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Archived questions from: January, 2012 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

My wife had no problem seeing my best friend naked! The casual way she acted around him, suggesting that MY underwear would look good on him, makes me very uncomfortable

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

31 January 2012 (M) - I don't think there is a problem, but my wife's behavior toward my best friend seems a little weird and it bothers me. My best friend and I are close. Since I married my wife she has also become 'TXX's friend. We are all very close, and go out toge...

I feel ugly, and I need ways to cope!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - I'm in such emotional pain right now, because I think am so ugly. Nobody ever tells me I'm pretty, I am just really plain, and today I realized I'm deformed. I tried on several tight dresses, and my hips are just too big... if I fit into a dress ...

Were we ever really friends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4469 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have a question about a long time friend (18 years) with whom I ended the relationship / friendship with because he deliberately concealed his marriage from me. Basically, I'm wondering why someone with whom I've been frie...

I regret breaking up with my ex, but if I tell him how I feel it will look like I'm tying to stop him going away with his so called friend....what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4469 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - Last year i broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years and i think ive made a mistake in doing so. the reason i broke up with him is because 1 night i was walking home with my boyfriends best friend who lives on the way after a night out. when i reached ...

Tells me his secrets, but complains to his friends, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - I like this guy, he's a friend of a friend and we talk on Facebook; we get on quite well and he recently revealed to me that he used to be depressed and has scars from it, he asked me not to tell his friends so that might mean they don't know? T...

My boyfriend says he is still in love with his ex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4469 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - Hi I have been with my boyfriend 1 year in march we were talking last night and he mentioned his ex which he does quite often so I asked him if he was still in love with her and he said yes he is now I'm so confused but my question is will he be ...

Is it cultural or personality? Why is he so shy around me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4469 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - In my class, there is one international guy from China that acts a bit strange around me. After we teamed up in a mini project, he and I started talking more and discovered we have similar interests. However, when ever I talk to him he laughs a...

And encounter with my ex Fiance. And got on well. How should I play this, and what should my next step be?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4469 days ago

31 January 2012 (M) - weirdest thing happened to me today, i got a text message from my ex-fiance and she said i emailed her from an old email account i do not use anymore. she said she is texting me because she doesn't want her work computer to get a virus... i said...

2 Questions: 'Coming out' advice needed and how to get over a crush

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4453 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - Ok so this will be really long, I'm sorry I have 2 questions Question 1: I am... well I'm not sure but I think I'm bi or Pansexual. I have been attracted to guys and girls I've had 2 boyfriends 1 of which I never really had feelings for (mention...

How should I encourage him to ask me out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4470 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - I am interested in a considerably older coworker. He is usually pretty stoic with others, but he will tease and flirt with me often, get into my personal space, and initiate conversation with me pretty often. Other coworkers have joked saying t...

Was he sincere or just playing games?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4469 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - My husband told me 4 months ago that he was done with our marriage and leaving. He has left me and our children 4 times over the last several years. Each time he has come back (because I have asked or begged him to). He did not say when he was ...

Can a girl still conquer a guy who says he only wants to be friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4469 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - A friend and I became super friends and confidants.His girlfriend left him for another guy 1 year ago and after having been his girlfriend for 7 years he cannot get over the loss, therefore I had refused to say anything about it. The big mistake I ...

Should I tell his girlfriend he cheated on her with me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - Hey everyone, i need advice. Ok heres my story, i have a guy friend who i have been friends since with the 9th grade. were in our early 20s now. i have had a crush on him since high school but never acted on it because i was really shy. an...

Meeting a guy I've only talked to online soon, any tips on how to be less shy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4469 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - I've been talking to this boy online who is the same age as me (16) and he is good friends with my best friend. He wants to meet up in a few weeks, but i'm so shy around new people and never know what to say or how to start conversations and always ...

Is he sincere about being okay with 'friends without benefits'?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4464 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - This guy said he wanted to be fwb, but when i told him that i'm not comfortable with that, he said he is ok with being just friends (without the benefits). Do you think he's just pretending that he's ok with that though, and that he'll still ke...

Am I Bi or a Sicko? :(

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4469 days ago

30 January 2012 (M) - Hello guy's my name is Dan and i am 20 years old please don't judge. I have been very worried recently over the type of porn i used to watch as a teen 13 - 19(not sure when i actually started) I used to watch normal hetrosexual porn (not for lo...

Friends can't kiss... Right?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid, Well, heres another update, a mind boggling one at that rate. I visited B around his again, we had fun and a few laughs and ended up on his sofa watching a film, we were cuddling my head resting on his chest. I felt him gently push me t...

Guys I talk to think I'm flirting, but I don't even know how to flirt!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - One of my friends keep telling me not to talk to boys the way I do, and he says that I "don't know what I do to other guys." I've tried asking him what he meant, but he shrugged it off. I'm almost certain that he's talking about flirting, but I ...

How can I build up my friends confidence about dating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4469 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - Lately my friend has been dealing with a guy whos not into her as much as she is into him. ive been helping her stay happy cuz she really likes him and cant let him go. then she sent me a message like this "Uk what I figured it out no guy wants to ...

He was flirting with me but now says I'm not his type

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4471 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - I have this problem with a coworker of mine that I ended up really liking his name is Bryan… We have known each other since October 2010. He had asked me what his chances were for taking me out to dinner was and I had told him that his chances...

What's your opinion of guys who flirt with their ex, while the guy is still IN a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - I just wanted everyone's opinion on this. I ask because my ex still flirts with me even though he's got a girlfriend. He's even said to me once how do I know if he ain't lying about being in a relationship, and that I should pretend that he's still ...

His friend gave him an ultimatum, me or the friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - hey, i was talking about a younger boy, in my previous question. well now his friend which is my ex, has told him that he needs to choose between me or him. does anyone know what i should do or say?...

I'm so keen to find somebody I scare them away on the first date!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

29 January 2012 (M) - to get straight to the point- i get too carried away about girls on the 1st date that im left gutted when they dont want a second. I work in a very male dominated industry and all my friends are couples. i have lots of interests and am always bu...

I need to learn how to interact with guys

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - Hi guys, I think the best way to describe it is.. I'm stuck! Its been this way most of my life, and the situation doesn't really change. I guess you could say I have very little to do with guys. It's not me so much that doesnt have much to do ...

I like a much younger guy, and now he is flirting with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

29 January 2012 (?) - I need advice on something. I told one of my friends that I liked a guy in our college class. The thing is that I'm 23 and he is 17...I told her I was embarrassed about it and that I couldn't help how I felt. I had to tell someone so I chose he...

My love for him is so strong, but he just plays with my emotions

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - i have a boyfriend of 1 year and 8 months, we are long distance(live 5 hours/230 miles apart) and we met 6 months before we got together through a friend i went to see for a week, i was with someone else at the time, but that didn't stop me doing ...

My past relationships are coloring the future!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4469 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - Hey guys! I need some advice, I'm having a hard time letting go, trusting people, and or finding myself to like anyone in a way that others like me. I have had quite a few relationships but not as much as I have with people I have "went out" with, ...

He's my ex and he still checks me out all the time. Why does he do this still? His Gf hates me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - My ex and I share a lot of history, we were best friends for a year and liked each other for a lot, a year after we hugged for the first time and hung out as well with friends. Few months later we had our first kiss and first sex and it was very pas...

We hooked up twice and now he ignores me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - hey there, so i have a slight problem, i have this friend we use to date back in the day but it didnt work out for a few reasons, but recently we have partied with each other a couple times we hooked up twice, he does have a girlfriend and i feel h...

One boy wants sex the other puts me in the friend - zone

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4472 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - MOD NOTE: TWO QUESTIONS FROM SAME ASKER COMBINED Question ONE: Okay, so I’ll be honest, I am desperate for advice because this is really my only way to get help. I’ve talked to my friends about it and they all are close-minded about it so I decided ...

I feel knackered and old!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4452 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - I'm in a very dark place. I feel immense loneliness, empty feelings no matter who I'm with. I'm threatened by evrything. Mainly people preferring other people to me cause my personality is shit even though pple reassure that its not I feel it deep ...

He wants sex, I want more, but I am too lonely to just walk!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - Hi, I met this asian guy...we were going out...dinner, dancing, movies..etc...he is younger almost 10 years...I realized..too late he only wants sex. Thats all. And I want more company...friendship. I told him we are looking for different things a...

Why is my sister in law and friend is backstabbing and acting up to me as if I've wronged her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

28 January 2012 (F) - ModNote: two almost identical questions combined. She (P) was my friend before i even met her brother, my now boyfriend. I also have a mutual girlfriend with P called (E) When i started dating her brother she would back stab me and stuff, sayin...

Is it possible to get over him whilst still having contact with him 24\7?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4472 days ago

28 January 2012 (F) - Hi guys, I hope you can help me, I really like this guy, we met through work, but always text and phone each other all day every day. I have told him how I feel about him and he has said he likes me too, we have had a couple of times outside of work ...

My red hair gave me nothing but the blues

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4453 days ago

28 January 2012 (?) - I was bullied quite badly at school for having red hair. That was 7 years ago, i'm 24 now and look completely different, but i still feel like i'm the same person i was back then. If somebody compliments me, especially a guy, i just won't believe ...

After six months my boyfriend still hasn't told his new friends I even exist

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4472 days ago

28 January 2012 (F) - My extremely introverted boyfriend went away to teachers college for 6 months to make some friends. He did it! Is great friends with his housemate and a few other people he met from school. Anyway, the time has come for me to meet him up there so we ...

A female friend talks about her sexual interests but when I respond she grows quiet

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4472 days ago

28 January 2012 (M) - Hi, I met this girl I know from college a few years back. We just chat whenever we meet, we smoke etc. we done this a few times. she has been talking about her sexual life and how often she needs it, I do not discuss mine. I really didn't know why ...

I feel I've made some awesome progress in the week we have been broken up!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4472 days ago

28 January 2012 (M) - My girlfriend broke up with me saying we need to see other people because we started dating when we were 14. I am 22 now, thats 8 years and we are eachothers first relationship. but i know it has more to do with the fact i was very very immature she ...

Is this my gut talking or my insecurities?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

28 January 2012 (F) - I have been dating Mr. K for 7 months now and he is pretty great, however, I have some concerns. When I met him, he is was transitioning from California back to Chicago and he was being reinstated with his old job with the police department. ...

What hope is there for this girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4472 days ago

28 January 2012 (M) - Bit of a long story so please bare with me. Met my girlfriend at work 5 years ago, she was an Assistant Manager of 21, I was a 38 year old employee. Despite the age difference we hit it off straight away and started dating almost immediately. During ...

Should I block my ex? He broke up with me because he didn't like the present I gave him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4472 days ago

28 January 2012 (F) - On December 2010 I got dumped by my boyfriend. We'd been really good friends a few years before we started dating and then I feel like when we started dating we moved way too fast. Then on Christmas I got him a present and he said he didn't l...

Is it alright to invite my friend's ex boyfriend to a dance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4472 days ago

28 January 2012 (F) - Okay so i wanna ask my guy friend to a dance and i also like him... but my friend used to go out with him but not really since it only lasted a day but she broke up with him cause she didn't see him that way. Now recently she decided she liked hi...

People only seem to see me as an acquaintance, but never as a friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4472 days ago

28 January 2012 (M) - I feel I have come to the realization that I'm just the acquaintance to everyone. I'm a nice, respectable guy. I enjoy hanging out with people, and people enjoy hanging out with me. Sure, I'm a bit introverted, but people I know have accepted me for ...

I like my friend and got shot down. Do I try again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

27 January 2012 (M) - So I have a friend that I recently told I have feelings for. The problem is, when I told her, it was really awkward and she pretty much walked me into the whole situation. She shot me down, but my heart won't let me give up. Would going up to her ...

How do I deal with an angry friend and a misunderstood situation?

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27 January 2012 (F) - long story short is: -my friend likes this guy (we'll call him M) but is also still hanging out with her ex bf. -she introduced me to him prior to new years eve. -hes a nice guy, ive hung out with "M" and her in a group and with "M"/group witho...

My girlfriend occasionally stays and sleeps in the same bed with her best male friend. I don't feel comfortable with this!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

26 January 2012 (M) - My girlfriend is 22 and occasionally works 3 hours away and stays with here best friend who is a male. He is a straight male with a straight male roommate. My girlfriend, before we even met, would sleep in his bed with him when she was there ...

Does it sound like he might like me romantically, or is he just interested in me as a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4474 days ago

26 January 2012 (F) - We've been working together (in a bookstore) for a couple of months (he actually remembers how long I've been there, and he also remembers me from when our soccer teams had a couple of practices together about 3 or 4 years ago, even though we only ...

Does he love me or does he not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

25 January 2012 (F) - so i went out with this guy last night.... it was a half blind date of sorts since i knew him but he didnt know me. I intitiated contact... i saw him, i liked him and i sent him an email i got from his friend... which he responded to...and then he ...

Feeling down because...I want to go back to my old school!

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25 January 2012 (F) - Hi im an adolescent of 15 years old..... my life is a bunch of nothing... i repeated a class last year and this year i have to choose my subjects for next year. i don't know have any idea what subjects to choose, i am very confused and i changes ...

I miss him but don't want to come across as clingy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

25 January 2012 (F) - The guy i like a lot is definitely still in love with his ex. It was obvious, cause it was his status on facebook today. I'm worried about him, cause he gets pretty depressed when he thinks about her. Should i ask him if he is okay? But before y...