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I want her back but how do I regain her trust and convince her I will not lie to her ?

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Question - (14 May 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 14 May 2011)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

So my ex girlfriend just broke up with me a month ago after 2 years together because I lied to her and kept the secret for a while.

I REALLY want her back, but i dont know how I can get her to trust me again...I've tried telling her how I felt and even writing her a poem, but she never said anything to them.

After a while I stopped telling her how I felt because i know that she wont say anything back, everything i talk to her i want to tell her just how much i love and miss her. We're still really good friends and we talk ever once in a while.. but I want more, i miss her so much and not being with her kills me. A few days after we broke up, i tried asking her to take me back, but it got to the point where she would rather wonder "what If" than to take a chance with me again.

I know that there's a very slim chance that she'd take me back..But I'm willing to do whatever it takes to have her back again! I need some advice...please! Also, the relationship was Long Distance.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2011):

Oh man thats great you want to correct yourself and better things. Nice work! Thats important when learning young and also with relationships. Long distance is very difficult man. I, myself, just got out of one because of its complications. I would not chase this girl at all. Id leave it be and move on. As long as youre on civil terms and wasnt a harsh breakup, that will help you heal faster and move on. Find someone in your same city. Good luck.

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