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Archived questions from: 11 April, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

Saturday night and I'm sitting in!!! Why don't I have any close friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - I need help trying to understand why I don't have any friends. Here it, is a Saturday and I'm at home with nothing to do... I'm not sure why this is... I've had friends in the past, but every since I changed my life (no smoking weed, drinking, ...

Confused about bad guys!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - I'm having an issue with a guy who flirted with me like crazy. He would call me sexy and hot and cute and he would make me feel really good about myself even though I knew that this guy uses girls he talks to, I kept flirting back. He did this to ...

I am 38, she is my 20 year old student

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

11 April 2009 (M) - I(38) was having a drink in a bar in late November of last year. At around 12, a young lady enters wearing decorative antlers (Christmas was in the air) on her head. Very pretty (Veronica, 20) and she seemed to be good friends with the waitress. D...

How do I focus more attention on her without being too obvious?

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11 April 2009 (M) - I'm having a bit of difficulty. It's a really silly issue really, but I'd appreciate some advice from someone more experienced in relationships. Basically, I'm interested in this girl in my class who's several years younger than me. The problem ...

My Ex's Words are killing me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

11 April 2009 (M) - My Ex-girlfriend said that I'm not good enough to have new girlfriend and after she started telling me how many guys asking her out after she broke up with me. She said that she can have any boyfriends anytime she wants. Why did she tell me how cool ...

How to get her feet up again? I am at lost here.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5498 days ago

11 April 2009 (M) - I have known her for more than a year. Three or four months ago she broke off with her bf and she felt very sad. Now she looks like back to normal self but she seemed change in her behaviour. Nowadays she often looks for new guys to go out and meet...

How do I know he fancies me? Help! Before I make a complete fool of myself!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5503 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - i v met this guy but at the moment were just friends, he lives in Ireland and me in the u.k . he came over to with a football a few months ago and we met o a night out had a laugh together etc. anyway he emailed to say he was trying to get last...

Signs when someone is gay??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - I think my friend could be gay. What are the signs that he is?...

I like "M" but I think he likes "J". I feel betrayed. Ask or move on??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - Hello Everybody, First of all thank you for your consideration and for the time you'll spend reading and answering my questions. I like a classmate, well it's more than just liking him ! His name is "M". Last week we spent 2 nights together ...

I am always worried about people commenting on my weight. What do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - My ex-family in law used to publicly mock me about my bodyweight (that I am too thin, anorexic, look terrible etc etc) and it used to really upset me - in fact it was relentless. Fact is I have been 5'6 and 8 stone 10 for as long as I can remember - ...

Soo many questions. I just want to be happy again. Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - Hello, My name is "LS", and I have a couple of questions that I'd like you all to shed some light on. So here is the background story. In 2007 I met this really wonderful person in London and we really hit it off and dated for 4 months. Then...

I'm a social misfit with no friends. What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - how do make friends.because i have no friends.people can be snobby to me.i don,t know how to have fun either.i never had a friends in school or collage or at sport.i don,t have great appearance either. 28 years old and i can,t fit in with people i...

Help!!! ...when it came to it I was like a rabbit in headlights!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5504 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - I don't know what I am doing, there is a guy I work with whom I have been attracted to since I first saw him, we have been flirting for a couple of years (yes years) we finally snogged but I was rubbish I completely froze (my hands were shaking and ...

Are we allowed to go out seeing as I'm only 13?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

11 April 2009 (M) - Am 13 and I want to date a 15 year old girl named Sarah, are we allowed to go out? I know she loves me and she knows I love her. Please help me? Are we allowed to go out???...

Should I do it... or wait?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - I met this guy on the internet a few months back. We emailed back and forth for a few weeks then finally exchanged numbers. Let me just point out that he is quite possibly everything I have ever wanted in a man, yet never really believed I would ...

I mean if he was that interested he would have asked me out by now, right?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - I have got myself into a situation at work with a guy. We have been flirting for about 2 years, he is always making sexual comments, we have never been out together but we get on, he has just never asked me out, Last year he told me we wante...

Is this a break? Or his way of saying goodbye?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I just recently broke up... or took a break... or something in between? We were together for 2 years. well recently things had become really bad with fighting and crap so we decided to like not talk for a week to sorta clear our ...

What tips can I give him to de-stress?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - Hi, I need some advice, this amazing guy keeps texting me (flirting) which is great, however, he has recently sent me one saying that he needs to de-stress and have I got any ideas to help him out!!! I am quite shy and I am not sure how to reply, I ...

Do you think he's met some other girl and doesn't want to tell me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5504 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - I can't figure out if this guy likes me or not. It is long distance but he used to call me all of the time. We have only hung out like five times in the last four months. He had me meet his family and once he was texting me and said that I love you. ...

Whereever I go, whatever I do, I always seem to get bullied.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - Where every I go, what ever I do, I always seem to get bullied. Every job that I have every had has involved someone trying to make my working conditions difficult. I can remember as far back as when I was 18 in my first job. I am very smart...

I'm worried about my friend. He may be depressed. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5504 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - I have a friend. We are in fact very close. Lately he's been stressed and apparently his first year of college isn't going too great. But he's turn to pain killers to make it all better. I looked up the ones he told me he was taking and the red flag...

We told each other we're soul mates but we aren't together and now there's someone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5504 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - This is going to be really long sorry!!! Im in love with my best friend,lets call him Dan.. we live together and a few months back when we were both 'under the influence' we admitted that we loved each other and think we're soul mates......

Should I write him a note?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - Hey there! So there's this boy, he's only a year older than me (or so..) and I met him in my art class at the beginning of the semester. He now sits at my table with my two good friends and we have a lot of fun as a group. I like him, a lot, but...

Who should I choose? T, L, or W?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - i'm really confused about my feelings: there are 3 guys: "T"- amazing and such a lovely guy he's helped me through a lot and is hot as! but he's 17 "L" - he's 16 and is such a good mate i felt like i loved him but we've changed he's still amazi...

Do I tell him that it's better to go our separate ways, or tag along and feel guilty?

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11 April 2009 (M) - Help, I am 23 and I am bi,I met a guy older than me 37 through a local chat site, and on his profile it said looking for fun, so i thought that would be ok, because nothing would materialize thru this and that nothing would happen, eventually we had ...

To call/write or not to call/write

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - Hello, I feel to old to be asking a question like this, but here goes... On Wednesday evening I was at an exhibition opening in my home city (in Italy), I have recently broken up with my boyfriend and this particular evening I was finally feeling ...

2 questions: 1 on my best friend on her b/f and 1 on my b/f

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - ok, so this is kind of two questions in one. to start off with my best friend and her bf have been together for about 4 or 5 months now, and they're getting quite serious. they've not had sex yet but she's been asking me and my other friend to get ...

Does she still feel anything for me? Help!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

11 April 2009 (?) - Ok. I've been very persistent with this girl that I feel I love and I sort of did her wrong a long time ago. But I've held out the hope that she will eventually forgive me and care enough to get with me. I send her letters every now and then. And ...

Any chance for the future?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5504 days ago

11 April 2009 (M) - I have been friends with this girl and her boy friend now for at least 8yrs they broke up and 2 month's later were now having sex and spending a lot of time together. I find my self starting to want more but she wants to be single now which i ...

We're just still in the friendly zone but he keeps on hinting at things.... so what do I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5504 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - There's been a lot of misunderstanding between me and this guy I like... and I don't know if I should leave things to him now. Around a month ago, we were close and I just seemed to click with him. He flirted, I flirted back blahblah.. it se...

How to make him realise what hes lost if he likes me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - there's this guy I've known for about 4 months, we've been cinema, he came to my party and we kissed and cuddled for ages, and we've bumped into each other at the bus stop sometimes but hardly ever. We get on so well, but all we ever do is speak on...

I want her, but does she want me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - Im confused.I work at a pretty big supermarket and Ive always stared at someone I work with,problem is shes turning 25 and im not turning 16 till the end of the year.I think there is something there cause she always stares at me and when we talk she ...

Is he using me when he's bored?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5504 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - So Heres The Thing... im 15 I liked this guy 4 nearly 8 months lets called him Mr X i had tried to talk to him but was never successful never new what to say so it would just be hows you wot have you been up to on msn sort of thing. I soon r...

I'm too pissed at my boy friend/best friend. Please just help me out!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5504 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - its too long but please please help me out!!ill but soo thankful..!! hey its being too ridiculous for me now-a-days.. it goes this way..im 20 yrs n doing my engineering. i have a classmate who never talks with any gal.but since ma 2nd yea...

I just can't figure out if he likes her or me..or what?

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11 April 2009 (F) - He used to flirt with me last year but not so much this year. I'm not sure if he still likes me cause he still stares. If not staring, frequent glances. But he's quite close with this new girl and he waits for her bus and walks her to her class...

How do you make friends when you don't fit it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

I'm 15 and really pickkyy

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11 April 2009 (F) - i'm 15 and really pickkyy.i flirt wit guys its no big deal but the minute i find out that they like me in my mind i'm always like (beep beep beep backing up) and i don't know why...i never had a boyfriend i dont want to tell anyone that because ...

I cant figure him out. Is he a player?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5505 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - hi i'm 15 and im a sophmore in hs.. i like this guy in my class i think he likes me too but idk why he acts so weird around me..i dont get him so my only solution is this..please dont say i'm too young cuz i'm sick of that crapp.. this guy in my cl...

Do guys behave like this when they want more than friendship or just friendship ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - a guy flirted with me non verbal... but I did not give in right away. after some days he became my friend. but I would not speak to him. because he too would just look not talk to me. i then eventually backed off. certain days he would brush agai...

My fiance may be in love with a 16 year old?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - Back in Nov. My fiance and I had some issues. We play an online game. The game is mostly populated by young teens. Well he started to spend alot of time in game with a girl who I found out was 15. He was spending so much time with her that he was ...

I get pushed out of the picture so she can be with her girlfriends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

11 April 2009 (M) - I'm so freaking sick of my girlfriend pushing me off to do something else with her friend. What makes it lousy is her "friend" isn't much of one and uses her constantly. My girlfriend even knows that herself. Yet she still crawls up her butt ...

2 girls--I like them both but if I go into a relationship with one, will I lose the other?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

11 April 2009 (M) - There are 2 girls i really like one lives local and one lives 200 miles away. The one who lives 200 miles away i get on with so well and were both really good friends but I'm also really good friends with the girl who lives local now i don't want to ...