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Archived questions from: February, 2017 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

She says I'm psycho but I hink she is cheating.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2564 days ago

28 February 2017 (M) - Hi everyone Recently My girlfriend went out for a night-out and came back with a boy (who was her friend) and was in her bed watching a movie.Her flat mate (who has been her best friend since a young child) said she heard the bed moving, breathin...

I like this guy. But he has also become friends on social media with a girl who has previously said bad things about me. What can I do in this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2603 days ago

28 February 2017 (F) - Hello everyone I could use some advice It's a small world, definitely for me. I went for a pageant where my roommate wasn't such a good person. She accused me of stealing because all apple headphones look the same and I took her headphones by mi...

I worry I am being led down the garden path again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2614 days ago

27 February 2017 (F) - Im really confused I hope someone helps. A few years ago I've met a guy and I've actually lost my virginity to him. he meant a lot to me and things were going great however I was afraid of commitment and I thought negatively so my thoughts were th...

I'm scared to follow my dreams in case my past could be viewed as a scandal!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2610 days ago

26 February 2017 (F) - I married a man who is my mother's ex-boyfriend's younger brother. Let me explain. So my mother dated a guy for two years, ten+ years ago. I was 18/19 at the time. The man lived with us as a 'step-father'. I was never around due to college, a jo...

How can I stop comparing myself to everyone else? How can I become Assertive and less insecure?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2610 days ago

26 February 2017 (F) - I'm single woman in my early thirties that on the outside most people would say (kind-generous -attractive- nice). My problem is - I'm very insecure ( I worked and work so much on outer appearance ) that I lack self confidence. I can't say no (...

Do I ask her out online or in person? She is shy.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2610 days ago

24 February 2017 (M) - I don't know if I should ask her out in person or online? We talk often, and get along well. In fact I often see her staring, and all of the signs that tell me she likes me are clear now. She's shy, and probably won't ask me out herself, so I thin...

How do I tell someone that their romantic feelings toward me are not mutual?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2610 days ago

24 February 2017 (F) - I'm not into relationships at all, just casual stuff mainly. However, a guy I've recently been seeing thinks he's fallen in love with me and wants to be in a relationship. The issue is I can't bring myself to tell him that's not what I want. I'm ...

Is this recently widowed woman demonstrating a desire for a closer physical relationship with me, or is she grieving?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2613 days ago

24 February 2017 (M) - Hello A woman i know, when we meet, we hug and kiss each other on the cheek. Not long ago her husband died. The last we met we hugged and she placed my head on her breastl Does she want a closer relationship with me? As in sexual? Or is it so...

Should I ? I'm tempted to contact the other people involved and ask them

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2600 days ago

24 February 2017 (M) - Looking for some advice here.. About a year ago, I found out that my fiancée and two of her (our?) friends had been exchanging intimate photos - and had even been together a couple of times. I confronted her, she broke down, told me that the o...

I lost respect when I found out my friend was a home wrecker.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2611 days ago

24 February 2017 (F) - I have a friend, lets call him x, who recently told me he's got a new girlfriend. I was happy for him, and asked the typical questions, appears she's a colleague of his and she's got two kids ages 7 and 4, that he hasn't met yet but is excited about ...

My best friend hates my boyfriend, I don't want to break up with him for her.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2611 days ago

23 February 2017 (F) - I have a boyfriend that I love very much, however my best friend hates him and she thinks he's taking me away from her. However I hang round with my best friend a lot more than I do with my boyfriend and she gets very jealous when I'm with him . She ...

Would I be betraying my Mom's memory if I get close to Dad's new girlfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2611 days ago

23 February 2017 (F) - Hello, My name is Bree. 2 years ago my mother died and it has been sad and rough for my Dad and I. When my mom died it really broke my Dad's heart, he loved her so much and misses her, and I miss her too. But last month my Dad told me he met another ...

If he wants to remain friends, I'm going to need a sincere apology!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2611 days ago

23 February 2017 (F) - I recently broke it off with a guy I was dating because he wasn't ready for commitment. It hurt a lot but I'm mostly over it now. There was a deep connection and we could potentially be really good friends if the bad feelings can be resolved....

How do I stop falling in love with my best friend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2611 days ago

23 February 2017 (F) - I'm in love with my best friend at college. He's not your average stud bit of a stoner, very clever and it nerdy but probably THE funniest guy I have ever met, I could be having a really shit time and I'd talk to him for like 2 minutes and he puts a ...

How does one overcome loneliness? I feel like I have no one to talk to nor anyone I can confide in

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2616 days ago

23 February 2017 (F) - feel like I'm alone !! I feel like I have no one to talk to or confide in!! family members aren't an option I don't want to tell them what's really on my mind. my boyfriend well he is not to interested and even then some of my feelings aren't ...

Should I continue to see this man? He is also my boss. He says he wants to keep his independence, and doesn't want anything serious

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2611 days ago

22 February 2017 (F) - Hi all! I've recently started a new position in my work place and since moving facilities my boss and I have become very close (he is the same age as me 26). It all started with him asking discreet questions about my relationship status,...

Is it up to me to make the first move in this situation? Because I think he thinks, in error, that I'm exclusively gay.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2615 days ago

22 February 2017 (F) - I sit next to a guy in one of my classes, and I've realised recently that I'm really into him. I work with him on a production and I think it's been coming on for a while, but best of all I get the impression he's into me too. I just have sever...

How do I gauge how much interest a guy really has in me? I want a guy who cares

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2618 days ago

21 February 2017 (F) - I've been bad w/spotting one sided relationships, so I want a guy who is actually interested in me. I went to an event I go every year, I knew I would meet guys there, but I never expected to find a guy who was really into me. Usually at that eve...

Should I move on? She had a crush on this guy previously. They've had recent conversations with each other

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 2611 days ago

21 February 2017 (M) - I recently found out that my wife is having inappropriate conversations with someone who she had a crush on several years ago. I know for a fact that she asked this person a hypothetical question saying "Let me ask you something, what if I say he...

I don't in the slightest trust this artist who she met for lunch recently . Am I just insecure?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2614 days ago

20 February 2017 (M) - I am engaged to be married (2nd time for both of us). Because of her work my wife to be has developed many male friends/acquaintances including some who have been keen to take it further than platonic. She presents very innocently of al...

Should I ask if we are boyfriend and girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2621 days ago

20 February 2017 (F) - I have been dating a guy I met on tinder since December. We seem to get on really well and I feel that we always have good dates. After the 10th date, we slept together and have slept together a few times since. We have now probably been on...

Is he just being a generous best friend, who loves my company? Or is he in love with me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2591 days ago

20 February 2017 (M) - Good morning Aunties, I have a mighty problem I need help with. I am a bisexual man, 33 years of age. I am attracted to this 19 year old guy. He says he doesn't love me as a lover but as a friend. He says he is Christian and that his parent woul...

Did I just get friend-zoned?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2617 days ago

20 February 2017 (M) - So ive been talking to this girl , she Has trust issues from her past relationship she told me but before We texted each other goodnight she told me this Thanks for being the bestest friend.. did I just get friendzoned ??...

How can I talk to them about this? What can I do about my boyfriend and my best friend? He hangs out with her when I'm not present

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2617 days ago

19 February 2017 (F) - My best friend and I are very different people and we get on really well, even though I no longer see her very often. We have been friends for years. A year ago I helped her get close to a guy she liked who I liked at the same time. Things did...

I'm worried that my bf will randomly break up with me. How can face my insecurity and fear of this happening to me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2615 days ago

19 February 2017 (F) - I have a sort of silly worry to ask advice about. One of my good friends recently got broken up with. She met her BF in July and everything seemed to be going pretty well for them. I didn't think he was super considerate of her and she went out...

Should I tell my ex-best friend I have feelings for him ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2618 days ago

19 February 2017 (F) - I have a best guy friend. For about 2 years we were always together , flirting, deep connection . I can't explain it was more love . Everyone used to think we was a couple I'm 99% sure he liked me but neither of us pushed for it .I wasn't sure whe...

Is he trying to convey something by winking at me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2618 days ago

18 February 2017 (F) - Hello there, My co-worker and I were very good friends at work. We had never gone out together, I felt some subtle hints from him. Then we got into major conflicts, he came by to apologize afterward. After that, I backed off and just be another ...

Why is my friend touching me this way?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2618 days ago

17 February 2017 (F) - I have a friend whom I know from 2 months and we became close in a very short while... From few weeks he is touching my sides, hips and breast. What does this mean? ...

How can I stop feeling so very angry with my ex boyfriend? ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2617 days ago

17 February 2017 (F) - Hi , I used to be in a relationship with this guy , we started off as being friends he was all pleasant he even sat alone with me to have lunch . But then things started to change, we both developed romantic feelings for each other, we both fel...

Am I too old to make positive changes in my life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2619 days ago

16 February 2017 (F) - I'm just going to preface this by saying that I know I may receive answers that I may not want to hear, but I just need honest answers so that I can have closure. When is a woman too old to find someone, to get married, get into a profession or ma...

If he misses his ex does that mean his affection for me was fake?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2619 days ago

16 February 2017 (F) - Seeing him for 3 months. He told me he loved me 3 separate times when drunk, to which I didn't respond. He came over to my place all the time, he said he wanted to meet my parents. Then the last time he told me he loved me, the next day he just sto...

I'm crushing on an older female doctor. How do I ask her out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2619 days ago

16 February 2017 (F) - I have a huge crush on a medical professional. I want to be as vague as I can be so bare with me. TL;DR I have a crush on my female doctor who's twice my age. How do I ask her out? Should I even do it? She's easily double my age... she's su...

A straight friend wants to have sex with me. Should I?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2619 days ago

16 February 2017 (M) - Hi.i have a friend who i would like to have sex with.he is straight i am gay. What should i do?ahead thanks....

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2620 days ago

15 February 2017 (F) - My male friend and I were supposed to just be going out for drinks this Friday night, but he asked me if I wanted to go out for a meal before that too. Do you think it's a date? He hasn't said whether it is or not. I feel nervous about havin...

Where Can I Find A Guy To Date Casually?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2620 days ago

15 February 2017 (F) - I moved to a new city recently so don't know too many people outside work (I do have lovely good friends, but they're mostly older women who can't introduce me to many guys) and not many single guys my age. I'm inexperienced with guys too, never ...

Would I be doing myself a favour to just tell him how I feel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2620 days ago

15 February 2017 (F) - When should you tell someone how you feel? A friend and work colleague kissed me a while ago and told me had feelings for me but it all went wrong as he had an ex in the same work place and didn't want to make things awkward. I have been trying...

How can I find out if we are more than friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2620 days ago

14 February 2017 (F) - I have known this guy for about 7 years now; we were good friends at uni but then we lost touch when we graduated. We recently reconnected at a mutual friends wedding, and have been messaging on and off ever since. For the past couple of months, we ...

My husband wants me to give his friend a hand job!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 2625 days ago

14 February 2017 (F) - my husband has been trying to talk me into giving his best friend a mercy hand job , Because his wife has some kind of a medical problem ? His friend has been so sad ever since his wife has cut him off . I am seriously considering doing it for him ...

Boyfriend's grandmother died, should I go to the funeral?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2625 days ago

13 February 2017 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 years grandma recently passed away. He's asking me to go to a funeral with him to comefort him. I told him I would feel out of place and not comefortable because I never really knew his grandma or other relatives besides his ...

Is it common for a male to leave his stuff in another man's house? He has a GF. I have a crush on him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2625 days ago

13 February 2017 (M) - Hello, is it common for a male to leave his stuff in another man's house? I have been attracted to this guy who I am much older than. He is 19, I am 33. He says he isn't attracted to me, and sees me as a best friend. We have so much in common, ...

Should I go with him and be miserable or stay at home and get anxious?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2625 days ago

13 February 2017 (F) - Dear Cupid I'm with my Current bf for a year, he never told me he loves me though I told him twice. He mentioned that he is not comfortable saying it, since it feels like forced for him. So we do not talk about love anymore. We live 45 minu...

My parents are very critical of friends and boyfriends.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2625 days ago

13 February 2017 (F) - I have 2 very loving and involved parents. My one complaint is that they can be too judgmental of the people in my life. I have always been very cautious and responsible. But I do have a history of choosing lousy boyfriends/ accepting way le...

I fear our cultures will clash too much!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2629 days ago

12 February 2017 (F) - Dear agony aunts Recently I have been seeing a guy that I really like and starting to have feelings for, we have been on several dates and been seeing each other for the last couple of months I like this guy so much but he is English living i...

Shall I forfeit the money and not go on this holiday abroad next month?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2625 days ago

12 February 2017 (F) - About a month ago my friend and another couple and their friend (who I know but not really friendly with) agreed to go on holiday abroad next month. My friend and I had gone on a holiday together the previous year with another group and in that ...

I think he might want more than to be my friend.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2625 days ago

12 February 2017 (F) - Does my male friend fancy me?. I have spoken to him about my ex boyfriend sometimes. He kept saying that I deserved to be treated better than how my ex was treating me. We had a night out last night. He touched my leg with his foot in a jokey way a ...

A year after breaking it off with me he wants my phone number, should I give it to him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2625 days ago

12 February 2017 (F) - So I have a question I'd like some help with. I'm really confused as to whether I should get back with my ex. I was with my ex for 9 years 15-24. There were no issues everything was great almost perfect but nothing is perfect I guess. I loved h...

Friend uploaded video of me saying things when drunk. She won't take it down but I'm worried

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2625 days ago

11 February 2017 (F) - My friend uploaded a video of us playing drinking games when we were at hers. In it, I am slightly tipsy (as we all are) and I can be heard saying rather inappropriate things which I feel could implicate my future. I've told her I'm worried abo...

He sent me a happy birthday text then unblocked me. Is this a good sign?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2625 days ago

11 February 2017 (F) - Just wanted a few opinions I had a huge falling out with a guy I was close friends with We didn't talk for a long time bar the sporadic text So he messaged me happy birthday a few weeks ago and I noticed this week has unblocked me from a mes...

I'm jealous that my male best friend had beenseeing someone!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2627 days ago

11 February 2017 (F) - My best friend and I have known each other since we were 12 years old. So about 9/10 years now. We've always been best friends. Never argued etc.. he was there for me after my terrible breakup from my ex boyfriend. (He would tell me he will always ...

Do I tell my friend who I've seen on the dating site?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2629 days ago

11 February 2017 (F) - I have just joined a dating site and all is going well . My best friend met a guy on a night out and started seeing each other , even tho there is no official 'label' between them (boy/girlfriend) He did say to her and she agreed they would see how ...