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Archived questions from: 16 April, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

I have a massive crush on a work colleague which I seriously need to get over.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - I have a massive crush on a work colleague which I seriously need to get over. I've liked him for 18 months, I almost feel as though I am in a fantasy world with it because whenever he even remotely turns him head in my direction I'm tthinking he's ...

Is it just because I'm a teenager?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - Is it just because I'm a teenager? I'm 15 and I feel very bad about myself. I'm chubby and hate my face, I've been told I am ugly and fat by boys and just started believing them... should I? My mom always tells me to ignore them but I just can't. ...

My problem includes three people, my frend, the guy we BOTH like and me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - My problem includes three people, my frend, the guy we BOTH like and me. I told my friend I don't mind if she asks him out. He said yes, but it was only to not really hurt her. So that's not really the problem, it's just that that lead to him not ...

I don't know what to do when "doing a blowjob"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - Me and this boy have been talking and we want to move to oral sex! Well I really don't know what to do when doing a blowjob. Can anyone tell me how because I don't wanna look like a complete fool and not know what I'm doing. Please help!...

What on earth do you think he's up to? It sounds very dodgy to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - Hi, this is really weird. The other week I had a fight with my boyfriend, afterwards we made up and he made out he wasn't still mad, but he made this phone call in front of me just before I left his house. He mentioned a "sick plan" and some man - ...

I told my friend how I feel but nothing has changed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5498 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - Hey, So my best friend and I are both in our early 30's, and I have fallen for him. It was a gradual thing, he is very affectionate and attentive and after a year of feeling this way I told him I liked him as "more than a friend" a few months ago. ...

Why does he staring at me and says he likes me only as a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5498 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - Well I have this good acquaintance of mine that kept on staring at me. Rumor has it that he has a gf. If not a gf, a girl he's crushing on. I know for a fact that that girl isn't me. So one day, my best friend decided to take matters on her o...

I love my ex but would like to date this other guy too!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - I'm an 18 year old female and I have never been so confused in my life. A few months ago, I dated a guy online, a friend of a friend that goes to school here. The problem was that it was a long distance relationship. He broke up with me about a ...

Asking me out? How can I get him to do so?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5498 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - I met this guy at the recently, a friend of a friend, and we just clicked. nothing happened, but he added me on fb and msn. he told his friend that hed met a really nice girl - me. so theres a chance he likes me, right? thing is, hes not in my g...

Friendship with teacher when I leave school

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - I was wondering if anybody could help me? Basically, I've had this great teacher for 2 years now and she is a really great person and teacher of course! But I am leaving in 4 weeks time and I really want to let her know how much of a help she ha...

I want to be worthy of life, how do I do that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - i dont know what to ask per se. im 25, i have no job, and no friends. my boyfriend barely notices me when he is around. what friends i do have are either wrapped up in their boyfriends, they have parents who pay their way, so they can afford to go ...

Weird situation-help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - about 2 weeks ago my boyfriend hit me several times during an argument, although I decided to forgive him this time, he's been acting really paranoid that I will report him- then the other day, I noticed a group of young men following me across town...

Can you tell me what he is thinking?!?

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16 April 2009 (F) - I really like this friend of mine. I have told him this and he states he just wants to be friends. I am very confused as after he started wanting to hang out more and all my friends notice his body language and his additude show he wants some...

Follow up: Whats going On?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5498 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - (this is a follow up to http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-he-just-flirting-with-me-or-does.html sorry but just got the clues) Lately I been going crazy about this boy named "HR" his same age as me but turning 17 this year and I’m 16. Last we...

Should I give the one-millionth and one chance or should I just finally accept it is hopeless

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5498 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - O.k. Where to start? I have been married for 15 years and I know I want separation, but unsure if I want a Divorce. We have done the marriage counseling for the first time in January after my final ultimatum he finally agreed to go. Always ...

How do I get over a broken heart? I love him and want him back although he is not worth it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, Two nights ago my boyfriend of 4 months broke up with me. He was my first boyfriend and my first kiss, I was and still am completely in love with him. I had noticed he had been a bit off with me around other people but when we were alo...

Am torn between 2 guys..my bf and my best friend!! what to do?!?! confused!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5498 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - hi i am 20 and m with a guy for d last 3 yrs. this guy, my bf was gud...very sweet at first...but as time passed he has changed a lot...not as a person but surely his habits have changed. now he drinks ..smokes..gambles...n is alwayz out busy with ...

Is it the drinks and party atmosphere, or should I pursue this further?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5498 days ago

16 April 2009 (M) - I celebrated my birthday last night at my local bar, and a girl who works there was also celebrating hers (though she wasn't working that night, just partying). I had talked to this girl a few times before, and even given her a ride home once, but I ...

5 years on and off - what's going on with them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - Hi my friend he's been on and off with his girlfriend for 5 years! they again recently split up because she said he doesn't make her happy. he said he still loves her and she wants to still be friends he said he can't do it. but they met up ...

My best friend is HIV+ but I don't know how to be close to her now.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - hey everyone, so i just need some advice i recently found out one of my closest friend who i knew since we were in kindergarden and now attend to the same college..is HIV positive =[ she was always my best friend and we shared everything and w...

Do young people between 25 and 30 have huge egos?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - do young guys fancy themselves?and have big egos when they win something on tv.and he hear loads of girls like him. DO THEY GET HUGE EGOS ...

I had sex with my best friend and guess what? I'm now I'm in love with her.... so am I a lesbian?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - hi, im 17years old and i have a problem... and recently found that i have begun to have odd feelings towards my best friend who is also a girl. shes unbelievably pretty, smart, funny and i melt when she speaks to me, which is quite often as i see he...

Should I risk asking her out? Or just leave things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5498 days ago

16 April 2009 (M) - Okay. First of all, I have a friend, shes a girl. We arn't exactly the closest friends in the world but I think we get on quite well. So, I have exams next week and some people and I decided to get together for a whole revision session and my friend ...

Trusting my girlfriend's mates

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

16 April 2009 (M) - Ive been with my girlfriend for about a month now. We had been close before, but it was never 'official'. I love her alot, I put her infront of myself every time I can. The only problem is, im finding it hard to trust her. Its not so much her I don'...

Is she scared it'll ruin our friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5499 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - hi, i like my friends cousin i've been talking to him recently and we get on so well i took my friend to his house other day as she wanted to see them and he come over to my car and took my car keys out the ignition and was like Ha you got to co...

I feel really bad and guilty for not being there for her.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

16 April 2009 (M) - Ok, I am 16 years old and I have dated this girl on and off for about 6 years I love her with all of my heart. About 6 months ago she told me that she was raped and I just comforted her for awhile, later she came out and told me who did it. It was ...

Does this girl have a thing for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

16 April 2009 (M) - There's this girl I recently met, and I'm finding it very hard to read her. I won't say her name, nor mine, well I'll say mine. My name is Alex. I met this girl at work and I can't tell if she has an interest in me, because she seems to be playing ...

How you would feel about going with a girl 3 or 4 years younger?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - okay so im fourteen and i hang about with people 3 years older than me , i dont know why i suppose ive always just got on with older people better. ive only had one boyfriend before.. no boys ever like me, any i like back,. im quite a picky pers...

Do you think it's a bad idea for a girl to let her man go to a bar without her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend wants to go to a bar Friday night with some of his buddies. His friends have a band and are performing that night. My friends are all like "your letting him go by himself?" I'd never let my man do that!" He's never given me a reason not ...

Taken but regretting it...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

16 April 2009 (M) - I've wanted a girlfriend for more than a year now and recently I started dating my friend. She's amazing but I found out I really miss being single. Like I've had this huge need to flirt with other girls and talk with my friends about how hot they ...

I will always love her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

16 April 2009 (M) - We were classmates in highschool, at first I didn't like her much but after a year or two I got a crush on her. Unfortunately she was already in love with other classmate and soon after, she got married and had a kid with him. Seven years have ...