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Archived questions from: September, 2008 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

I get really jealous when other girls flirt with my best guy friend. Surely I can't like him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I'm really sorry this is so long but it requires a fair bit of explanation :D So a few years ago I was stranded in this class, in which I was the only girl. That sucked. Then this guy (then kinda funny/nerdy looking XD) sat next to me and was ju...

Should I go through with turning our friendhip into more of a 'friends with benefits' thing, or should we just stick with being best friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

30 September 2008 (?) - I'm not exactly sure how to start this. I guess right now I'm at a point where I don't know what I should do about a very close guy friend of mine. Here is the gist of what is happening. The guy friend I'm refering to is Seth. He's awesome and is p...

Why does it always rain on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I don't know if im enjoying life to much but im doing the best i can. Im a really nice person, so i get told. If that's the case i don't understand why i get the treatment i do off others. I just started college this month, made some nice ...

Is it possible for someone to love and not lust after you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Hi there.... I am hoping to get a bit of advise regarding my current relationship. I met this guy 9 months ago. we have a great relationship and since day one we have been inseperable. He is 37 has never been married or had kids. We started ...

Is this a good or a bad thing? I'm thinking of having a FWB

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5680 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Hi I just wanted to know if this is a good or bad thing....I've just come out of a bad relationship...and im longing for intimacy again..because I miss it...I was thinking about having a freind with benefits, but I do not think that I would want to ...

I need gift ideas for this female friend. Any tips?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - Hey all, I'm just wanting to know gift ideas (preferrably comments from girls). I have a good friend I have known for almost 4 years. I've always liked her a lot, but thought I was out of her league, about this time last year I found out she ha...

I'm having weird fantasies about threesomes, and I can get her to agree to pretty much anything. Anyone else tried this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - hey. im 19 male with a 19 f girlfriend. we are in a serious relationship. the thing is ive been constantly fantasizing about having a threesome with her with another guy. the problem is that the only way i could have it happen is for it to be one of ...

Am I just being pathetic? I think I should have moved on by now...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - hey, I was my girlfreind for about 5 months, shes my best freinds sister and we were in secret for literally the whole of the relationship. A lot of people had worked it out, and obviously we both told our close friends. The problem is my be...

What do younger guys think about FWB?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Hey, just a quick question - what do younger guys think about the whole 'friends with benefits' idea? Recently I broke up with my boyfriend and although I get lonely and miserable, I don't want another committed relationship for a good while. I ...

Are my friends jealous of me or is it my imagination?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I'm the thinnest one in my group of friends. I'll admit, I can be annoying but I know when to stop, my friends always say I'm annoying but we can still get along great when I'm controlling myself. I'm the only one that wear a bikini and my friends ...

Can someone please help me figure out a way to get this problem out of my mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Hello. Let me tell you the background of this story first. I went out with a guy in the beggining of this year. We went out for about 4 months and something happened between us so i broke up with him. Our relationship became difficult but we still ...

My friend from myspace is obsessed! How do I let him down easy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5681 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - ok i have a problem.a friend of mine who i first met through myspace is obsessed with me.the only times weve met is when he came to my work a couple times,and that was a long time ago.we still chat sometimes but i dont talk to him much becuz ...

How do I try and stop my friends from having sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

29 September 2008 (M) - One of my 14 year old friends and his girlfriend (also 14) are thinking of having sex... they dont know that i know they want to and i want to try and stop them. They are both very close to me and they are not thinking of using contraception. Any ...

Should I keep trying to keep our friendship going or step back to see if she even cares?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5674 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - I have this friend that I met through an old friend of mine. At first I didn't like her but as we both grew farthur apart from our mutual friend we became closer. We both had a baby only 2 months apart from eachother so we have that in common. It ...

My best friend likes girls and now she's attracted to me! How do I respond to this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - I have a best friend and she likes girls. She told me she had a crush on a girl and I advised her to tell her and see where it went from there. A couple of days later she told me that she was sexually attracted to me. I'm not sure how to react to ...

Do we leave him in the dust and say life goes on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

29 September 2008 (M) - Hello! Recently i've seemingly lost a bestfriend to his new girlfriend. He has never had a real relationship before (he is now 21) and recently found a 17yr highschool girl that he fancies attractive and fun. A year ago, she was fun and all...

I really like this guy, but there are rumours he got a 14 yr old pregnant, I don't know who to believe...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Ok Guys, theres this guy a really like he is just a year older than me and he is actually amazing. He isn't the nicest looking guy but he means the world to me, he has the nicest personality ever. Recently his pals have told me that he got a 14 year...

I blew my chance with the guy I love and now he only wants me as a friend!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - I am feeling so sorry for myself at the moment. A while back while I was in an unhappy relationship I met someone, a man and we became friends. I gave him the impression that I was in an unhappy relationship and just didn’t know how to get out. Well ...

I'm worried my friends will start gossiping if I ask this girl out.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

29 September 2008 (M) - every week, i attend masses and participate in our church's youth group which consists of many teens from various towns and we meet about good 4 hours every sunday. recently, a new girl joined and we became friends ever since. as time went on, we've ...

I'm really into this girl but I don't know whether to tell her how I feel?

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29 September 2008 (M) - I'm really into this girl and we have been talking everyday for 2 months but i don't know wether to tell her how i feel. We have been out together a few times on her suggestion but i don't know if she thinks we're just friends because she mentioned ...

What to do about a cheating friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - My husband is good friends with a guy who lives close to us, and I am friends with his wife. We have always thought of him as a decent person who will help out when he can. However, he has recently confided in my husband that he cheated on his wife ...

How do I date someone at some point when a male friend still likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5681 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - So I have chatted casually to Andy, same age as me, 2 kids too in the pub for a couple of months, just amongst others too. A few months ago i met a guy, Jack, 8 yrs younger than me in there and we txt most days, just asking if we've had a good day. ...

Whats going on? why is he acting this way? and what does my mate mean when he says he probably hasn't admitted it to himself? is this all because he likes me but is confused??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5681 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - hey ok could you explain this for me please. Basically theres a lad i like and in the past i thought he liked me because he was always staring at me, showing signs and people seemed to act like they knew that he liked me or knew something about us, ...

I used to be esteemed, but since I am hanging out with this nerd, things have changed. What to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5682 days ago

29 September 2008 (M) - I used to be pretty cool but ive started hanging with this nerd/wierdo, and now everyone thinks of me like him. i still wanna stay his friend though....

She wants the relationship a secret and I don't. What now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5681 days ago

29 September 2008 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for 5 months now and I knew her for about 7 months before then. We get along really great and we really care about each other. I'm 25 and she's 21. Overall, I'm happy with how our relationship is but there is one thing ...

How do I get over these feelings I have for my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5681 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - About 2 years ago I started having sexual thoughts about a friend. Nothing ever happened, as we're both female, and I wasn't sure what i really felt about her. (up until this point I thought I was straight) The feelings were getting pretty strong, ...

How can I help my friend to see the real truth?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5681 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - My Girlfriend is in a relationship with a guy that is still living with his ex. He swears it is because of the laws in the state he is in. He tells her that he will lose his daughter if he tells his Ex about the current relationship. I think he is ...

What should I do about my friend's boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5681 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - My friends boyfriend is sexually attracted to me and i dont know what to do? ...

I really like my ex bf's buddy! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have decided to end our relationship. It's a mutual decision and we're going to stay friends. We're still together at the moment, because we're sorting thing out first... Anyway, the thing is, I've had a thing for one of his m...

I never though it would get this bad. I'm SUPER SHY! Pleasee help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5682 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - So I kinda have this problem. I never though it would get this bad. I'm SUPER SHY! I can't start a conversation with anyone! (everyone and anyone) I can't make friends! See, I'm even transfering schools because I have none at my current one. I have...

My best friend keeps asking me out, I've rejected him before, but he won't leave me alone.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

28 September 2008 (?) - My best guy friend keeps asking me out. I just want to be friends. I rejected him before, but he won't leave me alone. I'm trying to be nice and sweet but it's not working.I really don't want to hurt his feelings. Any ideas?...

I have these stupid obsessions, right now it's Richard Hammond.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Help! I am 14 and all my friends seem to have boyfriends. I am the only one in my year who has never had a boyf and it's really getting me down. I recently went through some points with my social life and I am too forward with people. Also, I have...

Is this the end of our friendship, or am I just being stupid about the whole thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5680 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Hi, well I'm an 18 year old girl, and this summer I made best friends with another girl of the same age. i have literally never been so close or so attached to anyone. but she went to university last week, and now I feel this like heartache ...

Am I reading it all wrong? Does she think we're just friends? What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5682 days ago

28 September 2008 (M) - I speak to this girl everyday and have met up with her numerous times for quiet drinks and a couple of days out mainly on her suggestion. Question is does she like me? i'm really into her- i feel comfortable and enjoy her company. but i can't tell...

Were we wrong to want to smoke weed? My boyfriend freaked out about it...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Please don't judge me on this but i really need your help, for a while now me and 2 of my friends hve been wanting to try and smoke weed just once and not even a whole joing just to see what its like. so i spoke to one of my really close friend w...

Am I being unreasonable with my boyfriend about going out by himself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5682 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Hello I have a boyfriend since almost 8 months ago, we really get along very well, and he is wonderfull with me and he does everything to please me. We both have very tight schedules so we normally see eachother 3 times a week. I know he has give up ...

I feel like I'm cheating again! Will someone please help me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

28 September 2008 (?) - Im in love with my boyfriend of 1 month and my best friend of.....over a year. Im soo upset, because of everything thats been said between my boyfriend and I...things like...I'll always love you, your mine forever....ect. I always said i love you to ...

Why is he not replying to my messages? Did I make him mad?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5674 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - I have a male friend who I made while he was serving duty here in TX. We only met twice but got attracted to each other. Unfortunately, there was no time for anything else. He left a week after to Korea (He´s military). We started to keep in touch...

Will this LDR work out or is my friend only asking for heartache?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5674 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - I was wondering if my friends new relationship will work out? They've been dating for 1 month and the first week in September, she moved away for school and will be back at christmas. However, they will be spending 4 months apart at a time. She neve...

How do I say I'm sorry? I know I should have kept my mouth shut! I don't want to lose our friendship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Okay so...there's this guy I like who's basically my best friend. He suffers with Anorexia, and while he's been healthy for a while now, lately he keeps saying he needs to lose like 10 pounds. The thing is, he was in an accident, and he really c...

My friend to wait for her call, but in the end she didn't call me, I am very annoyed and want to get revenge!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - recently my freind invited me to hang out and said she would call for me (come round my house and meet me) within the next half an hour.i waited for about 40 mins and still no sign of her so i walked to house to see where she was to find out from...

I would hate not to have her as a friend. Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

28 September 2008 (M) - I have this really good friend who is female and we have known each other for a while now and we have talked about being more than friends and sgreed we would rather keep it at that tah have a relationship that may not last. But the problem is we ...

My best friend has fallen for the one I fancy, he admitted he liked her too, I said it's fine to me although it's not, how should I react further?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - dear all you awesome agony aunts and thank you for your help in advance. i have liked this guy for quite a while now and learnt from past relationships that its worth the wait anyway just the other day he decided to like my best friend and as so...

We like the same boy, but now she's getting competitive. Who do I choose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Ok so there is this guy that me and one of my other frends like. We both dont know if he likes one of us but we dont wont to ask him cuz we dont wont to hurt the others feelings. I flirt with him when i can but im always worrying about if she sees ...

She might be cheating, should I confront her or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

28 September 2008 (M) - me and my girl have been dateing for 2 years now but people keep telling me she is cheating on me and she gos to college so she nevver has time for me i dont know if i should belleve them and brake up with her or to just dropp it what should i do ...

I like my friend's boyfriend, he likes me too, now I'm wondering if I should tell her what happened or keep my mouth shut?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - ok heres my problem well my freind she has this boyfreind right so we were having this party and latley i have been having feelings towards her boyfreind but i figured that since she is dating him i keep my mouth shut so like were at the party an...

He's dating another girl because his friends want him too, but he wants me to wait for him. Should I?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5682 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - me and my boyfriend broke up like a week ago. he says it was cuz we argued to much and we did. but now he wants to be back with me but his friends want him to be with another girl and so he's confused an wants me to wait for him and her to break. ...

Is it wrong to love someone who's like a brother to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

27 September 2008 (F) - a cupple of months ago a really close friend told me he loved me, ive been brourght up with him pritty much all my life and we`re almost like brother and sister and both of our dads are really close too. hes 15 and ive just turned 18, ive had feel...

Do I tell my best friend that I am a lesbian and in love with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

27 September 2008 (F) - I'm not sure whether to risk the best friendship I've ever had. I'm pretty sure she's straight, but it's eating me up the idea of her with a man (or anyone else)! She is very confusing, and a lot of people have said to us that we are pretty much in ...

I'm happily engaged and want to help my ex with coping after recent divorce, but HOW, when both of us have a problem with impulse control with regards to one another??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5683 days ago

27 September 2008 (F) - Forgive me, this post is long, but I feel that there is information necessary so that people can answer my question. I am engaged. I am very happy in my current arrangement and have no wish to leave my fiance. With this being said I have also been...