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Archived questions from: November, 2010 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

My best friend has cut me out of his life and I am heartbroken! What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Ok to cut a long story short, me and my friend have been very close for 3 years, there has been laughter/heartbreak/anger/passion everything, I fell for him and he didn't feel the same so he stopped talking to me because he didn't want to hurt me, ...

She turned me down once but I think she wants me to ask again

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - My friend's sister turned me down for a date after initially accepting a few days earlier. Anyway since then we've been out a lot in the same social circle and she's been sending some strong signals. She's kissed me on several occasions but always w...

Should I up my game and just say what's on my mind or just be patient?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - ok so I know that as a girl, we should be chased. I have made no moves with this really shy guy, except instant messaging once in a while to him. He has called me twice (its wk 2 since we met in another country...so its long distance) he initiated ...

I have secretly been in love with my best friend's husband for 20 years.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - I have secretly been in love with my best friend's husband for 20 years. I have never told anyone this and I have never acted upon my feelings. Recently I felt that he may have feelings for me too! He hasn't directly told me so or made a pass at me ...

Where do I go from here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - I met this guy we will call him ...... bill. i met him a while ago but we started to hangout again here a few weeks ago. Were always together but me him and his best friend and one of my friends all got drunk together the other night. I really like ...

I'm not happy with my boyfriend and have feelings for his best friend, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - I like my boyfriends friend and I don't know what to do? So here it goes this story may be long, crazy and strange. and please don't be rude believe me i already feel weird enough... okay so i have been with my bf for 2yrs (we will call him bo...

Does my best friend fancy me like I fancy her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

30 November 2010 (?) - I'm gonna' be straight up and say I'm in love with my best friend. I can't stop thinking about her it's driving me nuts. We've been best of friends for about 2 years. When we met we hit it off straight away. After about a year I told her I fanci...

My friend is so boring!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - What do you think of quiet people.? My friend is way too quiet!, but it's like sometimes she will just sit there and say nothing at all. She will talk for a little bit then she would shut up. When others see her sometimes she just gives them a s...

How do I get the friendship with my cousin back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - i’m a male, i love my female cousin very very very much,i like her with no bounds.We are of the same age. We had a sweet romantic relation and also an immensely strong friendship from 9 yrs of age.Then when i was 12 yrs old i got an accident...

What's the best thing to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - hi guys can anyone tell me how to sort this out ? ive worked with a guy for over a year im really fond of him and we were very close friends. he was in a bad way when i met him and viewing him as a good friend i did all i could to help him. i help...

Should I invite my enemy to lunch?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Hi there is this woman at work who invent s things against me and what not. accused me of screwing her husband and always spreads bad rumors about me though everyone I talk to does not like her. I wondered if I should simply invite her out to see ...

While we were on a break she kissed another guy, and now she wants me to be friends with him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - I Really, Really need help and advice here! So here is my problem: my girlfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years now and during that time we separated for a month. We had been having some problems and she decided we needed time to clear ...

He's got all these girls falling at his feet, should I admit how I feel?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Hello, i just need some advice. So basically my best guy friend and I have been close for about 9 years. We both study at different universities, so we don’t get to see each other much but since he’s come back I really don’t know what to do. Over...

My roomate's suggestion makes me really uncomfortable! How do I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Hi. I have a random question not related to love. My roommate has a boyfriend and she has asked me if he could stay in the room with us (she said they would not do anything.) At first I told her I was ok with it, but then I told her honestly it ...

Is he just being nice to me, trying to not hurt my feelings by playing along until he has to leave?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - This will be long so please bear with me. I am very confused about this situation and I just want to see the 360 without people being biased. I have had a crush on this guy for close to 10 months. He is older than me and graduated from t...

What do you think that I should do to get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - 2 years ago, I met a boy and we fell in love with each other immediately. Everyone could see that we felt something for each other. It was like a fairy tale. He was very shy and he kept his eyes only on me. We have never seen eachother anymore ...

Romeo and Juliet was just a step on my ladder.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

29 November 2010 (M) - I have come looking for help and advice. I need it desperately. This is my story. When I was 15 I started going out with a girl who we will call lucy (not her real name). I had had a few girlfriends before her that lasted around 8-10 months (...

How am I supposed to get over her if I see her all the time???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4889 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I would say it's hard to put this into words but to be honest that would be an exuse for me to not get into the details. Well being the idiot I am I feel in love with my best friend and I do mean I fell hard, Head over heals. It got to the point ...

Humiliated by my wife's old lie!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

29 November 2010 (M) - Hi, I met my wife back in high school and we got together the first summer of college 20 years ago. We slept together before we got together that summer and I knew she had had an encounter with a friend of mine after we slept together but before we ...

Is he worth pursuing???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

29 November 2010 (M) - Ahhhhh! Hey guys, well ill dive into it, i told one off my friends who is/was bi-curious that i was gay and that i had feelings for him. It was fine last week everything was A-OKay! I said to him, Erm well i think your really cute and your really ...

How do I propose a secret "friends-with-benefits" relationship to a closeted bisexual guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4889 days ago

29 November 2010 (M) - Hi, I've got a slight situation. Its quite simple to sum up really... I am a gay guy in my teens at sixth form college. There is another guy who has told me he is bi but he isn't out to anyone else. There are others who suspect he is bi but I don't ...

I don't know how to feel about him still talking to his ex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - So this boy I have been talking to for two months now, I just found out he is still talking to one of his ex's. When we first started talking, we were, "together" but he broke up with me when he found out I cheated on him. So we actually stopped ...

What does it mean if a married man sends me a early Christmas present and it is a piece of jewellery?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - What does it mean if a married man sends me a early Christmas present and it is a piece of jewellery? It is a beautiful necklace(not gold) but it is an antique that was his grandmothers. He has never expressed feelings for me but does text me and ...

Are there anyone who has been in this same situation? The jealousy is eating me alive.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

29 November 2010 (M) - Before me and my girlfriend got together, she was at a party at my house. My friend is a typical womanizer, and has had sex with over 30 girls altogether. At the party he got a good vibe with her, and when the others had left they asked to use my ...

Should I just delete her number and forget about her??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

29 November 2010 (M) - Hi guys. Wonder if you can help me on something here. I've known this girl for a while, only on seeing each other and saying hi. The other night I bumped into her and we started talking and we ended up going for a drink. We went to a bar and we e...

I'm too shy to talk to my crush...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4888 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - i have a crush on a guy with me in college and it been a year now and im pretty much sure that he feels the same about me too ...or at least was it all started when i noticed that there s a guy (my crush) always looking at me when i pass and foll...

In a working relationship, have a major crush on another girl.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

29 November 2010 (M) - I've been dating this great girl for almost 6 months now. However, I've now met someone who I'm pretty sure would be a better match for me in many ways. I have a major crush on her. I don't have any particular issues with my current girlfrie...

I feel awkward and never know what to say to people!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

29 November 2010 (M) - When im with people, I NEVER know what to say. And it always turns into this big long awkardness, untill either of us cant wait to get away from each other. I know its not just me, because the people who im awkward around are just fine with other ...

Can someone help me with my flirty boyfriend dilema?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4889 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - Alright, so my boyfriend and I have been going out for 10 months, and we are both 15, and he has a very outgoing personality. He's really friendly towards everyone, and vice versa, to the point that girls start to like him as more then a friend. T...

I made a fake Facebook account and now everyone knows!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - So here's the thing, I made a fake facebook and then someone told the real person about it and I got caught. Now they think im a creep. Im really not a creep but I realize my mistake does make me look like one.. But I mean we all make mistakes.. And ...

I'm feeling very uneasy about this "friend" wanting to stay with my boyfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I are both Actors and a few months ago he went away for 11 days to film. Whilst he was there he made a few friends but got very close with this one girl because of various divisions in the group. I first got the impression they were ...

She's been moody and now isn't texting me back. Help me please!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

29 November 2010 (M) - need help here guys. there is this girl that i like. we are both in college levels but in different schools. she is pure korean and im half chinese. we always talk a lot everyday text and call. and we've been on a date. watching movies and having ...

Surprise kiss and now he thinks I don't like him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - Hi I was out with my friends in the snow today and my friend that I really like lets call him ''Luke'' tackled me to the the ground and kissed me full on and i was kind of stunned so i didn't kiss back and he got really upset.Now he thinks that i...

How do I stop being so childish now my best guy friend has got a girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - OK, so it's sounds pretty trivial, but i've been having a complex about it. Basically, i've had a crush on my best guy friend,for as long as i can remember. I wasn't that fussed about dating him to be honest because he'd always assured me that i w...

Should I just leave it and let my friend contact me in her own time? I've not heard from her in months!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4886 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - me and my best friend are usually joint at the hip, she is into al the thing i am into and we were pretty much inseperable for the past 2 years. However recently she has fell pregnant and i was the first to know. I kept it secret unti l she was r...

How do I soften that I don't want to be in relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - Dear readers, what if one day a guy you have a good feeling for him comes and confesses that he likes you what would you do? In case if the relationship can't be happened what should I say? If I say " I have a good feeling for you too but I don't ...

Do you feel like I do? I love my best friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

29 November 2010 (?) - Hey everybody. This is kind of a follow up to a question I asked last year about this time. I met this girl about 2 years ago and we hit it off straight away. As time past by she became my best friend. She is so funny, so witty, so smart, intel...

Why would he call me? He's married and lives several states away

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I met this guy--I'll call him "Eric"--several years ago, while he was on tour with his band. He gave me his e-mail address so I could send him some photos I'd taken of the gig. We have kept in very sporadic touch over the past few years and until ...

Why is my best friend ignoring me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4889 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - Ohhkayy, One of my best guy friends is ignoring me. I don't even know why!! I've texted him 3 times this week, and tried talking to him on skype. He's really pissing me off. He usually texts me back within 10 min. I think this may have something t...

How do I reconnect with a girl after three years?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4890 days ago

29 November 2010 (M) - Sort of a wierd question. I went out with a girl when I was about 14, I had met her on holiday and it turned out we lived close to each other. However, we broke up after a week or so haha, because we were young and immature and we never really...

I'm really shocked at something my friend did and I don't know how to talk to her about it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

29 November 2010 (M) - I have had this friend since I was a toddler. I really care about her but something has happened. You see, she did something with this other guy which quite frankly I am shocked about. I can't believe she would do such a thing. And just to top it ...

Meeting his friends for the first time

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - Hey readers, I'm going to a party with my new bf in a few days-it's his friend's birthday, and all his friends will be there. Some of them are girls, and I know two of them are really beautiful, and that he used to date another of them years ago. ...

Same old, Same old. Can't stop thinking about my best friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4890 days ago

28 November 2010 (M) - Okay, I feel so lame writing this but I need some sort of advice. I have known this girl for 2 years and we hit it off straight away. She is my best friend. She is smart, witty, funny, intelligent and absolutely stunning. We do everything tog...

Ex teacher is behaving inappropriately! What to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4890 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - To cut to the chase: my now ex-teacher is taking his newfound 'freedom' a little too seriously. Last week me and a classmate of mine got an 'innocent' e-mail from him asking how our finals went. I was late in answering because I was busy with an...

He says he's not emotionally there but when it comes to the sexual part of a relationship then it's fine!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4890 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - I have known this guy now since i was 7 and now were both 17, we have always been really good friends but things started changing 2 years ago when he fell for me. i didnt feel the same towards him but just wanted a little fun so we kissed etc, he ...

He picks his friends and fishing over time spent with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4890 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - Right now, I get to see J. once or twice a week because of work. I'm leaving Tuesday for a wedding and won't be back for two weeks. Yesterday, he told me nothing. Calls me up out of nowhere to go fishing at 8pm and I find out he sees me because his ...

I always fall into the friend zone!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

28 November 2010 (M) - I have a lot of close female friends. The problem is that I meet them, like them, and then we become really close friends and nothing more. It rarely fails. Although I'd like something more than friends in the beginning, I wouldn't change my ...

She knows I adore him but yet she says he's good looking!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4888 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - ive been out with this boy about 15 times and im in love with him so much. Were best mates and we flirt alot but recently my over best friend whos a girl has started saying hes good looking and the boy is putting her first for everything do you ...

I just want to know if I’m a fool or should I just move on.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

28 November 2010 (M) - So basically I’ve been seeing this guy for almost a month now, he's 22 and I’m 18. Were on the same course in uni but in different years, I’m in my first he’s in his last: S We met when we were drunk and swapped numbers, he’s such a lovely gu...

Should I tell my best guy friend how I feel? He has a girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4890 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - Should I tell one of my best guy friends how I feel about him, even if he has a girlfriend? See this guy and I are co workers. We became best friends pretty much as soon he started working with me eight months ago. The thing is we never hung out ...