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Archived questions from: 24 June, 2011 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

How can I just be friends with her, as she's dating a guy, and even though I still have feelings for her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

24 June 2011 (M) - I had a chance with this amazing girl and out of my insecurities and possibly Not being ready for love I messed things up to the point where she cut me out and didn't want to be friends. She eventually started dating this other guy a few months...

I want a better emotional connection to my Bf. What should I do to make this happen?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

24 June 2011 (F) - me and my boyfriend been dating for 4 month now, almost 5, we got into a fight today because I was only being honest, I told him I want to talk to him on Sunday 1 on 1 through a txt then please tell me now but I wanted to tell him over the phone or ...

How do I help and support my wife now that she's confessed she was sexually abused but has not sought therapy? Do I insist she get therapy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

24 June 2011 (M) - My wife has always had issues with sex in our marriage. There were times when she enjoyed it, but never really any times when she really let go. For instance, she doesn't like oral sex (giving or receiving). She doesn't like to kiss very much. Sh...

People say we're too young -- are they right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

24 June 2011 (F) - my long term boyfriend is going into the army next year after we have finished college, he will go on a 44 week training programme which he will earn £15,000 for and get two weeks leave, after that he will be permantly in the army and would get six ...

He said he was going away for a few weeks, now it has been 4 months! Should I wait or move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4698 days ago

24 June 2011 (F) - Help me! my boyfriend has been away on a so called business trip for four months now(South America).When he left,he said it will only be three weeks.We have a child together( eleven months old)he hasnt sent any help finacialy since he left,he phones ...

Gay, bi or just confused?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

24 June 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid, I am 22 male and still a virgin. I fancy girls sometimes, but mostly men. i get aroused watching gay porn, I sometimes get aroused at watching straight porn (maybe because there are men in the movie) and the strange thing is that I ...

Do I confide in him my bi-sexuality? Do I reveal my attraction to him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

24 June 2011 (M) - I'm 16 and still at high school and I seem to have a big problem. I kinda accepted that I was attracted to guys a few years ago, (girls I'm fairly sure I like too) but I think I am crushing on (falling for) this guy at my school really bad. We w...

Torn between two lovers

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

24 June 2011 (F) - I'm in love with two men. The other one is my ex boyfriend (Jan) and the other is my friend (Matthew). Jan just broke up with me recently this month. He actually broke up with me twice for two consecutive days. He broke up with me because he is so ...

Has anyone had a long term relationship coming from a friendship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

24 June 2011 (M) - Have any of you had luck dating friends? I have this friend but I'm interested in more. She's beautiful and intelligent, we have some common interests. Of course I'm afraid to ask her out on a date cuz I'm scared of rejection and affecting our ...

My best friend has feelings for me, I love him too but I'm not totally over my ex. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

24 June 2011 (F) - I don't even know where to start.. Well, my first relationship was with a guy I would have given the earth to, I did pretty much anything and everything he asked me to - I completely doted on this guy because I loved him as well as him being my...

He tells me that I am not a good wife or mother! I don't think I can go on like this anymore, what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4697 days ago

24 June 2011 (F) - This have been bothering me for quite sometime now. My husband and me used to have very good relationship. I always take care of him when his home even though I'm already tired from work I make it a point to cook and give time to him and our five ...

In the past she had affairs with married men! Is this a deal-breaker?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

24 June 2011 (M) - a girl I have been dating for 6 months, and who up to now, I have liked a lot, revealed to me that in the past, not too distant, she dated a few married men. she is 28. one was when she was about 20, the other when she was 26. she slept with both of ...

What is the next step with her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4694 days ago

24 June 2011 (M) - Topic started when I saw a girl in the university about a year ago .. From the first moment I felt it was a different girl .. We did not talk a lot just to say hello as colleagues .. She had a lot of friends and was very popular within the ...

I think I will be keeping my baby, does anyone have any advice for a young mum to be?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

24 June 2011 (F) - I've recently discovered I'm pregnant - and I'm not really sure what to do. I've been to the doctor and gotten an appointment for the termination clinic, as the doctor has said I could be 7-9 weeks and if I'm at the upper end of that, there's not ...

He has been cheating the entire time with a girl online! Should I break up with him? Or forgive him and trust that he wants me, not her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

24 June 2011 (F) - Totally shattered. Please read - I have been with my boyfriend since one year. All the relationships I've been in before, the guys cheated on me. I was emotionally vulnerable when I met my present boyfriend, we had common friends. Both of us a...

Is there something going on with this so called friend of his? I made fun of her on Facebook and now my boyfriend is mad, should I take all the blame?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

24 June 2011 (F) - There is this girl that I hate very much... I met her a year ago in not so pleasant incident. She is a friend of my bf but it all started when I found out that she has been flirting with my bf for a long time and I wasn't aware of it. Early last ...

Is this guy just faking poverty or does divorce really affect dads this badly so far down the line?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

24 June 2011 (F) - A question to people, especially men, who are more than 3 years post divorce. How come a guy would still be struggling financially at that time to the extent that he can’t afford to rent the most basic apartment or run his car? This is assuming ...

I'm struggling to work out if I still love my boyfriend because of the way he treats me.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

24 June 2011 (F) - After years with my boyfriend, I am struggling to try and work out If I really do love him. The trouble is, he treated me so bad in the past, worse than anyone I have ever been out with. When I first met him, I Was in a terrible position, I was ...

I have a boyfriend but I think I am only attracted to girls, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

24 June 2011 (F) - I have a boyfriend of almost 2 years. The problem is, however, that I'm attracted to girls. Originally I simply assumed that I was bi, but I'm realizing that I'm no longer attracted to my boyfriend. I love him and care about him, but I'm not ...

My dad abandoned his family for my mother and I, will his sons hate me for this reason?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

24 June 2011 (?) - When my mom was 13, she used to babysit this guy's kids that live in her apartment complex, and...she fell in love the guy. Unfortunatly he was married with two boys. He ended up moving away, my mom turned 17- got pregnant, by 18 she got married to ...

My husband has just gone into a home and I am missing company from the opposite sex. Is it possible to have a male friend whilst being broken hearted over my husband?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4701 days ago

24 June 2011 (F) - I have just recently put my husband into a nursing home and i am just one year retired. I have been his advocate for various health issues for 15 yrs. (HE is 71 AND I AM 63) I AM in my early 60s not looking for a mate just get togethers with the ...

Why doesn't my boyfriend feel the same way I do about living together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

24 June 2011 (F) - My mother hasn't spoken to me in four months and last night, started laying into me, saying she wanted an apology. The fight went like this: she insulted me.. I was hurt.. I told her to back off and leave me alone.. she wants an apology for the ...

I love my wife but am no longer sexually attracted to her, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4701 days ago

24 June 2011 (M) - Ok, so the last thing I want is to be made to feel guilty, as I already do. All I want is some advice before I lose my mind... My wife and I have been married for 4 years and have been together for 7. We have a 2 yr old son who we both love to piece...