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Archived questions from: 8 April, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

My best friend likes my crush too!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3999 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - Today I found out that my best friend likes my Crush! I'm really sad because she dosnt know that I like him and she was telling me how much she likes him. and I know she is way prettyer thani am and I love her and I always try to he...

I'm being blamed for a rumor starting!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - my friend hacked into my freinds account and saw that she was bi becasue she asked questions like i think im bi .....ect well anyways she told me and a few other people that she was bi and the rumor spread and everyone is blaming me saying i started ...

They say horrible things about me making me feel totally unloved and unattractive!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - Heyy. i'm probably being stupid but well i just feel really self- concious and unconfident. well i have a bit of a slutty past and i admit that but a few of my friends constantly call me a whore etc and won't let it drop about my past and who've i...

Are we just friends? Why do we act the way we do then?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5507 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - Hi. I met a guy online about 4 months ago. We chatted and finally met in person. Since then we email each other everyday, the whole day, text everyday when one or the other is out of the country, when he comes into town (he lives faraway) we always ...

Still love my first love - but I have a new boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - Hello, Here is my situation: I am 19. Back in June, I was very very close to taking back my first love We had been together for 3 years, he broke my heart very badly, and it took a year to forgive him. But in this past summer, I felt h...

My chat friend - nice and gorgeous in person - wants to hook up and be friends. But he has a gf already.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - There this guy that has been texting me emailing me for over a year now! We've never met just chatted online. Weve never got together cos ive kinda been getting over a relationship.then i was single and he wasn't.he was single i wasn't! Anyway hes ...

He refuses counseling. What shall I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - Dear Agony Aunts, I am 28 years old and I've been married to the ove of my life for almost 2 years with a 1 year old son. We've known each other for almost 11 years and he's mostly been a good person. But for the last six months we've been ha...

My buddy's dating a nut job because the sex is amazing

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

8 April 2009 (M) - My buddy is dating this really messed up girl. They have some really good highs but some bad lows. It's extremely draining for him and he puts up with a lot and I know why he does: The sex is really good. He's got some particular "pref...

Was I just a FWB or a Plan B only?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

8 April 2009 (M) - It has been a while since I’ve been here at Cupid asking questions mainly because other than sorting out my life I haven’t been in any sort of relationship to have any issues. Its a bit long... But quite interesting... And there’s quite a bit of ...

What if I get horny in the school shower amongst other boys? Will it ruin my reputation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

8 April 2009 (M) - okay next year ill be entering the world of high, wich is pretty scary, especially because im going to try out for the footballl team...and if your in gym or an athletic team it's required to take a shower..ad the thing is i get horny when i ...

In love with two women

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5507 days ago

8 April 2009 (M) - Ok, Well i'm Scared to admit it I am in love with to girls I have known one for about lets say 7 months and the other about 3-4 maybe 5 months total the first woman lets call her (awkwardkitty) and the one I know less (jynxy) please note these are ...

I'm very concerned about my flatmate: her boyfriend cheats on her all the time!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - Hi Everyone, This is sort of on behalf of my flatmate. I'm really worried about her and her relationship. She's 21 and leaving uni this year, and for the past 4 years on and off, has been with her boyfriend who treats her like a doormate. They w...

I left him, after he hit me (and other problems). Did I do the right thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - im a 21year old girl im very confused.my past is very hard, i had a baby 2 years ago with the guy i loved and shortly after my baby was born she passed away due to an illness. since then me and my partner have been helping each other get through ...

Is it in poor taste for my friend to ask for money via a website?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - Is it in poor taste to ask for money via a website? a few days ago, a "mature in age" friend of mine that I have not talked with in about three months sent me and all of his friends one of those collection pages (Fundable.com) asking for money. ...

Does he have feelings for me? All the signs are there!

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8 April 2009 (F) - I'm a sophomore in high school and I met a guy when I first moved here and have know him for almost two years. We get along well, but he's always been less social than I am. I've recently started talking to him more again, and I've never been mor...

If it's platonic, why say that he loves me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5508 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - I'll try to keep this brief and not include every detail of the past three years... I started seeing an older guy at the end of my master's degree. I got a job and moved away. Then when he graduated with his doctorate he moved to the same area...

Whats the game plan here with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5507 days ago

8 April 2009 (M) - My ex of two years split sometime ago, I found out she was seeing someone else. There have been ups and downs between us, and we have never quite had closure. She has played games with me. Anyway she recently has started to show an interest in w...

I'm going to Spain but I am scared of not being accepted.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - I'm not sure what category this fits into, but I guess it's the friends category? I certainly don't mean to be offensive but I'm curious about how people in Spain view Americans? (North Americans, as in people from USA) I've always dreamed of ...

Did I give my best friend the right advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - Ok so my best friend is having a Big problem... she likes this guy. She and this other girl were competing for his attention/ being his GF. Anyways it turns out he was deciding between the two of them and before he could the other girl made the firs...

Does he just want me me for company and sex? What is in his mind?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - My story is a little complicated . I married very early and I am 26 and we separated now. I met a guy last year and became crazy for him in a short time , he is 35 and just broke up with his ex at that time. He said he likes me very much and we h...

Wait for him in Iraq or move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - So I've been friends with this guy for almost four years now. He is so attractive and has had a power over me from the moment I met him. But due to complicated situations (both being in relationships, college, he joined the army, etc) we have never ...

How do I tell him how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - I have a boy-trauma situation that I don't quite know how to handle and am hoping someone can help..... A few months ago, I moved in in with a male friend of mine who I've known for about 8 years (we are both in our early 30s). I have always b...