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Archived questions from: April, 2011 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

My Bf is distancing himself from me. He does not include me. Do we have a future together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4738 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - I (23) have been with my boyfriend (22) for one year and three months. We are both graduating from college this May. We have been fighting a lot lately--always about the same thing: I don't think I see him enough, and he thinks he sees me plenty. ...

I don't have any friends!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

30 April 2011 (M) - This may sound a bit pathetic to people reading this but I don't have any friends. I live at home, with my sick mother and so don't have housemates to hang out with. I have tried to go to social events with different interest groups, etc b...

We get along well, the conversation flows, but I can't get past his looks

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - I need some advice and please don't judge me or think I'm being conceited i just have no other way than to put this bluntly. You know how when you are out, you see those couples where they don't suit....Well, this guy who i get along with really ...

Feel so alone without my best friend, any suggestions??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4733 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - I miss my x best friend(with Bennefits) so much it hurts. He was my best friend. Always there wheather I needed him or not. It was a very different relationship as it started when my boyfriend(x) started to abuse me. Robert was always there.. we ...

How do I remedy this problem??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4738 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - Okay so, I have now been with my boyfriend for two months. I know its not that long. He says he loves me and I say I love him. Im not really sure if I do though. You see we were best friends before we got together! Its bunch of us, its our. "Click". ...

Could you tell me why you think this question was asked??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

30 April 2011 (M) - I know this is not your usual type of question on here but I would very much like your opinions on this please. Last year I had a good friend killed in a car accident. A few days after the accident the police called to my friends home and asked ...

We all live together, he used to be my bf, now he likes her, how do I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4733 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - Lately i'm questioning if I can be friends with this girl and guy that i live with. We met as she was friends with a friend of a guy I was seeing. While seeing him she would sometimes be around, and on one occasion I invited her to sit with us, big ...

Should I move in with my friend that I'm attracted to?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4735 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - Hello everyone, I've been attracted to this one guy for a few years now. we're close friends, but every time I break up with a guy (e.g. my two exes in the past 3 years) I find myself drifting back to him. My attraction ranges from indifferenc...

How do you handle a friend who is deceitful and hurtful?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - whats the best way to handle someone that you classed as a close friend but have discovered they have been nothing but deceitful and lied to you and used you for personal gain but when confronting them they act like youre mad and deny everything ? ...

I'm shy, but how do I make a good impression on this girl I'm crushing on in class?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4738 days ago

30 April 2011 (M) - There's this girl in my class that I'm crushing on. Sometimes I notice her looking at me and when she notices that I'm looking at her, she looks somewhere else. I'm shy and till now, I haven't talked to her yet. How do I make a good impression ...

Are we friends? Or friends with benefits? Or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - **It is a little long, but PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE take the time to read it!!! Long story short, I have an FwB, we do not have sex though (I am a virgin - he isn't), and it was MY choice to become friends with benefits, except we didn't really ...

Help ?? How do I make the first move?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4738 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - My best guy friend who I'm in love with is really sweet and nice to me (obviously he's my best friend:) but, ok so there's this really slutty girl he dated and me and my friends got SOOOOOOO mad. So I kicked his ass. Lol. Then we were on the bus and ...

What does my dream mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - I had the weirdest dream last night!!! It was about a friend who I really have not thought about in anyway as a potential "partner". Actually, that same night I had hung out with a guy who I am trying to find out whether I like or not. But here is ...

If he has such deep feelings for me, why hesitant about a relationship? I need to knw-Is he playing with my emotions and using his recent break-up as an excuse?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4739 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - Okay so this might be fairly long, but I'll start from the beginning anyway. I have this guy bestfriend and we've been messing around for 4, almost 5 months now. Last year we were just friends and he was in a relationship, but whenever we got the ...

Hey, I want to know if this guy likes me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4733 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - Hey so I want to know if this guy likes me. This might get kind of long, but I really have to know. So I will call the guy "Bob" I will call another girl who also has a crush on Bob "Sandra" Part 1: Okay so I always thought that Bob w...

Help!!! How can I get to know him and possibly date him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4739 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - hey there. so im a freshman in highschool with a scene style. i dont go crazy with the hair and makeup, but its clear im no prep. im not so interested in the jocks or preppy guys, but i noticed one really hot emo boy. he's the definition of "emo" ...

Why am I only good enough to be the "other woman"?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - Why am i only ever good enough to be 'The other woman'? A and B are two guys i have met at different stages of my life who have both turned me into the same person - when i am around them the strong confident woman i generally am disappears, and ...

Did I screw up our first kiss?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4739 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - So I'm dating my friend's ex, she doesn't care, but I really love him, a lot. She told me he treated her wrong, he would never kiss her or be sweet.. I found that wrong he Wants to kiss me for the first time :) he always hugs me, he is really sweet ...

I don't mind being friends but I don't want to lose contact with him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4734 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - Hey my boyfriend and I broke up after 2 weeks of dating he said he needed space and wanted to enjoy being single but over text messaging, that he still loved me and he would always be there for me. He said he loves me more then anyone else. I just ...

What's on his mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4738 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - I have been talking to this guy for 2 weeks and we hung out only twice. The past couple days he have been txting me and at the end of the day, asks me if I wanna talk on the phone later at night. But I haven't heard from him allday yesterday. Is he ...

How can I overcome these feelings and hold my head up high and carry on with my life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4738 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - Ok so this is a little complicated but I will explain best I can. Lately i'm questioning if I can be friends with this girl and guy that i live with. We met as she was friends with a friend of a guy I was seeing. While seeing him she would someti...

I'm lonely and want to connect with others.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - I woud like to be able to trust people again. I find it hard as i've been betrayed and rejected by so called friends. People tell me i'm hard to get to know, but I feel no one has made the effort because it takes a while for me to open up. I lack ...

Should I break up with my boyfriend and see if this other boy is maybe a better fit for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - Hi there aunts My question has a long backstory, so I apologize for that in advance. I just got back from a school trip to New York City, and while there I wasn't able to talk to my boyfriend of almost a year. He sent texts, but I couldn't reply...

Why did he lie so much... I thought he was a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - really need help-so down. ok ive been friends with a guy for 2 years we were close friends and we worked together. he was in a bad way when he started and i helped and supported him emotionally and financially for the last 2 years. during th...

My friend/girl of my dreams is heart broken, but single now... should I make a move?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

29 April 2011 (M) - So, apparently the object of my affection has officially cut all ties to the dude she was casually seeing and now she's single, We've become pretty good friends over the course of the few months I've known her, a fact that belies that I've always ...

Worried about my weight

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - Okay, I suppose this isnt really a relationship question, but i'm really hoping you guys will help me with this.. Im going on a trip soon with some friends, I am a size 12 jeans and I HATE how my body looks, We are going to spain so the climate ...

Why must everyone I know that is in a relationship with someone constantly remind me of how single I am?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4736 days ago

29 April 2011 (M) - Why must everyone I know that is in a relationship with someone constantly remind me of how single I am. Am I not miserable enough already. I swear that I'm being punished by god for some unknown future transgression. I'm in my mid 20's and nev...

I think my husband's female friend is just waiting on the sidelines for him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - My husband has a female friend that he has had for fifteen years the same amount of time that he has known me. We all used to work in the same company and my husband (he was single then) used to make a fool of himself over this woman always taking ...

I'm unclear of his feelings can someone help please!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4733 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - Hey guys , I'm starting to really like this guy that I work with, the thing is I'm not sure if he's interested in me.. lately we have been talkIng heaps, just random stuff and flirting... He always says "oh "look there's ya bf " even though they ...

Help!!! I love my best friend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4734 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - dear cupid, my problem is a universal one. i think i am in love with my best friend. about one and a half years ago was when we became real friends. before that we only knew each other and were on a hi-hello basis. he was going through ...

Friend's remark has really hurt me! I don't think luck has anything to do with how I have survived!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4739 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - Hi Readers, I would really appreciate what people think of what my supposed friend has said to me just recently. To cut to the chase I have been trying to beat the Domestic Violence Cycle for around 20 years now and finally enough strength with my...

We were dating, but now she just wants to be friends but do everything we did before!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4739 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - {Moderator note: we don't publish questions written in ALL CAPS} I need advice. I met a girl and she was very nice and funny... but at the time she was in jail when she got out she broke up with her and we began dating.. we were dating for almo...

Should I break up with this guy to keep my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4739 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - 0k. My friend was dating this guy who is 2yearz older than me and my friend, there was no problem at that time. Until the guy dumped my friend because she was cheating with a guy i never heard of. Then after 1 year, the guy told me that he had ...

Boyfriend broke up with me and I've lost my best friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - I just realised last night that I've lost my best friend. My boyfriend was my best friend and a month ago he dumped me, the reason for this was because he had become incredibly depressed and had no strength to keep up a relationship because its so ...

How can I best help my best friend recover from this depressing breakup?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4739 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - My best friend is suffering through a terrible heartbreak, im trying to help her out because she is suffering so much in pain. My friend and her ex, as a couple were my best friends. My friend is soooooo sweet and she is the one to always work thin...

I'm pregnant, he's married but I still wants us to be friends

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - I got a crush on a bus driver. He plays and teases me every now and again but I never let him know how I felt. One day, I got on his route to go to my college campus and he began telling me his college goals. Next thing I knew, we had more than ...

Messing around with husband friend! I know I'm a bad friend, wife and mother!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - I have gotten myself into a huge mess and only keep digging myself deeper and deeper. my husband and i have been married for 6 yrs, we have 5 children (4 still very young) but there is no romance, i guess there has never really been. Here is the d...

Should I try a relationship with my male best friend?

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28 April 2011 (F) - So I just recently stopped talking to this boy that I've been talking to since September. I fell hard for this boy but the problem with him was that he had a kid and a baby mother that I think he still loves. Regardless, I told myself that no matter ...

A man at work flirts with me and I don't know what to make of it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - Hey guys , I'm starting to really like this guy that I work with , the thing is I'm not sure if he's interested in me ..lately we have been talkIng heaps , just random stuff and flirting ... He always says "oh "look there's ya bf " even though ...

I feel my friends are leaving me out, how do I get over this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4739 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - i have two friends who live close to each other, they are always seeing each other more than i see them, and sometimes i feel like i miss out a lot on the stuff they do together. how do i get over this? i do not want to be worrying about w...

I don't want my friend to get hurt by this man, what should she do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - dear cupid, i really didnt get a lot of responses to my question on tuesday. i need some good advive for my girlfriend. she is a good person . we are like sisters. i dont want her to get hurt. the guy she is seeing only goes to her place. he doesn...

How do I stop myself from feeling like this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - Hi I've asked a lot of questions about this problem before and received a lot of kind words and helpful advice so I'm back again. To cut a very long story short, about a year and a half ago my male best friend broke up with his girlfriend, we...

My boyfriend's friends were showing naked videos to him! How should I react?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - i am in a committed ldr relationship since 1 year and 9 months.recently my bf has gone for a trip with his guy friends.he was telling me that he and his friends were having a nice time on sea beach. but after sometime there was a huge wave due to w...

I am feeling devastated by the Tornado in Alabama. Can people please just keep us in their thoughts?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - I am feeling devastated by the Tornado in Alabama. We got completely leveled today by the tornadoes. Just asking for people's thoughts and prayers for the state of Alabama. Lots of people lost their homes too, and their lives. just please keep us i...

Would it be appropriate to confess you like someone in a text message to them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - So I've been great friends with this guy. Were not too close though. Were quite comfortable with each other, which scares me at times. We're always playing around like we're kids. Either he starts at me, or I do. He prys into my conversations, then ...

So many choices. who do I choose? The guy I really like? Or one of the guys who likes me?

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28 April 2011 (F) - i really like this guy in my class and he really likes me, but then i found out a few other guys like me, and i don't know what to do about that. And then there is a certain someone at my camp that i haven't seen for a year and i'm afraid that if ...

I'm pretty sure he likes me, I'm shy, but should I ask him? I feel afraid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4740 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - Hi, so i really need help here, so please try your best and thanks a lot for the advice. Just the other day my friend thought it would be the perfect time to ask the guy i like, but i have a "shy" problem... I told her i would ask him out today bu...

Why does he only comment on Facebook when I comment on Facebook?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

27 April 2011 (F) - This guy I used to talk to and had a bad falling out with started dating my friend and I don't really talk to them anymore. But whenever I comment on anything on her facebook wall (which I barely ever do in the first place. He feels the need to ...

I gave a man my number and he never called...how do I avoid him now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

27 April 2011 (F) - the man that i was intrested in .i gave him my number but have not heard anything from him it has been about 3 weeks now . which i figured that he would do this . i miss church sunday and my friends said that he came without his mother in law an sat ...

I feel unsure and guilty about this situation with my friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

27 April 2011 (F) - I've had a close male friend for over 2 years now. When we first started the friendship there was lots of confusion about what kind of relationship was developing. A kind of are we arnt we sort of thing. At this time my friend (lets call him Ben) ...