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writes:I've been having sex with my long-distance boyfriend for a couple of months now. everytime I see him we have sex. but i've noticed when i've had sex the first time he enters it hurts. why is it hurting? Reply to this Question
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reader, blackncute  +, writes (7 December 2006):
my dear, what u need is enough foreplay and to settle ur mind and relax when u r about to hav sex, also try to do some romantic staff like having a shower together, having a romantic dinner for two with candle lights, this will give both of u sparks on ur sex life, n another important thing is, u hav to tell ur partner and discuss about ths. Googluck.
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reader, vixy +, writes (7 December 2006):
vixy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you, luckily with the relationship we talk about everything, we spoke about it today actually. but i spoke to a teacher the other day and they said try some lube. but then again i'm not sure.
i will see him for in the end of december and early janaury and i will respond with an update
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reader, kellyO +, writes (7 December 2006):
 Hi Vixy,
It hurts because since u dont have sex regularly since he isnt around.your passage way tends to narrow back abit since u dont do it often. Imagine it like an elastic band.
What i would suggest is that when u meet each other again after awhile of not seeing he should be a littl more gentler and go for a lot of foreplay.You should discuss this with him, dont be shy to tell him.
Goodluck
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