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Archived questions from: April, 2013 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

I've lost my boyfriend and a lot of my friends and now my lifestyle has changed dramatically, where do I go from here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

30 April 2013 (F) - My 3 year relationship ended recently. Not only have I lost my boyfriend but I've also lost a majority of my friends because a lot of my friends were my boyfriends friends. They're all still friends obviously and are always doing things together ...

Should I just give up on him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - I've known this guy for a while now he's really sweet, polite and cute. We text every week and we have hung out and he recently introduced me to his friends. We are friends and I do like him but he's going to be going away for a few months and it's ...

Will he notice that I gained weight? Does it matter to men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - I am probably going to sound completely insecure, but hey, I need some reassurance. I have liked this guy for a long time now, we used to see each other once a week over a 6 month period last year, but for various reasons we kept it purely platon...

Have I messed up any chance of having a friendship with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4006 days ago

29 April 2013 (M) - Hi, I'm 16 and I wrote this: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-dont-know-my-feelings-for-her-how.html because I thought I had feelings for this girl I know. I mean I still think I do but this could easily get confusing and too complex so I'll ...

I'm homesick and need a comfort zone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4016 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - Well this isnt a relationship question. I just moved to a new city to study and I am so homesick. Its my first semester here and its almost getting over, but I just want to go back home now. Although I can't. My home is far away. My room-mates ...

Should I try to reach out to a boy I don't know to give advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4016 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - There is this guy at my school. He's in one of my classes and were not exactly friends but I recently heard from a friend of his that he is depressed and has cut himself. I wish I could talk to him and give him words of encouragement but I don't ...

My boyfriend has asked if I'm ok if he goes to Amsterdam with 2 single friends. I already don't completely trust him! Should I tell him to stay behind?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - HI all, Im in a sticky situation with my boyfriend of 3 years, and really need some advice! last year for valentines we went away to Amsterdam on a city break for a couple of days and had such a good time we went again in december, my boyfriend has ...

My friend's behavior hurt and embarrassed me. Does everyone think I'm just a fat slob begging for food?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - So there's this girl, whom I'm friends with. We're not best friends, but we do go out for coffee, we hang out with other friends, etc. I though she was so nice, and that she liked me also. Today she was with some people (who I also know). I sa...

I need to cancel a trip for work reasons. How do I tell my friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - i told one of my friends i will be coming to visit nim nect month and even bought my ticket. however i got a job offer from a very good company and i don't want to request days off right ow. please tell me how i can explain to him that i need to ...

My friend hurt me and I'm wondering should I give her the chance to do it again or send her packing!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4016 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - My best friend hurt me really badly about a year ago it started suddenly for no obvious reason. She seemed to be constantly going out of her way to hurt me and said some terrible things behind my back. Including playing mind games and making nasty ...

How can I make friends? I feel that I missed out so much by not going away to college!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - I graduated high school last year and lost all my friends. Most of them went off to college, and they and the ones who are still in the area have changed, so I don't really want to hang out with them anymore, and we've lost touch. My parents ...

HELP! Does he have mutual feelings for me? I am falling for him...but don't want to get hurt!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - I need advice if this guy has feelings for me. We have known each other for 3 years on friendly terms. I have a feeling our mutual relationship is more than friends. He is going through a divorce and he tells me he no longer loves his ex, only as ...

He kissed me and then the next day told me to forget about it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3684 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - Ok, well me and my guy bestfriend kissed like 4 days ago. It was really sweet cuz he made me feeel better but the day after we kissed he texted me nd was all like "i feel bad, can we please forget about yesterday?" nd i said ok. and then he told me ...

My friend hurt me. Should I give her the chance to do it again? Or should I send her packing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

Why is my ex civiil to me when she told my friend she doesn't even like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

28 April 2013 (M) - i'm confused why the girl i used to date would make comment like this to my best mate about me. I thought things we're okay, so why she lied seems off to me. You decide... We had a bad break up, I was a douche to her I wont deny that. But she sa...

My ex guy friends are not responding on phone. Do they feel threatened that they don't have control over my life now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have a question I like to keep in contact with male friends of mine from time to time. We laugh and talk on the phone sometimes but when I started talking from my heart and saying things that I have been saying for years finally ...

Worked at creating a friendship, then she realized she had feelings that were one-sided

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4017 days ago

27 April 2013 (M) - I've had this female friend for a while. We were very distant at first; she'd talk to me but I wouldn't let things progress very far because I figured she was just making small talk. Eventually she revealed that she had been interested in ge...

Could my friend and I make things work as a couple?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4016 days ago

27 April 2013 (M) - Well, I have been there my best friend forever for 9 months. She just got of a serious relationship with a guy. He kept breaking up with her a few times before he proposed to her in front of me and they had a fight and he told her to go and do ...

Should I be worried about her being a threat to our relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

27 April 2013 (F) - Im a 20 year old female and i am in a relationship with a great guy. BUt I'm concerned you see a few months back the girl showed up out of the blue to see him before he got home from work i was at the house making dinner and she introduced herself ...

Could she still have feelings for me? Or has she moved on? Or is that she does not hold grudges?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4017 days ago

27 April 2013 (M) - I saw my ex on Thursday night and it was strange because things ended very badly with us, I was an idiot and was reckless the way I did it. I know I acted very insensitively after too so I didn't help the situation. So of course I expected her to w...

I liked him. Do you think he liked me or was just trying to recruit me as a volunteer?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4017 days ago

27 April 2013 (F) - I met this guy in a cafe this morning. He asked me if I was one of the volunteers. I said no, and he introduced himself and shook my hand and started telling me about his work. Then he invited me to sit down with him to have my breakfas...

She thinks she's protecting me but I think she's trying to control me. What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

27 April 2013 (M) - My girlfriend, my gf's sister, my brother, and a couple friends are all mutual friends. We all know each other and hanged out sometimes. We have an event planned to take pictures at a tulip field. Due to certain circumstances, my gf, my gf's sis...

What do you think? Is this slightly older guy at work just trying to be nice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

27 April 2013 (F) - I just want to know if he's just trying to be friendly. There's this guy at work, he's a bit older than myself. I've noticed him around the office but never thought much of it. He sits a few rows in front now and everytime he goes back to his seat...

He's moved on and he's happy. What do I do? How do I stop missing him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

27 April 2013 (F) - About a month and a half ago my boyfriend broke up with me. Over Facebook. We were "that" couple and everyone loved us. We got along on every level and always had such an amazing time together. The last couple weeks we had been fighting because ...

I am getting mixed signals from my friend, but I really like her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4017 days ago

26 April 2013 (M) - Does my female 19 year old uni friend like me? The things that make me think 'maybe' are: She jokes about going out and that I am the type of guy she would want to marry She always tells me I make her laugh She calls me cute I catch her lo...

Are my insecurities playing a part in this? Or were his comments rude?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

26 April 2013 (F) - I’ve been seeing this guy (exclusively but not boyfriend and girlfriend yet)for just over 2 months (I have known him for 5 months but things started progressing properly 3 months in), I'm 20, he's 21, things are really good between us in general....

Why would he call me a Princess and then tell me that I like to get my own way and I sulk? Is that a compliment or is he flirting with me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

26 April 2013 (F) - Why would he say that to me? Is it a compliment? I was talking to this cute guy I like. I'm very quiet and shy around him and he's quiet Around me too. He said I'm very mysterious and a princess I said why does he calls me a princess he said I...

Are we friends? more? What does he want?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4014 days ago

26 April 2013 (?) - Ok, so this is not the first emailing we did. We emailed on and off since late 2011, but we needed to stop because of our circumstances. Middle of 2012 he had to leave town, so there was no talking or anything for like a year. Without anything ...

Why do I appear so imperfect to him? Do I give up on this relationship or what am I supposed to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

26 April 2013 (F) - My boyfriend (of now 4.5 years) was a bit stupid. After one year of the relationship, he kept saved pictures of his ex semi-naked and met up with her secretly behind my back (but did not physically cheat). Anyway, after I found out we had a big ro...

We both lost our feelings for each other overnight. How does this happen?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3990 days ago

26 April 2013 (M) - On January 20th, I met this girl at a club and got her number. The next day, I texted her and since we were both bored, we ended up going meeting at the mall later on. Instant connection... We had the best time. Afterwards, we continued textin...

How long could it take to get over my first love? Is there any hope to be friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

26 April 2013 (M) - how long does it take to get over my first love? i dated this girl since oct 2012. she was the one who went after me. i had the biggest crush on her to scared to say anything. she was just amazing beautiful kind funny and very tall 6 feet. we were ...

Is he more into this relationship than he's willing to admit?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

26 April 2013 (F) - An old relationship is in the process of being renewed. He says he wants to keep it casual, but is constantly saying and doing things that don't define casual. He comes over several times a week, sometimes, twice a day. If I don't call him, he ...

Why would my friend delete me off of her Facebook and Instagram?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

26 April 2013 (F) - Ok so I have been friends with this girl for most of my life and our families are also very close. We go to the same school as well but as time progressed we kind of grew apart. Even though we didn't talk as much we still kept in touch through ...

Should I even bother to hang around with my best (bi/gay) friend after he has hurt me so much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3678 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - I'm a straight girl who has a male "best friend" of 8 years. All those years ago he supposedly liked me, but I never went there as I didn't feel the same – but I didn’t play him. However the years have gone by and we had grown closer - everyone ...

Are these fishy goings-on, or am I paranoid?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - Hi there, I found a message in my boyfriends phone, he was flirting with a girl, but she lives/ works in another country, but yearly at least they come together at a conference in the same place. There was a lot of prompting from her side, ...

Going on holiday without my boyfriend - should I tell him the truth about where I'm going?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - Am i being selfish going on holiday without my boyfriend? I'm going to London for three days next week with my mum. My boyfriend doesn't even know yet! When my boyfriend gets paid, he goes to see his friends for about three days. Sometimes less, ...

Is it time to leave? She issued me with an ultimatum: The bachelor party or her

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

25 April 2013 (M) - My girlfriend(who I live with) and I have been at odds everyday for the last week. My friend has a wedding coming this weekend, and their bachelor party on Friday night. So she has made an effort to fight with me everyday. But to cut to the chase...

It's over, but he still wants me around?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - My ex boyfriend of 5 years dumped me 4 months ago and won't let me go. He broke my heart. He told me he wasn't fully sure I was the one for him and he couldn't go on feeling these feelings of uncertainty any longer. He told me he loved me and...

My Mom seems to want me to be more like her. But that's not me. How can I handle this problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - hey aunties and uncles, it's not a relationship question, well not of the romantic kind anyway. just a quick background, As a child I wasn't very shy but as the years passed I suppose I became shy with strangers at school I wasn't bullied, ...

I'm distraught about his actions. He's been lying to me and talking to another woman on line. Do I stay quiet or confront him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - Not long before my fiancee and I got engaged, we had a fidelity issue- on his part. It took me a long time (and I am just summing this up to keep it short) but eventually I forgave him. Its been YEARS since then but sometimes I get bitten by the b...

Involved with a married woman. So why is she acting this way? Why is she treating me like this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

24 April 2013 (M) - hey guys i need advice. ive been involved with a married woman for about 7 months. i know its wrong but hear what i have to say please. we started off as friends good friends. talking everyday spending a few hours together. and i started falling ...

My husband said he'd pack up and move to be with his first love! What am I supposed to do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - I just recently found out that my husband's first-love contacted him. I also now know that he was the one making the attempts to find her He says he is still in love with her and never got over her. He also wants to continue contact with her to ...

Does he just want friendship? I'm confused

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - I've got a guy sitting next to me due to seating plan in class for about 2 months. He was my classmate last year too but we didn't talk to each other untill last 2 months. I guess we are close friends at the moment, he isn't cold to me anymore. ...

We have sex but he wont consider being my boyfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4020 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - Atfirst this guy and ibwere together,then we were forced to seperate by parents.Well,now we are allowed around eachouther and we have been sleeping together for about 2 years..i would like to have and call it a relationship,however he says he isn't ...

I feel second best.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4020 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for about 6 months, and i have a 1 year old son. When i first met him, he always put us first and called and texted but lately he always puts his female friend of 16 years above me. He goes to her first...

I don't like being around the cheating g/f of my boyfriend's best friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4020 days ago

23 April 2013 (F) - I'm in a really difficult situation here and need help. My boyfriend and his best friend have been friends forever and they are really close and are always together. My boyfriends best friend has been with his girlfriend for about 6 months n...

Is it time to cut my high school friends off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4020 days ago

23 April 2013 (F) - Ok so I have known my high school friends for about 10 years and we were close knit. Now i am a junior in college and they both have had children and not really where they would like to be in life. I have still remained there for both of them but I ...

He has a close, touchy female friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4020 days ago

23 April 2013 (F) - my boyfriend and i are in a long distance relationship. we've been apart for almost two years and plan to see each other and live together soon this year.he studies and works abroad. he has a very close female friend who is his co-worker too. the ...

Why is she treating me this way? Did she ever love me? I can't deal with this!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

23 April 2013 (M) - Hi guys my girlfriend broke up with me 4 weeks ago a 6 month relationship. The thing is she's married and older 10 years she’s 28 I'm 18. Things were great I was moving closer to her she was making it clear it was over with her hubby. To make i...

Why cant I befriend this girl who is also friends with my BF?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

23 April 2013 (F) - Both my boyfriend and I share a large friend group who we have all been friends with for a long time. There is this other girl in the group who I seem to be bothered by a lot. To be honest, me and her are really the only two girls in the group, th...