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41-50,
*evonbabe
writes:hi my husband of 13 years left a week ago, after i told him too, he has an anxiety disorder so he didnt work, i work 4 jobs, have 2 children the youngest is his and a month ago my eldest moved out to live with my mum when asked why she was unhappy she finaly told me that she loved my husband but he had been getting on to her whilst i was at work, regularly searched her bag and ridiculed her in front of my youngest child who then taunted her so much with his dad that she cried and had panic attacks, i then told him to leave which he did, however he has since accepted all the blame and said it's his illness and said sorry constantly, my son is devastated and crying non stop. i have found out that he has now got a job and i am completely devastated that he seems to be sorting himself out when he couldnt when he was home and have been thinking of him moving on and crying all day, WHY ?
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reader, devonbabe +, writes (28 May 2011):
devonbabe is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi ya thanks for your advice, after alot of upset we started talking again and agreed that we should try to sort things out, however he then ended the conversation with we are both single and that he just wants peace for now, whenever he comes around which at the moment has been 5 nights out of 7 and stays over he doesnt want to talk about sorting any problems out tells me I'm a nag and goes from being really sweet to awful and says he scared of being around us at the moment! I really do want us to sort out our problems and be a family but i cant handle the hot and cold stuff him telling me he's single the fact that he's scared to be in the family home and tied to us.
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