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Archived questions from: November, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

We had great sex but she still doesn't want to be my g/f. I am so confused!?

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22 November 2009 (M) - Sorry if this is long. I've liked this particular girl for a long time, over a course of three years that I've been friends with her. When I first met her she was in a abusive relationship, then when they broke up I thought I would give her a while ...

What does 'I lust you' mean?

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22 November 2009 (M) - what does it mean if someone says to you "i lust you" instead of "i love you"? my friend said this to me and i dont quite understand...

Should I tell her again that I'm crazy about her? She just wants to be friends.

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22 November 2009 (M) - I'm a sophomore in college, and I find myself in a bit of a bind. I have not been in a relationship in over three years now. While I normally would not complain about this, I have my eyes on a girl who graduated the same year as me from the same...

We ended things amicably, so why is he suddenly rude?

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22 November 2009 (F) - I dated a guy for 9 months, it was never exclusive. It then ended when he moved to another city for work and we left on good terms without any closure. We kept in contact as friends for the two months since he's left. But since he left, he's been ...

Why is she doing this now after being so cold towards me?

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21 November 2009 (M) - I was very close to my friend and still have feelings for her. We had had a short romance earlier in the year that sort of turned to friendship. A few months ago, I told her I still had feelings for her and she let me down softly. She said she ...

I'm 14 and just into boys... how do I flirt???

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21 November 2009 (F) - Guys, I've never really had a boyfriend before but I really like this guy and everyone is telling me to just flirt with him but how do you flirt? Could you give me tips on stuff I could use because honestly I haven't got anything....

Should I reconsider my outfit???

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21 November 2009 (F) - I'm going to a concert tonight with my cousin (26), her boyfriend (26), and his brother (18). I'm 16. I know this is silly, but I've seen pics of this guy (cousins bf's little brother) and I think hes really cute :) i was planning on wearing ripped ...

I like her more than just a friend! Should I tell her?

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21 November 2009 (M) - i've known this girl for just less than a year now. We spoke over msn for months and we became really close and met for the first time about a month ago. I met her in person for the first time about a month ago. She'd been going out with a guy i ...

Is my female house mate just being friendly or is it more?

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21 November 2009 (M) - Advice from woman please! female house mate! So here's the situation- I'm living in a house share with an attractive woman, whom also happens to be the landlady! I'm not sure if she likes me as more then a friend, however here as some key...

How can I stop feeling as though I'm acting awkward?

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21 November 2009 (F) - I'm an EXTREMELY awkward person. When I'm in line to receive a hug from someone, I twiddle my thumbs and feel like all eyes are on me. I make weird gestures and am worried about what people thought of me before and what they saw me do that was ...

Did she really intend to hurt me?

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21 November 2009 (M) - For seven years, Jane and I were participants in a forum about current affairs. We admired each other's writing, and exchanged occasional innocuous private messages. This spring, Jane sent me a PM proposing to tell me some stories about her life. ...

Why do guys turn against girls when they really like them?

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21 November 2009 (F) - Quick question... basically why do some guys, even the good guys... why do they turn against a girl if they like them a lot? Like why are they horrible to them or change the way they are with them depending on who they're with and where they are! ...

Why is she freaking out about this?

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21 November 2009 (F) - There's this guy that I've been best friends with since like 3rd grade. We are so close cuz my brother and him are best friends and me and his sister are best friends. Anyways recently he's been really like touchy and he's one of the hottest most ...

How do you tell the one you love you love someone else?

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21 November 2009 (F) - How do you tell the one you love you love someone else? I have been with my boyfriend a year now and I'm very happy. I started talkling with his best friend and I'm starting to have really deep feelings for him and I don't know what to do... I'...

What am I supposed to do next with this girl I know...?

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21 November 2009 (M) - Hi all, I've met this girl recently who goes to my university. She has a boyfriend too (who lives half country away), but this one night she said she was bored. So we spoke for hours then she wanted to meet me. We ended up getting a bottle and going ...

How do I convince him it wasn't me who text him?

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21 November 2009 (F) - Ok everyone, I need help in trying to convince this guy that I wasn't texting him from another number trying 2 be someone else, It happened to2 be my ex bf doing this, I had only met this guy 3 times and was beginging 2 really like him. The last thi...

What do I do... pressure... or give her space?

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21 November 2009 (M) - hey all, ok i know a girl in my class since 3 months ago and its really going well, she is so nice and funny likes me and she knows that Ii do like her but I havn't said it at all, and I'm 70% sure she likes me back (why there isnt any 100% fo...

In love with my best friend and can't live without him...

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21 November 2009 (F) - I've been in love with my best friend for 4 years now. He's only 19 and I am 35. I love him so much and I think I can't live without him. Please advise me on what to do....

Advice from woman please! Female house mate!

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21 November 2009 (M) - Advice from woman please! female house mate! So heres the situation- I'm living in a house share with an attractive woman, whom also happens to be the landlady! I'm not sure if she likes me as more then a friend, however here as some key points- ...

Does he want to be friends... or nothing?

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21 November 2009 (F) - Ok,so I met guy who seem so awesome. He is very respectful and sweet. Very laid back. We have a lot of things in common. But my issue is I'm not sure he is as instrested in me as I am of him. He is a single father with two daughters. We conversated ...

My friend has gotten cynical and bitter! What can I do to help her?

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21 November 2009 (F) - My best friend has been acting very weird lately. She has just gotten back from being overseas through volunteer work and she seems very moody. She'll have these random outbursts. For example, tonight I was downloading something on her computer and ...

Now that I attend high school away from my friends, I've become shy and withdrawn

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21 November 2009 (M) - I was once the life of the party, but after leaving my friends after middle school, I feel as if I'm not there. The decision was mine... For the past three years, I had been driven 20 miles from home every day to go to school to be with my frien...

We're very close but he ignores me in public

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21 November 2009 (F) - Ok, im just so confused. So i like a guy, and he happens to be a good friend of mine...but he acts so weird. im really shy, so i cant initiate conversation. He used to have...sorta an unspoken rule about only talking to me once a day in a designat...

My friend sabotaged my relationship, but my boyfriend still doesn't want me back!

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21 November 2009 (F) - About a week ago, me and my ex broke up because we barely talked and hanged out. My best friend, I found out, actually planned this by deleting his calls and texts from me and saying bad shit about me to my ex and vice versa. But I found out a day ...

A girl with a boyfriend likes me a lot... what should I do?

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21 November 2009 (M) - Hi guys, One of my friends (who has a bf, but doesn't see him much any more) has started hanging out with me a lot, she invites me out to town around once or twice a week, and sometimes sleeps round my house. I like her a lot myself. I can...

I told him a very personal thing about me and now all his friends are calling me names. I don't know how to handle it any more. Please help!

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21 November 2009 (F) - Last night i told my boyfriend of 10 months that i had been raped before we got together and that is why i do not wish to have sex before we are married as i am scared and any time i think about sex i see His face. its horrible. Even for my ...

She won't leave my love interest alone!

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21 November 2009 (F) - I've finally moved on from my ex of a year and a half and i liked a new guy but he wasnt over his ex but still lead me on, i tryed to ignore him and started to like a new guy whos tall ok looking and really funny and i really really like him i want ...

My mate lied to me and it cost me my friends!

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21 November 2009 (M) - Hi, when i was 22 i bumped in to my old school friends and became good mates again like we were back at school, 2 years later i was still single and my mate jess promised me to set me up with her mate and she said her mate claire is interested in me ...

I don't want a relationship but a one night stand might be ok, how do I tell him?

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20 November 2009 (F) - I am in love with a guy who I dated best friend of him I desire him so much we were just friend at the beginning but some emotional reactions started and he ran away I am thinking it is because of his best friend that he doesn't want to be in a ...

Why do guys like to smell a girl's hair!?

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20 November 2009 (F) - I'm 16 and i was wondering why guys smell girls' hair. I was hanging with one of my guy friends and we hugged and he picked me up and i could tell he smelled my hair. i heard it means the guy likes you. is it true? ...

What are the odds that he still loves me?

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20 November 2009 (F) - From time to time, my ex still gets in touch with me. We have been broken up for several months now. At first our break-up was so messed up, we were bitter towards each other for months. But 3 months ago, he made peace with me that we decided to ...

I don't know if I should back of and become strictly friends as we're having such a great time!

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20 November 2009 (F) - Ok here is the deal. I met this great guy but I made it clear from the beginning I was not interested in a relationship, which is totally true. It was fine since he has a girlfriend anyway. We became good friends, however we also knew from the ...

Are these the signs that he has a crush on me or dislikes me!?

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20 November 2009 (F) - Ok, so - my fitness instructor who I have had a crush on for about 3 years has been acting weird with me lately. I assumed I had offended him but my mum says it sounds like he likes me. I facebooked him to ask if I could be added to a guest list ...

Should I risk the friendship and tell him how I feel?

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20 November 2009 (F) - I met my best friend 2 years ago when I landed a new job. We talk on the phone several times a day, text, and can't go to sleep without saying goodnight to each other. We have talked about each other in romantic terms before and discussed that we ...

Creepy friend keeps asking for hugs

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20 November 2009 (F) - So, one of my male friends keeps asking me for hugs. He does this even at weird times (like, not hellos and goodbyes) and hangs on for too long or tries to sneak a second one in. I'm always hesitant about giving a hug, and I've already had the ...

I have a crush on this girl but she's already got a boyfriend, what I do??

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20 November 2009 (M) - Hi guys, I have a crush on this girl and we are quite close friends, she is 15 and i am 14, we've been going to places together etc. for a while now, but, i want to go out with her, although she already has a bf. What should i do? Ride it o...

Is it right or wrong to tell your boyfriend that someone he thought was a friend said bad things about him before we got together?

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20 November 2009 (F) - Is it right or wrong to tell your boyfriend that someone he thought was a friend said bad things about him before we got together? Or does it just drag me to her level to tell? Background: This girl possibly had a thing for my boyfriend before we ...

I got my friend's wife pregnant, now he's coming home from military duty!!!

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20 November 2009 (M) - Ok, so i have a problem, I'm in a huge dilemna. I've been sleeping with my friends wife who is at the moment in iraq. (He's a soldier) he comes back in 1 week. They've only been married for about a year, right before he got deployed they got ...

He says 'no' but his actions say 'yes'

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20 November 2009 (F) - not long ago i told someone i had become very very close friends with that i like him and want a relationship. he said no because he does not need someone like that right now. so i was left wondering what to do. after a bit of a confusing few mont...

How do I turn my FWB into something more?

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20 November 2009 (F) - So there's this guy that I like, but I don't feel like he feels the same way I do. We are currently in a friends with benefits relationship, but I want it to be more. It would be very hard for us to be in a relationship, because I do online ...

Why is she always so mean to me?

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19 November 2009 (F) - I just started seventh grade, and some mean girls have started making fun of me. One of the girls lives by me so its really embarrassing. She's started telling people I'm a lesbian. She's also saying she's scared and that I ask her a lot of ...

Does our relationship have potential, or are we just friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2 days ago

19 November 2009 (F) - I am completely confused. Completely! I've been getting close with this guy for the past month and a half. It's been one thing after another. First, I was hesitant because I thought he was still with this girl. Actually I still don't know whats go...

Have I ambarrassed myself, or am I just a little paranoid after my text?

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19 November 2009 (F) - Yesterday I texted to my crush/friend for one year, Rob, that I have had a little crush on him. Then I texted him asking him not to tell anyone or else I would have someone beat him up. So today was totally weird. It started out like a normal day ...

What gave me this sudden, intense chill???

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19 November 2009 (F) - In the middle of my last class I got this sudden intense feeling down below (which felt good) and it gave me a chill? Like a sudden very short chills. Although I did not do anything at all I was just talking to friend in the class (and when this ...

Help me find a way to get closer to him...

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19 November 2009 (F) - So there's this guy i like but im not sure if he likes me back. Some days he's sort of around me and my friends and seems interested but other days he just completely ignores me and doesn't seem to notice me at all. I talk to him sometimes but im ...

Let down again... I feel so ugly, as if no one wants me...

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19 November 2009 (F) - Weve spoke on msn and have been texting for about 2/3 months but i never thought anything of it in that way because he's well out of my league, lots of girls think hes good looking. But he mentioned getting to know me more. Then he asked me to go...

How to support someone I care about who is going through a divorce?

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19 November 2009 (F) - How do I play this? My boyfriend has broken up with me. He is in the process of divorcing his previous partner and has discovered in our relationship that he has not moved forward emotionally as much as he though he had - he keeps worrying that our ...

Why is my friend's boyfriend being so frigid?

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19 November 2009 (F) - ok so i have this friend who actually is a friend!! She's my best mate and she has had a boyfriend for the last 6 months. The problem is (and I wouldn't be writing this all over the internet if we couldn't figure out the problem) but her boyfriend ...

A time to self reflect.

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19 November 2009 (F) - -Self-reflect- Most of the time when anybody has problem in a relationship, they basically blames the other party and rarely themselves.. Y? Well, i would say its human nature to point 1 finger to the other party, while not realizing that t...

Advice please... How can I make it up to my girlfriend and also to karma?

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19 November 2009 (M) - Hi, I fell in love with my best friend's girl but somehow knew it was wrong the first time (The hardest thing I have ever done and the most pain ive ever felt) and was frightened of the fact it might blow up in my face so I went after someone el...