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How do I get over my behavior with him??

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Question - (22 May 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 May 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

alright. so im friendly with all the guys. and one of my gay best friends... i was over at his house and he has a younger brother thats a year younger. so me and my friend were watching tv and all his bro friends came and were watching tv in a different room. i went over there and watched with them for a little. they started turning off the lights to go to sleep and and (ill call him sam) thats when sam came over to me and layed under the covers to snuggle... which i am completely okay with. he has a gf and cheats on her all the time... i alwayd pity the girls who do that with him. i think its absolutely terrible. so sam starts moving in to kiss me, i can feel him breath on my lips. i move away, he starts coming closer, i move away and tell him that i cant. he stop for awhile, he comes back and tried to do the same... i wouldnt let him do it. he moved away again and i could tell he was upset so i tapped him with my foot.... so he came over full force and started making out with me...

it was 2 in the morning and i was in a bathing suit from being in the hot tub... and i was horny and hell....

so when he started making out with me i moved my head the other way, bu he started kissing my neck and suck on me. andit felt so good considering i was horny and F***...then he fingered me. it felt so good. but i couldnt enjoy it because it was so wrong. i told him i had to leave. and i walked out.

now im hyperventilating everytime i think about it... im one of those girls. those sluts. and i cant forgive myself because his GF is the sweetest person i know. i dont know what to do. please help me.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2011):

You got sexually assaulted.

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A male reader, Partyboy123 Canada +, writes (23 May 2011):

Partyboy123 agony auntwillpower, resist temptations...

you and this guy are completely at fault. he should know better, you should know better. BUT, at the same time, his girlfriend is also at fault because EVEN after he cheats, she stays with him...

this is what you do... don't get "close" to this guy ever again, tell his girlfriend what you and him did, say sorry (apologizing will make you feel better), and just move on from this.

hope i helped.

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