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Archived questions from: June, 2008 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

Is it ever ok to make a move on a best friend's ex, let alone doing it in his own house?? What should I say/do as I am witnessing this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 511 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - I just recently moved into a house with a good friend (Steve), and his best friend (Kevin) that I don't really know too well. Before this, Steve was living with his girlfriend of several years. They had a long drawn out break up, and I don't know...

Do his actions show that he fancies me? What do you think?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 510 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - Does he fancy me? I have known this guy for 4 years and over the past couple of years we have become good friends, especially in the last 6 months. He has always had mostly female friends and so is comfortable around us all and the more he se...

What should I do about my vile friend? She's getting mean!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 509 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - hello ! i have a freind and shes my best freind and she has started to be mean to me for no apparent reason. she comments on things i say even if they dont involve her she constantly has a little go at me for no reason.today a girl who i am not fon...

He use to date my best friend and now he is asking me out. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 511 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - there us a guy who use to date my ex-bestfriend know is asking me out. his saying he should have ask me instead of my former bestfriend but i don't want tobenore than a friend to him. what shouldi do i don't want to lose our friendship and i don't ...

Should I go for the one I think I love, or the one who's in a gang?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 510 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - I really like this guy, we've been best friends for a while now. We had an amazing time the other night. We stayed up all night talking, kissing, cuddling. I was the happiest I have been in a long time. Though, we are not dating, I think I may be ...

Could her actions mean she has feelings for me too even though she said otherwise?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 498 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - I have a crush on one of my friends and I told her the other day. She told me she didn't return the feelings but I wasn't expecting it because she had a boyfriend. I just wanted to get it off my chest because she's too good of a friend to keep ...

I love him and want to spend the rest of my life with him, but my dad doesn't approve.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 511 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - im 15 years old and i have a b/f that is 23 years old. i love him with all my heart. we've only been dating for 4 months and already i love him and wanna spend the rest of my life with him, but my dad dont approve. a lot of people think its weird bu...

It's been this 'back and forth' kind of thing. I need a different outlook.

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30 June 2008 (F) - I have been in a relationship off and on for the past two years with a man that I have considered a friend, lover, and family. We have been, so to speak, kindred spirit. I know this sounds silly but it true. The past 6 months we have trid to make...

I have problems making friends and girlfriends, can you help, please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 512 days ago

30 June 2008 (M) - Hey, I hope im doing this right ! I have problems making friends and girlfriends.(2 questions) 1. Friends: Im 19 turning 20, and by now I figured i'd have a list of friends as long as my arm and a girl in my life. However the complete opposit...

He misses the excitement, and wants that 'lifestyle' back. I don't know what to do.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 511 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, Where do I start? We have been together for almost 20 years, married for 6 years. We have been together 24/7 for most of those 20 years. We worked together, lived together. When we got together, we did not live together or work togethe...

Does he like me, or should I just forget about him and move on?

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30 June 2008 (F) - There's this guy, we've been close friends for a few months now. There's always been this thing going on between us and we flirt a lot. He has recently told me that he likes me, but somehow i feel like he doesn't. We do flirt sometimes but i just...

We kissed and I felt bad, because I'm with someone else. Now what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 512 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - I really like this guy, I know he likes me too. The other night we had an amazing time, cuddling, kissing and talking. I felt really happy. I fell asleep beside him, and woke up smiling when I seen him. I don't know where we stand, or if it's goi...

My mum always favours my sister over me!! Is really starting to get to me!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 512 days ago

29 June 2008 (?) - why does my mum always favour my sister, last night i went out for a drink with some friends at a males house, there was nothing wrong with what we did, we was inside, quiet music, monopoly, mindin our own business, chatttin and having a drink, my ...

Is he taking so long to express himself because he's scared?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 511 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - The guy I've been knowing for 8 years but talking to for 3 years tells me that if he tells me how he feels about me I wouldn't believe it and he still didn't tell me cause he's been "busy" I don't know what to expect. Why would it take forever for a ...

I'm confused as to whether I'm lesbian, bi or straight...what should I do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 512 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - Hi, there is loads of questions on this subject. but i just want to ask my own question. i dont know if im a lesbain, Bi or straight. i have strong feelings for my english teacher and i find girls attractive in some ways but then other times i mi...

I think I love my best friend, but she is out of my league...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 512 days ago

29 June 2008 (M) - Hey everyone, There is a girl that I really do think I love and have liked her for about 6 months now, She still does not know and we are almost best friends, not only that I think that she is way out of my league. I dont like to seem like an atten...

My best friend is moving away. Now I wont have anyone to hang at school with. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 512 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - My best friend is moving away to a different city. Now I will never be able to see or hang out with her at school anymore when school begins. It is very hard for me to make new friends, because everyone at school has their own friends. I am very ...

Torn between love and loyalty...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 512 days ago

29 June 2008 (M) - I have loved a girl for seventeen years now.she just got married on january first and later in january i told her exactly how i feel and for how long. she told me she has felt the same for me for a very long time and that like me she was to afraid ...

I can't tell if it's "just friends" or are we more? It's complicated.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 513 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - Okay so I'm best friends with this guy. I've known him for about 5 years. A couple of years ago I told my friend about how I liked him and she ended up telling him. I asked him to a dance around the same time, and he of course accepted. It ended up ...

She's like a sister and I would do anything for things to be like they were. Any ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 513 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - i moved schools about two years ago, because times were getting rought at my old one, i was completely lacking in confidence and found it hard to make friends, and this girl took me under her wing, everything was perfect, we werelike sisters an...

Is it possible to be platonic friends with a previous fling?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 511 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - Is it possible for a guy to have a friendship with a female outside our relationship? Keeping in mind that they had once had a fling in the past, and that my boyfriend was attracted to her. Can I trust their friendship?...

I'm confused about my feelings for a girl.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 513 days ago

28 June 2008 (M) - There's this girl at school who i've known properly for about a year. I'm thinking about her constantly but none of my thoughts are sexual and i feel that i only want her as a friend. At the same time, whenever i see her i get this feeling deep down ...

After four years - could he still feel the same?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 512 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - Hmmm its more of a venting type thing but I would appreciate some input. Ok my best friend from forever ago just appeared on myspace. I remember when we used to hang out like it was yesterday :) but the thing is last time i saw him was like fou...

Is it that girls just don't find me attractive?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 511 days ago

28 June 2008 (M) - I'm 24 and I've never had a girlfriend. In fact, I've never even had a date or a girl like me. I'm really not having any luck with this! Kinda getting the feeling I'm doomed to singleville forever at this rate All my friends, including the fe...

Is this the right time to call it a day and not keep in touch?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 513 days ago

28 June 2008 (M) - Hi, I'd really appreciate some advice about platonic friendships. I fell for somebody a few years ago and she wasn't interested. The thing was, that we became really close friends. It caused all sorts of problems, because I found it really difficul...

I self-identify as straight, so why do I have these urges?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 513 days ago

28 June 2008 (M) - I self-identify as straight because i have sexual feelings for girls and am repulsed be the idea of anal/oral/kissing a guy; however, I've been having sexual feelings for my MALE best friend Could this be just because of a dry spell relationship...

How to get over some nasty people, so I can start enjoying my school?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 513 days ago

28 June 2008 (?) - Hi, Okay so there is this girl at school and she hangs round in a group of 7 with her other mates, i get along really well with the other mates apart from one. Both of them hate me for something that happened in the past but it didnt even invo...

I like my best friend but he does not feel the same, how can I get over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 513 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - I need help. There is this boy who is my best friend and I’ve always liked him but the last couple of weeks we hooked up but he doesn’t feel the same. I cant get him out of my head but i know it can never be but its absolutely killing me!!! He ...

My relationship ended because of jealousy, arguments and mistrust. Am I crazy to not let this go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 513 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - My ex and I were in a relationship for 3 years, ended b/c of jealousy, arguments and mistrust. we reconnected after 7 months of not communicating and it seemed as though everything was going well(even though he would constantly bring up the nega...

He's dating someone else but I want him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 513 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - Ok, a guy is already involved with someone else. He says that in the past 2 weeks he has been drifting away from her. He visits me more than he does her and we spend evenings together just chatting and enjoying ourselves, there was a time when I ...

I spoke to another man and it seems to have ruined everything!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 513 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - In my nine year relationship I messed up. I began talking to another man. There was no sex involved but just alot of talking and we worked together. We never hung out we went to a dinner break at work once. My boyfriend found out and I told him I ...

A friend of mine is starting to like me as more than a friend...but I don't like him...help!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 513 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - I have a friend who likes me more then a friend. He told me this not long after we met, but I wasnt sure of how I felt for him. So I told him I just wanted to hang out as friends and get to know him better as I had made the mistake of geting ...

I think I have committment problems, I really need advice!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 513 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - Hi I think I have commitment problems but really need advice as it could be something else. I was very unhappily married for 10 years with a man who used to be emotionally abusive but felt really stuck and trapped in that marriage - I married young ...

How do I snub someone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 513 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - Help. I need advice on how to Snub somebody, and when it's appropriate. Examples like how long to do it, what kindof situations, etc. Please help as soon as possible. I would greatly appreciate it!! 3...

I'm falling for someone who is Transgendered....from female to male...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 513 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - Hi! So...this is complicated. I will try to condense it some to make it more readable. I was engaged to a guy, who after 3 years told me he wanted to be a woman. I cut off the relationship as I just couldn't deal with him wearing my clothes and such...

By the information I've given you, do you think he likes me or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 513 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - I really like this boy from my band class (I sit right next to him) that's a year younger then me and all of my friends say that he likes me too and they think (and so do I) that we are very compatible. He always makes me laugh and he's always ...

Please help me go back to being my old popular self.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 513 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - Hi everyone!, I need advice and it has nothing to do with sex or anything like that. I just graduated from highschool yesterday(I didn't go to graduation though)and I picked up my diploma at school today. I also bought my yearbook which I wasn't ...

Should I see if we can become more than friends or do I just not pursue her at all?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 354 days ago

27 June 2008 (M) - I have a friend I knew from a year ago but never really kept in contact with until a week ago when we met up to go to a convention and now I find that I am taking an interest in her. When I asked her if she wanted to do something sometime she sai...

One of my mates has been acting weirdly, does that mean something?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 514 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - One of my guy mates has been acting wierdly does this mean anything? ....... When ever he see's me he makes an effort to come over and talk to me, He notices any small chnges in my appearance, he will look at me all teh time, and watches me acros...

I'm really confused, because I don't know if my feelings for him are true,! How do I figure this out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 514 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - Well, I like this guy and he likes me back. I'm 15 and he is 16. We told each other that we like each other 1 month back. We are not going out just yet, we're on the verge of going out. We are getting to know each other more in that way. I met...

I have a serious problem with a group of friends...what should I do about it all??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 514 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - Ok, briefly this is the situation, Theres this girl a year younger than me, she has no friends, everybody hates her, But She is really nice to me. And here is the problem........ Recently I seem to be getting on well with my friend(X)'s frie...

I'm in a really confusing situation..why won't he talk to me or sit next to me?? I just don't get him!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 514 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - Ok this is a bit weird but can you tell me what you think of this. Right theres i lad ive been in love with for about 7 months, we're on the same course and everything. He showed signs he liked me ranging from staring to the softness in his voice ...

Group sex may be fun, but at the same time, I feel it's cheating.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 514 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - my boyfriend and i have a great sex life (when we find time lol) well we are planning a camping trip with another couple (who are married) for next weekend. my boyfriend mentioned to me that they may ask us to join them for group sex, because they...

I love my gf to pieces...but she's going away with her mates...and I'm worried that they will influence her actions!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 514 days ago

27 June 2008 (M) - I love my girlfriend to pieces and i know she loves me. I trust her so much but her mates are all man eaters and i know what they are like when it comes to men. She is going away with her mates and although she may not be the same as her mates, i ...

Is it really a friend, that person you get drunk with every week-end?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 509 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - I don't know, I wouldn't say I was boring! Although I'm a family girl, married and a mum, I travel around the world a couple of times a year, I go to Rock gigs (Eric Clapton on Saturday!), I perform and I am always up for a party. But most people m...

I am her best friend, but cant afford to celebrate her birthdays with her anymore, and it's upsetting me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 514 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I just need a little rant about something that's exasperating me. Every year it's the same thing: my best friend organises her birthday celebrations by booking an expencive night-club, which I have to book tickets for, pay...

My ex is now dating my friend! I'm angry that he used me as a friend after. Can we not trust anyone???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 514 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - Hey...im sooooooo stressed. I spilt up with my boyfriend of three years at the end of last year. We decided to be friends, in fact i did near enough everything for him. I kind of hoped we wud get back together. I found out last week he has slept ...

When I walk away from my friends when I'm upset, not a single one comes to talk to me, why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 514 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - I recently found out that I'm bipolar and depressed. It explains a lot but what I don't understand is when i walk away from my friends because I'm upset, not a single one comes over to talk to me. Some of them know about the disorder, but they seem ...

Am I supposed to just be a good mate to him? And how do I cope with my friends' comments?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 515 days ago

26 June 2008 (F) - Hi, This might sound a bit confusing by the time i've finished!!! I really like a guy whos in the same year as me at college and have done for over a year now!!! I started liking him as more than a friend when we started talking more last Apr...

I want to become friends with him, and maybe more than that.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 515 days ago

26 June 2008 (F) - So, there's this guy I live near, and he's my age. He's pretty nice and smart. I've been homeschooled for a little while, but am heading back to regular school in the fall; I went to school with him before. My question is: I want to become friends ...