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How often do you give your boyfriend oral sex?

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Question - (6 June 2011) 11 Answers - (Newest, 4 January 2014)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Hi, just wondering how often all you ladies (or gay guys too!) give your boyfriend oral sex? (or guys, how often does your gf give you a bj?) I was talking to a girlfriend about this and she said she gives her boyfriend blow jobs every day whereas I give my guy one to the point of finishing (about 15 mins) a few times a month.

So...how often do you give your boyfriend oral sex? How old are you and how long have you been together? Does he always finish and do you let him finish in your mouth or where?

Thanks:)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2014):

I give him head when he wants it. sometimes when we're in the car, he'll pull it out and I blow him. When we go to the theater, we sit in the back cuz sometimes he wants it there. you have to luv having his cock in your mouth. any guys out there agree?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2013):

my gf and I are ldr, but when we are together she gives me head everytime I want, almost everytime we have sex but I keep myself to come. she let me come in her mouth or her face about a couple of times per month, but badically she let me finish anyway I want.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2011):

My GF gives me oral about 1 out of every 3 sexual encounters unless I ask for more, so about twice a week. She usually does oral as foreplay when I ask, and sucks me to completion in her mouth mornings every few days. Once in a while she'll let me come on her face a little or in her open mouth.

My ex gave me oral (very good BTW) as foreplay every time we had sex, which was about once a week :(. She never swallowed or let me come on her face, but sometimes I came on her boobs or neck.

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A female reader, Aunty Abzy United Kingdom +, writes (10 June 2011):

Aunty Abzy agony auntwhen i started with my last partner, i never gave him a blowjob as i had never done it but then i started to enjoy it a bit more and perhaps did it once or twice a week. i think it depends on where you are in your relationship like you tend to go at it all the time when your first together and it dies down as the time goes on, there is no right or wrong answer to you question.

Do it when ever you want too, NEVER feel pressured too do it too often if you dont want too

x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2011):

I give the guy I'm seeing oral at least twice every time we see each other. Usually he finishes in my mouth or we go back to sex and he finishes on me. I really enjoy giving him oral, but it's a strange thing. I was with a previous boyfriend much longer than I have been with this guy and I never once gave him oral because I was scared. With this guy, though, he made me feel comfortable with the idea, taught me what he liked and now it's easy. How often you fool around with oral really depends on the relationship and the comfort level between the two of you.

Great question!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2011):

For my wife it was once in the first few months after I met her and then never again. She says she thought it was okay (not bad, not good) but her actions indicate she doesn't care for it. I think she finds it a little humiliating.

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A male reader, heartfullalove Ireland + , writes (6 June 2011):

heartfullalove agony auntEvery chance I get. Giving him head is just a constant urge. I can't help it, I can't explain it. I just love it.

In practise, this would usually be about 5-10 times a week spread over the 3 or 4 nights I see him. Sometimes I'll keep going till he finishes (yes, in my mouth or on my face...Blushing here!) and sometimes it's all part of foreplay.

Even thinking about it now at half-part-five in the afternoon makes me want to pick up that phone and go see him later. Glad you asked the question!

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States + , writes (6 June 2011):

So_Very_Confused agony auntI'm 51 and I give my guy a bj every chance I get. when we are together (we are LDR) it's at least once or twice a day

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A female reader, chigirl Norway + , writes (6 June 2011):

chigirl agony auntIm trying to work out an average here through the years of boyfriends... It depends on the guy and the sexual relationship, and how often there's sex in general. But I'd say on average, if there is sex 3-4 times a week there might be a blowjob 1-2 times that week, not until the point of orgasm, but as foreplay or in between play. Blowjobs to the point of orgasm, if there is sex 3-4 times a week I'd think... once a month? Included the blowjobs for foreplay. If there is sex every day, or close to every day, on average there'd be a blowjob until the point of orgasm twice a month.

Basically, I have an appetite for sex. If I give a blowjob I get horny, and don't want him to come because I want him to do me first. Alternatively he can do me and then I finish him off after we've finished me off, with a blowjob.

Then there'd be the random blowjob in between just for him to get pleasure.

But seriously... no man ever went down on me to give me an orgasm without wanting to have sex himself. So it's actually a bit unfair.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2011):

Ive been with my boyfriend about 3 months, I give him oral almost every day, he returns the favour, and ya I let him finish in my mouth if he wants, or we have penetrative sex and he finishes there, or he cums on my bum or boobs if he wants... but with my last boyfriend i have him oral about 3 times in our whole relationship cuz he didnt really like it... so it totally depends on the relationship, the trust levels, the intimacy adn doing what you and your partner feel like doing and makes you both happy and satisfied! No one person is right and another one wrong! Everyone is different and every couple is happy with different amounts of different activities!

:)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2011):

Once a week roughly, may be more?

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