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Archived questions from: April, 2017 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

I wish I could get over the love of of my life.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2543 days ago

29 April 2017 (F) - Hi there. I was involved in a long distance relationship for about 4 and a half years and broke up almost 10 years ago. I feel foolish and dumb to say that to this day I cannot seem to get over her. She was my first kiss, my first love, and my ...

Best friends--to choose or not to choose?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2543 days ago

29 April 2017 (F) - ****My first question was incomplete, ignore. Please answer this one!**** I am friends with these two guys for about 9 years. They are both married. I noticed over the past 4 years the relationship with the two of them crossed over so many bou...

Does my friend have a fetish for trans guys?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2550 days ago

28 April 2017 (M) - Dear Cupid(s), I have a cis-male friend who identifies as gay. I don't know if this is something I have noticed being transgender myself, but the only guys he has outwardly said he's attracted to when we are out, or together have all been transge...

Did I do something so offensive that my b/f needs to rethink our relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2552 days ago

26 April 2017 (F) - Soooooo my bf and I have been together for a few years now. We have a mutual friend who we've been cool with for a decade. This friend chills with us every other day. My bf feels like our friend doesn't respect him and has attempted to talk with him ...

How can I stop being intimidating and build lasting relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2554 days ago

26 April 2017 (F) - I have always had difficulties with relationship with men and I genuinely want some advice and help. It would really mean a lot! I have grown up to be a perfectionist since I was young. Mastering four languages, national level in art, three instr...

Is he cheating on me if he's flirting in public with other girls? Should I kiss him for the first time at the party?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2555 days ago

26 April 2017 (F) - hey guys i need some help. I am dating this boy that i have strong feelings for. But recently I see him flirting with some other girls like playing around, like poking their stomach,laughing,and talking a lot to each other in front of me knowing w...

He's still receiving messages from women on a dating site he joined earlier. How can I raise the subject with him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2555 days ago

25 April 2017 (F) - I met my man through a dating site and all is fabulous 13 weeks on. He says I'm the one for him, and I love him dearly. Since we mutually agreed, that we are 'in a relationship' we both decided to cancel our match accounts. Mine is gone complete...

Where do I stand in this relationship? What can I say to him to get the answers I need? 2

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2555 days ago

25 April 2017 (F) - So I've been talking/meeting this guy since last May, which is nearly a year ! He says he doesn't want to rush into a relationship because his last girlfriend cheated on him. And he tells me to be patient for a relationship because he will have to...

Should I be mad because my friend helped get me fired?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2557 days ago

25 April 2017 (M) - I was working with this girl K and my friend L and her friend C. Our boss LO, was always ingrained in L's life calling and texting her, and L asked me to make him stop with the text messages. After a while I discovered that LO was spreading rumors ...

Should I not have told him how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2557 days ago

24 April 2017 (F) - Is it wrong to say how you feel? I've posted before about how a good friend of mine ignores and doesn't reply when something goes wrong and never makes an effort to initiate conversations after an argument. We hooked up a couple of times ...

She says she's into guys but does she like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2559 days ago

23 April 2017 (F) - A girl has been getting closer to me and grabbing my wrist, and above my wrist but below the elbow. I'm also a girl but am not a lesbian. She says shes into guys but me and my friend are not so sure. my other friend is a girl. Do you think that girl ...

How can I successfully connect with, and keep, new friends with good souls and good conversation? I seem to be losing friends.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2560 days ago

22 April 2017 (F) - Lately I've been losing lots of my friends. I've been feeling very distant and annoyed by the people around me and i get very negative vibes from them. My two best friends and i are already drifting apart,and their attitude towards me really c...

Fallen for my old classmate but now he ignores me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2557 days ago

22 April 2017 (F) - Good morning. I met my high school classmate online after 37 years. He is married for 30 years. He said he had an affair with two married women while his wife was working abroad. He became alcoholic too. And with the help of her mom, he ended into ...

Why 25 later after an affair with my wife does this ex friend want to get together?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2560 days ago

22 April 2017 (M) - My wife had a intense two year long affair with a single friend of ours back 25 years ago...we had tried a threesome with him,after a nite of drinking, and I found out rather quickly that I wasnt into it, but as it worked out my wife and this other ...

Should I be unfriendly and block my ex on facebook?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2561 days ago

21 April 2017 (F) - Am no longer in a relationship but remain on FB as friends. The man private messages me with casual conversation frequently but doesn't openly address my posts/pictures. He recently asked me if he should accept a friend request from a superior at ...

Are there any telltale ways to see if he sees me just as a sister/friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2561 days ago

21 April 2017 (F) - Hey guys, first of all, thanks for stopping by, even if you don't plan on answering. I will cut to the chase: I'm a 20 year old girl, and I really like this 25 year old boy, whom I met over the internet. Our locations are too far away to go see e...

How do I speak to a co-worker about an incident that caused much drama at work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2561 days ago

20 April 2017 (F) - Great site....level headed advice. I work in a high school in a pretty volatile classroom. I am slated to work in two schools and about two months ago now some drama broke out in one of the sites when I was at the other one. The situation did no...

Boyfriend travels constantly and has friends and family he refuses to let me meet

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2560 days ago

18 April 2017 (F) - I'm 44 years old, my boyfriend is 53. We have been dating for 4 years now. He has 2 jobs. One job has fee flying perks. So far in 4 years he has gone to Costa Rica, Dominican Republic, Mexico, Philippines, Thailand, Japan, he went to Las Vegas and ...

My parents don't believe in boy-girl friendships but I need my guy friends in my life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2562 days ago

18 April 2017 (F) - hey guys, i'm 19 years old, college is not far away from my parents' house, so i still live with them. actually they are strict, and they don't believe in a girl-boy friendship.. for them, a girl should only have girl friends. However, I have thr...

I queried my husband about an App he has on his phone. Do I let it go or do I go deeper?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2563 days ago

17 April 2017 (F) - My husband was checking his phone in front of me and I saw that he has a chat lock app. I asked him why and he said that he hates when I see his texts. I was like WTF, I have NEVER checked his phone or his WhatsApp chats. If he hands me his pho...

Is it weird that I am 19 years old and I still hang out with my parents ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2562 days ago

17 April 2017 (F) - Hello, Well, i am 19 years old, i am studying in college, but still living with my parents. The thing is i don't hang out with my friends: i still don't drive and we live far away from the city, and there's no public transport nearby. So whene...

What should I do to end this flirting and just be friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2563 days ago

16 April 2017 (F) - Hi I want advice on how can I end this sexting/fwb and come on friendly terms with a close friend. I really like my friend and we slept twice in 2 years so I would not call it a fwb situation. Just that we both live in different cities and rea...

Do you think that something else is going on here, what are your thoughts?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2564 days ago

14 April 2017 (F) - So yesterday I was talking with “A” a good male friend of mine from university,and I was talking about myself and that I had a boyfriend(“S” ) for some time now, this and that…., and “A” happens to know my boyfriend from university because they ...

Do you think this guy at school might have feelings for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2564 days ago

14 April 2017 (F) - I like this boy who dated my best friend. We don't talk at all, but my friends send him pictures of us and one day my friend sent a picture of us to him. She asks if he thinks I'm pretty and he responds yeah. He always looks at me at schoo...

Are my own strong feelings for guy number one affecting my feelings for guy number two? Is this why I can't commit ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2569 days ago

13 April 2017 (F) - Six years ago, I was going through a very weird stage in my life. Mentally. The following year, I ended up being diagnosed with anxiety and impulsive control disorder. During this time I met this guy, and my whole life changed. He is the male...

My unidentified online friend has reappeared on line. It is him. Should I reveal who I am to him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2569 days ago

12 April 2017 (M) - Hi I have a difficult situation. A year ago I met a guy online. All was good but then he stopped texting. Last month we matched on a different website. Neither of us have a photo up. From what he has told me I know this guy is the one who I m...

It's now a reunion weekend instead of a romantic getaway, and I'm paying for it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2569 days ago

12 April 2017 (F) - Dear Cupid!!!! I recently started dating this guy about three months ago,he's currently not working because he's training to be a police officer. I met him right before he went into the Academy and the things that they go through it is excruciati...

We've split up, yet he wants to stay friends? Should I wait for him? Help !

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2571 days ago

11 April 2017 (M) - Hi everyone, I am a 27 male, who was in a relationship with a 25 male. We have each had long term relationships in the past but this felt like something else! We had instant chemistry, a great connection. After a few months he started ...

Trying to avoid attending a work function. What are some good excuses I could use?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2570 days ago

11 April 2017 (F) - I've been asked to go to a work meeting that I really want to avoid. The meeting is a 3 hour train ride from where I live so I would have to leave very early and get home late. I don't have any children or pets that I can use as an excuse. Are ther...

I'd like to make teacher appreciation cards but I don't know if it's a good idea

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2573 days ago

9 April 2017 (F) - This is a question for all teachers seeing this: are teacher appreciation day cards a good idea? I go to an international school in Europe and have excellent teachers who work really hard to teach us students beyond what is required by the ...

I thought everything was OK. But ? I didn't do anything wrong, did I?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2571 days ago

8 April 2017 (F) - I've recently moved house after breaking up with my ex boyfriend. I thought it was perfect, lovely little house well within my means and close to the town centre of where I live. I moved in and found that I was living next to a recently div...

Does my brother's friend likes me? 2

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2571 days ago

8 April 2017 (F) - That day,my brother was messaging to his friend. Suddenly he said playfully that he wants me and his friend to date.Its very rare for my brother to say such thing.Did his friend said anything about me?Once,I gifted shoes for my brother and his frie...

How can I stop him from needing my attention when I'm busy with friends, son or volunteer work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2572 days ago

7 April 2017 (F) - My partner and I have a fun filled life we have a boy of 10yrs , we do lots of things as a family and also as a couple however my partner works so I often fill my time with my friends or going out with my son which I get so much joy out off Yet 9 ...

In love with my online friend but my parents want me to marry my childhood friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2574 days ago

7 April 2017 (F) - Hi there! I started to fall in love with a guy who is totally opposite of my dream guy. I found him in online. In short period of time I realized I love him. I don't know how to tell him. I'm scared that it might spoil my friendship. At the same ...

My husband wants us to stays friends with the woman he cheated with!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2572 days ago

7 April 2017 (F) - My husband cheated on me years ago. He hid it and never told me. When I found out he lied and said it was before we met and I should have asked him about her. But it wasn't. So he lied about his lie. He kept her as part of our friendship circle, but ...

My fiance, my toddler, my crush and my life... I am looking for advice!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2574 days ago

7 April 2017 (F) - Myself and my fiancé have been together for over ten years. To start off with things were great, I felt like everything was perfect and he was amazing and always looked out for me. He'd help if I struggled with anything we would share the load for ...

My friend is controlling and copies everything I do. Is it kinder to end the friendship than to feel resentful of this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2572 days ago

6 April 2017 (F) - I have a female friend who is very controlling and the more I try to gain space and step back the worse it gets. I have tried really hard not to end the friendship as I know she is lonely but I am beginning to feel actually frightened by her ...

My Gf attends functions with her friends by herself in order to avoid the risk of losing face. This concerns me. How should I handle this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2572 days ago

6 April 2017 (M) - I have a problem and I need some sound advice. I'm caucasian and my girlfriend is asian. We both get along great except for one big issue in our lives, and that revolves around how she worries about how some in her community may frown upon inte...

A co-worker gave me his number, is this romantic interest or just a friendly gesture?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2575 days ago

6 April 2017 (F) - So this guy who works in different departments at my new job always make eye contact and we say hi to each other in the passing.Last time he came in on my floor I was working on ,in the kitchen looking for cup,we exchanged pleasantries then I went ...

He says he's not quite ready for a relationship. Am I over-thinking this situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2575 days ago

4 April 2017 (F) - I've know a boy for 1 year and we were close talking everyday we could, he lives 6 hours away from me and is in the army, recently he's moved based and is less than 1 hour away from me. Whilst talking to him I slowly started falling in love, wh...

Does he have an interest or is he just friendly polite guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2575 days ago

4 April 2017 (F) - So this guy who works in different departments at my new job always make eye contact and we say hi to each other in the passing.Last time he came in on my floor I was working on ,in the kitchen looking for cup,we exchanged pleasantries then I went ...

Extremely close to my female best friend, slept together once... Now she's falling for me even though we agreed not to have "those" feelings

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2568 days ago

3 April 2017 (M) - I have this female best friend. We ar very close so close we know everything obout eachother ther is no secrets between us we tell eachother things no one else knows. We hang out every chance we get. We are so close that we have even slept together ...

How should I respond in this situation? I don't know who I really like, nor who likes me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2580 days ago

2 April 2017 (F) - Hi... So I have had a crush on this guy , V, at school for almost a year. He's always been giving me mixed signals. One day he'll blush seeing me , the other day he will ignore me . I've often seen his friends teasing him when I'm around in th...

I want to stop comparing my life with others. How do I learn how to slow down?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2569 days ago

2 April 2017 (F) - How do I learn how to slow down? I have been with my partner for a long while and we want marriage. But all of my friends are getting married left right and centre and I can't help but want everything at the same time as them and I put all this pre...

I have a tiny group of friends. I find it difficult to bond with people. How can I learn to enjoy life more?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2576 days ago

1 April 2017 (F) - I have a tiny group of friends from school consisting of 3 girls... One of them has had a baby and rarely comes out which I totally understand and I visit her when I can. The other two work or go to uni and tend to go out a bit I found lately ...

I want to release my creativity but fear keeps taking over. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2580 days ago

1 April 2017 (F) - I want to release my creativity by doing things and possibly making a youtube channel. But every time I attempt any type of art, I overthink it, make it more than what it seems. I let my fears take over and weigh me down. Singing makes me hap...

Does it mean she is not interested, if she doesn't ask me out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2576 days ago

1 April 2017 (M) - She is one of my close friend, in class. I have ask her out a couple of times but she had only asked me out once. However when I ask her how her day was, she would give me her answer and ask me why am I asking and is it because I want to have a meal ...