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Archived questions from: July, 2015 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

How do I regain my dignity back after lashing out at my cheating ex and friend?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1557 days ago

31 July 2015 (F) - Hi, I was on before about finding out about my ex and my friend having an affair. For months I acted normal and said nothing as I had no real proof - just a gut feeling. I was going to just cut them out of my life and move on - until I discover...

All my friends are moving on, dating ect and I feel left behind!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3193 days ago

30 July 2015 (M) - Well you may not know this but this is the 5th time I wrote here in an ever increasing attempt to turn my life around. Let me start by saying...yes i have experience with women and the only reason i 'll act the way i am now because being alone is ...

Single Mothers: does it ever get any easier in the absence of your child's father?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3193 days ago

30 July 2015 (F) - This is a question for any single mothers out there: does it ever get easier without your children's father? My problem isn't regarding financial support, but the emotional side of the situation. My son's father has been absent since his birth. For ...

Obsessed with a girl in my class. What are my options?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3188 days ago

30 July 2015 (M) - Hello, I'm 13 yrs old and I'm obsessed with a girl in my year but I'm too shy to talk to her and since its the holidays i don't have contact with her. I want to follow her on instagram but feel like everyone will find something fishy going on a...

What can I do about my hunch that I should leave my great Gf?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3193 days ago

30 July 2015 (M) - I've been with this girl for 5 months -known her for 8-. I was dubious of having a real relationship with her at first because I didn't feel as much for her as I did for other girls I've been in love with, but things just happened and here I am. ...

I can be argumentative when provoked, but I know that I'm not a cruel person that deserves to be bullied. Am I being too sensitive about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3194 days ago

29 July 2015 (F) - I have a group of friends who I consider myself very close to, which consists of 2 boys, 2 girls (including me). Both boys are culprits of teasing, but one especially, let's call him Jason, tends to go way overboard. Every time I say something, it's ...

Frenemies or am I too sensitive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3194 days ago

29 July 2015 (F) - I hope all are enjoying summer and thank all who respond to my question. So some background.A couple of weeks ago I brought two friends and a woman I met recently to a girls night out.It was a good time and we decided to meet again last week....

Failed past relation. Then online friend. How can I regain my health and get over my ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3191 days ago

29 July 2015 (F) - i'm 23 years old female, felt in love for 4 years with a cheating guy. many cupids here helped into knowing that i was in a kind of abusive relationship, and it took me a lot of courage to actually let go of my boyfriend. i had a male friend who ...

We're both bisexual. Do you guys think he may fancy me too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3193 days ago

29 July 2015 (F) - Okay.. so basically I am really awful at knowing when someone may fancy me and half the time if someone does like me.. I don't realize until they tell me years later, which is normally down to low self esteem, so I thought I would ask you guys for ...

I felt I had no other option than to do what I did. But will he suss out that I sent it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3194 days ago

29 July 2015 (F) - What do you guys think about sending fake messages under a pseudonym? I know you are going to think this trivial and trouble making - but I just need your answers:- I needed to get a message to this bloke on Facebook - he had blocked me (all beca...

How do I cope with all this pain? I don't know how to cope with this betrayal

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3193 days ago

29 July 2015 (F) - I have just found out my ex boyfriend has had an affair with my female friend. For months I suspected something was going on, and so me and my boyfriend split because of my lack of trust. My friend however, always denied it until recently -...

How to make a complicated situation better? Do I have a chance with my baby's dad as in a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3194 days ago

29 July 2015 (F) - There's a guy I've been into for a really long time. We always would flirt and it seems like there was something there between us. Well we complicated things by hooking up and had a baby. The damaging part is that when I found out I was pregna...

Are guys playing games when they first act interested towards a girl and then choose to ignore her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3194 days ago

28 July 2015 (F) - Okay so, i really need guys to answer this questiom, or girls due to their experience with dating. So, ive been talking to this guy for 2 weeks now, and I've met him at a party actually, and he said hi to me and tried to talk to me but he looke...

Is there such a thing as commitment phobia?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3193 days ago

28 July 2015 (F) - Hi, I'm just out of a 4 years relationship that really broke my heart. My boyfriend left me saying he was mixed up, and needed to do soul searching. It has been a week since we are separated and with no contact. I am just beginning ...

Friendship only: How can I tell him that I want friendship and no more than that?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3194 days ago

27 July 2015 (F) - Hello everyone A couple of months ago I met a man. We're both in our late 50s and single. We live about 100 miles apart and have met up four times and had a great time. He always gives me big hugs hello and goodbye, and he bought me flowers...

I miss my teacher, as a friend, from High School very much and it causes me great pain. Advice needed, please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3196 days ago

27 July 2015 (M) - I've been out of HS 15 yrs but I still miss my fav teacher terribly. She was the best. I have seen her a couple times since graduating. Most recently when I saw her this year, I was able to exchange cell numbers with her and get a nice picture...

Is she trying to tell me that she is available? Or did she just want some consolation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3196 days ago

27 July 2015 (M) - Hello dearcupids, 2 years back, i started chatting with a high school crush in facebook. She was 2 years junior to me. I thought she already has a bf, so i didn't flirt with her. I had normal friendly conversation. She replied to my every ...

Do I make a move? Or how do I give the signals that I'd like him to make a move? Does he like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3195 days ago

27 July 2015 (F) - Im 20, in college, and i am 90% sure this guy likes me but i have no idea what to do. Let me preface this: I'm a shy person. Like clinically shy. Especially around guys. I always tend to either shut down or say too much around them. Or I make ...

He's 30. Should I try to enjoy some fun with this guy or back off?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3197 days ago

26 July 2015 (F) - So, I met this guy and feel like there was an attraction between is. Since then, we've been chatting on Facebook and I feel well probably do coffee or something at some point. I know I'm getting a little ahead, but I've been thinking if I sh...

Long term is he the man for me? Should I stay or go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3197 days ago

26 July 2015 (F) - Hello, I have been living with my boyfriend for over a year, and we have been together for a year and a half. Right now I am very seriously considering breaking up with him, but I am having a hard time making a choice. In many ways he is very g...

Do I trust him or not? Something is making me wary.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3196 days ago

25 July 2015 (F) - I have just started seeing someone but I am finding myself a little wary of his actions. I trust him yet I don't think I do. For example last week he said he was going to watch a film at 9pm and said night. I thought that was odd because why ...

So...she has a boyfriend, will she ever choose me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3197 days ago

25 July 2015 (M) - Hi ladies and gentlemen. I've known this girl for about a year now. I liked her from afar initially, knowing she has a boyfriend. We hit it off real well and everything, and after some time feelings between us develop, so to say. This is all ...

I should have listened to my mum's warning about this man

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3196 days ago

24 July 2015 (F) - I have let my Mum down by my actions the past while. I met a older man at work, he was always helping me and being friendly. The man has a wife so I always thought he seen me as just work-mate. After working there a while I had saved up enough ...

I made a comment about a person and my friend came back on me saying things that really hurt!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3197 days ago

24 July 2015 (F) - I am friends with this girl and we were out together the other day, and I said a remark about a random stranger saying that she is fat, she doesn't need any more chocolate (because she was buying so many bags) and now my friend has had a go at me ...

I'm not comfortable with my partner's colleague coming home this often and it seems like he doesn't respect boundaries

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3199 days ago

24 July 2015 (F) - Me and partner live and work together and we are expecting our first baby, our home is next to the place we work , we work in a school. I moved in a few months ago and everything is good and we are happy about the baby etc. My partner works wi...

Is he trying to say that he loves me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3197 days ago

24 July 2015 (F) - Hello, a guy talks to me alot, he flirts alot and compliments me very much. He asked me 3 times in every while for my number but i accepted to give him my number at the third time. Once i was talking to him he said that 'im a talkative person', and ...

My boyfriend claims he is still on a dating app just to make friends?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3199 days ago

22 July 2015 (F) - So I've been seeing this guy and we have met loads of times, been on plenty of dates, ive met his family and stayed at his and are now dating for about two months and ive noticed hes still on the dating app... which i find insulting.. but he says ...

We are friends and I'm interested in becoming more but am not sure if I should make a more advanced movement?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3196 days ago

22 July 2015 (F) - Hello, a lot of time has passed and i still have interest for a man that we are just friends. We have come more near during the previous time but nothing has happened to imply a relationship. I can't really ask him or say something about this ...

I'd like to date this lady but she's hot and cold and I'm not sure what is going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3201 days ago

22 July 2015 (M) - Hi everyone I'm need some advice I'm trying to date this lady friend of mine she's the parent of this young lady I train Well we kinda got a little close recently I've think she great her daughter are good friends with my daughter I'm divorce by the ...

I have self confidence issues. Why wouldn't my boyfriend defend me when nasty remarks were said?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3200 days ago

21 July 2015 (F) - I have almost zero confidence when it comes to my body. I'm a size 16, and due to being bullied as a child due to my weight I have never had any confidence with guys. I have had boyfriends in the past, but I had been single for nearly two years...

Is it healthy to keeps talking to your ex when your breakup is fresh?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3200 days ago

21 July 2015 (F) - I broke up with my ex boyfriend 2 days ago but we've been talking ever since like we're still dating. I ended things because of who I became dating him(I was sad and not my self). I know it's hard for him and he probably thinks am joking as this w...

Are there no gentlemen left? ? My dating has left me not interested in sex, though I have had sex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3201 days ago

20 July 2015 (F) - I'm 20 and I've got this problem with boyfriends. I only had four of them when I was in HS. "Matthew" was a relative of a friend and he was nice, but he annoyed me because he would just show up at my house without calling first or else he would...

Are guys generally talkative? Or are talkative guys trying to impress girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3202 days ago

20 July 2015 (F) - Hi, I've met a guy a few months ago at a party and he seems to always trying to open a conversation almost everyday lately. He talks a lot non stop and keeps asking me personal questions, and when I ask him a simple question he gives me all the ...

I fancy this guy friend but he blows hot and cold

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3203 days ago

20 July 2015 (F) - This guy and I met a year and a half ago, became friends and really clicked. He even courted me at first, was very sweet and caring, he'd compliment me, walk me to my bus stop each evening, was flirty and a bit touchy, but he never clearly ...

How can I rekindle the fire that existed between the two of us?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3202 days ago

19 July 2015 (F) - How do you rekindle the fire? I have been away all summer working in a different state far away from home. I left home on May 24th and will not get back until August 15th. I have been in a long distance relationship since January, but we were only...

I long for this other guy, but he has a Gf now. How do I accept this situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3198 days ago

19 July 2015 (F) - Hi, I was seeing this guy whilst I was on a break with my boyfriend, I had a real bad relationship with my boyfriend so things ended! I started seeing this other guy and I have never felt so happy we liked the same things he made me smile and happ...

What can I do about my unhelpful Bf who is the father of our infant son?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3204 days ago

19 July 2015 (F) - hi everyone hope people have some useful answers here I am so stressed with my boyfriend. He is 28 the problem is he can just be so annoying. Everytime I want to do something it can be anything like going to bath our 7 month old son, or can be g...

I felt a spark between us. Do I have any chance with her, knowing now that she does have a Bf?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3204 days ago

19 July 2015 (M) - I met this girl through mutual friends. I was attracted to her straight away and it felt like she was interested in me too, there was definitely a spark between us. However... right from the start she said she had a boyfriend so I kept a fair di...

Do I apologize to guy A for making out with guy B in front of guy A?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3204 days ago

19 July 2015 (F) - I was sort of seeing "guy A" for a about a month and a half. He was great, other than the fact that he lives nowhere near me, so dating on the regular, thus creating an emotional attachment, was just not going to happen. He is really good frie...

He lied to me. I am so angry with him, yet can you love and hate someone at the same time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3204 days ago

19 July 2015 (F) - Six months ago, I was going out with a guy. We were both sixteen. His ex also made me feel very uncomfortable as she still liked him and kept making jibes over us. This guy has had a string of girlfriends but he was my first boyfriend. I tho...

Is it possible to be just Friends to him, after losing my virginity to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3204 days ago

19 July 2015 (F) - I lost my virginity at the beginning of last year to a co-worker. And moved out of state back to where I'm from. We kept in contact for 5/6months. Then in August we stopped talking, I actually think it is because of me that we stopped talking ...

Why does he not tell me when everyone is meeting up? Why doesn't he invite me too? Should I be concerned?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3205 days ago

18 July 2015 (F) - Dear cupid, I am in a relationship with a really great guy for about 3 months now. He's so nice and sweet and I can just be myself around him and we have so much in common, it's amazing. I'm always happy when I'm with him. But I feel like he doesn't ...

My boyfriend is pressuring me to move with him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3205 days ago

18 July 2015 (F) - I have started my first serious relationship in college and now my boyfriend and I have 2.5 years of being together. He's 2 years older than me and he finished college, so he had to move from the dorm. And this where the problem started. Be...

All my friends do sleep randomly with anyone. I don't because it concerns me. Am I too sceptical thinking it's dangerous?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 3205 days ago

18 July 2015 (F) - Is it dangerous to sleep with anyone randomly? Because all my friends do that and nothing happens but I'm very sceptical? I need answers because I'm struggling....

He flirts a lot and he has a Gf. We've been texting. How can I make things less awkward if we do sleep together?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3205 days ago

18 July 2015 (F) - There's a new guy that started at my work he's 32 bearing in mind I'm 20 but I don't think the age matters because we're basically like the same people. But the problem is that he has a girlfriend and he have such good flirty banter and I'm star...

Together 4.5 years. How do I pick myself up and cope with him moving on, after our recent breakup?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3203 days ago

18 July 2015 (F) - I have no idea how else to deal with this. My ex fiance broke up with me 2.5 months ago after 4.5 years together. There was no cheating or lying or anything else; just, I guess he grew apart from me. I was ready, absolutely ready for us ...

My friends want him gone. Am I crazy for trying to still accomodate him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3205 days ago

17 July 2015 (F) - So here's my situation. I've been in a relationship with my bf for 2 1/2 years. We have been friends for almost 10. I thought we could make it work but we both have issues and we've come to a point where I broke up with him because we weren't ...

Virgin, 19, Anxious, and worried about how, when and where I'm ever going to meet someone and have a relationship. What can I do to resolve this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3205 days ago

17 July 2015 (M) - This is my first time trying something like this but I feel like I need to get it off my chest. Okay, so I'm a 19 year old male who is still a virgin which is one of the things bothering me. I broke up with my ex nearly 2 years ago and since th...

Why am I still so jealous and what do I do about it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3205 days ago

17 July 2015 (F) - Why am I still so jealous? I had a fall out with a girl over a guy not so long ago - she was seeing him, but so was I prior to that too! We made it up again later (as I knew there is no point falling out over a man) but the thing is - it's hard to ...

My close male friend's behavior seems like a slap in the face. I don't know what to make of it

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3206 days ago

17 July 2015 (F) - I'm a little baffled by the behavior of a close male friend who wants to be more. He otherwise is very engaging and warm but when there is any type of problem that I may be stressed, saddened or angered about and nothing having to do with him, he ...