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Archived questions from: 24 June, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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I'm having flashbacks of all the bad things I've done in the past! How can I get over this and realize I'm actually a good person?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

24 June 2009 (M - I keep having flashbacks of bad and stupid things i've done in my life and i have constant anxiety about everything. These spells can last for days in extreme cases and can really depress me or they just niggle at the back of my mind. Sometimes i'll ...

Advice needed. How do I get over her and what do I do about my future?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

24 June 2009 (M - I have problems everywhere. First i needed to hand a slip in at school to get an interview for the sixth form but i didn't because the courses are just rubbish and the only thing i want to do is become a footballer or a racing driver but if i want ...

What should I give my teacher as a "thank you" present?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

24 June 2009 (F - please help me! i only have a few hours to figure this out: i want to get my teacher a thank you present, because i never was at all interested in the subject he teaches before i had him; he made it fun for me. he's a great teacher and has ...

I'm scared I'm going to lose my dad!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

24 June 2009 (F - I havent seen my dad in 5 years,,he moved to Argentina together with his new girlfriend he cheated with on my mom...we moved here 7'5 years ago and the money of the house they've sold has dissappeared ( together with my dad) he is not paying for me, ...

What should I get them as a present? Their mom died.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

24 June 2009 (F - my friends mom died two years ago today and I feel like I should get them something. they are two brothers, 15 and 17, and I want to let them know I'm thinking of them. I was gonna get a card and a cookie cake and a gift card for them to go out ...

Do I have OCD? Am I gay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

24 June 2009 (M - I am a teenage male, and I have had homosexual thoughts for the past four years. I do masturbate to gay porn, but I also masturbate to lesbian porn too. Its all confusing for me because it takes me longer to get sexualy aroused over women than it ...

I'm worried I smothered her and have lost what we had

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

24 June 2009 (M - i am 45 and after almost 20years of marriage my ex decided to leave me coz i never paid interest in the family, we have 2 boys aged 14 and 11. She was right, work has always been my focus, i loved her, tried what i thought was best and always done ...

Why should I change and act all macho? I'm happy as I am!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

24 June 2009 (M - I'm a 35 year old guy who is in a great relationship with my wonderful girlfriend. The problem is that the way i act people think i'm gay. It makes me mad having to convince people that i'm straight! Maybe it's because of some of the things ...

He wants sex but I don't. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

24 June 2009 (F - Noone dont find me attractive ive ony sortaa hadd a boyfriend for a few month but he sed i was boring because i didnt want to do anything sexual with him. We kissed and hugged butt i didint want to be forced to do things.hes wierd with me and outs ...

How can we get financial assistance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

24 June 2009 (M - my fiance and me are trying to find legal help. leagal aid has told us they will not help us. we are living on employment that is not possible to pay for an attorney. we are being sued for financial hardships by her ex husband because we had no ...

Which is more important - personality or looks?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5423 days ago

24 June 2009 (F - Hi, I'd like to discuses one of your considerations in life. so just to know who is thinking soul is more important than look? and do you think who considers look is the most important whether in dating,everyday communication or even to love is ...

Is this a sign she wants to break up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

24 June 2009 (M - I have been dating this girl for a littke over a month. At first we would spend hours on the phone at a time. Now it is more like 30 minutes at a time and once a day. We also use to text a lot now she dosn't always reply. It has been a while since I ...

I have an abnormal penis with a lump on it. What is it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

24 June 2009 (M - So need calming down!!! For the past month I have had a whitish lump almost on the base of the head of my penis (I am uncircumcised and it is on the head itself). I have been to the doctor and looked online and it seems it is very probably a swoll...

What should I do with this guy at work flirting with me having a GF in the same company?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

24 June 2009 (F - This is a co worker of mine. His GF works in the same company but different area. I know both of them, although I knew him long time ago. I´ve seen lately that he likes to talk to me and likes to hang around me and when he sees me he tried to get ...

Is it a good idea to arrange a meeting between ex and current boyfriends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5424 days ago

24 June 2009 (F - i've been with my boyfriend for a while, but ever since we've gotten together, i find that my interests in other men have increased. i feel confident enough to be in the presence of other men i find attractive, and not blush and bow my head, like i ...

My mom's boyfriend did this to me, what do I do!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

24 June 2009 (F - Well for starters, this isn't an easy topic to discuss. I've had so much guilt, and frustration built in that I don't think I can do it anymore. My mom's boyfriend has been living with us now for almost 2 years. At first he seemed really cool, an...

Will I ever be happy again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

24 June 2009 (F - I have been divorced, have 2 kids, broken heart from a one year relationship with married man, suffering from sleep disorder and depression lately,and I've got no one to talk to about and no crying shoulder. Am I ever going to be happy again an...

Why do I constantly feel tired?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

24 June 2009 (F - Hi I am fifteen years old, ever since school ended, I haven't been able to get to sleep until about three, four, five am in the morning, I then don't got up into mid afternoon.. I feel tired all the time but I cannot sleep, I move around lot...

My dog bit me! Will I have a scar?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

24 June 2009 (F - hi i just got bit by my dog i went to kiss him and he must have panicked or something and bit my lip hes never done this before. anyway it hurts but not too bad my lip has doubled in size due to swelling the cute doesnt seem to be too deep a...

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