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I'm getting other people together...but what about me?? Will I never find the right person?

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Question - (6 June 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 7 June 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I don't know what is wrong with me!? Three of my best friends are seeing a guy and i recently just set up my other best friend with one of my friends and things are turning out great with them! And then i set up another of my two friends and again, it's great.

And I'm really happy for all of them, it makes me happy knowing they're are! But then the other day my friend said to me 'you're getting other people together, but what about yourself?', even though she said it in a joking way. She made me think that she's right, they're all getting together and i'm not?

I just find i have very bad luck with guys, so i've just given up i guess. Although I have guys telling me they like me, it's just i never feel the same back. Or even though i get so much guy attention when i go out, i never meet anyone i'm interested in. Or the ones i am interested in have girlfriends or lead me on. I do give guys a chance, then it just never works out. And it seems that every guy i meet, it doesn't go anywhere and that's not because of a particular reason it just doesn't.

I feel like i'm not going to meet anyone, i know they say 'you find them when you're not looking'. Well i wasn't before and didn't meet anyone i was taken by and then when i do look i just meet completely the wrong guys!!?

I don't know why this happens and if i will meet anyone? It's just hearing how happy my friends are and seeing them with the guys their with makes me a bit depressed that i wont have that. I want to know what young love or that innocent feelingis like whilst i'm a teenager! But it doesn't seem that's going to happen.....

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (7 June 2011):

Danielepew agony auntRelax. It will happen.

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