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Archived questions from: 3 January, 2011 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

I'm still in high school and she's a mum!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - I'm a 17 year old female living in the UK. On New Years Eve I went to a pub with my mates and ended up getting completely and totally hammered. I hooked up with a much older woman, who is 39 years old and has a five year old daughter (she is ...

I miss my old life but that had no future either!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4862 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - Dear aunts and uncles... Where do I begin. Well I'm feeling like I've fucked up my life yet again and I just want to know if I have a future. I'll try keep it short. Left school 15 (family probs) left home 17, dossed around for years, 21 started ...

Should I stay and live a comfortable life, or move abroad where I might be lonely?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - Hi, I've been having some trouble with my life in the past few months, really big issues, but I just got offered this amazing opportunity which means I don't need to deal with those problems anymore. I've been told I can go to an international sc...

I fell limp onto the bed and start to gag during anal sex!! Is this normal??!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - So last night I was fooling around with a guy and we were doing it doggy style and suddenly (i'm not sure if it was on purpose or an accident) he slipped into my butt. I've never had any sort of anal penetration before, and it surprised me to the ...

Am I to blame for the break-up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4860 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - I met this guy last year and instantly we connected. We started off as friends but the more we got to know each other the more our friendship blossomed into a relationship. We wanted the same things out of life, had the same values and morals and ...

Is this cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - Is this cheating? I just now found out that while my long time GF and I were going through our turbulent part of our relationship, she was going out partying more and more, we would fight and stop speaking for weeks, and at times for a month or two, ...

We are expecting twins but still have not moved in together!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4862 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3yrs now, I sleep at his house everyday but I still have my stuff at my house and pay rent there.He's told me before plenty of times how come I don't move in and I told him he keeps telling me that but yet ...

Is this all he can offer or should I push him for more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - Sorry if this long or not a specific question but I just need some advice on what to do and how to handle the situation I'm in.... Met a guy 8 mths ago and fell head over heels and it got intense very quickly. He admitted he had commitment issues a...

Should I take my ex back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - I was in an emotionally abusive relationship for six years and since we have broken up I have dealt with it and decide to move on. I have seen how some guys can be so nice and I am attracted to it. one problem though my ex keeps texting me saying he ...

Threesome gone terribly wrong...my husband is in love with her, my life is a mess and I'm pregnant with our 4th child!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - I feel like I'm at my wits end. I am so conflicted about what I should do that I am in a constant state of depression where it's almost debilitating. It all started about a year and a half ago. My husband and I have been married for 15 years and we ...

Tell me about a time you used humour to defuse an embarrassing situation

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4865 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - I just wonder how many aunts and uncles on Dear Cupid have, at some time or another said something to another person - friend, family member, significant other - that you THOUGHT would please them, BUT went over like a lead balloon?! In other ...

Am I being a prude by not wanting him to go to this out of town, weekend-long bachelor party?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - So I feel I am in a bit of a pickle lately having to do with both my friends bachelorette party and the potential bachelor party my boyfriend has mentioned. Im 22 and my boyfriend and I have been together over 4 years. We are not the type of peop...

I am gay and want to kiss my best female friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - Greetings, I am a 20 years old virgin guy. All my life I considered myself Gay because I was only attracted to boys and not girls! Recently I find myself in need to kiss my best friend, who is a Woman!!!! I do not know why I want that so badl...

Expensive love!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - dear cupid, i would like to ask, is right to spend alot of money in a relationship to impress your girlfriend....

Why do women so often go back to their abusers?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4858 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - Why are some women so stupid? Not trying to be sexist, trust me, this is why I said SOME women. Let me define, specifically women that will remain trapped in an abusive relationship, not only once, but then walk right back into it thinking it's...

I'm always asking myself what would've been if I'd never left home for him..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4866 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - Hi everyone. I'd love some advice on a problem that's been plagueing me. About 12 years ago I met my husband on a holiday in Italy. We fell in love, married and now have two small children. Although it was a hard decision to make at the time I ...

I have a disfiguring condition. Will he stay with me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4817 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - I feel so confused... Iv been with my boyfriend for 6 years now, and he was my first love, i was his. It feels so right and we both are very much in love. We started dating from when we were at school, i was always quite shy and he was loud..and ...

My fiancee wont let me leave the home unless I have a baby sitter! ! Should I cancel the wedding?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - Ok, here's the thing. My fiancee and I have been together on and off for 4 years. we have a 1 year old and I have a 6 year old. My fiancee has a problem with parenting. He wants to be dad when its convenient for him. dont get me wrong, he is a good ...

What do you think of this as a Valentine's Day gift idea?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - Valentines Idea Basically I really want to do something special for my crush. I know its elaborate but I wanted to do something different. I wondered what you girls (And guys) thought of it and how it'd make you feel. I was thinking of the ...

I have fear of dancing in public! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - Hm, where to begin? Not quite sure if this falls under relationships, possibly more for dating, and it's not completely a question either, but anyway... The problem I have has been with me since my first days at nursery school (I'm now in my late ...

Why am I alone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - I am 19 years old i have a 1 year old daughter and have been single for a while ..im pretty but i feel like guys dont want me anymore :( so it makes me think of my ex he was abusive and im not getting back with him bt crosses through my mind is it ...

I think a LDR will ruin our relationship but my fiance wants to chase good money in australia.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - Dealing with this exhausting situation? My heart is being ripped apart. I've lost my job and my fiancee is trying to push me to go back home to establish a good career 6 months before she emigrates to Australia. I don't want us to be apart. It is s...

Should leave? My husband is still not happy, even though I've done all he asked of me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - My husband and I have been together for 12 years, married for about 2. We met when we were teens, and I admit for the past several several years I have had some intimacy issues...I have had an extremely difficult time opening up sexually and init...

Is it wrong to feel this way? I'm falling in love with coach

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - I have had the same basketball coach for three years, and I have fallen head over heels for him. He is all that I think about and I dream about him every night. He always talks and jokes with me and brushs up against me. If I walk past him when he ...

I feel like I'm thick and worthless. Am I normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4867 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - Hi guys, just wondered if anyone could help me, i dont feel normal. I feel thick. Im 19 at uni, creeping my way through a degree that can get me into a good job, if only i had the confidence. I've always struggled throughout school, colle...