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writes: my boyfriend is going away for a year. He wants us to stay together and says that he doesnt want to be with anyone else, is it posssible for a young man to stay faithful for so long?! His friends are really immature and party alot!and when he's around them he is slightly immature too, but I know that he thinks differently to them from the way he talks about stuff. I know he loves but I think he may slip up in that year away from me..should i break up with him and give him freedom and if he comes back then he comes back?! Il kill myself with paranoia and jealousy either way. but i do love him so much and dont want to lose him! I will visit him for a couple of months but i dont know if we should break up or not!
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reader, LISAG +, writes (14 November 2006):
 He wants you to stay together so I would trust what he is saying. Of course it is possible for any man or any age to stay faithful. If he thinks differently to the rest of his friends then have faith in this. Do you really want him to be free ? He may never come back if you let him go who knows ? Why don't you just play it by ear and keep an open mind, carry on seeing each other and see how it goes, a year is not that long in the scheme of things really. Too much paranoia and jealously can kill a relationship also, so keep yourself busy and keep the negative voices in your head in check whilst he's away. Hope it may work well, absence makes the heart grow fonder they say but it can also work the opposite way, out of sight out of mind ! Good luck !
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