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Archived questions from: May, 2012 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

I feel like my flatmate's being selfish -- am I right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4344 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - I don't really know what to say about this, I feel like i'm being very selfish but at the same time I also think my friend is being selfish. So I need advice on what to do and who really is in the wrong here... My flatmate has got a few friends do...

Was she just being nice? Did she like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4344 days ago

31 May 2012 (M) - I am a 14 going on 15, and I am falling for a girl that has no clue. I moved to the school th second semester. At first I thought she was very pretty, but she's bipolar, and I was nervous. Eventually, one of my freinds figured it out and she made me ...

Is this a missed opportunity? And should I start chasing him? or let it go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

31 May 2012 (?) - I have had crush on the most introverted guy I’ve ever known for the whole duration of my degree course. And I have a feeling that he likes me based on the long stares and he always seems to be there, but as soon as I talk to him or try and invo...

I want him to realize how bad his current relationship is, if nothing else!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4161 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - Ok. So when I was about 13, I met a guy. I thought he was around my age...but as it turned out he was 22. So, I didn't think of him in that fashion. BUT he was still a cool guy, so I continued to hang out with him. He quickly became the best friend ...

How do you clear up a rumor?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4344 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - My friends always spread rumors about me, and tried to ruin my reputation.. made fake facebook accounts of me, and did everything they could. And it worked, now I am in grade 9, and the people in my gym class had spread a rumor that me and my frie...

Do drunk people mean what they say?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4344 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - Hey everyone, So, I need to talk to someone and I have absolutely no one to confide in. This might be long, so thank you in advance for reading, I appreciate it so much. Me and this guy have been a "thing" for over two years, he's asked me to...

My friends are always having fall outs or are so close they ignore everyone else!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4344 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - Well, my friends are always having fall outs and I was just wondering if there is anyway to try and get them to stay friends without forcing them apart?? The other problem is that when they aren't falling out they act as if they are best friends and ...

Do I love my best friend or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4335 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - I've broken up with my bf a few months ago because I felt that I didn't love him as much as he deserved. Even though we didn't ever fight or there were no other problems... And strangely I haven't felt very sad after it either. Now the problem ...

I care more for boyfriend's friend than for the boyfriend, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4342 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - Hello everyone, my problem is i have been dating with my guy for a year, but i liked his friend too. As the relationship with my guy went on, he cheated on me a number of times then my love for him decreased each time i found out because i nolonger ...

When is a good time to start doing things like going and hanging out with friend, activating my Facebook again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4345 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - Hello .. Well my boyfriend has broken up with me,and this isn't the first time it's happened. He said he couldn't trust me,i've never cheated or lied but he has and he thought i would try to get back at him for it,but i wouldn't have done anythi...

Was I just a random hook-up for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4345 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - So, the situation is: I met this guy 6 months ago at college and we became part of the same friend group. We saw each other almost every day and went out together at night several times a week. About two months ago on a night out we ended up making ...

My Gay crush .Want to move on and forget. How can I understand why I'm so affected?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4207 days ago

30 May 2012 (M) - This has been a problem for too long now and I really need help with this issue concerning an ex friend. I’ve never really had many friends in my life but I’ve never let it bother me when I moved on from the few friends that I did have. But this...

Younger colleague who has a girlfriend asked me to a football game and wants me to meet his family! What is he doing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4345 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - I am friends with a much younger man at work we have never dated i heard he has a girlfriend. he asked me to a football game 5 months from now and wants me to meet his family what does it mean? what is he doing? ...

My friend likes the guy I'm dating and told me not to get with him, so how do I tell her that we are together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4344 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - Last month I ran into a guy I went to high school with that I have not seen in ten years. We exchanged phone numbers an have been seeing each other ever since. We have a lot in common and I have never been happier. My problem is that a week before I ...

I want Steve to be MY best friend, not his

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4346 days ago

30 May 2012 (M) - So I'm an 18 yr old male and really good friends with this kid steve. I really want him to be a close friend of mine, and be each others absolute best friends. However theres a problem, hes already best friends with another kid who I dont ...

I want to know how can I get back with my ex or should I even try?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4345 days ago

29 May 2012 (M) - My ex-girlfriend dumped me in september last year, before that we'd been going out for about a year and a half. She'd broken up with me once before that, but we got back together less than a week later, and we spent the time apart talking and acting ...

Am I right to be jealous of my wife's new 'guy friend'? It goes so far that she even does his laundry!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4346 days ago

29 May 2012 (M) - So, my wife and I have been married 12 yrs, and have always been admired for our relationship. About 6 months ago she started sharing her office with a single man, who quickly turned into her "guy friend". Since then, she's spent a lot of time ...

She only seems to want me when I'm not around, and then when I'm with her she wants space! Does she like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4345 days ago

29 May 2012 (M) - Hello. I am in a somewhat complicated situation with this girl. We started off as friends, and eventually we grew closer and closer, but just as friends. A few months later, she told me that she liked me and I went along and said I liked her too. ...

My best friend and my ex got together, but he wants me back! Would it ever be the same? Should I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4346 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - Okay so I dated this guy for almost a year and 4 months, but right around Christmas times things got a little awful. We had never really argued but a few times in our entire relationship, and we broke up once before. Christmas time we broke up again ...

I'm engaged, he is married and there is no attraction, but I enjoy our conversations! Am I wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4346 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - I feel like I'm doing something wrong by having an intellectual conversation with another man! I'm engaged, he is married. We are former co workers who are on Facebook together. When we used to work together he came in as the assistant manage...

I'm getting a little worried about my friend, she obsessed with her weight!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

28 May 2012 (F) - Hello everyone, I'm getting a little worried about my friend, we are in our last year of school and are both going to different colleges this year and she has recently opened up to me about how unhappy she feels with herself. She use to get bullied ...

Should I tell my friend that I like the guy she is dating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

28 May 2012 (F) - I'm a student and I've had a semi-relationship of about 9 months with a friend who I've known for almost 2 years. We were never actually official or even 'seeing' each other but we always went out got drunk and kissed and had sex a couple of times. ...

Was he a jerk or do we just have very different personalities?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

28 May 2012 (F) - Hello everyone, recently I had this really painful interaction with this guy and I just cannot make head or tail with it: I knew him since around a year, he asked me to go out a few times, but it was really never clear if on a real date or not, we ...

I want to get in touch with this guy from the past but he is an enemy of my friends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4346 days ago

28 May 2012 (F) - There's this guy he used to really like me and was sort of a pysco as I didn't like him as I was young and wanted to explore other people, and we stopped talkin on bad terms, and now iregret it as it seems any other guy that I have got close with ...

Girlfriend "moved on" while I was deployed, what happens now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2161 days ago

27 May 2012 (M) - I was dating my ex for close to a year before I was deployed in October. My deployment was originally scheduled to last for 6 months, but was extended twice so now I'm scheduled to return from my deployment in about a month (9 months). The majority ...

We seemed to be getting along well -- why the sudden change?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

27 May 2012 (F) - I have been talking to this guy my age for a couple of months now, he goes to a different school and I've never met him alone, only with a group of friends. We seemed to hit it off from the beginning, he texted me every day telling me how i was ...

Do I try with my best friend or go for a new guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4346 days ago

27 May 2012 (F) - A while ago my best friend and I gave it a shot together. We were liking each other very much and we spent every second together, so we thought we could also try to make a relationship between us work... But there are a few things I can't deal wit...

Ifeel like she expects us to take care of her baby!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

27 May 2012 (F) - Hey everyone in need of some good and honest advice because im not really sure what to do or how to feel. So here goes... I have a 9 month old daughter and I have a friend with 4 kids being 6,5,2 and a 5 month old. Now she doesn't work and uses go...

He was my best friend and now I don't know who he's pretending to be

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

26 May 2012 (F) - I need you to please tell me what happened here: Last year, I became really good friends with a boy in my choir. We spent one whole night together for a feild trip and, suddenly, we became really close. He had such a fun, cute, personality and ...

My friend told me that his girlfriend likes me, how should I handle this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4346 days ago

26 May 2012 (M) - Hi, I have a problem and wanted to ask for some advise since I don't know what to do. Today a good friend of mine which is also a classmate from a class I'm talking told me that things between him and his girlfriend have not been good and that they ...

In love with girl who is in a long distance relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4349 days ago

26 May 2012 (M) - Hi guys, I currently have 2 years left of school, and at the beginning of this year, I completely fell in love, for the first time, head over heels for a new girl who is from Japan and has come over to my school for 3 years to study English an...

Does it ever happen that the guy falls for the girl who's been standing beside him all along?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

26 May 2012 (F) - Hi, just wondering what are the possible outcomes for my situation here. This guy Josh is one of my closest ever friends..we tell each other absolutely everything, have helped each other through our hardest times (parents divorce, death). We had a ...

How do I forget about my friend and just move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4239 days ago

26 May 2012 (M) - This has been a problem for too long now and I really need help with this issue concerning an ex friend. I’ve never really had many friends in my life but I’ve never let it bother me when I moved on from the few friends that I did have. But this one ...

Casual relationship with friend/roommate has become more for me but I don't know how to tell her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4348 days ago

26 May 2012 (M) - I'm in a situation that I am very confused and emotionally frustrated about. At the beginning of the year I moved in to an apartment with one of my best friends (who is female). For awhile things were going as a normal roommate situation would... ...

I'm feeling very uncomfortable with this male friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4350 days ago

26 May 2012 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now and I love him, we get along really really well. He's my best friend and I feel 100% safe with him. Recently we got into separate colleges (but we still see each other a lot), but we do not study ...

How do I get over my best friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4349 days ago

25 May 2012 (F) - I liked my best friend for a bit but I have moved on howvere, when I see him with the girl he like (whodoesntlike him back) I get jealous amd my heart sinks ! How do I get over this and what are the best tips to get over boys ? ...

My boyfriend has feelings for his best friend so I broke up with him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

25 May 2012 (F) - so i told my boyfriend. about this website and how you could ask for advice. and its confidential so he went on and he asked a question" saying i am 16 male. ive been with my girlfriend for 8 months but i have sum feelings for my besfriend should i ...

I'm not a flirt so why am I feeling this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4350 days ago

25 May 2012 (F) - Dear dear cupid, I dont understand how i feel for this guy. So here's my situation. Two weeks after i broke up with my bf, i noticed this guy at work. It's because he had the same perfume with my ex. Every time i see him i go near him so that ...

These two men complete me, but having just one kills me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

25 May 2012 (F) - I've been In a relationship for a year now and it's wonderful. We are average, happy, fight over the silly things, kiss and makeup over nothing. In all honesty it's great... But I'm in love with two men. My boyfriend "Steve" and my best guy frie...

Should I leave my g/f for my friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

25 May 2012 (M) - Im a 16 year old male and i been with my Girl friend for 8 months,but i have sum what feelings for my bestfriend, should i leave my girlfriend or stay?...

I want to date my friend's ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

25 May 2012 (F) - I like my friends ex boyfriend they broke up a week ago and I want him to notice me but it's hard because he is still into her what do I do if she moved on and I want him to move on and date me...

I don't like my brother dating my lying friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4350 days ago

25 May 2012 (F) - My bestfriend and i have been friends for almost two years we spent every min. togther. She used to lie to me about things all the time and i got over it but recitntly she started lieing to me a lot more and calling me the B word a lot more then ...

How do I get over my fiance having gorgeous female friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4350 days ago

25 May 2012 (F) - Hello everyone, I feel like I'm being an awful partner. My fiance has a very small circle of friends, and most of them are women. The other night one of them had contacted him, after having not spoken for a while because of life being too busy. Th...

I cant stand my boyfriend's friends who are uneducated, beer-drinking, rowdy pub guys

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4344 days ago

25 May 2012 (F) - I am a very open minded person, however my boyfriends friends are uneducated, beer-drinking, rowdy pub guys. That i can deal with as they're all decent enough people who I can see for my boyfriends sake. However his 2 closest friends are anot...

How long should I wait before telling friend of my feelings?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4327 days ago

25 May 2012 (F) - Okay. i really really like this guy im friends with. since December these feelings have intensified and are getting stronger. Well in January he got back with his ex gf. they had dated b4 for about 6 months and broke up November last year. so then ...

Am I wrong to date him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4350 days ago

24 May 2012 (F) - This one might be a little long, so I apologize in advance. October 3rd 2011, I broke up with my boyfriend of 5 happy months. It might seem like a short time we were together, but we spent every day of it together so it certainly felt longer than...

Feelings or friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4350 days ago

24 May 2012 (F) - There is this guy, lets call him IMR. There is his best friend, i'll call him CMT, then there JRA, and then there is me. Ive known this guy since 8th grade, and I'm pretty sure i have liked him since then but i had also liked his bestfrie...

How do I go about dating my best friend's sister?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4350 days ago

24 May 2012 (M) - Help! I've been friends with a girl that I really like for a long time, but I want it to become a relationship. A big problem is, is that she is my (male) best friend's sister. What should I do, and how would I know if she likes me the same way?...

Friends are fighting over the same guy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

24 May 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid, My friends both like the same guy. Friend #1 is actually dating this guy. Friend #2 is heartbroken. They both hate each other. Personally I don't see why this guy is so great but they like him. Friend #1 is stressed out constant...

Is my colleague playing hard to get?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

24 May 2012 (M) - Why is she doing this to me? and is she playing hard to get or not? I am a guy aged 35 (currently married but on separation) who is interested in female working colleague. She is a 43 year old widow who has one a 17 year old son. We have been wor...