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Archived questions from: June, 2014 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

My friends betrayed me when I was vulnerable

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3578 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - Hi everybody, I'm guessing I'm going to get a lot of opinions on this question, I'm feeling pretty rubbish about it and I understand I was irresponsible. Please don't answer my questions with insults or lectures as I've had that off my parents and ...

Why don't I get offended by insults? and why do girls seem to get over-offended?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3580 days ago

30 June 2014 (M) - I find it unusual that when people (purposely) try to insult me, or tease me, or offend me, it fails. I haven't been offended verbally by anyone I know. Or maybe a different version of offense. I got ticked when someone replied to my post a few da...

I've been friend zoned!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3580 days ago

30 June 2014 (M) - ive had a crush on a girl for a while now and im to shy to make my move so now ive been friend zoned and now im going to highscool so i might even see her anymore and even lose that. she wants me to go to all her games though but i dont think that ...

Should I get away from her? I'm having trouble keeping my emotions at bay

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3580 days ago

30 June 2014 (M) - We've known each other for about a year now. In the beginning, I always thought she was pretty but never felt any real attraction to her, mainly because I was seeing someone else. She also said that she thought I was cute but she too was with ...

Why would my father suggest he could accompany this girl and I to the movies? Her reply confused me too

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3580 days ago

30 June 2014 (M) - i have two questions to ask.so i like this girl right and one day i had no one to go to the movies with and my dad suggested that i ask her to go with me. what i don't get is that she freaked out. so my dad says that he could come if it wasn't too ...

Was I right to throw the creep out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3564 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - When your kids hate the guy you are dating....watch out. No telling what they will do. I had been seeing a fellow for about 6 months or so, and my two girls could not stand him. He was trying to play the concerned parent part. He never lived in...

Why won't she speak to me anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3581 days ago

29 June 2014 (F) - Hi, Basically one of my close female friends has suddenly stopped talking to me. We've been friends for 7 years, but the past 3 i've been away at university and have come back for a few weeks in the holidays. Everything was normal (we neve...

LDR issues. Do I confront her over her Ex issues ? Do I insist on seeing her to work things out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3578 days ago

29 June 2014 (F) - LDR issues.Do I confront the issues? Do I insist on seeing her next weekend? To try to work things out with her? For years I ignored the feeling in the back of my mind that I may be gay. However about 3 months ago a friend signed me up to a gay dati...

Should I let this go and think it was an accident?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3582 days ago

29 June 2014 (F) - Hi everyone, I guess this may sound kind of silly but I have always had low self esteem in general so this kind of bothers me. I was with my friend today and we were chitchatting while walking in a building that is usually busy but was empty fo...

Would this be classified as cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3582 days ago

28 June 2014 (F) - Hi everybody! Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Me and my boyfriend were together for 5 years before the relationship ended. It was mainly my fault, I was writing my university dissertation, revising for exams, working to help my parents ...

I thought he was a friend but suddenly he seems to have turned

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3581 days ago

28 June 2014 (F) - Hi I'm seeking advice in regards to a friend of my fiancé's. I've know him for a coupled of years. I'm not trying to lead him on but I don't know if I'm reading his actions right or wrong? He started out being friendly always asking how I am, if ...

How do I deal with breaking up with someone this mentally unwell?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3582 days ago

28 June 2014 (F) - I need some reassurance and general advice. I've been with my fiancée for nearly four years and then last weekend we broke up. It was the next step in what has been a month of hell. Through out our relationship, she has battled with depression. ...

What are your opinions on this close friendship my BF has with this long term friend who's a girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3582 days ago

28 June 2014 (F) - Dear cupid, Ok so am new to this however I will appreciate the advice you guys give me. I am currently with a guy i am in love with. We celebrated our 3yrs anniversary of knowing each other earlier in June. He and I are very happy together now b...

I am primarily attracted to men who don't seem to find me attractive and it hurts. I'm well educated, articulate and curvy. What do I need to consider or do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3579 days ago

28 June 2014 (F) - Hi everyone, I'd really value your thoughts and advice on my situation. First I'll give a bit of background to give you a better picture. I'm a 24 year old black girl from London and I am primarily (but not exclusively) attracted to white ...

What's a 32 year old Virgin to do if he feels like a Nerd in his own community - if he wants to get girls?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3582 days ago

28 June 2014 (M) - Modnote: I allowed 2 of the videos as I feel that they contributed important understanding. I did not allow the Fleshlight video. I watched all 3 videos before I allowed the 2 in. The rest below is from the Original Poster - - - - - --- Well..I n...

Is this the right course for me? Disabled wife, no sex for years. Now I have a platonic female friend

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3578 days ago

27 June 2014 (M) - I am a married man with a disabled wife, and I suffer from extreme caretaker's depression because of it. Recently I ran into a divorced lady of about my age, who used to be friend of my wife's (they turned out to be very non-compatible a...

He used to like me. I really like him but he has a Gf. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3583 days ago

27 June 2014 (F) - I really like this guy but he has a girlfriend. He used to like me but he hasn't given me any signals or anything! I don't know what to do anymore! I love him and I don't know if he will ever even like me. Have any suggestions?...

He's 18. It feels right but wrong. How should I handle this considering that I live in a very closed community?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3580 days ago

27 June 2014 (F) - Hi i really need advice on this,i feel so confused.. I recently met my best friend's cousin and i knew the minute i saw him that i liked him,i feel so attracted to him It's like nothing i have ever experienced.. The problem is he is 18!! A Also i...

This married woman thinks she is a beauty queen!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3576 days ago

27 June 2014 (F) - I would like to have your opinions on this woman. She is married but because she is unhappy in her couple, she feels she can cheat her husband. Well, she thinks that she is a beauty queen even though she is not. She says that she can have any man ...

I like her a lot, but don't know how to ask her out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3582 days ago

27 June 2014 (M) - Ive known this girl For 2 years already, weve been best friends, we talk alot and even Talked about dating but she sometimes gives me signs to show she dont care anymore, I really Like her and want to ask her out, But dont know what to say, any ...

Am I really going too far our of my way just to hang out with my friends once or twice a year?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3584 days ago

26 June 2014 (M) - For the past 3.5 years after college graduation, I've visited my college friends 1-2 times a year which costs me a $250+ round-trip flight every time. To be honest, friends have been a rare thing in my life, so I'm glad to call these two my close...

My best friend showed me a picture of my boyfriend kissing another girl and he had the audacity to tell me I betrayed this relationship because I choose this "other source" over him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3583 days ago

26 June 2014 (F) - My best friend showed me a picture of my boyfriend kissing another girl. When I confronted my boyfriend he demanded who had told me. I ever gave him the name. He then told me I betrayed this relationship because I choose this "other source" over ...

Is he just being friendly? Or flirting? Or am I thinking it's more than it is?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3584 days ago

26 June 2014 (F) - hi all,ive got a bit of a dilemma and wonder if you can give your honest opinions :) basically ive become friendly with a guy who teaches fitness at my sons school,when I say friendly I mean we chat and txt each other ocassionally,i see him once a ...

My boyfriend is avoiding our friends and they are asking about him. How do I help resolve this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3584 days ago

26 June 2014 (F) - I have an absolutely wonderful boyfriend of nearly 2 years, pretty much your stereotypical best friend turned boyfriend. However, he seems to suffer from anxiety which can lead to paranoia. Initially this was about appearance to the extent where he ...

How busy should an adult be? What if you are not as busy as people you know?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3585 days ago

25 June 2014 (F) - I am a quieter person with a quieter life, I have a few friends who I see occasionally, and I enjoy seeing them, but I am alone a lot, as a few ppl I know are. Aside from work I live alone, (no pets, not allowed.) if I could I get one. I am happy...

Why do I feel so crushed that this girl I barely know is leaving?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3577 days ago

25 June 2014 (M) - Have you ever just met a person and just as you were getting to know them well, and found out that you have a lot in common, all of a sudden they announce that they are leaving/moving away/something else? That's what happened to me in the past m...

Why does my ex FWB still talk sex when he says he just wants to be friends

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3585 days ago

25 June 2014 (F) - So yesterday I called a guy out through text that i used to hook up with/have FWB's with about why he is always saying sexual things to me when we are just supposed to be friends now. He has said these things to me almost a dozen times and every ...

Can we be more than friends? I think I'm stuck in the friend zone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3586 days ago

24 June 2014 (F) - I have a male friend who I am very fond of, well being truthful I am madly in love with him - but we are just friends. He was dating and has recently broken up, I have been a shoulder for him to cry on and tried to be there for him. The problem ...

Should I end this friendship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3586 days ago

23 June 2014 (?) - So I am feeling totally betrayed and I'm not sure if I should end my friendship or not. I work with my very best friend. We both have told each other that we have never had such a great friend. We have always had each others backs and have always ...

How do I best deal with my Bf who seems insecure about friendships I form?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3586 days ago

23 June 2014 (F) - I moved city this year to live with boyfriend. We flat with his friends: two other guys and a girl. I have a hard time making friends because I'm shy and it takes me a while to get comfortable with people. Recently I've been getting on well with one ...

How do I learn to get by on my own?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3566 days ago

22 June 2014 (F) - I'm feeling really lonely at the moment and although I know there are good reasons for it, it's a reoccurring feeling for me and always has been. I'm a pretty independent person, been single mostly apart from 1 long term relationship of ...

I am my ex boyfriend's booty call .....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3588 days ago

22 June 2014 (F) - My boyfriend split up with me in February, because "he didn't love me anymore and the spark wasn't there".. He has been sleeping with ALOT of girls, and drinking ALOT! I have been sleeping with him still, but now I'm starting to get jealous and have ...

His family and friends influenced him and now we have broken up!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3588 days ago

22 June 2014 (F) - Hi. Need help! My bf brokeup after 4 years together because of fights, he said he can't handle it. The real reason was he let him family know about our issues and they asked him not to see me again (It was so stupid of him and I believe his personal ...

I don't know how to deal with her bad behaviour at work!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3588 days ago

22 June 2014 (F) - Dear cupid, in these last few months iv watched my work friend/collegue slowly turn into an absolute cow. She started off by admitting she didn't like certain members of our work team which surprised me and it was just a downward spiral from there ...

Issues with my boyfriend's relocation is causing stress.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3586 days ago

22 June 2014 (F) - I need real good advice stressing me out My boyfriend lost his mom whom he lived with June 9th this year we are neighbors same apt building him and his sister went back to Maryland for 2 weeks bome next weekend. They felt mom baby him to much and ...

My boyfriend always leaves me behind for one of his particular friends enemy though he knows it hurts me that I'm never invited? Is it me or him that should back off on this yearly trip.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3585 days ago

22 June 2014 (F) - My boyfriend is much older than me and we have been together about 10 years. A couple years ago I went back to school with his encouragement so that I can make decent money when he's no longer here. He's the most generous person and treats me and my ...

I'm dating her but my gut tells me there is something amiss with her male best friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3589 days ago

21 June 2014 (F) - I have been dating this single mum for about month now. Everything is going alright, obviously haven't let the child or anything crazy like that yet, but I have an issue. She has a male best mate, obviously this girl is bisexual, and this make be...

I can't control my jealousy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3587 days ago

21 June 2014 (F) - I am having trouble accepting how sociable my boyfriend is. He sometimes meets friends who are girls one on one for a drink, and he has a night out coming up with some friends he made at work (all girls apart from one guy) he is a very sociable ...

My long time friend is drinking herself into oblivion ...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3589 days ago

21 June 2014 (F) - Hi everybody. This is a touchy subject. My close friend of nearly 40 years is an alcoholic. I met her through my husband at the age of 17, his best friend was dating her. We went out as a four some regularly, she was my bridesmaid and v...

I really like the girl who is top of the class and studious!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3589 days ago

21 June 2014 (M) - there's a girl in class whom I really like, but the problem is that she is kind of studious, she was the topper of our class. she doesn't talk much to boys and I don't know that she would like to have a bf. plz tell what i can do to make her ...

My boyfriend makes fun of me, my family and my culture in front of others!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1960 days ago

21 June 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been officially together for about 2 years now, but it seems as if we have been for 4 years when we first met. I am muslim and he is not inclined towards any one religion. I finally met his family in FL. We stayed at his ...

My friend is copying me! it is annoying me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3589 days ago

20 June 2014 (F) - This is so annoying. My friend is copying my piercing - I know there are many out there who have the second lobe piercing. She is copying me because I've been deciding if I wanted the second piercing done now for about a couple of years and finally ...

Technically he's doing nothing wrong so I don't understand why this hurts me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3590 days ago

20 June 2014 (F) - Hi everyone, I am so confused so hoping you can help! I basically met a guy back last summer. He approached me on a night out and we were seeing each other a little. It came to light that he had recently got out of a relationship at the time, and it ...

My boyfriend and best friend had a FWB relationship 3 years ago and never told me! Why not?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3589 days ago

20 June 2014 (F) - It may be something or nothing but ever since I found out my boyfriend and my best friend had a very short relationship (purely sex) nearly 3 years ago, I can't work out why neither of them told me before, instead I found out from a mutual friend. ...

Her ex is my friend, they're still friends, and I'm having trouble dealing with it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3589 days ago

20 June 2014 (M) - Curious for general perspective, and especially grateful to hear from anyone who is dating, or has dated, a guy, while you (the girl's) "ex" or old hookup buddy stayed around as friends to both sides. Assuming your new relationship is/was healthy, ...

I've been defriended on facebook and don't know what to do about it!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3591 days ago

19 June 2014 (F) - I am not sure what's happened. Between yesterday and today the only thing that's changed is I texted a group text "Hey guys, are you going to the party?" No response. Then today I find myself defriended by a person I had a connection with. Sure...

I've only ever been in casual relationships so I don't know if he likes me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3592 days ago

18 June 2014 (M) - I am a gay male who has a question that sounds just stupid. You would think at age 24 and as someone who isn't shy--I wouldn't be asking this, but how can I tell if this guy really likes me? I have done a lot of casual dating but never anything ...

I turn down other guys for him but he doesn't ask me out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3592 days ago

18 June 2014 (F) - I'm 15 and there's a boy in my year who I really like and have done for about two years. I've never felt the same about anyone ever before - I look at him, even think about him, and I get butterflies; the first thing I do when I walk into a room is ...

Girls, what qualities do you want boys to have?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3589 days ago

18 June 2014 (M) - Girls, do you like a confident guy, or someone who can't help in front of you???....Or are good looks all that matter?...

I want to be his friend but I wonder if my attachment is somehow unhealthy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3589 days ago

18 June 2014 (F) - So, I have known this guy for almost a year now and we have become great friends. He seems like a really good person and I like being friends with him. I secretly hope that we will become Bff's for real. He seems to understand me and his level of ...