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Friends: Help and advice

Major crush of my boyfriend's friend

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10 April 2009 (F) - I have a problem... I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years and everything is great except that I've developed a major crush on one of his best friends... they met a couple of years ago and my boyfriend told me that he thinks I'm hot (apparently he ...

Tips on being more attractive

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10 April 2009 (F) - i need tips on how to be more outgoing. because i have this freind who use to be a "nerd" untill i met her and i always use to be the pretty one now that i "made" her she is so goregous and her clothes are nice and her hair looks amazing.. i have to ...

Why would he tell me he masturbates to my picture?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - My male friend just confessed to me that he masturbates to my picture, should I be offended by this? (He has a girlfriend) What is he trying to say?...

My friend is annoying me so much at the moment, how do I deal with her?

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10 April 2009 (F) - I've been going out with this guy for 3 months and things are great between us and it was my best friend *Hannah who got us together in the first place cause she knew I liked him and wouldn't say anything to him about it so she told him and it ...

After his experimenting 7 years ago, I'm terrified my boyfriend might have sex with his best male friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - Firstly, my boyfriend has never given me a reason not to trust him - as far as I know, he's never cheated on me, or any of his partners. But, we where talking a few months ago, and I found out that when he was about 16, he had a gay relation...

I looked at her texts and I think my girlfriend is cheating on me

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10 April 2009 (M) - hi i have a girl friend and i think she is cheating on me the first thing that made me think that was i looked at her texts and it was one of her friends saying that she would set my girlfriend up with there male friend that they both know and th...

How do I tell him I am not into just fun but I want us to remain friends?

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10 April 2009 (F) - I have got myself into a situation at work with a guy. We have been flirting for about 2 years, he is always making sexual comments, we have never been out together but we get on, he has just never asked me out, last year he told me we wanted diff...

I told my crush of 6 years how I felt. Now I'm confused about what happened. Help me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

10 April 2009 (M) - I'm too lost now after what happened recently... I've been crushing on this girl for 6 years now, since I was 13 years old, freshmen in high school. She's the same age as I was, she is the most intelligent, quietest, absolutely beautiful girl I...

Am I a needy girlfriend?

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10 April 2009 (F) - I know most people define needy girlfriends as being too possessive; which I am not. However, I do try and get him to spend some time with me a lot. Thing is though, it never works. We're both in High School, so we dont have time consuming jobs yet...

I don't understand his interest in me

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10 April 2009 (F) - This co-worker of mine has been making eye contact with me and when we get into a conversation he seems like he wants to stick around. This conversation at first has been about work and work relate topics. Yesterday and today has been completely ...

I don't get this girl. Is she straight?

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10 April 2009 (F) - So there is this girl who I really like and I have been for quite a while. We've know each other for about two years but just started talking this year. Yesterday I told her I wanted to tell her something because it was bugging me. She guessed that...

I'm in love with two best friends

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10 April 2009 (F) - me and my bf (mr x) have been dating for 2 years but we broke up for 2 months and during that period i dated his best friend (mr k) although it was a long distance relationship i was happy, when ever mr x hurt me mr k was there to help keep me sain....

Please help. I feel so worthless and not wanted!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5506 days ago

10 April 2009 (M) - Hello guys, Basically, the background of this story is that my ex-girlfriend dumped me about 7 months ago last August. We've dated each other for 2 years and have known each other for a total of 4 years. I am a junior in college currently gr...

Fake or real friends or both on face book?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - i joined face book i think it was idea for me .because no write to you unless you have television or something. i joined face book a month and no body has added me as friend.there one guy who has been tv he has 191 friends.all because hes been tv t...

He said he liked me now he's ignoring me :-(

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - My guy friend told me that he liked me but I wasn't sure if he had a girlfriend or not so even though I happen to like him myself I was friendly to him but nothing more, I still stayed and had a chat and let him have my number too. He was texting...

Does it seem like he is going to ask me to be his gf?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - I like a guy. I have no idea why I like him. We don't have any mutual friends but we chat on msn everyday. Every week, we meet up 2-3 times, have dinner together and watch DVD movies afterwards. This has been going on for 2 weeks. Before this, fo...

Happy Easter!

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10 April 2009 (F) - I thought instead of posting a question on [troubled] relationship [issues], I thought I'd post something more upbeat ;-) So, I just wanted to post a short note to say "Happy Easter" this long weekend (Good Friday, Easter Monday/Bank Holi...

My FWB blurted out the "L" word. Should I just try to forget it or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - I've had a FWB relationship going on now for about 8 months. He is aware that I have seen other people...and I know he is too. My problem is that I have extremely intense feelings for him. I know he is aware of my feelings to a point. I have thou...

Please help. I cant stand not knowing, does he like me?

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10 April 2009 (F) - Hi. Me again. I really have to know if this guy likes me. Sorry if its long. Im 18, hes 25. Hes the youth leader at church. His cuz used to be but he dated and kinda used the gals so he aint anymore and now there is no dating allowed between the ...

So many differences between him and I. I am confused. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - hi friends, i need your help.i'm very much confused about my relationship with my friend. i'm 18years old. before 9 months i met a boy.we became close friends.i've never talked to any boys before tat. he's the first boy to whom i've talked oth...

How can I maintain my dignity and her respect for me in the work place after my failed approach for her?

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10 April 2009 (M) - Hi there. I was just wondering how a woman would like a man to conduct himself around her in the work place after he has made an approach and been rejected. He was not in the friend-zone at the time he made his approach and does not have very regu...

Male Teacher, Female Student and a Father-Daughter Relationship

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1668 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - I'm sorry for another one of these questions.. My philosophy/religion teacher is middle aged, and a very handsome man; but what has won me over most has been his confidence, down-to-earth demeanor and corky sense of humour. He has led an admir...

What kind of friendship is this I'm having with this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - I have a friend (guy) who after meeting him in person in a meeting, we've been in touch since for 2 years. We email each other, well mostly me. He's military so his time is a bit compromise. Even deployed we emailed. He's stationed in Va. and I'm in ...

I need female and male opinions about this, I really need advice, and badly.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - I don't wanna write my life story, but here's the deal. I grew up with a single mom who never dated and kept to herself all throughout my childhood. She never wanted to talk to me about guys, and when puberty hit I would try and mention crus...

I am thinking too much of this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - First off, last summer I visited my sister and her husband on a marine bass they lived at. I visited them for 2 months. I met a friend of theirs.. he liked me, I liked him. We even hooked up one night. It was the best haha. Anyway, he went to iraq...

My girlfriend doesn't seem to want to hang out with me anymore...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

10 April 2009 (M) - I am looking for advice from people that have been or are in long term relationships. I have been going out with this girl for 6 years now. We met in high school, I went away to college and we continued dating long distance, then she moved to the...

Is it worth starting up a long distance relationship?

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10 April 2009 (M) - Ok, so here goes. I met this girl last summer when I went to another city for a work term. She was really nice, we became friends and all but I never did ask her out because we were working together, and because I knew I would have to leave at the ...

I need your help, I'm so confused!

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10 April 2009 (F) - I really like this guy in med school and I have for a long time but I'm so confused. He's like the perfect guy and when I first saw him years ago I knew he was the one for me. Anyways I didn't think he was interested in me back then and it turns ...

I had a bad feeling I ruined the whole evening with this rejection

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10 April 2009 (F) - I live in Germany and travelled to Sweden (I travel there every second month because my Dad lives there)3 months ago... there, I met a guy and fell in love. I have been there for 2 weeks, we were seeing each other, doing things that couples ...

Really erm... distracted and confused!

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10 April 2009 (F) - Hey, I joined the university gym about 2 months or so ago, and since I joined I have been going every day at least 6 times a week because my gym closed down. When I was working out one day I saw the most gorgeous guy there, and as weeks have ...

I am scared of getting hurt again but feel like he is the right person for me.

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10 April 2009 (F) - I have been dating this guy but he lives in another town. I am very unsure of what he wants and I don't think he even knows. He tells me that he wants to move by me to work, but he wants to stay living where he is because that is where his family ...

He later apologized but I have yet to get over the betrayal of the whole evening.

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10 April 2009 (F) - Last night boyfriend and I were having wine after work at a nice place when a guy my b/f knew sat down next to me and started talking to him. I found him to be completely obnoxious but I tried to join in on their bantering but then the guy asked me ...

Is he just trying to make me jealous?

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10 April 2009 (F) - I've been friends with this guy since last semester and I started liking him since we joke around, talk and play around together a lot. I think he likes me back by the things he does such as: trying to get my attention all the time when I'm doing my ...

I'd happily spend the rest of my life with him. How do I know if he feels the same way about me?

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10 April 2009 (F) - There is this guy I really like, in fact I think I'm falling in love with him. I really want to be with him and spend a lot of time thinking about him, we speak daily over the phone so this is pretty unavoidable. I was really wondering whether I ...

Can anyone please explain this type of male behavior to me please.

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10 April 2009 (F) - I've known this man for almost 3 years now (he's almost 40). We broke up so many times but always got back together(I want to believe that he's a nice guy deep down and we have a strong connection). Last time I broke up with him because I was ...

He has a girlfriend but I'm getting mixed signals... Please help!

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10 April 2009 (F) - Theres this guy and he has a girlfriend but whenever I talk to him he NEVER says anything about her or even having a girlfriend but when I talk to her, all she talks about is him but when I went to our hangout he was just waving at me, so I waved ...