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Archived questions from: September, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

He liked my best friend better...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - I met a guy at a party. typical story i know. he's a friend of a friend and we felt an instant connection. i'm very shy when it comes to boys and have very little experience. my past boyfriends have not been great and i was hoping for a fresh start. ...

Why can't he see that we're perfect for each other?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - Why can’t he see that we are perfect for one another? My guy friend and I have been friends for more than a year. We get along and finish each others sentences sometimes. He always brings up a teacher that I don’t like and he does just so we can ...

Giving it a try again with the ex, only now he's gone distant again after his friends saw me out with my girlfriends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5315 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - Hi, i dont know what to do im so confused.... i got back wid my ex and i think he is doing the same as he did before useing me... when we first met back up it was so good to see him again we had a few drinks and a chat he cudnt stop saying sorr...

If she's not in love with him anymore, why is our love so wrong?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - I have fallen completely in love with my best friend's husband and I don't know how to stop it. It has been going on for over nine months. I love my best friend, but knowing her and him I know they have been having lots of problems (for years). They ...

How do I get over my insecurities about (not) dating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - I used to joke a lot with my best friends about growing old together as cackling cat ladies, and how we'd all live in a string of houses on adjacent properties and sit on our porches with shotguns in our laps, terrorising the neighbourhood children. ...

Can anyone make any sense of this???

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

30 September 2009 (M) - I am in desperate need of advice. I began seeing this girl back in the winter of 2007. We became official before christmas of 07 on the phone when she was in her hometown. She called me and asked me what we were because some guy was 'chasing her...

Am I going to have to start fighting in order to defend myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

29 September 2009 (M) - I have 2 problems. In my gym class i have boys that like to pick on people. They don't mean it but they play to much. Its this boys who hits on me constantly real hard and i let it slide and ignore him but he will keep doing it. I'm a person who ...

He knows I like him so why hasn't he developed feelings for me yet?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - Hello :D okay so I have been close friends with a guy for a few months now, at one point I liked him, I told him, he said he loved me, but only as a close friend. I then moved on with him, which I was really happy about. I moved onto other guys and...

He cant get over his ex fiancee and wont let me in

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

29 September 2009 (M) - okay, so my boyfriend and i broke up 4 days ago. This is a really confusing story - so try to stick with me... I moved back to my home town, after living in the city for 3 months, and when i got home, my bestfriend - Whitney* and i hung out ...

We just broke up and he's dating my best friend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - So, i need some help. My and my boyfriend of 6 months just broke up and now he's dating my best friend. I have to see him with her everyday since i have no other social connections. We broke up saturday while she was over at his house they started ...

How can I get out of this without ruining relationships or breaking anybody's heart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - their is a boy [friend] and we a kinda way involved..and we know each other for 2 years now. and it have been a while now i have been flirting with his friend. [like really sexy flirting] and my friend told me he don`t want to share me with anyone. ...

Misunderstanding between me and a friend keeps getting worse!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - hi i was really good friends with this boy in my class and we used to have fun hanging out tgether. We were reasonably close for about a month but then suddenly on monday, i went to school and i felt like he was cold shouldering me. I thought ...

She's always breaking my heart chosing other guys over me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

28 September 2009 (M) - I was best friend with this girl for 2 years. Eventually I fell in love and confessed. But she turned me down and started dating the guy I hate the most. Now, the guy dumped her 5 months ago (they latest 2 months together). Through it all ...

No more xxx on his texts

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - I've been txting a boy I know for the past few months. After the 1st few times he started adding xxx's at the end. Around that time my friend also hinted to me that he fancied me. But I never put xxx's at the end of texts. And now he doesn't do it ...

I'm obsessed with my teacher and its ruining both of our lives!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - For the past 2 years i have been obsessed with a female teacher and it is really affecting BOTH are lives. I think its an obsession not love, because i dont want to kiss her or anything like that- i just want to be with her all the time. I l...

I want to change my lifestyle and have friends but I'm not sure how to do it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

28 September 2009 (M) - I've just started my last year before university. I'm pretty much a loner. I don't have friends and aside from school I'm always on the computer playing poker on facebook or watching sitcoms on t.v. I know it's not good to do this and I want to ...

I want to be more than friends, how to do that without awkwardness?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5318 days ago

28 September 2009 (M) - I just asked a girl out to homecoming shes my friend but i want to take it a bit farther than friends and be in a relatioship with her how can i do that while makeing it as least akward as possible ...

I think my friend's going through alot, how can I get her to open up so I can help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5317 days ago

28 September 2009 (?) - So my best friend used to be outgoing, marched to the beat of her own drummer, cheerful, happy, and lit up the room wherever she went. Last year she was kind of in this group of friends that were not so great, and DEFINITELY not anything like my ...

I like my brother's friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - well I like my brothers friend, I always have liked him but never admittied it to anyone cause i dont know how my bro would react to it. recently the feelings I have for him have started to surface alot more and my friends all found out i like...

Does she have feelings for me? She's my best friend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5318 days ago

27 September 2009 (F) - hi everybody! i soo confused at the moment what to do... im really close with my best friend and we are seriously overly protective of each other and love each other to bits and are upset when either of us upsets one another... last year she was ...

She has stabbed me in the back, should I move jobs?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5318 days ago

27 September 2009 (F) - Thanks in advance to all who answer here. I work in the corporate world. Most of my colleagues are ok but my current team is rather backstabbing. Last year I was part time and there was a person on the team who really was a decent person..I admired ...

I know hes trying to impress me but it makes me a little mad?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

27 September 2009 (F) - Things have been good for me and my best friend Rob. The other day after school I wrote him a have a nice day note and he was trying to figure out who wrote it all day. So I texted him that I knew who wrote it and he begged me to tell him. I told ...

When does friends become more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5318 days ago

27 September 2009 (M) - I am confused, nervous and scared all at once. I met a girl a little less than a year ago. We talked about getting involved. She was in a bad relationship. My words and strenght helped her through it. She told me youhave inspired me and ...

My best friend is cheating on his girlfriend and it bothers me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

27 September 2009 (F) - OK I'm in a fix! My very best friend is a guy. We're very close and he tells me a lot of 'things'. Well, my friend, lets call him M, has a girlfriend named N. Being a country of racial differences, his mom opposes. He says she's very understanding ...

Well I'm Surprised - he called? Did I do the right thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5319 days ago

27 September 2009 (F) - Like the story seems to so often go .... i was dating this guy and we were also becoming great friends as well as a growing romantic interest. Basically we were having loads of fun he introduced me to all his friends and met mine as well as our ...

I give the best advice I can, but I feel helpless

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

27 September 2009 (?) - When my friends come to me for advice and help, I listen and offer advice to them. I get upset sometimes with them when they don't listen to me. I know they have to learn for themselves, but sometimes when we are in a situation, we can't see clearly ...

Does he seem to be interested in me? Or is he just a friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

27 September 2009 (F) - Hi, I like this boy in my class and i was wondering if he is interested in me??? He stares at me when he has a chance...... He walkes to my desk and makes up an excuse to talk to me............ He and his bestfriend were fig...

I'm concerned about a friend's sister

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

27 September 2009 (F) - Ok, I'm in a little predicament. There's a kid i'm friends with on facebook. He goes to my school, and he's in our little group of friends. Well I don't talk to him much cuz ever since elementary we've fought constantly, so it's awkward around him ...

Is my BF ashamed of me? He won't hold my hand in public or tell his friends we're dating.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4694 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) - My bf won't hold my hand in public! We have been together for two months and last night we went out to the store and I went to grab his hand and he 'acted' like he needed to grab something and let go of my hand. We held hands for less than 30 ...

I tell him that I love him and want to be with him constantly, but it's never enough.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) - okay so im 16 years old, turning 17 soon and im a junior in highschool. iv been in only two serious relationships and iv had my heart broken many times. before me and my ex started dating i would resent it soo much because i afraid of getting hurt ...

How can I stop pushing everybody away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) - I lost my virginity when I was 12. I had been dating the guy for two years. He was my first everything. First boyfriend, first kiss, first and only partner, first love, even the first person I held hands with. I thought that since he always cheated ...

Help needed!!! Mixed signals...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

26 September 2009 (M) - I have known this girl for a while and we held hands after her friend died once, and I kind of like her, but I'm getting mixed signals. One minutes she hugs me nd stuff than she talks about this guy she likes. Is she just someone that like being ...

How can I start a conversation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5319 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) - MOD NOTE: THis is not a question, please just aedd this onto your original post. hey!!!i talked a lot about the huge cruch i had on this really cool boy(who really liked me 2) n i said before i never talked 2 him cause whenevr he tries 2 talk 2 m...

He didn't really rape me as such... but what do I do for the best?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

26 September 2009 (?) - so im going to tell u a rather lengthy story but i REALLY need to vent and get it off my chest and know an outsiders opinion about it before i go telling anyone that could know the people involved: im gona be 16 in less than a month and i went to a ...

Should I approach a stranger in the bus?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) - Every week there's a guy on my bus that I find really interesting. The problem is: i'm way too shy to talk to him! We have made eyes contact a lot of time but every time I looked at the floor after for like 2-3 minutes because I feel stupid! Next ...

So confused, where do I stand with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I met this guy three weeks ago. We hit it off wonderfully. We went to the movies and had a great dinner. I spent the night cuddling at his house. We then spent the entire weekend together and even raided the swings at the park at midni...

Help!!! Why is he acting like this?

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26 September 2009 (F) - I have just started college and i really like this guy in the same course as me (he is nearly 2 years older than me) - we have a lot in common, and we get on well. I 've been trying to work out if he likes me too but im not sure. The first few days ...

Was I wrong to email him and confront him about our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) - I have been seeing a guy for a few months now. Initially, we would go out on dates etc. He was always busy, but did make time for me and our dates Recently, we began to just hang out around his apartment more...instead of going out... which was ...

Have you ever obsessed over your EX wifes/GFs NEW boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

26 September 2009 (M) - I know we hear about it on the news or from friends at a get together but why do men after we have blown many opportunities with the a wife/GF, why do we obsess with her. After a divorce or break-up and especially after finding out that that have a ...

B/f has alot of female friends and I feel uneasy about his talking/texting/lying about it

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26 September 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and I have been together for a 1 1/2 yrs and my problem is he has alot of female friends that he went to college with and still talks to and text they all live out of state and that is not a problem the problem is there is one that he ...

My friends smoke weed. How do I tell them I don't toke anymore?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) - Please i need help, im going to a gig soon with some mates ill be 16 then and basically, my mates are taking weed with them and I dont know what to do. I used to smoke it with me old mates and i really dont wanna get back into it. It messed me up ...

How do I get this guy to 'fall' for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5319 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) - Hey... I'm 17years old and fancy a really good friend of mine, we live on the same corridor at our schools hall of residence and get on so well. He's cute, funny, sweet, caring, everything I could ever want. No only that, he has pulled me o...

How do I forget this guy and move on?

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26 September 2009 (F) - I really need some help. Its been 4 years, I've been liking this guy.. We'd even been in a relationship..there have been breakups n patch ups often..I've broken up now...I really can't forget him..what do i do to forget him? He's on my mind always...

I might be held back if best friend goes to same college as me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5314 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) - So, me and my bestfriend have been close for years now, and im currently at a university but i am transferring out to my community college for next semester, where she is. And then in fall 2010, next year i'm looking to go to a school out of state, ...

Boyfriend and female friend--more to it than what it seems?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5320 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) - dear cupid, me and my boyfriend have been together for a yr and a half and my boyfriend has to many female friends that he talks to there is one particular one that he talks to and text everyday sometimes they don't talk for months then all ...

What did she really mean with this note?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5320 days ago

26 September 2009 (M) - So, theres this girl in my 9th grade english and P.E. class, we get along well, and i walk her to her bus and classes, i flirt alot with her she flirts alot with me, and today we did our first note pass during english, she passed a note that said ...

My best friend's g/f hates me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) - (Just note, I have asked many questions about this situation on here). Okay, so, my best friend's girlfriend hates me. She doesn't try to deny it (hence, the threatening email. And today, she "bumped" into me and triped me down the stairs at schoo...

Why do I feel jealous of his friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5319 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - Ok, today my boyfriend is going to hang out with some old friends, and I feel uneasy about this and jealous. I know I shouldn't, especially since it will probably be just the three of them. One of this guys lives in town, and they don't see each ...

I have been unwell and none of my friends have asked after me! Should I bring it up with my friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - I am currently fairly poorly at the moment and have to stay at home for a few days. I have a lovely family around to care for me but what concerns me is that, in my opinion, friends are meant to also ask after me if possible. I have several good ...

She is afraid to have a relationship with me in case she loses her support system

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

25 September 2009 (M) - I am friends with a girl. I haven't known her long. Just under a year. When we first met we talked about getting together but she was just trying to get out of a bad 5 year relationship. Since we started hanging out as friends she would tell me ...