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Archived questions from: December, 2005 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

My friend's boyfriend hits on me whenever she's not around. I want to say something without hurting her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6667 days ago

31 December 2005 (F) - Hi, My problem is kind of simple, but how do I tell my friend that her boyfriend constantly hits on me when she isn't around? I don't want to tell her because I am afraid she won't believe me, but on the other hand I want her to know what he does. ...

Already attracted to a good friend, now I'm also falling for HER best friend!

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

31 December 2005 (M) - I'm a 16 year old bloke and I don't know what to do. I think I might be falling for one of my best friends, but I already have feelings for another friend, and they are best friends together. The one I'm falling for knows that I like her friend but ...

I'm jealous of my friend's success with guys. I'm much prettier than she is, so I've slept with 4 of her boyfriends!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5150 days ago

31 December 2005 (F) - I was at a club with my best friend (Alice), we where having loads of fun. This guy came up to us and had a dance with Alice. They traded numbers. Although I danced with loads of boys I felt jealous. I feel like this a lot. Anyway about two week...

I'm not interested in the guy I think is going to ask me out. But my best friend is. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6691 days ago

30 December 2005 (F) - This problem is real long so I will just sum it up. There is this guy that likes me. He is always saying things and it's pretty obvious he wants to get with me. I do not have the same feelings (I am into someone else). My best friend is in love wit...

Afraid my "best" friend is going to try and steal my boyfriend... Again!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6692 days ago

29 December 2005 (F) - I'm afraid my 'best' friend is gonna try n steal my guy....again... When me nd my boyf james* first got togeva she tried everything for it to not happened...telling me and him poisonous stories about one another etc. 6 months down the line and ever...

Love or friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6692 days ago

29 December 2005 (M) - dear cupid i have been seeing my best mate of 9 years' girlfriend and she told me she loves me and i think i love her... what should i do friendship or love...

I will do ANYTHING to impress people!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

29 December 2005 (F) - Basically, I have a huge problem. I am a try-hard, and will do ANYTHING to impress people. I lie, exaggerate, and make things up to make people like me. I realise that the whiff of desperation is hanging around me, but I can't help myself! ...

Got a boyfriend so I dumped all my friends. Now I miss them!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6693 days ago

28 December 2005 (F) - hello, i am just writing because i feel like an absolute loser and i have since my long distance boyfriend moved to where he is now. i guess it is the classic case of girl dumping her friends once she gets a boyfriend. i sort of did that. now that...

Should I tell my best friend I was a webcam-sl*t with the guy she likes? I only did it to get back at her...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6665 days ago

28 December 2005 (F) - theres this guy he's my x (lets call him will) i still like him even though it was me who ended it. lately hes been sending really dirty txts to my best mate i act like im not bothered but i rly rly am. i havnt told her. yesterday i got back at her ...

Do I try to date him now even though he is with my friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6693 days ago

27 December 2005 (F) - I met this guy a few years ago that I thought was totally annoying and I blew him off. Two years later he started dating my friend and we've started talking again but on a hi/bye basis. Until last week when we started talking on line and bumping ...

I interfered in my best friend's life..now she doesn't trust me! Help-what's wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6694 days ago

27 December 2005 (F) - Hey...i don't know whats wrong with me? Sorry i think this is going to be a long one!.... My friend and i have been 'best' friends since we started high school, basically 5 years. Out of the two of us i have always gotten the most attention from peo...

I'm dating my best mate's ex, but he's still not over her. Do we tell him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6695 days ago

26 December 2005 (M) - My best friend Chad and I are very close. We are always there for each other. Chad met Lisa and the three of us all became close friends. Chad dated Lisa a couple months back and it was short and rocky. Chad remained in love with Lisa, while sh...

Not sure why my friend broke it off with me, but I want to get us back together...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6695 days ago

25 December 2005 (F) - Two months ago I entered a relationship with a very good friend. I had liked him for a while but was content being friends with him. While we were in the relationship he seemed really happy and he kept telling me how much he was falling for me. He ...

Am I reading in too much, or is my friend interested in more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6696 days ago

25 December 2005 (F) - Is he interested in me to be his girlfriend? We started off as friends. He is a very private and distant person. Well that was my first impression of him so I always kept my distance from him. In the last two weeks he has all of a sudden see...

I can't tell if the guy I'm interested in is interested back!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5993 days ago

25 December 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, I started a new job 4 months ago, and I met the man who I was instantly interested in. I asked somebody who knew him if he was single, and she was hesitating but she said that he was not, that it looks like things have worked out for ...

If I ask my female friend out, will it ruin our friendship?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 4616 days ago

24 December 2005 (M) - Hello. I'm really not sure about something. Well there's a girl I'm like really friendly with at school and I think I've fallen in love with her (she knows) but I don't know whether she feels the same about me and the one thing I am paranoid...

Is he just a good friend, a potential boyfriend... or gay?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6699 days ago

23 December 2005 (F) - I think I'm in love with my best guy friend. I have had feelings on and off for him since the 5th grade and I am currently a 12th grader. I have never liked him as greatly as I do now though. My dilemma is that when I go to college next year I d...

My friend copies everything I do...it's getting to me! Help

This question has 38 answers - newest was posted 3574 days ago

21 December 2005 (F) - I've got a big problem with one of my friends. She copies me with everything! I told her I wanted a dog, so did she. I told her a babysitted for my younger siblings, so did she, even though her younger siblings can take care of themselves. I to...

She claims to be a lesbian...so why does she flirt with me? what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6700 days ago

21 December 2005 (M) - I've been on here before about this, but things have progressed and I have a few more things that I'm seeking advice on! Basically, I started going out with a girl and she then told me she was a lesbian. She said that she didn't want to lead me ...

My neighbour is a great friend, but she's wearing out her welcome!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6700 days ago

21 December 2005 (F) - I have a great neighbour as a friend. Unfortunately she is beginning to vist us at least twice a week and waits right up until dinner is being served up so that you feel you have to ask her if she wants some. I want to keep her friendship, I en...

My friend let on about my secret relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6700 days ago

21 December 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, This lad and I have kind of a secret relationship going on, we've not done anything but there have been talks that we would. So my best friend, who was telling me about her boy trouble so I told her what was going on. She said she woul...

Trying to win the heart of the girl I want. Should I go all-out on New Years Eve?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6695 days ago

21 December 2005 (M) - There's a girl I'm crazy about and was told by her friends that she likes me. We get on like a house on fire. But when I asked her out she said it was too soon, cause she had just broke up with someone. But she wishes she was ready. Then we kissed ...

People think we'd be a perfect couple. Everyone, it seems, except the guy I fancy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6700 days ago

20 December 2005 (F) - Im a student at the moment and living with four other people. I really like one of the guys I am living with and have done for about a year now. We all moved in together in September and I have grown to like him even more than I did last year. H...

We weren't that close when he was in high school, but I want him to know how strongly I feel now...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6700 days ago

20 December 2005 (F) - I don't know if you will be able to answer my question, but I thought I needed an outside opinion and nobody else seems to want to try to answer my question. Here's my "story"... I have Loved this Guy for almost three years now. I met him when ...

Have I ruined my chances for a relationship AND friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6704 days ago

17 December 2005 (F) - I am very good friends with a guy i work with, he is a few years younger than me, nothing has ever happened between us but we are very close and other people assume it has. I know that he has strong feelings for me, yet mine are stronger for him. ...

How long is too long to wait for a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6704 days ago

17 December 2005 (F) - We are only platonic friends but I want more out of the relationship. For several months now, I would say that there is only a handful of days that I had not hung out with him. All of our mutual friends want us to date (I want to date him and ...

I'm in love with my best friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6633 days ago

16 December 2005 (F) - Hi.Im in love with one of my best guy friend and i can't just let it go..........its been a long time that ive got feeling for him.Hes 24 and Im 19.I cant stop thinking about him.even i dream about him when i go to sleep........ alot of my friends ...

An innocent enough comment... but was there more to it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6705 days ago

16 December 2005 (F) - A co-worker and I were having a normal conversation the other day about the teamwork. After he said ".... others like you, and I like you", he quickly looked down. Then there was a pause for a few seconds. Was I too sensitive? ...

My wife let her male friend know she's unavailable-is it possible for them to remain just friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6700 days ago

15 December 2005 (M) - I have a question and I hope Irish49 replys again.(others too) It was about my wife being out and a man approaching her and hanging out for a while. She made it clear she was married and not to get the wrong impression. He said that was fine ...

I am reserved but the gentleman I like has this certain "something"... help me understand it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6706 days ago

15 December 2005 (F) - There is this guy I like but he is extremely outgoing and I am reserved. He is very sweet and a gentleman. I am told that he likes me too, but I’m feeling confused about his feelings for me and about an aspect of his character. I have never met ...

She's a good friend but I can't stop thinking about her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6707 days ago

14 December 2005 (M) - i'm 16 and i need help. theres a girl at school that i cant stop thinking about and she has thought about me before but i dont know what to do because she's a good freind and i dont want to ruine that and i dont think she want's to either. please ...

The truth or dare party has caused me to lose my best friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6256 days ago

14 December 2005 (F) - about a month ago i was at a mates party and we wer playin truth or dare. my best mates boyfrend was dared to kiss me, he did. now my best mate says she has tried to forgive me and be frends, but she cant. she is one of the most popular girls at ...

I made a mistake and not sure if my male friend will ever forgive me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6709 days ago

10 December 2005 (F) - I have realy upset a male friend of mine. I said something which got him into trouble. I didn't mean to and I would never intentionally get him into to trouble. I was honest with him and told him what I had done, but he is really upset with me. ...

I made my boyfriend up!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6709 days ago

10 December 2005 (F) - When all my friends started to get boyfriends, I lied and told them that I had a boyfriend who lived in Scotland. I live in Wales so I'm sure they'll never find out if I don't tell them I made him up. My grandparents live in Scotland, so it ...

The girl I love is leaving for a new job. How do I tell her I want to be with her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6507 days ago

10 December 2005 (M) - I have worked with this girl for 4 years and she is now leaving for another job. But I have realised that I am in love with her. I never knew I had such feelings until two weeks befor she left. I know she has a boyfriend but they only see each other ...

Can a friendship exist when one of two people is madly in love with the other?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6710 days ago

9 December 2005 (F) - Hia, Same person as last time. We've now established where we both stand in our relationship. We're just friends. He really likes the other girl, and I'm happily flirting. But I still love him, can a friendship exist when one of them is madly in...

Is my friend just using me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6712 days ago

9 December 2005 (F) - Hello, Ok so I know this question isn't exactly relationship related, well technially it is, i mean 2 friends have a 'relationship', but im gona ask it anyways. I have had this friend since I was in year 4 (so thats almost 10 years!). We met ...

I think I'll be famous, rich - and probably beatiful too. Big-headed... Or confident?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6712 days ago

8 December 2005 (M) - Im nearly 16 soon, but all of a sudden, I have a feeling, and this might be big headed, that I will be famous, and rich. But where does this come from? And is it just a crazy fantasy or might it happen? Im confused, because when I have asked ...

We've already fallen once, and broken up once. Now I see it happening again!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6713 days ago

8 December 2005 (M) - Over a year ago I got friendly with a new girl at work who I discovered already had a long-term boyfriend (1 year). A very close bond had started to grow between us because of her illness which I had experience of. Gradually I fell in love with this ...

My friend is a pathological liar...do we confront her or ignore her?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

7 December 2005 (F) - My friend is a liar. We have researched it and we think she has the symptoms of a pathalogical liar. Should we confront her about it? Or should we continue not beleiveing anything that she says? PLEASE HELP ...

Do I lie or tell my Mom the truth about my online friend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6714 days ago

7 December 2005 (F) - Hello all, a fast response would be appreciated, im 19 and i have been talkin to a guy on the net but my mom doesnt approve so i havent told her yet and he asked to meet to talk and he wants to be friends. The bad thing is its in two days and i dont ...

I've started cheating on my boyfriend with my best friend - and I don't want to hurt either!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

6 December 2005 (F) - I’ve been Best friends with 'John' for about 6 yrs and approx 3 1/2 yrs ago while we were living together, we ended up having sex a couple times. We decided that we didn’t want to risk our friendship so we stopped and remained friends. It’s been ...

My best friend doesn't know that I'm bisexual... or that I'm interested in her...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6715 days ago

6 December 2005 (F) - My best friend and I have known each other for about 2 years (we are both teenage girls). I have never dated or kissed anyone, but I thought I was straight. She has had loads of boyfriends, she's popular, pretty, confident and flirty but I am quite ...

Why is my friend acting this way over my new relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6716 days ago

5 December 2005 (F) - Four years ago, my best friend told me he was in love with me. I loved him, and told him so, which was wrong as he was in a relationship with a friend of mine from school. A male friend! I told him to stay with my friend as there was nothing ...

Our past makes me hesitant to tell him how I feel about him. Should I?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6712 days ago

4 December 2005 (F) - There is a boy that I like at school, he acts differently around me but we have had a complicated past (long story) and I don't know whether to tell him how I feel because of this. He makes me feel safe and happy whenever I am around him. What do i ...

My best friend moved in on the guy I used to like!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6717 days ago

4 December 2005 (?) - Hey I'm 15 and am feeling as low as possible. Me and my best friend have been so close for like 7 years. She's like a sister to me. We were really excited about a house party she was organising. I got all dressed up and started to have a really go...

Should my best friend and I really be together??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6717 days ago

4 December 2005 (F) - i have had a male bestfreind for 15 years that i have had sexual realsions with for alot of that time even while in other realasionships which 1 of those i was engaged and had two children.does this mean my best freind is the one.i do love him very ...

He's engaged to another and I think it becoming more than just a friendship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6718 days ago

3 December 2005 (F) - I posted a while back about not being friends with an engaged male.... I need to change that. I don't think I see him as a friend! We had an affair earlier in the year and because I'm an emotional person, we fell out over me over reacting. Since ...

Do I tell her what her boyfriend says about her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6718 days ago

3 December 2005 (M) - I was recently at a works night out with the girls from work and their is this girl who i realey like she is so nice very careing and wuldnt hurt a fly and she sees good in everyone but when i was standing at the bar her boyfriend was slaging her ...

My best friend only ever talks about her new boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6719 days ago

3 December 2005 (F) - I really need some help on this. My best friend has a bf and I'm very happy for her and all that, but it's just that since they're dating she seems changed. I mean all she ever talks about is Joey this, Joey that. It's so annoying but I can't tell ...