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Crush or boyfriend? They are both best friends.

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Question - (28 June 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 June 2011)
A female United States age 26-29, *he Devils-Angel writes:

Ok so I need some help. I was dating this guy for almost two months then i broke up with him because i kinda have trust issues, since I was really young. Well we broke up for like three days then I went back to him because I really liked him still. Well at the beginning of the 6th grade I was liking this one guy. Well I liked him for almost three years and i still kinda do like him. well i just recently found out he had a crush on me for the past two years and never told anyone. I told him before that I liked him but he said I wasn't his type. Now I'm confused because I don't know if I should stay with my boyfriend or with my crush. Because my crush has always been there for me and he still gives me butterflies. But my boyfriend has been there for me too. And the complicated part is that they are both best friends. can you help me??

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A female reader, ilanah tromans United Kingdom +, writes (28 June 2011):

ilanah tromans agony auntyou need to decide who you want to be with quick , think through your head what relationship would be better and how long it would last, if you dont feel right with your boyfriend then you need to finish it as it is unfair on him, you may even decide you dont want a relationship with any of them and you want to just stay friends with them both, or you might want to be with your crush which if you do you need to confront him and ask him whether he wants to be with you, good luck !

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A female reader, sammy1986 United Kingdom +, writes (28 June 2011):

this sounds to me that you feel you shoiuld stay with your boyfriend because he.s been their for you you are staying with him out of guilt i would break it to him gently that toy want to be with your crush good luck

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