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Archived questions from: April, 2012 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

I cant trust my bestfriend anymore, should I end our friendship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4344 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - My bestfriend and I have been friends for about 7 years now.. I love her very much and I know that she loves me, but for the past year its been seeming like everything has become a competition with her. It drives me crazy because I feel like I can't ...

My friend's crush has been asked by another girl to prom and she's very upset, how do I make her feel better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4372 days ago

30 April 2012 (M) - Me and my best friend was texting one day and all of the sudden she became all sad and she was crying. I asked her how come she was crying, and then she said that the guy she liked was ask to prom and he said yes. She is very scare that after...

He sent dirty texts to my bestfriend,should I give him another chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4344 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of 3 months split up 2days ago. The other day which was my 3yr old sisters bday my friend (used to be best friends but kinds drifted apart because shes been seeing married men). Was calling me sayin she has somthing to tell...

Are most Friends with Benefits relationships usually kept secret or not?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4373 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - Hi everyone just a quick question about Friends With Benefits (fwbs) I am currently in one with a guy I really like I was just wondering if all fwbs are usually kept secret or do people tell each other they are in one? I have asked this question...

My ex wants to come clean about why he cheated on me,should I talk to him or let it go?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4373 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - my ex and I had a 4 year relationship that ended because he cheated on me. I cut off all communication after we broke up until he posted a long status on Facebook about our relationship, and how he made mistakes and his mistakes shouldn't be coun...

I really miss him. And I realise that he may be ill. How can I connect with him and be a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4373 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - There was a guy who I was close friends with, who cut off all contact with me and many others for undisclosed reasons. Personally I think he was suffering from depression - I can't be positive because he hasn't interacted with many people since the ...

How can I deal with this friend who likes attention and likes to brag?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4373 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - I met this girl in my class last semester. We r both business major. We clicked, and we started hanging out a lot and studying together. She and her best friend (who is also her roommate) are no longer friends, so i decided to introduce her to my ...

How do I get back my ex? We've started talking and see each other regularly

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4373 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - What do I do? I think I love my ex again but this time it is different. We broke up two years ago and since then we have both matured and lately we have been speaking more especially over the last three months we have been speaking nearly ever...

I'm upset by friend's affair and its making me question my marriage

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4370 days ago

28 April 2012 (M) - I'm not really looking for advice here, but I've got to write this because I can't talk about it to anyone. Everyone I know is too deeply involved. My wife and I have known this really nice couple for ages. They've been married for about twenty-f...

Why doesn't my ex want me to date his friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4374 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - I want to remain in contact with my ex- we finished 4 weeks ago. We were talking regulary still but not as much but in the last week or so its became even less- which upsets me. I miss him. I miss the conversations we used to have. He just clearly ...

I want to do things differently and ask her out with a letter. Any ideas on what to say please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4374 days ago

28 April 2012 (M) - Can someone please give me a sample of a letter to send the girl I wish to ask to be my girlfriend? I do believe she is ready for the next step, as I know I am. She's 17, I'm 19. We've been talking for almost a year, and we both know we like each ...

Girls would you be OK with this? Guys how do you feel about men having strippers at a bachelor's party?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - I am just asking this question out of curiousity. It is for both men and women. How do you feel about men having strippers at a bachelor's party? Maybe it is because I have low self-esteem but if my fiance was enjoying that kind of show, I woul...

Does my potentially bi friend like me? He has a girl friend, but he maybe likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4375 days ago

28 April 2012 (M) - My friend that i've known for about 6 months is bi...i think. I mean, I never thought he was, but people told me he was and then the other day we were talking in a group about girls we found attractive and then he started to list guys too. (Btw he's ...

Why has he not offered to take me out? He's my ex. He'll spend time with me but that's it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4374 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - I am starting to develop feelings for my ex-boyfriend AND I don't really know If he's attracted or if he still has feeling for me. We dated years back AND I hadn't seen him in quite some time, like 11 years ago. He is not married, but he is dati...

The man I love is getting married and I need to leave but he doesn't know how I feel!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4366 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - Okay, I have a question...... The man i'm in love with is getting married in three months when I called him to tell him I was relocating to another city after I heartbreakingly watched him be told by my pastor to officially get engaged to her on t...

Guilt over cheating on my gf with my best girl friend has led to me breaking up with my best friend. Help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4375 days ago

27 April 2012 (M) - I cheated on my girlfriend of 2 years and told her and we have since broken up. I cheated on her with my best girl friend (the ex-gf and bf don't really know each other). I feel so guilty about cheating on my ex and have now broken things off with ...

Advice for 2 friends who are having an affair with the same man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4375 days ago

27 April 2012 (M) - Advise on possibility of two close ladies friends to have full love affair with same person. Bearing in mind their minds that the same man have seduced both of them before and they kmow....

My friend is dating my ex. I want to hate her but I miss her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4368 days ago

27 April 2012 (F) - A couple of months back, one of my friends decided she wanted to be with my ex boyfriend as she had strong feelings for him (which i knew nothing about until it was too late) He and I had only just decided that we weren't going to stay in touch an...

Is she just being friendly, or is she trying to hint at something?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4373 days ago

27 April 2012 (M) - There was this girl in my classes (both lecture and lab), well, from what I know there's not really a strong vibe between us (from my end anyway). We sat across from each other in our group of 4 in lab (I'm the only guy in the group by the way...

Was I being a pushover by agreeing to my friend's demands?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4373 days ago

27 April 2012 (F) - I've had my best friend for about 5 years. He's a dude and I'm a chick but we have a really siblingish friendship, we're the same age and we often tell each other everything. But recently he's been kind of selfish and insensitive. ...

What is going on with my kinda sorta friend and nearly prom date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4373 days ago

27 April 2012 (F) - Prom is in a couple months. My principal likes to playfully set up single students so without permission from either of us, he asked my kinda sorta friend and I if we'd like to go to prom together. And I was just like okay sure, we can go a...

Leaving my best friend and my gamer life behind.....

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4374 days ago

26 April 2012 (M) - Ok here's the thing. I know this isn't your typical relationship question that you guys get but it's a serious one to me. I'm what most people would consider a 'Hardcore Gamer'. I use to be the guy playing video games for 20 hours a day. Video games ...

My roomate and my ex are getting too friendly, am I wrong for being upset about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4376 days ago

26 April 2012 (F) - My roommate and I are supposed to be best friends. Well about six months ago, I dated this girl that I really, really cared about. My roommate knew I really cared for her and knew that when we broke up, it really effected me. Well fast forward six ...

Stressing about the friends I've made at school! How do I stop this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4373 days ago

26 April 2012 (F) - I have just started high school and for the first time in my life have had to make new friends. I have never done this before and now I have a couple of friends, but I still can't stop stressing about them. I constantly fear that they're all goin...

I've fallen in love with my friends with benefits guy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4377 days ago

25 April 2012 (F) - hi everyone I could really use some opinions I was just wondering what you think this means I have been in a fwb for a while now he comes to mine I go to his for a coffee or a movie or something he somtimes just wants to cuddle me and kiss me I have ...

I don't want my gay friend to like me, what shall I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4376 days ago

25 April 2012 (M) - I have a friend who is gay. Im straight but i still want to be his friend because hes cool. but im affraid he might think im gay and start hitting on me or something. important note: i am not attracted to sexually i only want to be his friend ...

I feel like my guy friend is trying to make me his FWB!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4376 days ago

25 April 2012 (F) - I have a really close guy friend for about 2 years now, we have a lot in common and we talk just about everything. I treat him just as a close friend and I have always been open to him about any topic, when he needs someone to talk to, I'd be the ...

Does my guy friend have feelings for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4377 days ago

I want to get married to this man someday, but to stand at the alter with the man who used to abuse me standing by his side, is unthinkable!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4375 days ago

24 April 2012 (F) - I love the man I am with, unfortunately his best friend is an ex of mine, an abusive ex. His argument is that they have been friends longer than I have known him and that everyone makes mistakes. He is a godly man and believes we need to forgive one ...

My boyfriend likes to spend more time with his friends than me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

23 April 2012 (F) - Dear cupid My bf of 2 years likes spending time with his friends rather than with me. He is always coming up with thing or another not to spend much time with me. I know for sure that he is not cheating, but he is always hanging out with his f...

I scared him off. Can I interest him again, despite this set-back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

23 April 2012 (F) - I finished seeing this guy about three weeks ago because he said he didnt know if he wanted a relationship or not and we have been talking to each other for the last two weeks and he said that things between us when we were seeing each other were ...

Is it weird/impossible for a twenty year old girl to be just friends with an older man (35 years age difference)?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4377 days ago

23 April 2012 (F) - So, at work. I struck up a friendship with an older man. We talked a lot and appreciated each other's company. Today, we kinda just took the friendship out of work. We exchanged phone numbers and tonight we spoke on the phone for a little bit. We ...

In love with my "straight" best friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4377 days ago

23 April 2012 (M) - My best friend and I once had a very strange relationship. I came out to him and confessed all my feelings for him one night and he did the same to my suprise. So we had about a 4 month relationship behind his GFs back. 2 years later, we are stil...

I love her and spending time with her isn't helping me to move on

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

23 April 2012 (M) - I have been seeing a woman on and off for 3 years. We dated a while, but she’s commitment phobic and called it off when it felt like a relationship. (bad previous relationship) We agreed to be friends. After 6 months, we got closer. I met he...

It feels like my best friend is slipping away

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

23 April 2012 (F) - Have you ever been scared to lose your best friend? Theyre like your other half. They understand u and everything your going through. You guys have been through the ups and downs. Well lately i feel like my best friend is slipping away. We used to ...

My friend has become the perfect girl and I'm jealous!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

23 April 2012 (F) - Dear aunts and uncles. So, this has to do with my best mate and my feelings of jealously over her. I'm 31 single and live in London. I met my mate (who's 29) 10 years ago at uni and we have been the best friends ever since, but recently it's al...

I have a girlfriend but was touching up on my best friend. I'm too afraid to tell my girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4379 days ago

23 April 2012 (M) - So I have been dating my gf for like a year and a half now... About 4months into the relationship I did somthing with my best friend. I hung out at her house and we got a little bit close. We didn't kiss or anything but I was touching up on her and ...

My best friend's boyfriend is being ambiguous with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4375 days ago

22 April 2012 (F) - I don't know what is happening with my friend's boyfriend, two years ago there was a snow storm and he happened to be stranded in my city, although he lives and works in another one, so I had to put him up for the night. It was weird because he ...

Is he politely saying no to my feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4368 days ago

22 April 2012 (F) - Dear lovely aunts. I am sooo in love with a guy I have known as a class-mate/friend for 4years. Recently, I realise we are flirting a lot more..I guess because I am kinda hitting on him. By nature he is a lot more flirtatious.Now this is the ...

I feel like I lost a friend for the wrong reason! Is it my fault?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

22 April 2012 (F) - Hello guys I hope you all are doing well As for me I could be doing better I had just official lost a friend today In my eyes, it was for no good reason So my question is Did I handle this situation the right way. I felt I could have han...

I feel jealous that my partner pays so much attention to our attractive friend

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

22 April 2012 (F) - I am very embarrassed to ask for advice over this, because I hate to admit to being jealous. This is about my boyfriend of 4 and a half years and my friend. I think he has actual feelings for her. Me and my boyfriend moved to a new area 3 ...

What if I love her as more than best friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

22 April 2012 (F) - I'm 15, a lesbian, and one of my best friends in this entire world just turned 19, and is also a lesbian. We are very, very great friends, and are pretty affectionate with one another, as in we cuddle on the couch, kiss each other on the cheek, ...

Am I being overly sensitive because he wants to go to a strip club with his friends?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4378 days ago

22 April 2012 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 11 years, i'm 48 he's 50.... we have a good relationship now, but it's been up and down over the years. I work hard staying in shape, looking good and pleasing him sexually. The other night he brought up that he ...

Why is my man always staring at this woman?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4365 days ago

22 April 2012 (F) - the story is i am with a man LDR but soon will be moving in with him, been with him nearly 3 years and we are loyal and honest and keep in touch and see each other the best we can, cause its getting too much for us thats why we have decided to move ...

I'm constantly bombarded with messages from him on facebook!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

21 April 2012 (F) - I started work at a local hardware store a couple of weeks ago as a part time job and have had some friend requests from my workmates of a similar age on facebook. I have accepted them, as they are all people I have had several conversations with ...

My friends make me feel like I'm the only one making an effort

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

21 April 2012 (F) - I don't have an acc so please check for anon updates without the followup alert because I really need some help. My best friend and I are having effort difficulties because I feel like its only me making a real effort. Don't get me wrong, when my ...

Is it better to be indifferent to others?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

21 April 2012 (F) - hello everyone ^.^ ogenki-desu ka? lol let me stop My friend told me this "The less you give a damn, the more people will give a damn," Basically he was telling me that I should just stop caring about other people and do my own thing sometim...

I found someone I could open up to but think I ruined our chance

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

21 April 2012 (M) - so i've got a bit an issue when it comes to committment and opening myself up. in fact, a bit is a drastic understatement. i'm really good at having short-term, meaningless strings of relationships. and if i find someone who remotely interests me, i ...

I'm having a major hang up around my boyfriend's close friend who is a girl.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

20 April 2012 (F) - I'm having a major hang up around my boyfriend's close friend who is a girl. My bf has many girls as friends and I don't have any issues with any one of them except this one. I think it's important to understand their past to answer this question. ...

Should I tell him about my religion if he asks me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

20 April 2012 (F) - There is this one guy that really likes me, but I'm nervous about him finding out about my religion. I'm not saying I would date someone who would let something like that get in the way of things or bother him. I still can't rid of the butterflies ...