - We started dating 2 years ago, as co-workers (and his uncle owns the company so we hid our relationship for the first 6 months). I looked and found another job about a year into our relationship so that our relationship could work. Six months late...

How do you know if your man has cheated on you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - [This is a follow up question to a previous posting: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-dont-know-who-to-believe.html) How do you no if your man has cheated on you, if u havent seen any signs,or never have thought he ever would cheat. u just hea...

Is he playing me or am I over reacting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - I have this dude that i talk to, he just a friend but he stop calling me, when he got back together with his girlfriend. I make a myspace for him just to communicate with him cause his girlfriend calls all the time n he barely talks to me, Sh...

When should we start being romantic at all?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - I'm a 15 year old female and a sophomore in high school. I've always been very careful with how I interact with males, and have never dated any guy, although I've been asked out once. According to my friends, guys may just think I might say no to t...

Should I talk to her when she's drunk like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

4 April 2009 (M) - I've been talking to this girl I met online for about a month now. She lives in the area, we've exchanged numbers but never talked over the phone. Only texted and IMed. She went to a party and started texting me saying she wants to talk to me, and ...

HE keeps reminding me that I said we were just friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - I had been dating this guy for about 4 months; during that time things were ok, but never really felt he cared that much. so one day he had to leave to another state so we stopped talking. After a while he came back to stay here, so for sum reas...

I don't know who to believe

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5509 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - A woman me and my fiance work with, txt me one day and said they had been having sex 4 several months. we have 2 lil kids together, and i dont no who 2 believe. he says it aint true, and he loves me and are kids dearly....

Why do we have to take a break after the breakup?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5512 days ago

4 April 2009 (M) - why do we have to take a break after the breakup? if at all we have decided to remain friends after the breakup so what purpose does taking a break fulfill? i think it kills the affection addiction closeness and all the qualities for which we love ...

I am worried that when I actually meet up with my chat friend, he wont like me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - I met this guy on msn and hes done some bad things to me but ive done some bad things to him as well. i really really really like him [kinda sorta love] he loves me too, but we have never met. i cant imagine life without him to be very honest, but i ...

Did I make the right choice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5511 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - So me and this guy dated for 2 months. Then he broke up with me because we were never really allowed to see each other bc of my parents. Then after about a month he asked me out again and I said yes. But things just felt kinds different and I don'...

We're both 15 yo and in love. Need advice on trust and affection issues.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

4 April 2009 (?) - Hey-- My boyfriend and I have been together about 3 months. We were best friends before we got together, and I've liked him for 2 years. We fell in love faster than I could ever imagine--I didn't believe in love in high school, but now I'm a believ...

Why does he ignore me for days?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5512 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - I met this guy recently. He is sixteen, I am fourteen, turning fifteen in about a week. We instantley connected on many levels. Since he is moving on April 20th, started talking in Feb. We decided not to take things any further, and just remain ...

She claims that I confuse her and she doesn't know how much or how little she likes me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

4 April 2009 (M) - Hi, just looking for some ideas and feedback on a situation I am in. First things first, met this girl about a month ago through some friends, got talking and soon after we met up on own... Didn't do much the first time just hung out. Got on well...

Should I give up on him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5511 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - a year ago i kissed one of my best friends after a night out, it was all just a bit of fun after a few too many, we remained really close and he often stayed with me, although we were always affectionate to one another we never slept together. It ...

Awkward now since he told me how he feels

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5512 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - Basically, i really like this guy at college.. he said to 2 of my friends a few weeks ago that he doesn't like me in that way or something, and he said some pretty harsh things because someone has been saying a load of shit to him about me and it ...