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Archived questions from: April, 2016 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

Is he using me? People are telling me that he’s a bad person!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2918 days ago

29 April 2016 (F) - I've met this guy a few months, he's really sweet, caring and a respectful gentleman. I really like his personality and he treats me with respect, although I act cold with him, he still treat me in a nice way. I'm not the type of a person who treats ...

How should I handle this? Is he being thoughtless? Selfish? Or ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2918 days ago

29 April 2016 (F) - My boyfriend was supposed to be going to a gig with me. The band cancelled the tour due to illness. Instead promised we would go on a weekend getaway and hinted at engagement. We have been together 2 years and have two kids together and liv...

She wants us to start again. What would be the best thing to do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2903 days ago

29 April 2016 (M) - I have been seeing my girl for nearly a year. My pal is on a dating site POF. He told me my girlfriends photo profile came up in a search, so I checked it out for myself. He wasnt lying. It said she had logged in within the last 24 hours. I ...

Why is he ignoring me? What would I need to do to win him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2918 days ago

29 April 2016 (F) - I met a guy 9 years older than me through a dating site two months ago. We seem to have a lot in common. I only met him once because we live 45minutes away from each other and usually varsity work keeps me busy. The day I was going to meet him he t...

Our break-up was awkward. Should I get in touch with her, after 2 years apart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2918 days ago

29 April 2016 (M) - Okay, so here's the deal. Once upon a time, when I was 16, I was utterly and madly in love with this girl who I met through one of my friends. We were in a relationship (officially) for about 6 months and I can undoubtedly say she was the first lo...

Are there any life reasons anyone can suggest for why my brother seems uninterested in forming friendships and or relationships?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2917 days ago

29 April 2016 (M) - Dear everyone I'm not sure if this question is suited to this site, but I found everyone on here to be thoughtful the previous time i used it so i thought i'd try again. I wonder if my brother has some sort of mental condition that hasn't bee...

My boyfriend sometimes blurts out something that just sounds wrong! What do I do in this situation?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2918 days ago

28 April 2016 (F) - Hello, Need some advice. My boyfriend is a really wonderful guy! My only issue is that sometimes he means to say one thing and it will come out wrong, especially with friends/acquaintances or when a little tipsy. For example, we were meeting ...

He broke up with me but I believe we will be together again in the future!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2917 days ago

28 April 2016 (F) - I recently was broken up with by my now ex boyfriend, and even though it hurt for days it now hurts less. He told me a lot of things when he broke up with me, which now I am a 100% sure he was telling the truth. He has never lied to me, and I know ...

When is it the right time to leave?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2917 days ago

27 April 2016 (M) - Okay. To answer my question I strongly believe you will need my whole backstory. So lets just jump into it. We met at 16, it was bliss, romance, and teenage rebelion at its finest. She was perfect and at this moment i knew I was in love. ...

Was I wrong to contact him after all these years?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2920 days ago

27 April 2016 (F) - I am 40 and decided to make contact with a guy who I recognised from many years ago, he replied and we got into text conversation with each other for a short time. However since I contacted him, the shop where I have seen him a lot, he has now ...

What are the risks of having a roommate?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2920 days ago

27 April 2016 (F) - Have you ever had a roommate? Hey aunts, I need some advice on my living situation. I'm in college and I'm about to graduate with my degree. I also started taking classes to get into the medial field (AS) I'm pretty much happy about school. I'...

My Bf has secretly been having sex with this woman for more than 6 years. Should he remain friends with her and her partner? I say no.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2916 days ago

27 April 2016 (F) - My boyfriend has been friends with this couple for 20 years. They moved states away a long time ago. They email, talk and text Facebook always. I found out recently that he has been having sex with her for like 6+ years and they have secret ...

What in blazes in going on here? What's the Guy Code and is that what you see in this situation?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2918 days ago

26 April 2016 (F) - Men, there is such a thing as a code of honor among friends when two or more like the same woman, right? The past two months have been strange and I'm confused. Three male friends of years and all the sudden they are all showing strong signs of ...

I was friends with her but cut contact due to how she was acting, now she’s tried adding me back. Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2920 days ago

26 April 2016 (F) - This is about a friendship problem. I was friends with a great person who helped me loads and I enjoyed talking to them. However, over time they became more moody, I never knew where I stood with them and found it hard to interact with them due to ...

My social anxiety has resulted in me having just one friend! Please read the rest of my post and give me some advice!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2921 days ago

26 April 2016 (F) - so I have pretty bad social anxiety to the point where I only had one friend and as much as I tried to make other friends (and I continue to try) it justs exhausts me and people just ignore me. anyway so I've known my friend has liked me pretty ...

I’m unsure how to deal with this friend group!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2922 days ago

25 April 2016 (F) - Hi all, I've got an odd situation going on. I have a friend that is hard to get in touch with and is a poor communicator. She will constantly invite me to things, then not tell me the exact time or respond. I have recently learned that her...

Help. Am I justified for being annoyed with my Gf?? I am having girlfriend problems

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2922 days ago

25 April 2016 (M) - Whilst in the club with my work colleagues and my girlfriend for a colleagues birthday, my gf and a female colleague go off to dance. I go looking for them about 20mins ish later because my gf is shy so didn't want her to think I've left her with a ...

Does this sound like a normal close best friends relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2920 days ago

24 April 2016 (F) - I met my current female friend Lucy over 4 years ago thro our children. We started texting each other more and I invited her and her husband round for dinner one night. We took up cycling together to get fit. We meet up 3-4 times per week for 2 ye...

Are we just really good friends, or does she like me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2922 days ago

24 April 2016 (M) - I have known this girl-I'll refer to her as "H."-for almost two years now, though we have been actual friends since about August. I am a sophomore in High School, and she is a Junior in High School. My freshman year, I met her in my Theatre I cla...

Should I accept social networking "friend" requests? What's a good way to reconnect with friends from my school days?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2922 days ago

24 April 2016 (M) - Hi. Thank you for reading. I am asking for helpful advice . I have no friends. I still live in the same town I grew up in central London. Secondary school was a really good time for me, I had many friends. Everyday I would travel to and from sch...

I don't want to be best friends with him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2923 days ago

24 April 2016 (F) - Hi! I'm having a bit of trouble atm. This boy in my class that has a crush on me won't stop FaceTiming and texting me. Should I not reply or tell him I don't feel like talking right now? He always wants to hangout and I always say yes whe...

Is he into me or just looking for friendship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2922 days ago

24 April 2016 (F) - Long story short, I recently met this guy in one of my classes. He seemed really cool and he asked me if I wanted to go to the movies with him Friday night. First off, we both paid for our own ticket..I mean we're college students and imax movie ...

He's with a girl I know. I have a crush on him. Is it love? What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2923 days ago

24 April 2016 (F) - Dear Cubid Basically I have had this crush on this guy for a long time now. I know I feel something for him however I do not know if I love. I am young and I do not know what love is yet, but I know I care about him a lot He is is so sw...

Filled with fears of rejection. So what can I do?? How to get the courage to talk to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2924 days ago

24 April 2016 (F) - Long story short I like this guy in my college. Our mutual friends are really close so me and this guy are always in situations where we could talk. In fact we're usually stood right next to each other but talking to other members in the circle. I ...

Are we in a serious relationship or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2923 days ago

23 April 2016 (F) - I just recently made my best friend my girlfriend (we've known each other for two years) and I love her to absolute death. The problem is, we aren't in a serious relationship. She says she likes me but is not lesbian and would prefer if I was a guy. ...

Should I ask him if I offended him? What could be going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2923 days ago

22 April 2016 (F) - Hi. I've had a friend for about 10 months. We see each other occasionally at events, but we live 300 miles apart. (We're older than 40.) I like him very much as a friend, but he has a best friend I met at the same time whom I am slowly building ...

How does one learn to accept what is good enough? I feel like I can never do anything good enough

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2925 days ago

22 April 2016 (F) - I recently ended my marriage and have a new bf who is a national rep. His work takes him away for overnights as well as many evening meetings. I hate how I act when he is away from home. I get super moody, I almost feel like he doesn't love...

What do you do for someone who made your life happy again ? my friend helped and supported me after abuse I suffered

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2925 days ago

21 April 2016 (F) - I had a horrible childhood, I was physically and sexually molested and raped by my step father for 7 years. When I was 20, I met a guy on an online adult site . He was 15 years older then me. I was still living at home and my step father cont...

Is this normal co-worker behaviour?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2926 days ago

21 April 2016 (F) - A male coworker, who I joke around with and vice versa, asked me if I was working the next day as he was leaving work. I told him no, and he said "oh mann!" In a disappointed way. Then he asked what day I worked next. I told him the day after ...

My partner or my daughter? I feel so very upset about what has happened. What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2923 days ago

21 April 2016 (F) - I have lived with my partner for around 5 years. My daughter (now 24) lived with me....(or between my ex husband and her b/f's parents) She never paid any board money and rarely did any housework. (but that's my fault for letting her). We often ...

These old friendships are haunting me, any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2927 days ago

20 April 2016 (F) - I was excluded quite rudly from a group of uni friends over 6 years ago. The ringleader suddenly decided her friends at home didn't like me, so when her friends came to visit she refused to mention the night to me - a couple days before the night I ...

How do I handle this? My friend and I have a problem because of our arguments

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2927 days ago

20 April 2016 (F) - So I have this 'friend' (we have a very complicated relationship and sleep together), and we have a bit of a problem with arguing. I consider myself to be a very easy person to get along with, and I absolutely despise fighting. Yet for some rea...

How do I get back to an even keel with my longtime manager?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2927 days ago

19 April 2016 (F) - Not a love question but I am fighting to understand my current problem and dearcupid has always been useful for this. Now this could be long so bear with me. I've been at my current job for 6 years. My manager has always been a bit of an enig...

Should I accept? Ex bf has a gf, but wants to start over with me as friends and see where things go

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2928 days ago

19 April 2016 (F) - I need to start off by saying I am emotionally in a bad place these last few days, and I may be all over the place with this. I severely need help from unbiased views. I feel uncomfortable talking with friends about this. An ex bf of mine (was ...

Should I hint to him that I want this, or should I leave in the hope that he will ask instead?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2928 days ago

18 April 2016 (F) - I had a drunken one night stand with a guy in my first term at university and we eventually became friends with benefits. This carried on for three months, until we both developed feelings and felt the best thing to do was end things as neither ...

Any time I go near this guy my friend comes over and drags him off. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2927 days ago

18 April 2016 (F) - So there's this disco that everyone goes to and this boy I kind of like wants me to kiss him at it. I keep trying to text him but he doesn't reply. My best friend who knows I like him and want to kiss him at the disco keeps flitting with him. Sh...

What can I do? Why does my husband choose to associate with this bad company of friends? I'm feeling uncomfortable with this

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2927 days ago

18 April 2016 (F) - My husband's friends makes me feel uncomfortable. We just hit our 1yr anniversary and it seems throughout it all our major disagreement has been about the company he keeps. Majority of his friends are into fraud and bad business. I have checked...

How do I address this situation and this cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2927 days ago

18 April 2016 (F) - I got involved with my friends boyfriend A , we still dating even now behind her back.i always feel awful about it.I tried to break up with him but its not working we always find a way to get back to each other. Now A and my friend S have beautifu...

Our manager has threatened to fire us if we don't close our Facebook group

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2928 days ago

18 April 2016 (F) - Okay, so where i work we all have a facebook ‘group chat’ in this group chat there is over 50 of us in this group so basically nearly everyone from work. We use this chat on facebook to organise nights out i work in a casino and the casino is a 24hr ...

Am I being a controlling boyfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2929 days ago

18 April 2016 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for almost 6 years and we're finishing up college this year. We go to different schools but love each other so we've made it work long distance. The problem is that she's been partying a lot more. She traveled across ...

Is this older, married man, hitting on me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2929 days ago

17 April 2016 (F) - Can anyone help me understand what's going on with a older (48) MARRIED man from Church? I used to really like him as a friend/ advisor kind of role to me. Lately I have wondered if he likes me more than he should. When we talk only always rubs my ...

Any solutions possible? I have a difficult time trusting women because of a past ex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2923 days ago

17 April 2016 (M) - This is a whole pretty complicated story, I'll try to explain it as quickly as I can. My mother has been putting a lot of pressure on me lately to start dating, especially since I've been out of college for a year. I want to be able to date,...

Should he expect me to leave skype on 24/7, so he can conact me, while he is away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2929 days ago

17 April 2016 (F) - My husband has gone on vacation to see his family, When he is at home with me he neglects me and is all day on Skype to his family particularly mother. And I'm not exaggerating. Mother comes first for everything. But he does not like me to see ...

I've fallen for my best friend, his girlfriend hates me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2931 days ago

16 April 2016 (F) - Am I truly in love with my bestfreind? My best friend is a boy i have known him for several years now and we used to spend everyday together without fail. Now we live far away from each other. within the last year of us living close to each other we...

Husband lied for four years about sleeping with my friend

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2930 days ago

15 April 2016 (F) - I have been with my husband for seven years this year, married for two. We have three children together. Two girls and a boy. 7, 4 and 9 months. I have a friend, we will call her Lee, and we started becoming friends about two years ago when she foun...

My children and I need a different life.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2930 days ago

15 April 2016 (F) - My relationship is very complicated. I met my boyfriend while working as a part-time bartender. The first time I met him he told me that his wife had died six weeks prior. I was in shock by how easily he said it but yet I found that he was easy ...

Should I hurt him now or wait for him to hurt me in a few months?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2930 days ago

14 April 2016 (F) - Hi im 18 years of age and I'm at college I had previously broken up with am older guy that I had a long term relationship with I wasn't looking for anyone and I was happy but my friends all had partners and they decided to set me up wits a friend of ...

How should I approach my roommate to tell her that it's time for her to find a better BF?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2933 days ago

14 April 2016 (M) - How do you tell your roommate that she just needs to move on? Sooo my roommate has broken up with a guy for 5 months who basically threw her out on Christmas but she is still pursuing him. From what she says he is awful to her and Ive heard hi...

Romance or convince? Or would you gals rather meet a guy at a mutual level of interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2933 days ago

14 April 2016 (M) - Hello Everyone Not a douche. Just wanted to put that out there. Can you trick a girl into liking you? Not trick in a malicious way but rather convince after her initial hesitation or last minute resistance? Im thinking romancing. Oh and girls...

Do you think his response to the card I sent indicate that he is interested in me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2934 days ago

13 April 2016 (F) - Hello, I told a guy on his birthday like this:" that you special and that God created you and sent you as a gift to all who know you . On your birthday, I want to thank you that you have been able to change things in me that no one else could" ...