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Archived questions from: 12 April, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

Could we ever be more than friends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - I was friends with a man for several years. We pretty much knew each other as married and considered ourselves co-worker/friends. I hadn't seen him for awhile until we both joined a work sports league. We got to know each other and found we were ...

What does it mean when some one said "He has a good way with people"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - what does it mean when some one said some one has a good way with people. what does that mean...

I love her ...But she doesn't love me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

12 April 2009 (M) - Iam in love with this gul ! every time i see her i just want to hug and kiss her. ive told her how i feel but she doesn't believe me. i just want to show her how much i love her.. but she doesn't want to cause she is seeing this other guy.. but i ...

I've really screwed my life up. Does anyone know how I can sort any of it out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - I apologise in advance for this being so long, and so confused. I'll try to do my best to explain it clearly, but I doubt I'll do too well... I'm in love with this female teacher at my school. I know I'll never be with her, and I've accepted...

It's been nearly two years, but I still feel guilty for cutting off my ex. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

12 April 2009 (M) - Hi everyone. Tonight I've reflected on the break up of my first relationship, which was a long distance relationship which lasted for 2 years, ending in June 2007. I know it's a long time to still be reflecting on it, but let me run you through ...

What do I do in my life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5503 days ago

12 April 2009 (M) - Hey guys, I really really am depressed right now, i dont know what to do with my life. Im more and more lonely, I barely have any friends left, and none of them cares. I am in a relationship for 10 months now. I always have great support i...

Should I tell her how I feel? Her ex is a best friend and I don't want to lose him because of this either

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

12 April 2009 (M) - ok so I've known him for 4 years now. her for 2 maybe. I actually met her because of him. they've been going out since then but broke up just recently. all through those 2 years I think I may had some small on and off feelings for her. now that they...

Do I have issues, or am I just "boycrazy"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - honestly this is kinda stupid. i like bout 8 guys right now. but like 2 of them i like the most. but they will switch. i will like one guy the most then the next. ugh do i have issues or am i just boycrazy? help?!?!?!?!...

I cant work out if this girl is his older sister or a new gf. Help here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - So ive been best mates with this guy and recently he's been flirting alot and then he asked me who ide rather go out with out of all his friends and i said probably him because i know him best and i asked him the same and he said me and then when...

Should I back off a bit and wait for him to talk to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - there is this guy I've known forever and we've recently started talking on-line again. i always seem to be the one who starts the conversation but when we get talking we'll talk for hours, should i back off a bit and wait for him to talk to me? ...

It's been 3 months and I still am not over him. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - i cannot take this any more. me and my ex broke up at the end of January. he has a girlfriend now and i am talking to someone. When he found out i was talking to someone he said something to me and said he's still in love with me. he said he does...

Why wont my ex help me get a bf?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - why wont my ex help me get a bf, he recently set one of his new gfs mates up with a guy from the pub, then when i was talking 2 this guy down the pub first the other week, he got him to go and talk 2 my mate, i think he knew i liked him, anyway w...

I'm 14. Should or shouldn't have sex at this age?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - I've known this guy since i was about 9 im 14 turning 15 now. i no that's young but yeah. Lately i've been really wanting to know what sex feels like. After a few years we have started talking again and i want to loose my virginity to him. hes alre...

Am I wasting my time thinking about him? Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5503 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - Dear Agony Aunts I am a 24 year old girl, had not been in a relationship before. In fact, my encounters with guys are limited, so much so that I don't really know how to handle them. Anyways, I met this guy (same age as me) a few months ago. He l...

What should change when you become girlfriend/boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - When you have "the talk" and are now girlfriend and boyfriend - exclusively, what should change between the two of you from when it was just 'dating' I know there is the obvious - no dating other people etc and commitment to that person but i mea...

She said that if I really want her back it shouldn't matter how many people she has slept with. Is this true?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

12 April 2009 (M) - i am 17 and i was with my girl friend for 2 years but we have been friends for about 6 or more years since primary school. this is the girls that i had the little crush on back in primary school and that continued till high school were she had a bf ...

Commitment phobia? Breaking up? Can this be fixed? Is there hope? HELP!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - 7 months ago, I left everything and moved to Spain to start a new life with my Spanish fiance....so I thought anyway. Things have not been easy for me (no family, no friends, no knowledge of the language, paperwork difficulties, etc) but they have ...

Does she still want to be friends or is she giving me the cold shoulder?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5504 days ago

12 April 2009 (M) - Heya everyone, I've liked this girl, for about a year now (I think), I asked her out a while ago and she said yes but we didn't eventually. A couple of months ago she started getting close to one of my best friends (not bf and gf, just close m...

Why the sudden change in tone towards me ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

12 April 2009 (M) - I work in the same offices as my ex of sometime ago, she cheated on me and I found out by chance, but I held my head high and worked away with my dignity, without any fuss though I was very hurt. Ever since that time, she seemed to make every ef...

I like this guy, but he just wants to be friends and mess around only :(

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - here goes, i met some guy off a site a few months ago and we've been talking for like 5 to 6 months now and we just met recently and he was affectionate towards me and we clicked like crazy and even showed me where he works and treated me to a nice ...

My sister's b/f is super jealous. What should she do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5503 days ago

12 April 2009 (M) - This is for my sister. Her boyfriend and her got into a fight. He doesn't want her to talk to his best friend cuz he is jealous. She wants to still talk but now he gets super mad. He cries on the phone to make her feel bad, but she really want...

Is this a friendly gesture?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - When your talking to a guy and he puts his arm around your shoulders and pull you closer to him (so that your head is resting on his shoulder) or when he pats you on the shoulder ... Is that a friendly gesture?...

Why is my interest in men so strange?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - Well, there's a guy at school, and he's my best friend. He sees me as nothing more than a buddy, but I see him as the most amazing, funny, and hottest guy in the whole school. Were really close and were always there for each other, but everyone ...

I want him to be happy with ME not HER

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - the love of my life now loves my bestfriend and she loves him back. i've went through hell and back for him and i don't know how to get him to like me because i want him so bad as mine. i feel really selfish for wanting him to be happy but just not ...

Should I tell him I want a relationship or should I just keep being friends with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - Okay so I am really good friends with this guy, but he now lives two hours away. We have been friends for like four months and have hung out like five times. I met him at work but about a week after he had to move back home. Then he tried to move ...

Saw my husband's profile on a porn dating site!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - I am in dire need of an answer so I thought I would ask here. My husband loves to be fisted and he's wanted me to buy a strap on forever... just yesterday I sat at his desk and he had left up his history... I found he has an account with ...

I turned him down when he asked me out, now I regret it. Is it too late?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - So there's this guy, he's funny, cheeky, upfront, loud and just great fun to be around. Lately we've become best mates and I noticed he'd been sniffing around me for a few weeks but I'd never really thought about him like that. Recently he split up ...

Girls flirt with my boyfriend - but he doesn't tell them to stop.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - Hello everyone! Me and my bf have been going out for about 2 years and 2 months. Things have been rocky lately but were starting to get back on track. But there's one thing that still bothers me. My bf has 2 friends who are both girls. One girl...

Does my ex girlfriend want me back or is she just keeping me hanging on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

12 April 2009 (M) - Hi, Me and my ex girlfriend split up about 10 days ago after a 3 year relationship. It started about a month ago when she told me that she needed some time apart to spend with her college friends (as she has just started college). Although i was ...

I keep losing women...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

12 April 2009 (M) - Hi, I had a relationship when I was 18 to 20 of which I was so happy but took it for granted. I kept wanting to split up to be single, then get back and then one time I did it and I lost her for good. I was devastated for over a year and blamed ...