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Archived questions from: 13 November, 2006 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Should we stay together or break up while he's away for a year?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 698 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - my boyfriend is going away for a year. He wants us to stay together and says that he doesnt want to be with anyone else, is it posssible for a young man to stay faithful for so long?! His friends are really immature and party alot!and when he's ...

My bf is in jail and my ex keeps trying to get back with me! How do I tell my bf what's going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 698 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - i am currently in a relationship and it is was goin really well i am really happy but last month my partner got sent to jail and ever since my ex has been hassling me to get back with him i have insisted i am happy where i am even tho he is inside ...

He avoided answering me about a sexually explicit text I saw on his phone from another girl!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 695 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - I was using my boyfriends phone to make a phone call and once I was done I looked at his phone and saw my name that I called and then saw a message from another girl. So I looked at the message and saw that is was pretty sexual and explicit. I had ...

He makes excuses so I can't go to his place - do you think he still lives with his son's mother?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 697 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - Hello, I would like to ask if my man is being secretive about his living situation? We have been together six years and my boyfriend comes to my house at least five times a week. But there are at least two days that he doesn't come by or call. He ...

He texted Natalie...and I'm not Natalie!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 698 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - Short 1 here. Am i being too over paranoid? Or is it a stupid question ! My bf just sent me a message sayin - not 2night natalie, speak later my names not natalie!!!!!!!!...

My ex said she needs space - then I saw her with a good friend of mine!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 693 days ago

13 November 2006 (M) - Ok i've never done anything like this before, but here goes......... I just recently(1 month and 8 days) had a (what I thougth was great) 5 1/2 yr relationship end.(Not by my choice obviously) Everything was going good. I was planning to be engag...

What is being in love? I want to know if he really loves me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 698 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - Tell me what being in love is!? I want everybody possible to tell me what i should look for to know whether my b/f realy loves me!? Please xXx...

What do people think of a 21 year old girl who has never even been kissed? Opinions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 698 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - I would like some opinion on my situation. I'm 21, and I've never had a boyfriend, never been kissed, and obviously am still a virgin. It's because of lack of opportunity (I'm rather pretty, and I've had people asking me out before) or religious ...

My online guy wants me to go to his place for our first meeting! Is it safe?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 694 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - Iv met a man online and we have had conversations on the phone as well.We want to meet each other and see how we get on.Im 38 and he is 45,he has a studio which he does his art work etc and he wants me to see it.I want to see them but i wasn't sure ...

I want a boyfriend but I'm scared of sexual stuff! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 697 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - i really want a boyfriend. ive had 1 about 3months ago otta skool and we did do stuff. even tho there are some people that like me im scared to go out with them because they are in skool and im scared about the sexual stuff but i dont know y. i talk ...

They slept together w/ my drunken permission - I kicked him out and now I feel so alone! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 689 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - my boyfriend slept with me best friend and i was drunk and so i said yes it was fin but i left that night and she stayed there with him and two other friends and the next morning she left and he confessed to me that they hade sex and other ...

I'm torn between my current bf and someone else! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 698 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, ok i love my boyfriend to death! yes we fight sometimes but we always make up.. now i have this other guy who's really into me and im a little bit interested in him but i just don't know what to do! i couldn't live it down if i cheated!...

Am I normal or has my past made me "screwed up?"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 698 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - I was forced to 'touch up' my babysitter when I was about 10, and in a competely unrelated incident my Dad was sent to prison for sexual harrasment towards girls as young as 11 when I was younger (he never touched me in that way, but I had a lot of ...

How do I deal with this shaving disaster??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 698 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - Ok, this is kind of a wierd post, but I've kept things shaved 'down there' for about a year because my bf prefered it that way (now I do too). But, being clumsy, I've shaved a little too close to the actual opening of my vagina, and as a result hair ...

I'm falling for someone else and can't bring myself to end it with my current bf!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 697 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - I dont know what to do. I'm in a bit of a rut with my current boyfriend. I've been with him since I was only 15 and I'm now 19. I feel like I've out grown the relationship and hes done some things in the past that i cant get over. The problem is ...

I can't decide what I want to do about my ex! Please help@

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 601 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - How can I expect to move on if I don't know what I want? I broke up with my guy 6 weeks ago, loved him to bits, we were sex buddies for another month, then he got a girlfriend. He seemed a little confused as he can't seem to decide whether he wants ...

What if my new bf doesn't like my shaved pubic hair?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 698 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - when i was going out with this lad he asked me to shave my pubic hair so i did but now im going out with my new boyfriend and i dont think he knows what about if he doesnt like it?...

I'm dating him but he's spending the night with his baby's momma!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 698 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - I dont understand. I have been talking with this guy for a few weeks, he is over every night and we talk every day getting to know eachother. i have a 3 yr old he has a 5 month old. well he says there is now feelings for the baby momma but yesterday ...

I was abused as a child and now I am attracted to jerks! Can someone tell me how to boost my self esteem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 698 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - Can anyone give me some advice, so that I can boost my self-esteem, and help myself in personal relationships? I seem to have a tendency to pursue exes who seem to hold no real interest in me? I'm not sure why I am like this - am 33 years old and...

We are inseperable, but there is a huge culture boundary! Opinions please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 698 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - I am 18 years old dating a 27 year old man. We have been dating for a couple of months. He lives in my apartment complex and we are inseperable. We are both very happy. But there are a couple of issues, aside form our age difference. I am Spanish ...

Why does my bf act so differently now? Is it because I get so jealous?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 697 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - My bf has totally changed way he acts, now i am always accusing him and getting jealous and the other day he said he doesnt love me as much as used 2. So i dnt give him any space its cos i love him and there is distance. he is always talkin to ...

I want to know if he fancies me. How can I find out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 695 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - hi im 16 and im friends with this boy. I wanna know if he fancies me without asking him. But how do u know when a boy fancies u? i mean he flirts wiv me, pokes me, pushes into me gently... but he doesnt seem to notice me in the corridors or he ...

My internet guy now tells me he is confused. Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 692 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - I have been talking to this guy over the Internet for the past two years. We've become very good friends spending 4-8 hrs per day together on chat/cam. This past summer her almost died in a car accident and after that decided to meet in real life ...

My friends are turning on me and I don't know why! Please help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 697 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - my so called friends have been bitching about me and i dont know why, one girl has sent me a text saying you ugly bitch and other horrible things and recently one other girl printed off an msn conversation and they say im a liar. what do i do plase ...

He is disrespecting me and I found viagra and a girl's phone number in his car! I think he is cheating on me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 698 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - Hi I wonder if there is anyone out there that can help me. My husband used to be so loving and caring, now since we got married he just seems to be like a jekel and hide i never know where i stand with him from one day to the next. He tells m...

My bf's daughter and daughter-in-law always tell him about their periods! I think this is so weird! Opinions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 698 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - my boyfriend which is older and has a daughter that is 34 yrs. old and married with a child. she always talked to her father in her teenage years about her monthly period because her mother was ill. her mother was confined to the house so i don't ...

I love her but she wants things to stay as they are! I don't think I can keep this up much longer...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 698 days ago

13 November 2006 (M) - Hi Peeps I posted a couple of months back about i girl i met who was having probs moving out of a house in which her boy friend lived. She has now moved out and is now single. I have a huge problem. I have fell in love with this girl in a...

She's coming onto me in front of her bf...and he is encouraging it!!! What's going on?!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 698 days ago

13 November 2006 (M) - I go to my local pub with my mum and dad once a week for the karaoke. A couple of months ago, this girl came in with her boyfriend and another guy, but was totally flirting with me. My mum and dad have known this girl as her and her boyfrien...

He ended it, then texted that he loved me, then said sorry about that! What do I do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 698 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend of 8 months about a month ago. It was his decision and he texted me early yesterday morning to say 'I miss u x' and then 6 hours later he texts, 'Just read my sent messages. i'm soo sorry for sending that. totally not ...

How do I stop being so obsessive? Please help!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 698 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - PLese help, how the hell do I stop being so obssessive?? Im constantly thinking about my boyfriend, what he said, what he meant, pschyo-analysing it, worrying about it, worrying why he hasnt texted, called....will he dump me, what should I do to ...

What does it mean when someone fancies you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 698 days ago

13 November 2006 (M) - Opnions please! What does it mean when someone fancies you? Thanks...

He's not ready for a relationship but wants one with me later - I'm worried he just said this to make me happy! Opinions please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 698 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - Hi there, sorry this is long but hope somebody can help. Im in love with my best male mate. I have known him 4 months a short period of time but it was pretty much love at first sight for me we met in a club and chatted and he asked me if I would ...

I'm in love with them both and don't know what to do. Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 690 days ago

13 November 2006 (M) - I am torn between my gf and my ex. I would like to get back with my ex, but am still madly in love with my gf. There are days when all I can think about is my ex and would give up everything for her, but other days, all I think about is my gf. Me ...

I've been having an affair for the past 18 years. Now I'm confused about his intentions! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 698 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - I have been married for 15 years, but have been having an on / off affair with a male friend for 18 years. He and I are very close friends and my husband knows him. I have tried to stop doing this many times - but always end up back in bed with him. ...

I don't want to stay a virgin for too long! Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

13 November 2006 (M) - hi i'm a virgin and dont have much luck with girls and am woried that if a wait too long it will be awkward as my partner would most likely have alot more experience in the bedroom than me and i would feel lost any advice is welcome thanks ...

If she loved me, why would she move out of the country? What can I do??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 689 days ago

13 November 2006 (M) - Hi . I'm in a long-distance relationship that seemed to become stronger and stronger in time, regardless of the distance between us. A little while ago, she's been talking about going back to her home country, coz she kinda hates her current ...

We used to be like rabbits, now there's hardly any sex. I think it may be because of someone else!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 698 days ago

13 November 2006 (M) - Sex with my girl has gone off. when i got with my girl 13 month's ago the first 6 month's was like 2 bunny's on heat all the time fucking very night doggy, on top everything and after the 6 month's past it droped alot to 6 time's a month (not good ...

I'm physically ill because I cheated on her! What should I do??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 629 days ago

13 November 2006 (M) - ok i am dusgusting i did something so bad its eating me up inside. i have a great gf and ilove her so much, but i cheated! i never thought about it but when i was out my "best friend" slept round my house with 2 other people and we ended up ...

I broke up with my fiance and now she's devastated. I feel so guilty. What now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

13 November 2006 (M) - Hi, I feel so bad i just want to die somewhere alone. I got engaged to my girlfriend because she loves me to death and i thought that i would grow to feel the same way. I broke up on Friday the 10th three weeks before our marriage. She's complete...

I have feelings for my ex and ended up in a threesome with her! Now I feel I'm being used. Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 698 days ago

13 November 2006 (M) - hey, basically i'm in a bit of a mess...i posted a couple of days ago about whether or not i should tell me ex (whom i live with) that i still had feelings for her. I decided on saying nothing, which was probably for the best. Well, this basically ...