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writes:So I was in another city visiting some friends so we could go to a comic convention. I went to visit an old friend at work (we still keep in contact) and give her a gift I found her. She seemed so happy to see me. She kept hugging me and laughing and poking me. She said I liked great, I was very fit. I Was reminded of how much I liked her :P weve been friends for like 3 years... She lives like 45 minutes away, but I don't have a car. I had a crush on her for ages, but when I asked her out the year I met her, but at the time she said she wasent dating :( Not sure what to do :( it's like a drug, thoght I was over the feeling, but seeing her again just restarted those feelings.Sigh, what should I do? If anything :PLiking people alot sucks :(
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reader, Dear Mandy  +, writes (22 May 2011):
 Hi
Go for it , ask her out again. Maybe the first time you asked her she was trying to get to know herself, coming out of a relationship can be difficult at the best of times. She did the right thing by not jumping into another just to be with someone. She was very appreciative to see you, so im guessing she may be ready to date again, you will never know unless you ask her :) Just tell her seeing her again brought back a lot of memorys, and she still looks as beautiful as ever, and you was wondering if she would like to go out for a drink sometime. :)
Let me know how you get on xx
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reader, Aunty Susie  +, writes (22 May 2011):
 Why don't you ask her if she is dating yet? Say it in a cheeky way; so that if she does say no, you can at least have a laugh and not feel embarrassed. But then she might just surprise you, and say yes. And thats when you jump in and ask her out. Go for it, and good luck.
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