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Archived questions from: June, 2015 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

Is there a chance that I can convince my ex Bf that I've changed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3221 days ago

30 June 2015 (F) - My ex boyfriend broke up with me just under 2 years ago. I had liked him for a year before we went out and when we finally got together i was the happiest person around. Around 7 months after the very awkward breakup, we started talking again ju...

Don't know where to start. Any ideas or suggestions on how to start dating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3222 days ago

30 June 2015 (F) - So I am 20 years old and I feel like it's time to start dating. But i am completely lost on how to even start. I have female friends but they don't have male friends plus I'm scared to even ask. I don't want to seem desperate. Any ideas or sug...

Should I reach out to my crush or let things be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3222 days ago

30 June 2015 (F) - So I've had a crush or more like a platonic friendship with a guy I've know for years. We've had a flirty type of friendship for about 5 years. We've talked off and on and just when I think I'm over him he comes back. He's known I've always had a ...

Will it be leading this girl on if I text her? I know she likes me but I don't want to date her

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3222 days ago

29 June 2015 (M) - I used to work with this girl at work and she has a very strong crush on me(workmates all know and she expressed her feelings of love many times). Quite awhile ago she left for another workplace, making sure I got her number to chat with her. I d...

My friend is heart broken and I don't know how to help her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3221 days ago

29 June 2015 (M) - Hi , Its been one year since my best buddy has fallen love with her colleague.Beside that her colleague has a girlfriend with whom he wants to get married. She knows it but can't help getting depressed about it.Beside that her colleague tells ...

Was it wrong that I wanted to share a dance with him? He's unhappy with me. My friends say I should leave him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3224 days ago

28 June 2015 (F) - Hi all, so lately my friends have been telling me I should leave my boyfriend.. We've been together for a year and a half.. So this is what happened. We graduated and we had a grad ball for us to celebrate and have a good time. So a day before ...

How can I handle everyone asking me if I like this boy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3224 days ago

27 June 2015 (F) - One of my friends found out I like this boy in my year she then told other people and now everyone in my year know that I like him. I've known this guy since I was around like 6/7 years old. Now everywhere I go people keep asking me "Do you like...

Are my reactions to his actions enough to call me clingy and obsessive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3224 days ago

27 June 2015 (F) - Am I being paranoid and clingy? My bf of over a year and I recently got into a long-distance situation. Getting used to the distance has put considerable strain on our relationship as he is more extroverted than I am. He's always been a bit of a ba...

Does it seem like he's flirting? So why are my affections wandering?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3225 days ago

27 June 2015 (F) - Hi all, So, I've got a bit of an internal dilemma going on. I've vented to people in my life about this but it gets me no where so I'm hoping maybe strangers will give me the straightforward answers I'm looking for. I'm in a committed relationsh...

My boyfriend's ex-girlfriend wants to stay friends with him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3226 days ago

26 June 2015 (F) - We are living together in our own apartment for 3 years now and I just found out one of his female friends that he spends lots of time talking to was one of his exgirlftiends (his first love), she's the only ex that he's still talked too and I've ...

How do I take this slow enough for my co worker, but also let her know that I'm interested ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3226 days ago

26 June 2015 (M) - I very recently left my wife (less then a month ago). I realized I had feelings for a co worker. Since the breakup between my wife and I, my co-worker has admitted that she to has feeling for me but she is afraid of a relationship. She is only 20...

Any tips? How can I get him to kiss me on our second date ?.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3227 days ago

25 June 2015 (F) - I started uni in September and met someone I like a lot. We've chatted loads and I plucked up the courage to ask him out but he said no. I was upset but got over the rejection. But our friendship got a little stronger. We had an end if year part...

Am I right to feel a little scared about a man I had a brief fling with?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3228 days ago

24 June 2015 (F) - Am I right to feel a little scared about a man I had a brief fling with? The thing is - he was lovely to start with, in the beginning, but then we fell out and split up due to his continual flirting with other women on FB. I called him a pl...

Is my behaviour really irrational, in the circumstances?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3228 days ago

23 June 2015 (F) - hi, I am little confused with my boyfriends actions lately he thinks I am making a big deal out of nothing but I think it hurts me somewhere! Let me give you 2 instances Yesterday I asked his help to write a formal letter this was for my littl...

Is there any chance our friendship with this couple could be rekindled?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3221 days ago

23 June 2015 (M) - My wife and I know a couple, A and B, who live 5 minutes away and we used to consider them good friends. I think we have only gotten together (just the 4 of us) 2 times in the last 3 years. They have said they are too busy to do much with us. We ...

Is this stress I feel and the emotional shut-down I experience a normal reaction to the trauma of seeing my friend pass away in an accident when I was a child?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3229 days ago

23 June 2015 (M) - I am from a small town. Many many years ago I was not old enough to go to school. I went with my mom to get my older brother. We picked him up and and were heading home. My brother's best friend used to ride his bicycle home everyday. My br...

I don't want things to get uncomfortable at work, but could she be indicating that she likes me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3228 days ago

22 June 2015 (M) - I have this coworker, She have a BF who lives in New Jersey and we live in Texas and work at a restaurant together. She's sarcastic to me, sometimes laughs at my jokes, we hung out once at my house before work just watched tv for 30mins Tod...

We've been having arguments over silly things. Is it frustration that could be causing me to get angry so quickly? But if his cousin speaks badly of me should he speak up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3228 days ago

22 June 2015 (F) - Okay, so I haven't used my dear cupid a little bit over a year. I first got it when I was in 8th grade or a freshman; when I was in my first serious relationship. I had put some stories on how I was pregnant at 16 and so forth. Anyway's, ...

Was it weird and randon that he never normally talks to me and yet at a party he chatted, asked me questions and added me on facebook? Is he interested in friendship or dating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3230 days ago

22 June 2015 (F) - Hi, So a few months ago, I was on a party and a guy was there, (he's 1 year younger than me). Then a few days later he added me on Facebook and started chatting with me and asking me questions and stuff, he was very nice but I found it weird and ...

My friend says it's emotional blackmail. My mother says breakup with him. He's my first ''proper'' relationship. What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3230 days ago

21 June 2015 (F) - So I've been in a relationship for 2 years, I just turned 17 and I have known him for goodness knows how long, we went to primary together and I know people say going out with you best friend never work but I genuinely thought we did, until the last ...

Our 12 year old son shows no interest in family life and ignores Father's day and Mother's day. How should I approach these issues with him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3226 days ago

21 June 2015 (M) - I have a 12 year old son. He dosn't show much interest in spending time with the family. His life revolves around computers, video games, and similar devices. We have tried installing firm and strict usage rules, and even downright a "ban" on compu...

Why is this ex trying to turn friends against me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3230 days ago

21 June 2015 (F) - Why is an ex trying to turn my friends against me? I had a brief affair with a guy who was a bit of a player - chatting and flirting with women etc. I told him I didn't think I could be part of his life like it is and told one of my friends that ...

Do you think it is worth me continuing to see him? Will his feelings for her fade with time?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3229 days ago

21 June 2015 (F) - Dear aunties and uncles About a month ago I met a man who is 60, has been separated for 2 years and is currently going through a divorce. I am 55 and divorced. We have gone out together twice and each time have had a really wonderful fun tim...

Why does he not seem to care? Am I wrong to feel offended?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3232 days ago

20 June 2015 (F) - Hi people of DearCupid. I hope you can help me figure this out and I apologise in advance if I make typing mistakes or sound incoherent. I'm on my friends laptop so not used to the keyboard. I'm in a long-distance relationship, it's...

How do I approach her to resolve our dispute? What should I say or do? She and I fell out and have not spoken for a year

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3232 days ago

20 June 2015 (F) - hi! my bestfriend and I recently ended our year long silent war (ignoring each other) she was the one who came to me 1st. I really want to go back to the way things were before, but I don't know how to approach her. what should I do?...

Should I initiate and make a call? Or hope for the best?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3233 days ago

20 June 2015 (F) - I have an acquaintance that about 6-8 weeks ago told me that he had someone he would like me to meet and that he would set up a night out (drinks and appetizers kind of night) for a few couples to get together so we could meet. I agreed to this. ...

Where does that spark to want to do good in the community come from? Why do some lose it? Why do some never want to give back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3225 days ago

20 June 2015 (F) - Hello everyone. I maybe have a somewhat different question. I was wondering what happens to people when they lose their passion towards wanting to do good, to help the society, and instead want to just earn as much money as possible, even i...

What I don't understand is why the ladies never initiate contact with me to set up a game. Why not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3231 days ago

19 June 2015 (M) - I'm in my 40's and I like to play tennis. I've asked some ladies to play, and it's fun. (BTW I'm married, and most of them are too.) What I don't get, is why they never call/e-mail me to ask if I'm up for tennis. When I contact them, usuall...

My Bf's best friend is dating her. Yet she's becoming a fixture at my Bf's place. Am I being too suspicious and too territorial?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3232 days ago

19 June 2015 (F) - My boyfriend's best friend has recently started dating this girl who is a well known village mattress and trust me I'm sugar coating it. At first I had no problem with her however over the past 3 weeks she's insisted on spending visiting my boyfrien...

She called me sweetheart. She's really happy that I'm not leaving. Does she like me as more than a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3233 days ago

19 June 2015 (F) - Hi. I am a lesbian and have never had close female friends. My close friends are boys. There is a woman I work with and I can't figure out if she likes me a close friend or if she likes me more than that. Never having had any close female frien...

He asked for my number. Does this guy like me, or is it just my imagination?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3234 days ago

17 June 2015 (F) - I just started working a couple weeks ago and we met at lunch one day. We talked the whole time just getting to know each other. Every time we see each other we either talk or do a silly dance towards each other to the song playing in the back...

Too many boy's night's for boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3235 days ago

16 June 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year this summer. We are both in our late twenties. When we met, I knew he was different. We both have talked about this is the best relationship we’ve ever been in, and basically from the very start, we ...

I've discouraged him in the past. But should I, or should I not continue to suppress my feeling, for B, again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3236 days ago

16 June 2015 (F) - Hi everyone :) I think I am only now realizing that maybe I like my friend more than just a friend. I have a friend (call him B) who I have known for around 5 years. He was one of my first friends when I moved to USA. We met in a community co...

The contact just stopped. What should I do? It has now been four days.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3237 days ago

16 June 2015 (M) - So I met this girl on an online dating website. She lives overseas. I normally don't bother messaging people overseas but we really hit It off. We exchanged numbers and then everyday over 5 weeks we texted and sent voice ntes. We talked about a l...

Is it weird to see if they would be interested in a date, after all these years?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3234 days ago

15 June 2015 (M) - So i have a question for all you women. If you accidentally run across an old acquaintance after nearly 10 years (who you really didn't talk to very much) is it weird to see if they would be interested in a date? This person was coincidental...

Going to University in September. Will people think I'm strange if I'm wary of random hook-ups and the club scene?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3236 days ago

15 June 2015 (F) - I will be going to University in September but I am really worried about the whole club scene. I am a pretty girl but I don't want people to come up to me and expect certain things. I will never have sex with anyone randomly and I have to be in a ...

Wedding and friend issue: Am I justified in still feeling so angry and hurt? Why should I forgive and forget as she wants me to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3237 days ago

15 June 2015 (F) - Struggling to move on after best friend break up. At this point, I feel like my friendship with my BFF is basically over, or at the very least, has become a simple, yet strained acquaintance-ship. In a nutshell, bff and I have been bff's for 20...

I'm planning on asking her out soon. Any suggestions or recommendations?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3237 days ago

15 June 2015 (M) - So, my 3 year crush rejected me recently and now i'm trying to do something with this new girl in my english class. Long story short: new english class, new mates, 15 girls and me. There is this one who is so pretty and and a little bit shy. It...

Why all the inaction in between? Does he really like me, or is he just bored?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3237 days ago

15 June 2015 (F) - I have been friends with this guy for a little over 2 years. Last year, we attempted to date but when he didn't seem to value our relationship as much as i did, i drew back and ended it. I figured if he actually wanted to get into something serious ...

I know that I have to move on and find someone else but how do I deal with all of these feelings of guilt, regret and jealousy in the meantime?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3237 days ago

15 June 2015 (M) - Bit of a long and I'll admit quite a convoluted question here. A while back I told one of my friends that I liked her as more than a friend and she was super cool about it but she said that she didn't feel the same way. Anyway, we stayed friend...

I'm moving to a new city, but have depression and social anxiety, how do I make friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3237 days ago

15 June 2015 (F) - I'm self employed and earn enough to be able to move to my dream city soon. I'm really worried about making friends there though. I have good social skills but dropped out of uni a few years ago and have pretty much stayed at home working, with ze...

He innocently flirts with my friends and older girls/ women without realizing it. How should I deal with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3237 days ago

15 June 2015 (F) - Hi, Im 14 and been dating a guy off and on all year... We dated once broke up because timing wasn't good, got back together after 4 months, broke up, and here we are now. I think this time around we are doing a lot better and he seems determin...

Feeling crazy in love with this girl. But have I loved her too much? She's always chatting online

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3235 days ago

15 June 2015 (M) - Please people I seriously need help on this issue of mine. I am crazy in love with a girl in my office, I love her so much that I don't want any Guy around her coz am so scared to lose her in my life, but I think she got know the levels of my love...

My friends are moving on and I am jealous!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3232 days ago

14 June 2015 (F) - So last September, my friends all went off to college while I stayed at my school to do my A-levels there. But since then, literally none have them have talked to me. At all. I understand that they've made new friends that they'll see pret...

Has he really changed, should I give him a second chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3238 days ago

14 June 2015 (F) - For a year, I was in a relationship with someone who I loved, of course, but he didn't seem very dedicated. He never told his parents about us. He was never as eager as I was to talk or go out. We didn't see each other every day or even each week ...

What would you recommend? I'm making the move on her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3230 days ago

14 June 2015 (M) - So, my 3 year crush rejected me recently and now im trying to do something with this new girl in my english class. Long story short: new english class, new mates, 15 girls and me. There is this one who is so pretty and and a little bit shy. ...

My ex: Does he still love me? Or does he just want us to maintain a friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3239 days ago

13 June 2015 (F) - I was once dating a guy way back in junior high, he was in high school then. We broke up because my parents found out about my affair with him(because i wasn't of the legal age then) but since then, he has been calling me almost everyday telling ...

Am I being too harsh getting annoyed with my fiancé's bed-wetting and his behaviour when he is very drunk?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3239 days ago

13 June 2015 (F) - Am I just being over sensitive? My fiance and I do not go out very often, mainly due to finances, but he does get to go out more often than I do. I don't mind this as I am a bit more of a 'home' person. However there is something about his beha...

Do you think I might still have a chance with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3241 days ago

11 June 2015 (F) - I have a friend who I've known about four years. A few years ago he said he had feelings for me. I said I had previously liked him, but at that time i saw us more as just friends. We kept in touch very close, until I got into a relationship...

Colleague has become my best friend....but should we start dating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3240 days ago

10 June 2015 (F) - A new guy started working with me a year ago. He is the level above me and more qualified (im training to gain the same qualifications). Over the last year he has become one of my best friends. Hes great company and we get on unbelieveably well. He ...