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Archived questions from: 13 May, 2008 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

What do men like? I feel I am socially awkward.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

13 May 2008 (F) - im a 20 year old woman and have never been on a date before. i wouldnt say that i am unattractive physically however i am very socially awkward and can come across as 'standoffish'. so any tips on how i can come across more likeable, confident...

My wife discusses our personal problems with friends. I can't face them now.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

13 May 2008 (M) - Can you help? I've been married for three years and everything as been going pretty well, but recently i've found out my wife as been discussing our personal problems with her friends, some of which are married to friends of mine. Now i can barely f...

Should married couples seek outside help or try to work it out on their own?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

13 May 2008 (F) - Should married couples get help with their problems from third parties? Or thrash it out at home? One to one using their own brains....

Problem with snooping - but it leads me to suspicious things, should I keep confronting my husband?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

13 May 2008 (F) - I have a problem with snooping, i will be upfront about it, but the only reason I keep doing it is I always find something, but not anything concrete and my husband always has a great story for instance I found a print out of a conversation between ...

Can you care about someone so much and it makes you so afraid of losing them, that you'd rather not be with them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

13 May 2008 (F) - A question to the guys: Can you care about someone so much and it makes you so afraid of losing them, that you'd rather not be with them? This is the line that my boyfriend pulled on me and bailed, after HE implied that we're in the relati...

What are your thoughts or experiences about relationships between people of different nationalities?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

13 May 2008 (F) - My question is about relationships with people of differing nationalities. I am Australian of english/irish heritage and my boyfriend is Greek but was born/raised in Australia. his brother is married to a women who is half greek and half anglo. ...

Is commitment really so different for men than for women?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

13 May 2008 (F) - This is a question for the men around! I have read info basically saying that commitment is different for men and women. Apparently - women are looking for the RIGHT man to come along before they get married, whereas men are waiting for the ...

I'm a tired, sad mess

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

13 May 2008 (?) - This is really hard for me to admit, but i think im falling into depression or something. I'm just young, but am in a long relationship and things seem to be getting harder and harder. the good times are so good, but the bad times can be awful. H...

Is my boyfriend putting off proposing because he thinks I'm too young?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

13 May 2008 (F) - I need some advice from people who have experience in this area and know what they're talking about. I am almost 23 and my boyfriend is 28. We have been together for quite a while now and i guess i am hoping for an engagement ring in the next coup...

Do you consider race a factor when choosing a partner?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

13 May 2008 (?) - I'm a African-American male that likes all types of women. The women I used to be with are Latinos. I do not really care about ethnicity because if you look for someone that understands your needs and your strives, that someone may not be your color ...

Have any aunts/uncles here ever met up and got on ok?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

13 May 2008 (M) - I was just wondering (seeing how everyone on here seems to know the rights and wrongs of everything and can give perfect answers to everyone) if anyone had met each other as agony aunts/uncles on here and were now in a successful relationship? ...

His ex-wife is now expecting his child-should I be happy for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

13 May 2008 (F) - Hi, I am dating my boyfriend for about 6 months now. We are so much in love with each other... it was love at first sight and we both feel we are right together. He was married (divorced in the meantime) and already has a 2yo boy. His ex-wife got...

Do we have double standards whenever a woman "cheats"?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

13 May 2008 (F) - its funny that.....when men come on line asking for advice about cheating on their girlfriends, you never see many men being judgemental and condeming them. However, when you see a woman who betrays her husband, all the men are so quick to respond...

Is masturbation murder?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

13 May 2008 (M) - well as u all know ''sperm'' is pretty mutch something alive ,i mean it turns into a human if u have sexual intercourse with a woman ,well if people masturbate is it a sin ,as my freind said it ''mastubation is murder'' then he followed on ...

I am a victim of trust because of her ex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

13 May 2008 (M) - Hello all, thank you for taking the time to read and give your opinion about my situation.. i met my GF on the Internet, she lives in Japan and i live in Canada.. to make it short, her last relationship went sour when she open the door to a room to ...

So Long Mr. NICE GUY!!! Pt.1

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 139 days ago

13 May 2008 (M) - "Nice guys always finish last" This is true in this modern society "Nice Guys" always finish last especially with women. If you're a man reading this (and I hope you are..) you realize this to be true. If you felt that statement was too far fetc...

Is it normal for a girl to like getting spanked?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

13 May 2008 (F) - i like to be spanked during sex. whats wrong with me?...

Why is it that I don't really make a lot of friends/

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 148 days ago

13 May 2008 (?) - I have always been considered as a loner(and that is why my named myself as the lone wolf).I hardly have any friends and I have been in two relationships during high school. Those girls were pregnant by their other boyfriends and for what? To ...

How do I do break up without hurting her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 148 days ago

13 May 2008 (M) - Does it seem like I'm thinking this through rationally, am I being an asshole, or both? My girlfriend of a year says she loves me, and is always good to me. We have fun together, but she never hangs out with my friends, and when she does, she do...

Are there any men who can settle for hugs instead of sex?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

13 May 2008 (F) - Okay this seems like a REALLY weird question, but...here goes. So I am really not into like, kissing or any of that stuff. I have thought about sex and come to the conclusion that I would like to remain a virgin and not ever have sex, for personal...

What is the sweetest thing he/she has ever said or done?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

13 May 2008 (F) - Hey everyone! I have asked before and I got some really nice responses, but I know that there is more romance out there, so I want to know, What is the sweetest thing he/she has ever said to you? Or how about, what's the sweetest thing thet've ever ...