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Archived questions from: 16 November, 2006 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

My Mother never stood up for me because she was worried about what people would think. How do I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 659 days ago

16 November 2006 (M) - After the other day I just lost mad respect for my mother as a parent and as a person. All my life my mother stood by and watch my older sister pick with me everyday of my life as well as let people outside of my family get over on me as a child up ...

Due to grief and sorrow..my heart seems empty! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 659 days ago

16 November 2006 (F) - My mom died four months ago, and the more time passes by, the more upset I feel. Also, my dad died four years prior to her. I've tried grief counseling, but that didn't seem to help at all, plus there are very few people I can talk to, and I don't ...

Is there a way to get depression medications without seeing a doctor?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 660 days ago

16 November 2006 (M) - Is there anyway to get medication for depression without seeing a doctor?...

My wife had an affair and I went to therapy. It didn't work so I had strings of affairs since. What's next?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 660 days ago

16 November 2006 (M) - Married 7 years have 2 kids. Wife cheated in 1st year of marriage. Tried to deal. Can't deal. Been 2 therapy (couples and single off an on over that time)Have had strings of affairs since. Met a woman I feel is pretty damn suited 2 me. Still ...

I broke off my affair b/c my fella found out. Now I'm thinking of my affair again!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 657 days ago

16 November 2006 (F) - dear cupid I know it was a terrible thing to do and i feel guilty every day, but this time last yr I was 4months into an affair with a guy from work. It started as flirting and it ended up getting quite serious, to the point where last christm...

During my period I think about partying w/out him; off my period I'm so in love w/ him! What's wrong with me??!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 660 days ago

16 November 2006 (F) - I love my boyfriend dearly, i really do, but at some times of the month - usually mid to late cycle he reall irritates me, and when he's not with me I am constantly thinking about going out with my mates and i fantasise about dancing and flirting ...

She got a DUI, I was supportive, then she broke it off with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 660 days ago

16 November 2006 (M) - Met this woman a few months ago, things were going great until she got arrested for DUI...That shattered her world, she has never been the same since...I've been very supportive but the next day of her court date, she broke off with me saying she ...

He pulled out but then we had sex again! How can I prevent pregnancy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 660 days ago

16 November 2006 (F) - Hey im 15 yrs old turning 16 today I had sex for the first time! It did'nt last long but he didnt have a condom and he pulled out and he wiped it off and put it back in. It was only like a 10 min thing. But I have one more week until my next period ...

He told me he loved me and would wait for me; later I told him I loved him - Now he needs time to think! What's that about??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 659 days ago

16 November 2006 (F) - Okay, I have been in a serious relationship for about 8 mths. We are in our late 20s. He told me he loved me and would wait for me to feel the same. Well, about 2 months ago, I opened up to him. Then 2 days ago, he tells me that he can't picture ...

I my ex asked about his health and he got short with me! What's going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 657 days ago

16 November 2006 (F) - My ex boyfriend used to have siezures in his sleep, very frightening if you're lying next to him and he stops breathing and he wont wake up however much you shake him. We broke up but were still on great terms for about 6 weeks. For 5 of those weeks ...

He is sending me mixed signals! I'd like some outside opinions please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 660 days ago

16 November 2006 (F) - The guy i like a lot keeps giving me mixed messages telling me he has fun after we hang out and then not getting in touch or textin till the next time we bump in to each other. I'd usually let him go but he persued me to his point and i don't know ...

I feel sick when thinking of doing sexual things with guys. Am I not over my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 660 days ago

16 November 2006 (F) - I'll do anything sexually with the guy I've been on and off with for the past year, nothing grosses me out. But now it's over (again) I want to try and move on. I can kiss other guys and i've gone as far as touching a guys penis, but the thought of ...

Want to look my best and lose some weight... but what's the best way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 660 days ago

16 November 2006 (F) - Hi. Next August, I'm going to Africa with my family. Obviously, it's a once-in-a-lifetime experiance and I want to look my best. I'm not overweight now. I'm quite thin, but recently I've felt a few extra pounds creep on, and it's not even Christmas ...

After I said I think of her in sexual terms, she stopped talking to me! Was I wrong to tell her the truth?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 660 days ago

16 November 2006 (M) - Hello A friend of mine has asked me the following: "she wants to settle thoughts on her mind and perhaps find out my feelings towards her" so I answered " I have very strong feelings for her and I find myself thinking about you and when you are...

My guinea pig is like a family member; the vet says he will pass away soon. How do I cope?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 103 days ago

16 November 2006 (F) - I know this sounds really stupid but basically I have this 6 year old guinea pig and it sounds really daft but I am really close to him and the vet said he won't make it throuh the winter. I'm so upset and I know a lot of people will probably scoff ...

What causes nipples to be hard or soft?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 660 days ago

16 November 2006 (F) - hi this might b a stupid question but y r womens nipples sometimes hard and sometimes soft? or is this just mine or is it normal?...

He won't open up w/ me because he thinks I'll kick him out - but I won't! What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 655 days ago

16 November 2006 (F) - Hello... I've been in a relationship for about 3 years, and have lived with my fiance for about a year. Things are usually good, except for these fights we have. It will start out a stupid small argument, and end up on something completely off t...

How can a 20 y/o guy make his nipples more firm?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 660 days ago

16 November 2006 (M) - Hi. This is a bit odd I know, but anyway here goes! I am a guy in my early 20s. My nipples are really soft and just about never firm. Sometimes they are si soft they are just about flat. Does anyone know what this means or how I can make them ...

I'm seeing him tonight and I'm so nervous! How do I boost my confidence?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 660 days ago

16 November 2006 (F) - I am falling for someone who i used to work with, we see each other a lot in the evenings and he told me the other day that he has always wanted me. I am seeing him tonight and I am so nervous. What can I do to be more confident? I had a four ...

I've been in love with my cousin for 10 years and she's moved on. So how do *I* move on if that's even possible?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 655 days ago

16 November 2006 (M) - While I was growing up around the age of 10-16 I was involved romanticly with my cousin. This was kept secret for the entire time, untill eventually it came out we were sleeping together (I was 16 she was 13). My parents went on and on about how its ...

My bf doesn't try at our relationship, my ex cares about me but doesn't like the age gap! Should I just break from them both?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 660 days ago

16 November 2006 (F) - I have a new boyfriend of 5 months. At first things between us were super then last month I started feeling neglected because he was making much less effort at our relationship. I have an ex-boyfriend who still cares for me and I still care for...

I feel we've grown apart - should I leave my husband?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 50 days ago

16 November 2006 (F) - I Love my Husband but am not In love with him. I have been with my husband for 18 years ( he was my first relationship), until recently i thought we had the perfect marriage 2 children , nice home etc. Then i met someone at work who i am very att...

He broke up with me, but still wants sex! It's really messing with my head.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 660 days ago

16 November 2006 (F) - my boyfriend of 2 years has recently told me he doesnt want a girlfriend any more. Im heartbroken nothing serious has happened he just said he wants to spend time with his mates. He says he is getting older and doesnt wants to do stuff and its not ...

He wants to invite his friends to our wedding - but these friends always ignore me! Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 660 days ago

16 November 2006 (F) - im getting married next year. its to be a small wedding as i dont have a large family so there are only to be 40 or so guests. my fiancee wants to invite his friend and his wife whom i really cant stand.they both ignore me when i see them preferring ...

She said she needed time, but I found out she's been talking with other guys! I'm so miserable.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 206 days ago

16 November 2006 (M) - Hi All I have been with this girl for close to 2 years now, we have had ups and downs, due to circumstances i got engaged to another girl i dont love, later this year i realized that i could not do with out her, now she has totaly taken me ...

I have this weird bump on my vagina! What could it be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 660 days ago

16 November 2006 (F) - hi im 21yrs old, and i've had sex a couple of times with one guy. ive only made out with other guys before, nothing else. anyway, i found this pimple type thing on the inner lip of my vagina. i havent been with him for months, and it just showed up ...