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writes:so i've met this badass chick at work. she just started at my workplace about a month ago. since then, we've started spending more and more time together. my question is how to tell if she's interested. she would try and synchronize our lunch breaks to where we would go together, so we've had lunch together on numerous different occasions. the other day we spent an entire afternoon at the mall food court just sitting and talking. we then went and got ice cream after that. after work that night, we went and got drinks together. then last night once i got out of work, she had sent me a text asking if i wanted to go out with her that evening. she lives over forty minutes away (she didn't work that evening). i told her i'd love to. i went home and changed and she drove the forty minutes to my house and we went and met up with a couple of other work friends. we left around two in the morning and when we got back to my aptartment we sat in my car and talked until 5 am. she then had to drive all the way back home forty minutes and be at work by ten a.m. i felt terrible for her.anyway, i was just curious if this seemed like she just really enjoyed my company or if she may be interested. she's a really cool girl and has a lot of friends, but she seems to have taken to me more than anyone else. opinions would be much appreciated. thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2011): dude: she is totally interested!!! there is NO way i would stay up with some guy till 5am when i had to be at work at 10am if i didnt like him lol
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reader, cupidus  +, writes (7 June 2011):
 Other than her holding up a neon sign saying
"KISS ME YOU FOOL"
I'd say mmmmmmmmmm Yep!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2011): It sounds like she is definitely interested, man! I would not put half that much effort into someone I was only looking to have a casual friendship with. It seems like you two have a good connection going, and if you're interested, go for it! I'm sure she'd appreciate it if you could be the one to drive 40 min in the middle of the night next time, though.
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