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Archived questions from: 15 April, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

I admitt I flirt but, I DO NOT love him!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - Okay so my buddy nick and I are talking like any old Convo, then he brings up our past relationship. We hated each other. I was mean to him but he loved me, when I had a boyfriend. He tried to break us up before but I forgave him. Then he says he ...

Trust issues with bi-sexuals and weed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5500 days ago

15 April 2009 (M) - Okay, well where to begin? There are so many different factors but they all lead to one thing, I have an incredibly hard time trusting my girlfriend. We have been dating for about 6 months now, and have known each other since September. ...

Now that he knows I fancy him he can hardly look at me, why is that?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - Hi, When someone finds out you fancy them why do they after act weird and not talk to you and when you're around they used to say Hello but now they hardly can't look at you for some reason? Why is that?...

It hurts me to see my FWB has moved on ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - i fell in love with my f**k buddy. i never wanted it to be f**k buddies i was totally into him! he lied to me and made me believe he wanted me to be his girl. He is now seeing someone new. He treats her like a proper gf not like how he treated me. ...

Confused- Mixed signals

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - I am almost 16 and I leave school in June. There is a guy i've known for 4 years. Recently i've developed feelings for him and can't get him out of my head. He keeps asking me for sex and I keep turning him down because of our age (he i...

Why now? I'm 25..what are these feelings all about now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - sorry to trouble everyone but i didnt know who to turn to. i am so confused! i have been straight for my whole life and never have i questioned it or given it another thought. i know quite a few people who have a different/mixed sexuality and i have ...

Forced to watch her in relationships right in front of me. HATING every second!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

15 April 2009 (M) - Almost a year ago I met a girl who I became instantly infatuated with. Unfortunately my feelings were never reciprocated and I have made the great mistake of befriending her, leaving me in what seems to be an impossible position. This girl has ...

This bartender at my local pub, does he like me, or not?

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15 April 2009 (F) - There is this man who works behind the bar at my local pub who asked me who's birthday it was when i was there last year celebrating my birthday on a saturday night and i told him it was mine next tuesday and he asked would i be coming in then to ...

I'm in love... but confused!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a long time now. I have stuck by him through a lot of problems he has had. He quit his job and is still unemployed. He drinks daily and has made it clear there is no way he will marry me anytime soon. ...

Does anyone out there think I am being selfish and ungrateful?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - I've been dating a man for about 2.5 years. I'm living with him as I had to give up my condo to enter alcohol rehab for a month. I maxed out all my credit cards to pay the $12K costs of treatment and am up to my ears in debt. Prior to this ...

Major crush on much older guy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - Hey. I was wondering if anyone could help me. I have a crush on this guy who is very much older than me but have a feeling he feels the same way. Here are a few things he does when I was last around him: 1. He keep's asking for hugs and kisses ...

Am I worrying too much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

15 April 2009 (M) - HELP!!! Ma friend hasnt been online for over a week i love her to pieces, she knows i love her, but i'm worried sick over her, she has been online once, only once, this week :( from the time i came back from holiday until now (sunday i came back and ...

He is recieving texts from "boobs"...do you think he is hiding something?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for 2 months now, and are very much in love. So much so that a lot of drama went down before we could be together, we had secretly been in love with each other for 6 months until he told me, he dumped his ...

How do you help someone who has just been diagnosed as HIV+ adjust?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

15 April 2009 (M) - My best mate J has always been there for me. For over ten years he has helped me as best he could, and I have helped him as best I can. For over a year J has been dating a wonderful person, M. M is HIV+. J knew the risks of this, J has dated a HI...

Fallen head over heels for a girl I can never be with!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

15 April 2009 (M) - I don't know where to begin. Im in my 20s and currently studying. I never really had a childhood or even anything during my teens. I've spent my entire life alone and isolated. However rescently my life is beginning to pick up. I made the most am...

My best friend is trying to steal my man!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - i liked this guy before that me and my friend were gonna meet up with and i showed her a picture of him and she was like oo hes nice i hope you two get together. When we were out she was getting in the middle of us dancing and kept whispering things ...

My boyfriend is giving up on his friends and spending all his time with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - I'm really worried i'm separating my boyfriend away from his friends. He seems to spend all his spare time with me, and he's never with them, and whenever I suggest it his response is always "I'd much rather spend my time with you" I'm flat...

Too old for a younger guy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - i like this guy who is 27 years old and i am 29 years old i feel i am too old for him.and he probably want younger pretty girl.not old hag like me.i would n,t him guys are shallow. hes has lots of female friends on face book about 50 female ...

I thought he likes me, but he keeps mentioning his ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5500 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - Hey there I hope u have a few mins this is quite a long one :-) Me and my boyfriend had quite a turbulent relationship for the last year(i was with him for a year) and we split up about 2 months ago. I got talking to a guy from uni, over the inter...

Should I stay single, or go back to my ex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years on 6th January, having cheated on him for the second time (when drunk still not an excuse). I am a terrible person and am trying to become better. I still think about him all the time, but he deserves better, ...

Never had first kiss at 20. Am I being stupid?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - hi.. i've still never been kissed like i've had kisses but i mean proper full on make out kind of kisses i've had like a few opportunities but when it comes too it i pull away or i look away because i feel too nervous and i'm not sure i want to do ...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - I'm 15 and so are 1 and my other male friend. At school me and my friends were playing around and one of my mates pushed me by accident I kind of tripped lol and I fell on this boy call him 1. When I fell on 1 he smiled and gazed into my eyes...

I don't want him to be friends with girls unless they are my friends too!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5500 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend doesn't really have much time for friends. But when he does, it seems that his guy friends have turned into ass holes..and he doesnt want to hang out with them. He started talking to a girl that he has been friends with for the past 4 ...

What exactly does he want from me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - hey i met this guy through a fiend on facebook..its been a year almost..this friend introduced him to me as in my email id first we chatted and then in few weeks he took my number..since then until now he calls me constantly and is been in touch,he ...

Was my agreeing to have sex too fast?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - so ive had a crush on this guy for about 7 months now. He's always asked me to hang out after a party or something but ive always said no in some way. I rejected him a good 3 times. After a month of not talking because we were on spring break and ...

I see my FWB once a week, is that too much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - do you think seeing an FWB about once a week is too much? i've been in this type of relationship with a guy who i dated for two months and then we decided it would be best to keep it casual. the thing is, i worry am i pushing too much if i ke...

I just watched When Harry Met Sally and am now worried about my gf's best friend...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

15 April 2009 (M) - Hello, I just watched the movie "When Harry Met Sally" and am now a little concerned. My gf's best guy friend is someone whom she has been involved with. It ended on a very awkward note for them, but they have remained good friends since. ...

How to change my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - I am 21 and i think that i wont do anything valuable in my life because i have problems with luck..although i am highly educated i have no job and i am very frightened that best i will do is to stay housewife and i want more...how to change my life?...

My best friend is in danger of taking the wrong road. Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - Ok,So my Best Friend is a guy,we will call him "JT". He is a senior in high school,he has gotton straight A's since he was little. Has a 4.0. He comes from a family of six sisters and two brothers,a mom who constantly works,and a verbally abusive ...

In love with best friend's x g/f

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

15 April 2009 (M) - so im in love with my best friends ex-girlfriend. the hard part is, me and her are also bestfriends.Lately, ive been hella jealous and annoyed everytime she talks about him or when she tells me stuff that they do because they're not supposed to be ...

Confused! She gives hints that she wants to date..but then I don't know!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - okay so this girl started talking to me and i started talking to her.she has been through alot and has a baby and her ex boyfriend beat her up..i was just trying to be a freind and help her out.then we would talk more and more evryday like almost 8 ...

I wanna meet this girl!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

15 April 2009 (M) - I walked into a record store a few weeks ago, and one of the girls working there was very beautiful, and she actually noticed a band t-shirt I was wearing and told me something about them, and then I left because I was with a friend and he was on a ...

What are the sort of signs she'd be giving me if she liked me too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

15 April 2009 (M) - It sounds really silly but here goes. There is this girl I think I love, we are friends but live in different states and speak every single day be it online or over the phone, we used to live in the same town but she moved away... we've been seeing ...