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Archived questions from: November, 2005 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

Could I have contracted HIV when a colleague grabbed my hand?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6719 days ago

30 November 2005 (M) - Hi I need some serious advice and some light on this subject. I just found out that a collegue of mine has HIV, and she told me that she is taking all the medication, I have become so paranoid about it that its driving me insane, obviously I know...

I couldn't handle my friend being with someone else. Now he seems to be chasing me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6719 days ago

30 November 2005 (F) - Last year I had a roommate and we became incredibly close. Nothing ever happened "technically" but we basically spent all of our time together and a lot of people thought we were together. The problem is he has a girlfriend on the other side of ...

He is affectionate and touches me...does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6708 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - i have started to like my m8s boyfriends brother who is single- we have becum good m8s the last couple of months- we txt sumtimes but he hates the fone he barely uses it- im always the one to txt 1st- wen we see each other the weekend u no when ...

I want to be with her...what should I do so we don't miss this chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6717 days ago

29 November 2005 (M) - I can not stop thinking about a girl who I have become very close friends with. We talk every day, at length, and it seems so right. I have told her how I feel, and her response was that she is attracted to me, but having just got out of a recent ...

My husband spends time with our female friends without me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6719 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - My husband goes out and spends time with our female single friends with out me, at night for hours. I am not a jealous type but they show him the sexy underwear they buy and fawn all over him. Is it fair for me to be upset with them for crossing ...

Could my friend be interested in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6717 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - A guy that I'm just friends with was telling me a whole bunch of stories from when he was in highschool. I was curious to know when these events occured so I innocently asked him when he graduated from highschool. Well it turned out to be the same ...

My mate is supposed to be getting married, even though he's flirting with an old flame!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6720 days ago

27 November 2005 (F) - Hi! I'm hoping for some advice because I'm worried about my friend. Basically he's engaged to this woman that he's been seeing for about a year and they are due to get married early next year. When I spoke to him he was really enthusiatic saying t...

We hug and cuddle a lot but just how physically affectionate should best friends be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6555 days ago

26 November 2005 (F) - Okay...so I'm a teen and i got a crush on my best friend and she knows it..and she was a tease but then she started to kinda stumble too. i mean she doesnt like me like that but it was almost because of the mystery that it made us seem to think of ...

My best friend is dating and now ignores me. It's very upsetting so am I over reacting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6721 days ago

26 November 2005 (F) - hiya, i have been best mates with this girl for 3 and a half yrs and we get on really well and have a laugh. but this all ended when she started dating this boy. she has left me on my own for hours standing in the cold because she is to busy with ...

We were seeing each other just for sex and pleasure...now I've fallen in love with him! Do I tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6723 days ago

26 November 2005 (F) - Mike and I have been friends for 10 years. Over the past year, we have been with each other for sex and pleasure. Neither of us has seen other people and because we are both work-a-holics, we try to get together whenever we can. I am very much in ...

What do I do about my horrible best friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6722 days ago

25 November 2005 (F) - my best friend is recently being horrible to me and being bitchy. i don't even feel like going to school because of her.what shall i do?...

Can we be more than friends or has she gone off me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6725 days ago

24 November 2005 (M) - This girl who I am good friends with made it obvious that she liked me and told me not to hold back. So I asked her out but then she went all funny about it and said she liked me a lot but she doesn't want a boyfriend at the moment and that we are ...

Do I tell him how I feel or should we just remain friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6725 days ago

24 November 2005 (F) - Hello there, I am a new user, so this feels a little weird! But here goes... I'm a 33-year old female and entered into a new relationship in May after a 2-year "gap of singlehood". Things were wonderful to begin with and I genuinely thought I'd...

What is it that my friend wants? He says he doesn't want to move to the next level, but he's mad 'cause we don't have sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6724 days ago

24 November 2005 (F) - I'm very confused. I've been friends with this guy for about four months now. Last month I asked are we going to remain friends or are we going take our friendship to the next level. He told me he doesn't know what he wants to do. I was fine with ...

He hates his ex and just wants to be friends...I want more!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6726 days ago

23 November 2005 (F) - We have a strong emotional connection and both clearly like each other, but he has such a bitter hatred for his ex that he cant get over. They were together for three years and she cheated on him so they broke up this summer. Since then, we have ...

Does he like me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6726 days ago

22 November 2005 (F) - Ok, i have a question, i'd make it as quick as possible. I'm single, n i've been single for almost 5 yrs. i know, i dun believe it either. The thing is, I tend to have high standards on guys. Well there are guys who like me, it isn't that I have ...

We both have had problems in dating... so I can't tell. Is James as interested as I am?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6729 days ago

19 November 2005 (F) - I am a 33 year old single female- and I will be the first to admit- I am horrible at reading other people or understanding affairs of the heart (I’m a research scientist- therefore most of my thinking is overly analytical- I will confess). I have...

I want to say something and tell him how I feel!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6724 days ago

19 November 2005 (F) - I have a very close boy mate at university, and we have been friends since first year, attended the annual ball together etc. In first year I told him I liked him but things went rubbish and we fell out before I found out what he felt. Then l...

My friend got back with her bad-news boyfriend - then disappeared!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6730 days ago

18 November 2005 (F) - My best friend has this boyfriend whom I've warned her from the beginning is bad news. He verbally abuses her and is beyond jealous. She cant even hang out with me when my boyfriend is there. I randomly leave papers about abuse and help in her ...

She's married with kids and not in love with me, but I want more!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6724 days ago

18 November 2005 (M) - Hi. I am a single 20 yr old Male. I am in love with a woman who is 40 yrs old. She is married with kids. But I am worried because we are best friends and have been for nearly 2 years now. I am certain she is not in love with me. But I want more. I ...

I'm not looking forward to Thanksgiving with my boyfriend's twin...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6728 days ago

17 November 2005 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 5 years. We have a one year old daughter together. We have had our good times, and we have also had a lot of bad times. I love him so much. And I believe he loves me too. But he shows it in a ...

Why would my mate say such mean things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6731 days ago

16 November 2005 (F) - Hey people, I met my best mate 2 years ago and our personalities clicked instantly. Even though I've never thought of him as a bf I still love him to pieces as a friend, and he feels the same way about me. *Jamie and I are the kinda mates that don...

I'm confused by what seem to be his conflicting messages to me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6728 days ago

16 November 2005 (F) - Can anyone give me a clue as to what might be going on? This guy, a senior person at work, has been having a tough time so I used to jolly him along, sending him supportive emails. When we are alone he always seems welcoming and friendly and has ...

I worry about my girlfriend's best friend's influence on her...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6733 days ago

16 November 2005 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been together for 5 months and everthing is okay, but she refers a lot of things to her best friend. It is okay but the fact her best friend isn't a very good best friend really annoys me and I feel she isn't very ...

He lied to me and continued his friendship with the other girl...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6734 days ago

15 November 2005 (F) - My BF of 7 years insists on continuing his friendship with a female friend even though it makes me extremely angry and hurt. He began this friendship about 3 years ago and I was bothered by it due to the overly inappropropriate flirtatious nature ...

What do I do when my friend says he loves me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6734 days ago

15 November 2005 (F) - My best mate has recently told me he loves me and I don't know how I feel about him because I love him to bits - but as a friend. Wwhat shall I do?...

Our mutual friends still talk to me about my ex and I don't need to know what he's doing!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6732 days ago

15 November 2005 (F) - Hello! I’m having a problem with my ex-boyfriend. We broke up 5 months ago and have only talked like 3 times within it. The last time we talked we got into a huge fight and that was 2 months ago and haven’t talked since. Within the 5 months h...

We hang out together, but we don't go on "dates"...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6098 days ago

15 November 2005 (F) - I'm a 25 year old female who's been dating James for about two months. We've gone on a few dates here and there, but mostly we just hang out (he comes over, or we hang out in groups). I have been iritated lately because he doesn't take me on ...

Did our forgettable sex together completely ruin our friendship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6024 days ago

14 November 2005 (F) - Hi! Since I've been at uni my best mate has been this guy called W. We've always been quite touchy feely cuddly kind of thing, but I've never actually really fancied him as such. One night when I was round at his place we were having a laugh an...

My friend says he's in love with me, but I just don't find him attractive...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

14 November 2005 (F) - Hi! I was just looking for some advice on the following problem, it's something I've been trying to figure out for a while now. I'm 17, and I have a close male friend who says he's in love with me. Apparently he has felt this way for a few years ...

My workmate follows me around, always asking what I'm doing!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6726 days ago

14 November 2005 (F) - I think a guy that I work with may really fancy me, but he does not like to show it. He follows me around, is constantly asking what I am doing (even when it is obvious!), how I am, and sometimes even critisises my work jokingly. It is not as ...

I made the right choice splitting from my ex... but I wonder what to do about my attraction to his best mate!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6735 days ago

14 November 2005 (F) - I recently split up with my boyfriend of 2 years on good terms just after we had both started at University. We both felt too young to remain in a long-distance relationship, and both hope to remain friends despite the split as we have a lot of ...

Just as our friendship is starting to tail off, I think I'm in love with her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6735 days ago

14 November 2005 (M) - I have this friend, and we've been friends for a long time now. We became really close and since the first day I met her I seemed to like her. She then moved away from town and we've kept in touch, and we're slowly losing contact, I barely talk to ...

Crush on a visitor to my workplace. Don't know what to do about it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6735 days ago

13 November 2005 (F) - I am currently single and have developed a huge crush on a consultant who comes into my office regularly. We get on very well but I am too shy to enquire about his relationship status or to ask him out. Any tips?...

My co-worker keeps her attraction to me a secret, but not her flirtations with other men...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6736 days ago

12 November 2005 (M) - I am interested in a woman at work who has given me cause to believe that she is interested in me as well. This has been going on for several months and I have specifically told her how I feel about her. There are definite feelings being shared and ...

I love my best friend, but she doesn't want me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6686 days ago

11 November 2005 (M) - How do I get over loving my best friend? We have been doing stuff together for over a year and I told her I loved her but she doesn't feel the same way. Now she is trying to do everything to show me that we can never be together. When I ask her what ...

The timing was terrible. Her crush on me ended before I got interested in her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6738 days ago

11 November 2005 (M) - I recently found out my best friend had a crush on me about 3 months ago. Now I have a crush on her but from everything I can tell I think it's too late. What should I do?...

Don't want to tell him how strongly I feel about him, because I might lose our friendship entirely...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6739 days ago

10 November 2005 (F) - I still have feelings for an ex-boyfriend I was with 5 years ago. After the breakup, we have kept in contact and became closer than we were when together. He is now my best friend who knows everything. He has a girlfriend, in which he says very ...

It seems like my friends would rather be with each other than all of us together!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6437 days ago

10 November 2005 (F) - I am female, and have 2 close female friends. These friendships started off separately, with both girls not really knowing each other. These friendships have now merged into one group of 3 friends. Lately i have been feeling as though the ot...

I have no friends and I want to learn to be a more likeable person...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6631 days ago

9 November 2005 (F) - How can I become a likeable person? God, I feel like such a weirdo writing this but I've always been a bit different. I'm a pretty, nice, intelligent girl but I've always been a bit of a loner. I'm an only child and both my parents were killed i...

Should I try again, even though she says she just likes me as a friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6739 days ago

8 November 2005 (?) - I have fallen for this girl who I am just starting to be friends with. I asked her out and she turned me down because she likes another guy and she only sees me as a friend. However I know she can do better then the other guy because he is a bit of ...

My roommate and I are attracted to each other, but neither of us knows what to do next!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6741 days ago

8 November 2005 (F) - I am a thirty one year old attractive female who recently had a twenty-nine year old male move in with me as a roommate. It has only been a couple of months but I have very strong feelings for him and want to become more than friends and/or ...

Had unprotected sex with a close friend and now I have a genital disease!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6740 days ago

8 November 2005 (F) - There is this guy that I have known all my life. My best friend is his cousin and my close friend is his cousin, plus when I was younger, he lived across the road from me. When we got into high school, we became friends (social) and we got along we...

How do I best help my self-harming friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6741 days ago

8 November 2005 (F) - I have a friend, that means the world to me. She has been there for me, when I needed help the most, but this time I can't ask her to help me, because it involves her. My friend suffers from major depression, and she was seeing psychologist for...

I helped set up two friends; they got married and moved away. Now he's back in touch...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6688 days ago

7 November 2005 (F) - I'm in an utter state and I just need an outside perspective. About 2 years ago I met a really lovely girl on holiday, we stayed friends when we came home and she told me all about the problems, the man one was the guy she wanted who we'll just ...

Should I just tell my friend that she doesn't NEED a boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6740 days ago

7 November 2005 (F) - Ok, my best friend gets attached so easily to every guy she thinks has good qualities. The newest guy ended up being a complete jerk, and now her self-esteem is crap. Our last conversation: "I'm fat, I'm ugly, and that's why no guy wants to be ...

What makes me keep falling for my best friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6718 days ago

5 November 2005 (M) - Hi, I'm a 19 year old student and I've never been in a proper relationship. My best friend was a girl who recently moved away, and the person who I'm closest to now is another girl. I've known her for just over a year but now we've become a lot ...

I have the dirt on my friend's cheating wife. Would it help to tell him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6742 days ago

5 November 2005 (F) - I just found out that my best guy friend's wife has been cheating on him. I've never liked her because she treats him like dirt. She is ten years older than him and has two grown kids from another marriage. Her kids are drug addicts and have ...

We're friends and we flirt over the phone. He just won't get serious with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6744 days ago

5 November 2005 (F) - Hello, I love your advice column, and I read it weekly. I am a single woman, no kids and I'm 24. There's this guy I've known for a long time (it's been years) We dated on and off, but never seriously. I really care about him a lot. He was in t...

I was too shy to tell my friend how I felt about her, and she said Yes to someone else...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5926 days ago

5 November 2005 (M) - I have an urgent question and in dire need of some help. I have been hanging out with this girl for a couple of weeks now and she is single as am I and we just totally clicked with each other we spend most of the time talking to each. People also ...