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male
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anonymous
writes:I decided to stop masturbating then I started cheating on my girlfriend. I have a girlfriend of 3 years now she lives far away from me and we cannot have sex as often as we want. There is a girl next door whom I slept with two times, this new girl she wants me all the time! I tried to tell her that sleeping with her was a mistake but she doesn't seem to understand. What can I do? I love my girlfriend of three years I want to marry her in future. I also want to stop masturbating for ever if I stop my girlfriend wont be able to have sex with me when I need it. Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (28 June 2011):
 OK so we all make mistakes in life, and at least you now know that you have made a mistake with this other girl. You just need to tell her firmly that you made a mistake and that you love your girlfriend and don't want anything more to do with her. If there is a chance that she could tell your girlfriend that you both had sex well then I think the best thing that you can do is talk to your girlfriend and be honest with her, as it will be far better coming from you than her hearing it from this other girl, think how much this would hurt your girlfriend.
As for masturbating, yes I understand that you want to give it up but in the long run if you know yourself that you and your girlfriend cannot have sex that much and it might lead you to cheating well then the safer option is to masturbate. At least when you are doing that you are not being unfaithful to your girlfriend and it is personal so nobody needs to know that you do it. Some day you may settle down and get married and share a home with your wife and then you can quit masturbating as you will be able to have more intimacy with your wife.
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