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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Greetings,I am a 20 years old virgin guy. All my life I considered myself Gay because I was only attracted to boys and not girls!Recently I find myself in need to kiss my best friend, who is a Woman!!!! I do not know why I want that so badly, I even fantasize our life together till marriage.I want to proceed with her, and leave my past behind. But the only thing that keeps me grounded is the fact that I do not know if I will be arroused when in time we are in bed. And if I am with her and then realize I am gay for real, she wont speak to me again and loose her, which is something I can not afford!Do u think is a "phase" i am going through? Or do u think I should move forward?PLease I am waiting for your answers!Thanks Again
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reader, spnwinchester  +, writes (4 January 2011):
Get drunk with her, and then fool around with her and then you will have an excuse for kissing her.
Its what I would do
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2011): I don't think it's fair to involve her in a romantic/sexual relationship without telling her all of this first and letting her make a decision about how she feels about all of it. Don't do anything with her until you've told if she doesn't already know about this. If you've always been attracted to boys you're probably gay, but either gay or bi she needs to know what's going on in your head.
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