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Archived questions from: 13 January, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Don't we all rebound off each other?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

13 January 2009 (F - I'm a single mum and had a bad, stressful break up with my baby's father. Recently I met and started seeing a guy who made me feel happy for the first time in ages..we're attracted to each other, he respects me, makes me laugh, is good with my baby ...

Social issues...

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13 January 2009 (F - Hey everyone. Ok so I got some social issues. My mom won't allow me to go anywhere with my friends. Not even with my best friend whom I've been friends with for 13 years now and my mother knows her. My mom just won't listen to me so talking won't ...

Being left behind while everyone my own age is away ahead of me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

13 January 2009 (F - Why is life easier for some and harder for others? I get depressed about people my age who have things easy and I don't. People my age have things before me in their 20's and I'm well in my 30's before I get, it really depresses me. They'll ...

Weird to be a loner?

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13 January 2009 (F - I am 20 years old and attending a large public university 7 hours away from home, and I have absolutely no close friends at that school! Is that such a weird thing? I have literally no social life there, and I don't find myself really wanting one ...

DO you think there is a higher power?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

13 January 2009 (M - DO you think there is a higher power, that we can use to turn to when our life turns bitter? How can we actually know there is a higher power, if we never actually seen it? How come, some of us can easily believe this higher power thing, and can ...

I'm ready to have a child even get married. He's not!!!

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13 January 2009 (F - Me and my boyfriend have been together 5 years I'm ready to have a child even get married. He's not! He says he can't see his life without me and doesn't wanna be with anybody else but he won't make a move. I wanna have a baby in two years plan ...

Any suggestions for what to do on the anniversary of my friend's mother's death?

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13 January 2009 (F - My best friend's mum died 5 yrs ago. Her death annniversary is coming up and we want to do something on that night - you know just get together and do something nice/ a bit special / fun in memory of her. Nothing necessarily too expensive or over ...

He is about to become a Dad, and has only just told me. What do I do now??

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13 January 2009 (F - I have just found out that my boyfriends ex-girlfriend is 8 and a half months pregnant with his child. My boyfriend and I have just got back together after being separated for just under a year and although I knew that during that time he had slep...

My B/F ex is a nightmare, any advice please!!

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13 January 2009 (F - My boyfriends ex is a night mare. they have 3 wonderful kids together. i love them but she tries to poison them against me and their dad. yesterday she text my boyfriend telling him that i told his daughter not to listen to her when she tells them ...

I love him but my problem is that lately I'm unable to look at him without seeing his past.

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13 January 2009 (F - My bf and I have been dating for almost 2 years and have a child. I know he wants to get married and have a very high suspicion that he's going to propose soon from all the comments he keeps making. Nothing would make me happier because I love him ...

His confession is haunting me!

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13 January 2009 (F - I'm not sure why I'm so upset and whether or not I should be. Little background info: I've been married for 3 years (we've been together for 6). We share common interests (the same profession, passion for diving, love for animals, we have two cats ...

I don't know if I'm gay!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

13 January 2009 (M - i am i 15 year old boy and im having problems i don't know if im gay, people think im gay at times. i like to masturbate to gay porn then after that i have no more feelings for it, i started looking at a women and i masturbated a couple of times to ...

I was let down badly by people in the past and find the idea of letting someone in terrifying.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

13 January 2009 (F - I guess I have a problem I'm just not sure what I'm doing wrong. Basically I've never had a boyfriend and I'm now 25. I'm not bad looking, I get on with guys really well and I know they're interested because people tell me, but I never get asked ...

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