A
female
age
26-29,
*ilynicole
writes:I've known this guy for about 2 years, or known of this guy. His mom worked for my mom at a daycare and I was always up there helping out. The first time he saw me I was 14, he was 15. He told his mom I was hot and that he liked me. I never really pursued anything because I didn't know him and he never directly contacted me. Until this year, he messaged me on Facebook and asked for my number and at that time I wasn't at all attracted or interested so I just ignored it. Then he ended up getting my number from a friend and started texting me..I rarely talked to him until not too long ago when he started working at the daycare too. He asked me out over Text and I said maybe but I was busy and I didn't think we had a lot in common. But as of like two weeks ago I've all of the sudden become extremely into him. So I started talking to him(mainly text) and we text consistently for about a week. He asked me out for next Friday and I accepted. We had been talking about music and so I decided to burn him a cd of some bands I think he should check out and I gave it to him today, he was nice and said thanks and I told him to tell me how he liked it. I gave it to him at 3 pm today and he hasn't texted or anything..did I move too fast?
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reader, Fernando Garcia +, writes (14 May 2011):
I think you two need to take things slow. First you have to build up trust and respect for eachother. Be colse friends before u guys start dating. Get to know eachother better. Relationships work better when you an ur partner are friends before you the two of you start dating. And be honest with you partner don't leave any daubt in hes or her mind. Always be clear of what you tell him or her.
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reader, Abella +, writes (14 May 2011):
 Give him time. You have made the right approach. He may or may not have liked the music you chose. Ask him to burn you a CD of my most favorite music. Then you will know what he likes.
Be patient, he may not have had time to listen to it yet.
Next time let him make the fast move. Ask him his favorite author and then read that author and discuss what you thought of the book.
Give him time, and let him tell you all about him, (guys love that) and which sports he enjoys the most and ask him to tell you more about those sports.
Ask him about things he really loved doing as a child and what are his most memorable experiences
And listen carefully and he will love being listended to and you will get to know what really makes him tick.
Good luck with all this
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