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male
age
36-40,
*rincedan
writes:There is this girl i told i love sometime last year, then she said she was with someone and secondly she wont like to have any affair with someone not of the same tribe with her, so i relaxed, but kept on calling her on normal ground .Recently it seems she is singing a different song i like whenever i call her.The problem i have is not knowing what to talk about anytime i call her. please i need things to discuss with her because this is the first relationship am about entering
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reader, Abella  +, writes (25 June 2011):
 hi, you need a reason to call a girl. Don't just phone her with nothing in mind. Ask to meet her in a public place, perhaps for coffee? Or if you play a particular sport and are in a team, ask her if she would like to watch you playing in that game, but tell she can bring some friends so that she will not feel lonely while watching you play that game.
When you do have coffee, ask her about the work she does, or what were good memories she still recalls from when she was at school. Ask her about her favorite music and why she likes those particular ones.
Complement her on her hair or clothing if you like the look.
But let her talk, a lot, while you listen to
her very intently, about all she says.
Take it slowly and be very respectful every step of the way.
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